There are many parents who are attempting to be a little more liberal and not utilize corporal punishment as much as they did in the past. In many homes, most spankings take place when their daughter is quite young, with attempts to phase it out as the girl grows older. This is often met with mixed results, and there are indeed times when a good spanking just needs to come back into play.
Bent over the couch for the whoopin of her life.
In this recent update from realspankings.com we get to see a scene that plays exactly as I have just described. Syrena finds herself in a considerable amount of trouble at home, which results in her being “grounded” from her cell phone and car. She did not expect that her dad would check the history on her phone, which leads to him choosing a different punishment.
That is the clear sign of learning on her face.
While this is a video from a paid site, it truly shows us just how effective real corporal punishment with a belt can be. The video is highly realistic in that this young lady receives a severe whoopin over her jeans. As much as we would like to think it happens, it is quite rare for an 18 year old girl to get a bare bottom whoopin in the home from her parents.
When her grounding does not seem to be working, dad decides to use the belt.
But even without her bottom being bared, we get to see what very real corporal punishment is like when applied to a teen girl’s bottom. What I love about these scenes from Realspankings.com is that we get to see the reality of corporal punishment. This is not like a typical pay site video in which there is some gentle warm-up. This is how girls in the South are punished on a daily basis. Dad explains why she is being spanked, she is required to bend over, his belt comes off, and he gets to work. By “getting to work” I mean that he swings the belt as hard and as fast as he can, with tears being the goal from the very first stroke.
There is no arguing with the results, this was a whoopin that taught a very real lesson.
We also get to see how very effective a belt can really be over clothing. A lot of people think that if it is not on the bare that it is not all that effective. But when this scene is over, we get to see this young lady examine her poor bottom. It is not just pink, her bottom is swollen and bruised from a couple dozen effective strokes over her tight jeans. If you have ever wondered how effective a belt really is when used on a teen girl, this video shows the reality of effective discipline.
Posted October 27th, 2015. Add a comment
A bare bottom spanking is so very effective for many reasons, which is why it is still a common practice in the homes of the US, when an older teen girl needs to be punished. When it comes to a young lady having to bare her bottom for a spanking, the first thing that comes to mind is the fact that it will hurt more as a result of being on the bare skin. While this is indeed true, let’s take a look at all of the benefits of a bared bottom for a spanking.
Mom knows that a bare bottom spanking works much better
When the teenage girl finds herself in trouble for a minor offense, and may have only earned herself a handspanking, it is pretty much mandatory that her bottom be bared for the process. A handspanking over pants and panties does very little to provide much sting, and the only way any sort of lesson is going to be learned is with skin to skin contact. A handspanking, by design, only really works during the course of the punishment, as the sting goes away pretty quickly, with no long term discomfort. The only real benefit is for the parent to provide as much sting as possible, so her bottom must be bared to make in progress in her learning.
By baring her bottom, he is clearly achieving the desired results.
Clearly baring a young lady’s bottom is not limited to a handspanking and a punishment with any implement can be further enhanced with a bare bottom. An implement such as a belt becomes even more effective, as a belt is an implement with the potential for a lot of sting. A belt can be used with great effect over a teen girl’s pants, especially if it is a heavy belt. But there is no doubt that leather applied to her bare skin is far more effective in getting the desired results. But the purpose of baring a teen girl’s bottom goes so far beyond just that of adding more sting.
Mom bared her tiny teen bottom before getting to work with the belt.
The baring of a bottom brings additional psychological factors that can serve to make a punishment far more memorable than just making it hurt more. Often the perception of pain, prior to the spanking, can be just as memorable as the spanking itself. Picture the young lady, in a shit load of trouble, standing before her dad as his belt is pulled from his pants. It is already bad for her, as she sees that dad is going to use the belt, so she knows she is really in for it. This is not a simple handspanking from mom, and she knows this is going to be the real deal. Just when it seems like it is going to be as bad as it gets, she hears those dreaded words from dad, “turn around, bare your bottom, and bend over”. What was already going to be a memorable punishment, just because all that more effective. As she pulls down her pants and panties and bends over, a real lesson is already being learned. Many teen girls find themselves in tears, as the bare their little butts, knowing how bad it is going to be. Before the belt is ever applied to her teen bottom, the learning has already begun.
Dad learned a long time ago that his belt is far more effective on her bare bottom.
Another great benefit of a bare bottom spanking is demonstrating to the teen girl, who thinks she is all grown up, that she will be treated exactly how she acts, and regardless of her age, her parents are still in charge. After the age of eight or nine, most girls reach a point where there parents do not see them in any state of undress at all. It is a common progression in most households, in which privacy and modesty are respected. But when it comes to her discipline, all bets are off, and her behavior directly affects the amount of modesty she is allowed. Picture the little princess, spoiled rotten, with her own car, the biggest and best IPhone, lives on Twitter and Facebook, and just thinks she is all that. But when the time comes, that a real impression needs to be made about her attitude and being too big for her britches, a bare bottom spanking is the great equalizer.
