Bent over her bed for a hard paddling from dad.
For many teen girls, a simple spanking is just not enough to get the job done. There are many factors that can lead to such an occasion. The 1st is simply just having very strict parents. There are many very traditional parents out there and they see discipline as a very serious ordeal, not something that can be handled with just a few smacks to a girl’s bottom, and they tend to handle things in a much more serious manner. There are also those girls who just continue to get into a good deal of trouble as they progress into their older teens, and the discipline that use to be used, no longer seems to be an option as the seriousness of their misbehavior has increased, so therefore the seriousness of their spanking must also increase. There are also those parents that just see the implement used for a spanking should increase in severity as the teen girl gets older. There are many young ladies that were received handspankings when they were little, followed by the belt as they reached middle school age, only to be replaced by something even more severe as they entered high school.
In all of the situations above, one of the most natural implements to be used is a wooden paddle.
Dad bares her bottom right there in the family room and gives her the hard paddling she has earned.
As long as there have been tools, dads have been crafting a proper wooden implement to spank their daughter’s bottoms with. It does not take a craftsman to come up with an effective paddle for teaching a young lady a proper lesson. Most garages of today have enough scrap wood around that the materials to create a paddle are always quite handy. Some dads spend a great deal of time crafting the perfect paddle for discipline in the home. They may put in four to five hours constructing the perfect tool for discipline. They round all of the corners, sand it down to perfection, and create an implement that strikes fear into the mind of the teenage girl. Many dads have taken this an extra step and require their daughter to help with the paddle’s construction. Picture the older teen who has been getting her bottom blistered with a heavy leather belt for a few years, which finds herself in the most trouble of her life. Dad decides that it is finally time to up the severity of her spankings and tells her that she is going to get paddled.
This daughter gets paddled with a paddle she help construct.
To her surprise, her punishment is delayed as she ends up taking a trip to Home depot with her dad. They go to the hobby wood section as she watches him pull out several types and thickness of precut wood. She watches as he runs his hand over the ½” and ¾” thick oak, pine, and maple. He also spends time looking at the boards that are precut to between 18” and 36” in length. He spends several minutes making his decision and hands her the 36” long, ¾” thick, piece of heavy oak for her to carry. The reality of her situation is starting to really kick in as she feels the weight of the board she is holding. They then grab some sandpaper and a new blade for his coping saw. She is bright red at the cash register thinking that everyone must know that this is to make a paddle to be used on her bottom. When they get home he sends her upstairs to grab a protractor, a ruler, and a pencil and tells her to meet him in the garage. When she comes back down she serves as his assistant while he designs the paddle. She sees him draw a couple of curves at the top; just enough to round it, but not taking anything off the overall width of the board. She watches as he experiments with a couple of variations on a handle, making her erase the design that he does not like.
Finally she is able to see what will be the paddle to be used on her bottom. He takes out
Bent over for a hard bare bottom paddling before bed.
his coping saw and takes his time cutting out the new creation. When it is complete, he is holding an almost 3 ft long paddle, 5 inches wide, with a handle that is a foot long. He pulls out a sanding block, shows her how to put the sandpaper in it, and tells her to get to work. He explains that all of the edges need to be sanded down, as he does not want any part of the paddle to have any sharp edges. At this point he hands her the paddle and tells her not to come back in until it is perfect. For the 1st time she is really able to feel the weight and she is already fighting back the tears. She begins the long and tedious job of sanding every edge of the very paddle that will be used on her bottom. For the next two hours she becomes very familiar with an instrument of discipline that she is going to get to know even better when she is done.
Paddled come in different shapes and sizes but they all achieve the same results…a bruised bottom.
