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“A good hard spanking is sometimes necessary”

When we look at this type of spanking content on the Internet, we are left wondering how often a a good hard spanking is needed for the child 2spanking takes place in the home.  First let’s look at a recent report as to if people support spanking or not.  A recent study (2014) by the University of Chicago posed a question about people’s thoughts on spanking.  They were not just asked if they think spanking is ok, the exact question was “a good hard spanking is sometimes necessary to discipline a child?”. This question was asked to those as young as 18, all the way up to the senior population.  The results below show, that on the average, 7 out of 10 adults in the US not only believe in spanking, but believe in a “good hard spanking”.

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A further breakdown of the surveyed population showed an interesting trend, it is the new parents that believe in spanking the most.  You might think that the trend is going down, but this survey shows that 74% of those 18-29 believe in a good hard spanking, fully 10% more than those over the age of 65.

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a good hard spanking is needed for the child 3Harris Interactive did a giant survey last year looking into many aspects of corporal punishment in the home.  Their results showed 81% of Americans believed that spanking was appropriate. Obviously this will vary based on where you are at in the country.  The South weighed in with 86% still in support of spanking, followed by the Midwest with 83%.  The study found that 87% of Republicans favored spanking their children, whilea good hard spanking is needed for the child 4 78% of Democrats agreed.  When those aged 18-22 in 2014 were asked if they were spanked 77% said they were. That matches up pretty good with the numbers above from new parents, in which 74% said that a hard spanking is necessary.

As far as how much force was used and whether it was justified, Harris came up with the following.  When asked if they were spanked with “too much force” 79% said that they were not.  When asked if they a good hard spanking is needed for the child 5deserved the spankings they received or not 66% said that the spanking was deserved.  When asked if there were times that they knew they deserved a spanking and did not get one, 51% said that this was the case.

This provides us with a wealth of spanking information and shows that it is not only alive and well, but new parents are more likely to spank than their parents.  It is pretty clear that if you live in the South and have Republican parents, you can count on getting your ass torn up on a regular basis.  The other resultsa good hard spanking is needed for the child 6 show that for the most part, kids and teens are getting a good spanking when they deserve it, and the amount of pain being applied to their bottoms is justified.  While you would think most would be bitter about being spanked, more than half believe there were many things that they should have been spanked for but were not.

a good hard spanking is needed for the child 7So, it is pretty clear from these statistics that right now, at this very moment, there are some belts being pulled from belt loops and bottoms being bared.  In the Deep South, when a young lady’s behavior requires it, in 9 out of 10 households, she isa good hard spanking is needed for the child 8 getting a spanking.   Of those 9 young ladies about to get a spanking, at least 7 of them are going to get “a good hard spanking”.  The statistics show that of those 9 young ladies getting their bottom worn out with dad’s belt, at least 6 of them fully feel that they deserve it.  Not only that, of these 9 young ladies, 5 of them feel that there were other things that they have done that should have resulted in their butts being blistered.

Posted July 7th, 2015.

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A strict mom who spanks her daughters often

If you are over the age of 40, you grew up in a neighborhood in which there was that one mom, who never hesitated to tear up her daughters’ bottoms whenever it was required.  You might not have actually known who that mom was, but you can count on the fact that she existed.  She herself, having grown up in the 50’s, was subjected to harsh corporal punishment from her own mother.  She knew first-hand the results of such effective discipline and never once ever consider raising her own daughters any other way.  Yes, these moms still exist today, but it is not as common as it was over the two previous generations.

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Tearing her teen bottom up with a wooden spoon.

For this mom, there are no time outs, there is no grounding, pretty much all discipline matters are handled on the spot.  She does not need to wait for dad to get home to take care of things; she is more than capable of administering corporal punishment, at any degree of severity, whenever the situation calls for it.  It is not something that she stopped doing once the girls grew older, if anything, the punishments became more frequent and intense as teen girls find all sorts of ways to get themselves into trouble.

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Spanked long and hard by mom.

She has no one way that she spanks; she tends to just go with whatever is required for that particular situation.  She is good enough at what she does that even a simple handspanking can be enough to get the job done.  If she is only using her hand, you can count on butts being bared.  She cannot remember a single trip over her own mother’s knee in which her little bottom wasn’t bared, so why should her own girls be afforded such luxuries.  When she spanks the purpose is to wear their bottoms out, so even better on the bare.