Those three simple words “bare your bottom” have a very real effect on someone’s behavior. She thinks she is all grown up and in control, but when it comes down to it, her parents are still in charge. There are very few situations in life in which someone can demand that someone else show their butt. But when a parent feels the nature of her offense requires it, they can indeed exercise this option. Nothing deflates a young lady’s ego, and sense of entitlement, then having to present her bare bottom to be spanked. Being cute, popular, with well-off parents does nothing to help her in this situation. Quite simply, she acted like a spoiled little brat, and as a result, her spoiled little bare bottom is going to be given the attention it deserves.
Each and every time it is required, dad has her bare her teen bottom for a good paddling.
There are two variations on a bare bottom spanking. The first requires her to bare her own bottom and present it to be punished. This is very effective as it gives her full ownership of the spanking. Mom is not going to pin her down and pull her pants down; she is required to do it herself. She is actually cooperating by helping to provide a situation that is going to make her punishment more painful. This is her spanking, mom wants it to hurt as much as possible, and she is going to have to assist in the entire process. This can be a very powerful component to a proper spanking and when all is said and done, she will be a better person by helping to make her own discipline as effective as possible.
It does not matter that she is 18, mom always makes her bare her bottom and present it for each and every spanking.
The other variation is for the parent to bare the bottom of the teen girl that is about to be spanked. This goes to the earlier point of showing a young lady that is her behavior requires it, that her parents still have the right to bare her bottom. There is no other situation in a typical home in which a mom or a dad can demand that their 17-18 year old daughter has to show any part of her anatomy. But if her behavior requires it, she not only has to bare her bottom, but they will actually do it for her. It demonstrates who is actually in control in the home. They are not only going to spank her teen butt, they will actually pull down her pants and her panties to do so.
Sent to her room so a dose of mom’s belt. Mom bares her bottom to show her who is really in charge.
I have never believed that anyone should be humiliated over the course of corporal punishment, but I believe that embarrassment can go a long way to supplement any form of discipline. Picture the typical teen girl and how she lives her daily life. Lots people will do whatever is required to not be embarrassed, hell, this alone can often lead to bad behavior. There are many girls who get in trouble because they do not want to embarrass themselves by being the only one that will not engage in a certain activity. Well do you know what is very embarrassing for the teenage girl? Having to bare her bottom for her mom or her dad, so they can give her a good whoopin. They will be just as likely to adjust their behavior to avoid presenting their bare butts for a spanking as they will to avoid the actual pain of a spanking.
Paddled in the living room, after dinner, with the family present.
A bare bottom spanking that takes place in a common area of a house, can further add to the overall embarrassment. Being sent to her room to wait for her bare bottom spanking is one thing, but knowing that it can happen right there in the dining room, is something completely different. I cannot think of a teen girl in this world that will not give a second thought to her behavior if she knows the results are getting her bare bottom spanked in front of whatever family members are present. It only takes a single whoopin with a belt, on her bare butt, in the middle of the family room, while her little brothers watching, to make a very real change in her behavior. We have now taken something that might only have the potential to hurt and changed it into a situation she would never want to be in, even without the spanking.
A paddling right after school, in the living room, with her brothers watching.
Beyond all of these other factors that make a bare bottom spanking effective, we still come back to the point that a spanking on her bare bottom hurts much more. Is this not the point of a spanking? A spanking should provide as much pain as the situation calls for. We are talking about the punishment of older teen girls, not little children, so clearly the spanking needs to hurt a lot to be an actual deterrent. If she is able to just suck it up and it not hurt all that much, it does nothing to change behavior. So the spanking should take place in a manner that brings the most amount of pain to her bottom, which can be applied in a safe manner. A bare bottom also allows the parent to gauge the progress that they are making. A belt applied over her jeans, with her kicking, screaming, and throwing a fit, does not allow the parent to effectively gauge the actual progress that is being made. Maybe she is just putting on an act and playing it all up to end things quicker. But when a parent chooses to bare the bottom, they can check their work as they go. A bottom that is barely pink does nothing for a long term change in attitude. But with a bare bottom, they can see when real results are being achieved. Regardless of how much she is carrying on, the spanking needs to be applied long enough and hard enough, that her bottom ends up sore. When she is bent over and her teen bottom is bared, they will be able to see first-hand when her bottom starts to bruise. This allows them to accurately apply the lesson required and get exactly the result that not only they are looking for, but have been earned.
With her bottom bared, her dad can continue to paddle her until he can actually see a lesson being learned.
All animations come from the realistic spanking videos at Realspankings.com
Posted September 21st, 2015. Add a comment
This dad knows exactly how to get the change in behavior that he is looking for:
Step 1- Inform the naughty teen girl what aspect of her behavior that has found to be unacceptable. Let her know exactly what is going to happen and then allow her time in her room to contemplate not only whats she did, but to consider how dad’s belt is going to feel on her bare bottom.
Waiting in her room for her strapping from dad.
Step 2- The time for talking is over, she is now required to lower her shorts and present her bottom for the punishment she has earned.