A paddle is so very effective as a punishment tool for many reasons. First of all, there are very few implements that strike so much fear into the hearts and minds of young ladies in this country. No teen girl has ever looked at a paddle that is about to be used on her bottom and thought “this won’t be so bad”. This is not a hand, a belt, or even a wooden spoon, it is a big board designed for one purpose, to bring pain to the teen girl’s bottom. A proper paddle will be at least ½” thick and this takes spanking to a level that most girls are not used to. A spanking administered with a hand or a belt can certainly hurt like hell while it is being applied. But the pain the young lady feels from such a punishment creates a very painful sting, and not much more than that. Yes, a good whoopin with a belt can indeed leave a young lady in tears and with a bruised bottom, but it is not even close to the same experience as a paddle. A paddle creates the same sting, as the implement makes contact with her bottom; it is basically the same process, as something swung with much force is making contact with her skin. But with a paddle, the swat does not stop there, as it fully compresses her skin and then compresses even further onto her bottom and makes heavy contact with the muscles in her bottom. When the paddle compresses the muscles in her bottom, real learning starts to take place.
This learning comes about as a result of bruising. We have all heard the phrase “you will not be
A proper paddling will leave her teen bottom bruised and sore for days.
able to sit down for a week”. While this is an exaggeration in most instances, with a hand or a belt, no parent can come even close to making good on these words. With a paddle, they can certainly get at least half way there. A proper paddling, in which a young lady has received at least a dozen hard swats to her little teen bottom, with a thick wooden paddle, will leaved her marked and sore for many days. The day after a proper paddling, sitting down will indeed be very difficult. It is not that is will actually be impossible, but it will certainly feel like it for her at the time. She learned a lot while her bare bottom was being paddled, there is no questioning that, but the real learning begins the next day and continues for some time. The reality is, no teen girl can get through a day without having to sit down, as hard as she may be trying to avoid it after her bottom was paddled. If her paddling occurred during the week, she is really going to learn a lesson as she struggles through a day at school sitting on a hardwood desk with a bruised bottom from her paddling. There will not be a second during her school day in which she will not thinking about how sore her bottom is, the paddling she received, but most importantly, what she did that earned her a paddling. If we really break down what is an effective punishment is, it has just been defined. She is not able to put her behavior behind her, she is not able to ignore her punishment, and every moment for the next several days serves as a very real reminder of her behavior. There is no doubt that this will decrease the chances of future transgressions.
Instant learning as the paddle connects with her tiny teen bottom
Another big benefit of a paddle being used to punish a teen girl’s bottom is that it does not require as much work on the part of the person administering the discipline. Many moms and dads have literally worn themselves out trying to teach a teen girl a real lesson using their hand or a belt. With a paddle it just takes a fairly moderate swing to start to make an impression. Another benefit is that a paddle is also quite effective over a young lady’s pants and panties. Yes, a bit of the sting is reduced when her butt is paddled over clothing, but the long term effects tend to be the same. Many girls, as they grow into young women, are no longer spanked on their bare bottoms by their parents, but with a paddle, their parents can still be assured that a proper lesson is learned, regardless of their state of dress. Another benefit is how quickly a lesson can be learned. With a handspanking, it may take 4-5 minutes to get a teen girl’s bottom to a place in which real learning takes place and the tears are really flowing. With a belt, some parents have to swing it up to 100 times to really tear her butt up as required. With a wooden paddle, after just the 1st swat, they really have her attention. This is not to say that a single swat paddling is enough to take care of the problem, but generally somewhere between 10-30 swats will get the job done.
While we have discussed that a paddling works over clothing, there is no doubt that a bare
Dad started with a wooden spoon, but it quickly broke, so he decided her bottom also needed to feel the heavy bread board paddle.
bottom paddling is still the most effective. First of all, having an 18 year old girl bare her butt for a spanking demonstrates to her, that regardless of how old she feels, that as long as she is acting like a child that she will treated like a child. When she is required to pull down her pants and present her bottom, it makes her an active participant in her punishment. It also adds a very big sense of vulnerability as she takes away any protection she has between her and that big wooden board that is about to be used on her. A bare bottom paddling obviously hurts more at the time, and the purpose of a spanking is to provide pain to her bottom, so the more it stings the more effective the process is. When her bottom is bared, it is also much easier for her mom or dad to gauge the progress of the paddling. The goal is to make her bottom sore enough that she cannot sit for a few days. If they are actually able to see her bottom as it turns from red to black and blue, they will better know when the job is done. It also allows them to concentrate the force of the paddling to that portion of her bottom that will touch a seat when she attempts to sit down. A hard paddling, applied in a serious but reasonable manner, to a teen girl’s bare bottom, is an effective learning tool that keeps young ladies on their very best behavior.
All pictures and animations come from the very real paddling videos in the member’s area of Realspankings.com, If you have ever wondered what it really looks like to see an 18 year old girl paddled until the tears are flowing, there is no better place to see it. You will witness true punishments administered with the goal of producing tears. Just take a look at the scene below, captured from this week’s updates. Two sisters get in trouble with their dad for not putting away their PlayStation and leaving the TV on. He marches them both back down to the TV room, opens the backs of their dropseat PJ’s and paddles both of their bottom long and hard with a heavy wooden paddle. They both end up with bruised bottoms having learned a very real lesson. You can tell by the reaction from the girl below that this is not a playful little spanking with faked responses. Her butt is black and blue and she is visibly upset. In addition, I just did a search on Realspankings.com for scenes that involve a wooden paddle being used for a spanking and there are 306 scenes that involve the use of a wooden paddle. They currently have 1727 scenes available to members, so 306 wooden paddle scenes is a pretty good ratio for you hard paddling fans out there.
Two sisters get their bottoms paddled black and blue from their dad.
The results of her paddling are clear, her sister will soon be feeling her dad’s paddle.
Waiting for her step-mom to paddle her bottom.
She did not know exactly what to expect as she sat in the living room waiting. Her last spanking from her dad had taken place when she was about 12. As she had grown into a young woman he had stopped spanking her altogether. But now at the age of 17, she was told she was going to be spanked, but by her step-mom. Her family had grown a year and a half before when her dad remarried and her step-mom and her step-sister moved in with them. She had never watched her 15 year old step-sister get spanked, but had certainly heard it on many occasions. It always took place in the privacy of her new sister’s room which was at the opposite end of the house from her own room. Her step-sister also never talked about the spankings she received from her mom, but even from across the house, through closed doors, it always sounded like a terrible experience. She could always hear the loud smacks, the crying, and her angry mom beating her butt.
After a long discussion with her dad, one in which he was as disappointed in her than she had ever
Being told that she is getting 40 swats with the paddle on her bare bottom
seen, he decided that it was time to bring spanking back. He felt it was no longer appropriate for him to spank her, but with another woman in the house he thought it would be best for her to be spanked on this occasion. He told her to wait in the living room and that her step-mom would be right in to handle things. Her step-mom was clearly strict with her own daughter and she found herself hoping that it would not be the case with her. Until this point discipline had been handled separately and even when she was lectured and grounded, it always came through her dad.
Her step-mom finally came into the room and was carrying a small wooden paddle with her. This completely caught her off guard as she had only even been spanked with her dad’s hand. The whole thought of being paddled scared her, but she was mostly embarrassed that she was going to be spanked at the age of 17 and her face turned bright red. The lecture had already been covered by her father, so all that was left was her spanking. Her step-mom told her she would get it just like her own daughter and she would be receiving double her age in swats. She was dumbfounded at 1st, even when she was spanked by her dad it was maybe five or six hard swats on her butt. The real shocker came when she was told to stand up, lower her panties, and raise her dress. She immediately started to protest having to bare her bottom for her step-mom, especially right there in the living room. Her step-mom responded with “now it is 40 swats, want to make it 50”?
Baring her teen bottom for a hard paddling from her step-mom.