Presenting her bottom for a punishment with dad’s belt.
Step 3- At this age, a proper strapping is administered on her bare bottom.
Dad bares her bottom to make sure that the point is made.
Step 4- Dad uses his heavy belt, full force, and continues to do so until learning has taken place.
Teaching her a lesson with a belt on her bare bottom.
When we look at this type of spanking content on the Internet, we are left wondering how often a spanking takes place in the home. First let’s look at a recent report as to if people support spanking or not. A recent study (2014) by the University of Chicago posed a question about people’s thoughts on spanking. They were not just asked if they think spanking is ok, the exact question was “a good hard spanking is sometimes necessary to discipline a child?”. This question was asked to those as young as 18, all the way up to the senior population. The results below show, that on the average, 7 out of 10 adults in the US not only believe in spanking, but believe in a “good hard spanking”.
A further breakdown of the surveyed population showed an interesting trend, it is the new parents that believe in spanking the most. You might think that the trend is going down, but this survey shows that 74% of those 18-29 believe in a good hard spanking, fully 10% more than those over the age of 65.
Harris Interactive did a giant survey last year looking into many aspects of corporal punishment in the home. Their results showed 81% of Americans believed that spanking was appropriate. Obviously this will vary based on where you are at in the country. The South weighed in with 86% still in support of spanking, followed by the Midwest with 83%. The study found that 87% of Republicans favored spanking their children, while 78% of Democrats agreed. When those aged 18-22 in 2014 were asked if they were spanked 77% said they were. That matches up pretty good with the numbers above from new parents, in which 74% said that a hard spanking is necessary.
As far as how much force was used and whether it was justified, Harris came up with the following. When asked if they were spanked with “too much force” 79% said that they were not. When asked if they deserved the spankings they received or not 66% said that the spanking was deserved. When asked if there were times that they knew they deserved a spanking and did not get one, 51% said that this was the case.
This provides us with a wealth of spanking information and shows that it is not only alive and well, but new parents are more likely to spank than their parents. It is pretty clear that if you live in the South and have Republican parents, you can count on getting your ass torn up on a regular basis. The other results show that for the most part, kids and teens are getting a good spanking when they deserve it, and the amount of pain being applied to their bottoms is justified. While you would think most would be bitter about being spanked, more than half believe there were many things that they should have been spanked for but were not.
So, it is pretty clear from these statistics that right now, at this very moment, there are some belts being pulled from belt loops and bottoms being bared. In the Deep South, when a young lady’s behavior requires it, in 9 out of 10 households, she is getting a spanking. Of those 9 young ladies about to get a spanking, at least 7 of them are going to get “a good hard spanking”. The statistics show that of those 9 young ladies getting their bottom worn out with dad’s belt, at least 6 of them fully feel that they deserve it. Not only that, of these 9 young ladies, 5 of them feel that there were other things that they have done that should have resulted in their butts being blistered.
Let’s face it, a sore bottom is not just part of the process it is the overall goal when a young lady has misbehaved. The spanking itself needs to be very painful; it will always be the biggest overall deterrent against future bad behavior. Her bottom needs to be set on fire for a considerable duration of time, providing a sufficient amount of kicking and screaming, and of course tears.
But when a spanking is administered effectively, it is not over after the last smack. If she was really naughty, and a paddle or something similar was used, she will have a bruised and sore bottom. But I am not just talking about soreness; I am talking about a visual indicator that reminds her that she has been bad.
The one thing you can always count on after a teen girl has been spanked by mom or dad, is that she is not only going to rub her bottom, she is going to look at it. This is a very good thing in that she can actually see the results of her behavior on her sore behind. Yes, the actual punishment might be over, but the reminder remains in place.
There is a good chance, shortly after her spanking, that she will be baring her own bottom for a closer look. Not only will she look, she will touch. She will feel the heat that she herself created. It may be mom or dad that set it on fire, but what she is now looking at and touching is as a result of her actions. Right there before her eyes she is able to see what she did.
After a really good spanking, many young ladies will lie down on the bed and give their bottom a good rub, attempting to make the sting go away. As much as she caresses her sore bottom, nothing will really sooth the pain except for time. With each beat of her heart she feels a throbbing on her tender bottom. Each pulse once again reminds her of her actions and she is able to feel those results clearly.
This does not just apply in the home environment, as young ladies are not immune to corporal punishment in the school. While it might be a little trickier, you can count on the high school girl, to find a private little moment, in which she can inspect her recently paddled bottom. It may be a quick moment in the girl’s bathroom, a trip to the locker room, or even with a tiny makeup mirror in the privacy of a bathroom stall. Everyone who has been recently spanked has to take a look, they just can’t help it. They need to see exactly what it causing them so much discomfort.
Being able to see her sore bottom really helps the overall learning experience, it is even more powerful if the marks last a couple of days. Each morning she is able to look in the mirror and see what she did. The punishment did not simply go away, it is still right here staring her in the face. It helps her remember what she did, and more importantly what she can do different in the future to avoid exactly what she is seeing.