It was pretty apparent from the sternness in her step-mom’s voice that this was not a battle she was going to win. Her step-mom just stood there staring at her until she finally stood up, lowered her panties and raised her dress. She was told to bend over the arm of the chair she had been sitting in, and this time she did what she was told. Her step-mom announced that she had 40 swats coming and that she better hold still for the duration of extra swats would be added. Less than a second later, the 1st swat landed. The sound echoed throughout the house and she was introduced to a level of pain that she had never known from a spanking.
Bruising her teen bottom.
Before she could even catch her breath, the next one landed. Her poor teen butt was on fire, but the swats just kept coming. Her step-mom was clearly not going easy on her and by the
10th swat she was fighting back the tears. For the next 30 seconds she received 30 more swats. That paddle really packed a punch and she finally broke down into tears.
When it was all over her step-mom told her that she had had
Teaching her a very real lesson with the paddle.
that coming for quite some time. She also informed her that things would be different from now on as this would not be a onetime event. From this day forward all discipline issues would be handled with the paddle, for both daughters in this family. Her step-mom also told her that next time she would not go so easy on her. With that being said she left the room. This poor teen was still in tears and could not believe how much her butt was throbbing. With every beat of her heart her bottom throbbed. She took a look at her bottom and saw that it was very red with some black and blue in some spots. She vowed then and there that she would do whatever she could to avoid a spanking in the future, especially if that was her step-mom going easy on her.
This post is illustrated with content from a very real teen girl paddling in the member’s area of Realspankings.com
I often write about the process of corporal punishment being administered in the home. While it is often a long and drawn out event, with a lecture, some waiting, and then a hard spanking administered by a parent, sometimes it is much more simple than that. There are many teen girls who find themselves in trouble and are facing a very pissed off mom. There is not a lecture, there is not a kind and gentle explanation of “this is going to hurt me more than it is going to hurt you”, or “I am sorry, this is for your own good”. Often there is a pissed off mom who makes her daughter strip off her pants and gets to work beating her bottom with a belt. I do not think it is the best method, but sometimes a mom just needs to take out her frustrations with her daughter using a belt. There are many teen girls throughout the world that experience a very hard and very angry whoopin on a regular basis. The animations below show exactly what i am talking about.
A pissed off mom with a belt leads to a blistered bottom for this teen girl.
Feeling mom;s anger and her belt during this bare bottom strapping.
Mom is pissed and her bottom is going to pay the price.
The timing was quite unfortunate for Brandi, but this was not the 1st time this had come about. Since Brandi graduated from high school, she decided to have a very lazy summer. She had not gotten a job yet, nor had she applied to any colleges. Her mom had grown very tired of Brandi’s lazy ways and one of the center points of this issue was the ongoing issue with Brandi’s room. Her mom was always on her case about her room but Brandi seemed to choose to not do anything about it.
That morning at breakfast, while Brandi was still sleeping, her mom had a full on melt down while speaking to her husband. She told him that she was at her wits ends and did not even know what to do anymore. She stated that she was about to freak out over the state of Brandi’s room. Brandi’s dad offered her a simple solution and told her that when she got home from work today that is Brandi’s room was still out of control, that she should take Brandi over her knee and spank her bare bottom like she used to when Brandi was a little girl. Brandi had not been spanked in almost 10 years, but her mom felt that would be
Her 1st spanking in 10 years is going to happen in front of her best friend.
fitting punishment and agreed 100% with him. If, at the age of 19, she was going to act like a spoiled little girl, she would give her the spanking she deserved.
At 4:30 Brandi’s mom came home, half hoping that her room would be clean, but also kind of hoping it was not. Brandi’s mom was fed up and giving her daughter a good spanking would help her to feel better. It had not occurred to her in many years to spank her daughter’s bottom, but she knew that Brandi deserved it. She marched right up to Brandi room where she could hear music blaring. Without knocking she opened the door and saw Brandi and her best friend Jill sitting on the bed. Brandi room was far worse than it had been the last time her mom checked, so
Mom takes out her anger on her daughter’s bottom.
she was fuming in an instant. She had not planned on Jill being present, but she had been psyching herself up for this moment all day and there was no turning back now.
She yelled at Brandi about her room, her mom was completely furious at this point. She said that she had had enough and that it was time for a consequence. Brandi’s mom knocked enough stuff off of the bed to make room to sit down and told Brandi that she was getting a long and hard spanking. Brandi actually laughed as she did not believe her mom. Brandi’s mom said loud and clear, “if you do not get your pants and panties down, RIGHT NOW, I am going to go get a belt and beat your ass black and blue”. Brandi started to get the point and slowly unbuttoned her pants. Jill tried to excuse herself but Brandi’s mom told her to stay where she was. Jill had never seen her so mad and simply said “Yes Ma’am”, words she had never used before with Brandi’s mom.
As soon as Brandi’s bottom was bare her mom yanked her over her knee and started spanking hard. This was not the kind of spanking
Her bottom is getting red but this spanking will last more than 5 minutes.
in which a parent is gentle in their approach, or it is done out of love and kindness. Her mom was mad, as mad as she can remember being and Brandi’s cute bottom was going to pay the price. She spanked with a ferocity that she did not know she had in her. This was not the kind of spanking that she gave Brandi when she was nine or ten, this was an intense, hardcore, bare bottom beating, as hard as she could smack. Over and over again she spanked her daughter’s bottom as Brandi started to kick and scream. Poor Jill just sat there dumbfounded but could not help watch the whole thing. She watched as her best friend’s butt went from a nice shade of pink to a deep and dark red. She had always known Brandi to be pretty tough and was completely caught off guard as Brandi began to cry. Once Brandi’s tears began her mom stopped. Brandi and Jill both were glad that it was finally over.
Jill can’t help but to look at her friend’s well spanked bottom.
Brandi’s mom sat there for a minute, completely out of breath. While Brandi was still over her lap she asked her if this was going to be enough to get her to clean her “God DAMN ROOM”. Brandi answered yes through her tears, in which her mom replied, “it is almost enough to get you to clean your room”. She then proceeded to start the entire spanking over again. Brandi’s crying intensified as her mom got all of her anger out on her daughter’s bottom. She once again spanked as hard and fast as she could and was quickly achieving the results she was looking for. Brandi was reduced to a 19 year old, crying little baby. After at least another three minutes of solid spanking her mom stopped. She told Brandi to get up off of her lap. Brandi jumped right up and began to rub her bright red bottom. Jill tried to be causal about the whole thing, but she could not help but to stare at her friend’s glowing bottom. Brandi’s mom told Jill that now she could go home. Brandi’s mom told her that she had 30 minutes to make her room perfect or that they would start again with the belt. With tears in her eyes and a sore bottom, Brandi started to clean her room.
There are many steps required for an effective spanking took take place in the home environment. For many decades these steps have assured a well spanked bottom and a proper lesson being learned. Let’s take a look at each of the steps individually.
Her mom lectures her and tells her exactly why she is about to be spanked.
The Lecture
The 1st step in any proper spanking is the lecture. It does no good when punishing a young lady if she does not know exactly why she is being spanked. Good parents will sit down with their teen daughter and explain exactly what aspect of her behavior has found to be undesirable. She will be informed that what she did is not allowed and that she needs to be punished for it. The lecture should give her full ownership of her actions and full ownership of the
Being told in a loving and gentle manner that she is about to have her bare bottom paddled.
punishment that she has earned. Good parents will structure this lecture based on a cause and effect relationship between her actions and the punishment. She is not being spanked because they are mad at her, she is being spanked because that is the punishment that she knows she will receive when she misbehaves. It is her actions, and her actions only, that have led to this moment. She knew when she made the conscience decision to break the rules, that if she was caught, there would indeed be consequences. She has earned the spanking she is about to receive and it is the parents job to see to it that she gets exactly what she has earned.
Sent to her room, told to change into her PJ’s and wait for her spanking.
The Wait
The next step in a proper spanking, after the lecture, is a period of waiting. While some parents like to administer a spanking on the spot, at the very moment an infraction occurs, this is not always the most effective approach. Once a young lady has been informed of what she did wrong and the punishment she will receive, she needs a little time to consider her actions. Most parents will send their daughter to her room for a little while before her spanking. This allows her time alone with her thoughts and to help her better figure out not only what she did to get herself into this situation, but what she can do in the future to avoid a similar circumstance. This also gives her time to sit and think about the spanking she is about to receive. The stress alone of waiting for a spanking can be a powerful learning tool and is an effective addition to any spanking. Yes, the physical pain of a spanking can be unbearable, but sitting and thinking about how much her bottom is going to hurt as a result can be equally as painful emotionally. A spanking itself is about more than just the physical application of pain to a teen girl’s bottom, it is a process, and waiting for her butt to be spanked in an important part of that process.
Sent to her room to wait, with the very paddle that will be used on her teen bottom. She looks at it and wonders how bad her bottom will be bruised.
Into Position
Many people see a young lady being put into position for her spanking as simply being a requirement to get the job done. However, positioning is one of the most important steps regarding a spanking. This step is most important because it requires her to become an active participant in her punishment. No teen girl should be forced into position prior to her spanking, she needs to cooperate. This is her spanking, she has earned it, it is for her own good, so she needs to assist in the process. Having her get into position also serves as a reminder that regardless of her age, she is still a child to her parents. She may feel all grown up at the age of 17 or 18, but as long as she misbehaves in this home, her bottom can still pay the price. This is very much emphasized when a parent instructs their teen daughter to basically present her bottom to be punished.
Getting into position for a hard bare bottom spanking from her mom.
The position chosen is also quite important and is more than just functional. Yes, the right position needs to be chosen for the type of implement used, as we would not want a teen girl over the knee for a hard belt spanking or a paddling with a large paddle, but the position can add very effective elements to a spanking. An 18 year old girl, that is just too big for her britches, might benefit from having to lay over her dad’s lap for a hard otk spanking. Just when she is feeling all grown up she is being spanked the same way a young child would be. This serves as a reminder of who is really the boss in the family and who is still acting like a child. Position can also really make a teen girl feel exposed, or even embarrassed for her spanking. Nothing makes a young lady’s heart race than being told to bend over and grab her ankles for a good and hard paddling. This is not a position of comfort and when her bottom is bare, it certainly makes her feel exposed and on display. This position also goes back to the cooperation factor during a spanking. A paddling in this position is not the same as lying over a pillow on the side of her bed where she can just lay there and take it. This position requires her full attention to even stay in place while her bottom is paddled. She has to assist in her punishment to even get through the whole process and certainly lack of assistance requires more paddling. Different positions provide different experiences and it is a vital part of the process of being spanked.
Clothing or Lack there of
In some families as a teen gets older they often stop with bare bottom spankings. As she has grown to become a woman her parents may decide to allow her a little modesty during her spanking. I can understand this concept, but clearly a bare bottom spanking works the best. Just as with position, the process of baring a bottom for a spanking is more than just functional. When a teen girl requires a bare bottom spanking there are two approaches to getting her bottom bare, both which are very effective. The 1st is to require her to lower her pants and panties for her spanking. Once again, she is part of the whole process and is assisting in her spanking. Nothing allows ownership of a spanking as much as her having to remove all the physical barriers between her skin and whatever she is going to be spanked with. As she lowers her clothing and panties she knows she is actively helping to make the process of her spanking hurt even more. This also once again demonstrates who is in charge as there is no other situation in her life (except maybe jail) in which an adult can demand that she take down her panties and show her bare bottom.
She is an active participant in her punishment as she is required to bare her bottom, bend over, and present her little butt to be spanked by her dad.
The other situation is when a parent chooses to bare her bottom for her. There is no questioning the power dynamic that is exchanged when this happens. When a dad sits down and tells his daughter to step closer, and then reaches for the button on his daughter’s pants, there is no doubt who is still a child in this relationship. To have to stand there as her dad lowers her pants and then her panties is quite embarrassing for the teen girl. It is a very effective way to let her know that dad is still fully in control of her life and is still not beyond taking down her pants to blister her bottom. Baring a teen bottom for a spanking is about more than just adding additional pain it adds a very important dynamic that aids in the overall process of an effective punishment.
Nothing makes an 18 year old girl feel more like a child than when dad bares her bottom and then takes her over his lap.
The Actual Spanking
All of the steps outlined here are an important part of any spanking, as a spanking is a complete
Mom lays her over a pillow on the bed and blisters her bottom with a heavy leather belt.
process, and not just about the smacking of a teen girl’s bottom. But at some point during the process we get the actual application of physical pain to a girl’s bottom. There are many different ways to spank, different implements to use, and different positions for a young lady to be spanked in. Since we are discussing the punishment of an older teen girl, we will assume that hand spankings went out the window a long time ago. Most girls who are still spanked at the age of 17-18, have probably been spanked all of their lives. Typical parents progress to implements that are more severe as the young lady grows older. The most common implement used most often on a teen girl’s bottom is a belt. Every house has many and there are often many variations of belts to use depending on the severity of the infraction. A recent viral video of the Judge spanking his daughter with a belt is a perfect example. After he discovers what his daughter has been up to, he sends his wife to get the belt, and you can clearly hear him say “get the big one”.
Mom uses the heavy wood paddle to bruise her bottom.
Many families also make good use of a paddle. There are many dads in this country, fed up with their daughter’s behavior, which decided to go out into their garage and make a proper punishment paddle. No dad has ever gone out and built a little ping pong type paddle, they tend to go more with fraternity style paddles. There are 3 ft long, ¾”, oak paddles alive and well throughout this country. Many moms find this type of paddle quite effective as they do not have to work so hard to punish their daughter’s bottom, as a single swat with a heavy fraternity type paddle, gets the point across.
Regardless of the implement used, what makes a spanking effective for an older teen girl in
With her bottom and thighs a proper shade of red, it is time for dad to start bruising her bottom.
the intensity and longevity of the spanking itself. Let’s face it; parents who are still spanking their teen daughter at the age of 17 or 18 are quite strict. They are not spanking her just as a simple little warning, or to just get her attention, she is being spanked as a very real and serious punishment. They are spanking in an attempt to extinguish the behavior, not just as a reminder to not do it. A spanking in this situation needs to be painful, almost impossible to endure, and it needs last well beyond the actual smacking of her bottom. It also cannot be something she is just able to grit her teeth through and take it. A real spanking always involves tears and not just a few of them. Many parents feel that the spanking has not actually started until their daughter is crying. Anything before the tears is basically a warm-up and when the tears start to flow is when they feel the learning has started to take place. An older teen girl requires a lot of learning so the spanking needs to last as long as is required.
With all of her bottom now stinging, it is time to really get to work. He concentrates the hairbrush on the lowest part of her bottom, assuring she will be bruised and sore for many days.
Obviously, different implements require a differing amount of strokes. A heavy wooden paddle can get the job done in as few as 20 swats, where a belt might require more than 100 strokes to get to the same place. Some parents give a set amount of swats based on the infraction, others go by time, but the most successful method is to go until the desired reaction is achieved. The desired results can be measured in two different ways and both are required. The 1st is the emotional state of the girl being spanked. There should be a logical progression from grunts, to the 1st tears, to full out uncontrollable crying, to her finally achieving a moment where she begins to settle down a little. This process demonstrates that she has taken her punishment, felt every second of it, and finally starts to give in to it. This is a sure fire sign of learning taking place.
Tears show that she is starting to learn a lesson.
The desired results of a proper spanking having been administered should also be very visible on her bottom. This is another reason that a bare bottom spanking is best, as the results can be visibly measured. A properly spanked bottom will have no area on it that is not glowing a very fierce red. The purpose of the spanking while it is in progress is to provide as much sting as possible to her teen ass. There is no reason her entire bottom should not be covered as well as the very top of the thighs. Any spot on her bottom that is not glowing red is just a missed opportunity for learning. From the top of her butt crack to the top of her thighs, as well as from her left hip to her right, she should feel the pulsating sting from every smack. While I bright red bottom serves its purpose during the spanking, those sensations fade very quickly. Just left with a red bottom and in less than an hour, the spanking is a distant memory. Effective parents choose to add a little more color to a teen girl’s bottom to make sure the lesson stays with her for a while.
Her mother does not stop spanking once her bottom is red and the tears begin to flow. She knows the importance of a well bruised bottom and does not stop until she is black and blue.
Many people feel that a bruised bottom may be abusive. But we are not talking about parents beating their kids out of anger, or abusing them in any way. This discussion is about parents who take the time to give their daughters the punishment they not only deserve, but have earned. They are willing to go the extra mile to assure that a lesson is learned, and learned well. The most effective spanking are not over after the last smack, they need to last for days. The only way this is possible is with a bruised bottom. The area of focus is a young lady’s bottom, it is fleshy, and if she is bent in the proper manner, even severe swats from a heavy oak paddle will not do any permanent damage. A proper spanking involves soreness that last for a minimum of three days and this is only accomplished when her young bottom is left bruised. Many parents start by covering every square inch of their daughter’s bottom and then focus on the lower portion of her bottom for an even harder spanking. Just above the spot where her thighs meet her butt is what is often referred to as the “sit spot”. This is the spot in which it is impossible to avoid contact with a chair when she sits down. Regardless of the implement, any proper spanking will end with a couple minutes dedicated to this part of her anatomy. After many swats her bottom will tend to go numb anyway, but the point is not for the pain she will be feeling at the moment, this extra work is for down the road.
A Very Sore Bottom
She inspects her bruised bottom in the mirror…she will be sore for days.
The final phase of a proper spanking is a teen girl with a very sore bottom. Moments after her spanking, her bottom will be on fire. They may be a little numbness as a result of a severe spanking, but you can count on her feeling a good burn. It will take her some time to calm herself down, but once her tears are dry, she will still have a burning pain. As a result of endorphins, which help to combat the pain during the spanking, over the next hour the pain will gradually get worse, not better. Her body relaxes, the numbness goes away, and she really starts to feel the effects. Just as the burn of the spanking starts to fade, the deep pain in her muscles will begin. This is where a bruised bottom comes into play and she really starts to feel a tightness in her muscles and the pulsating sting from her red bottom become a much deeper pulse from deep within.
If she was properly spanked the pain will become worse over a day or two. The next morning following a spanking tends to be the worse. She wakes up to a bottom that is so sore that she can barely believe it. Walking, standing,
Three days after a severe spanking her bottom still shows the marks. Sitting is still not an option.
but most especially sitting hurts very much. The pulsating feeling from the night before is replaced with a heavy throbbing and with each beat of her heart she feels pain on her poor teen bottom. This is why the bruising phase of a spanking is so important. She is not able to get up and start her day, trying to put the spanking from the night before behind her, the worst part of her spanking in actually in front of her. For at least another 24 hours, the pain from this spanking will continue to build. The pain will build until about 36-48 hours after her spanking, but it will not end there. After the 3rd day her bottom will start to feel a little better, that does not mean she will not still be uncomfortable, but it will at least start to become bearable again. She will eventually be able to start sitting comfortably after four days or so. A severe spanking, especially when administered with a wooden implement like a paddle or hairbrush, can leave her bottom sore for up to a week, with bruises still visible for up to a couple of weeks.
A proper spanking is not just about smacking a bottom, it is a process, an event, one with many steps, each important in the learning process. It is her spanking, she has earned it, and it is up to her parents to not skip a single step, as each one helps reduce the chances of her committing that infraction ever again. Photos and animation all come from severe punishment videos at Realspankings.com