She also believes in spanking in a manner that gets the job done.  At no point in their entire lives did either girl get a few quick smacks to her bottom as some sort of reminder.  If a behavior or an attitude requires that a spanking be administered, then it is going to be a memorable event.  The spankings that she gives to these girls are measured in minutes, not smacks.  Many years of spanking their bottoms has built up an endurance that allows her to spank as fast, as hard, and most importantly, as long as she wants. She does not stop to lecture, the spanking does not build over time, she goes all out from the very first swat and it never ends until she has a tearful

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Mom wears her bottom out.

teen girl before her.

While the hand may be her go to, as it is always available, that is not to say that these young ladies have not experienced household items that are more effective if the moment requires it.  They are both very aware of that one drawer in the kitchen that contains that dreaded wooden spoon, one that has not seen the inside of a pot in 10 years.  They both know that when they are sent for the spoon that their world is going to change very quickly.  She does not use the spoon like a paddle, with well-spaced swats; she uses it just like her hand and spanks fast and hard. She tears up every inch of their teen bottoms with that spoon and has them in tears from the very start.  The use of an implement also does not mean that the spanking will be any shorter than if she was using her hand.  She is using the spoon because that is was their behavior requires, and it too will be applied for minutes at a time.

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The kind of spanking with a wooden spoon that a teen girl tends to remember.

Worst case scenario in this house, for both of the daughters, is what her mom’s go to implement was…the dreaded wooden hairbrush.  This is not an ordinary hairbrush; this is one that was purchased for the sole purpose of bruising

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A spanking with the hairbrush changed behaviors permanently.

bottoms.  With a long wooden handle, and a striking surface at least an inch thick, it is all business.  Its entire purpose in this world is to completely and totally change a young lady’s behavior.  It is used effectively and severely, and when it comes out, the tears begin to flow.  Both girls know, far too well from past experience, that the hairbrush is pure pain.  Just as with her hand or with the spoon, there are no adjustments made as a result of the severity of the implement.  Once again, it is their behavior that designates what they are spanked with, so if the hairbrush is called for, then so be it.  After a few minutes with the brush, sitting is no longer an option.

Spankings can be administered anytime and anywhere in this home, as this mom is not all that picky.  If she is in the middle of something, she will simply send the offending girl to her room to wait.  If she is able to take care of it on the spot, then bottoms are bared and the spanking is given in the most convenient location.  No consideration is given as to their privacy, or who may be present, if a spanking needs to take place, it will.  If the girls have gotten in trouble together, then two bottoms may have to be bared.  She will bend them over the kitchen counter before dinner, over the ottoman while they are watching TV, or lay them over a bed to tear up their behinds.

There is also no consideration given to when her last spanking was.  It could have been two weeks, two days, or two minutes

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Two sisters are spanked together by mom.

since her last spanking, it does not matter, when a spanking is required one is applied.  On more than one occasion a young lady had her bottom blistered in the kitchen, only to go upstairs and slam her bedroom door in anger, which simply led to mom going into their room and starting again.  On their freshly spanked bottom, mom starts all over again, this time with an upgrade to the implement, and probably for a longer period of time.

In a time when social services and similar organizations stayed out of such matters, the state of her daughters’ bottoms was never a concern.  If some adult in the school environment noticed the bruised bottom or upper thighs of one of these girls, they just assumed she had earned a spanking.  This kind of mom did not just spank to apply a little bit of pain to the offending girl’s backside, she always spanked with the goal of tearing that bottom up. A proper spanking means her daughter climbs off her knees and does a little dance from the pain.  She rubs her bottom ferociously trying to make the sting go away. For the next couple of days she is able to see the results of her behavior on her bottom.  But most importantly, she is unable to sit comfortably for a day or two.  She is the one who broke the rules and her bottom had to pay the price.

Posted June 26th, 2015.

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A lovely red bottom helps reinforce the punishment

Let’s face it, a sore bottom is not just part of the process it is the overall goal when a young lady has misbehaved.  The spanking itself needs to be very painful; it will always be the biggest overall deterrent against future bad behavior.  Her bottom needs to be set on fire for a considerable duration of time, providing a sufficient amount of kicking and screaming, and of course tears.

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But when a spanking is administered effectively, it is not over after the last smack.  If she was really naughty, and a paddle or something similar was used, she will have a bruised and sore bottom.  But I am not just talking about soreness; I am talking about a visual indicator that reminds her that she has been bad.

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The one thing you can always count on after a teen girl has been spanked by mom or dad, is that she is not only going to rub her bottom, she is going to look at it.  This is a very good thing in that she can actually see the results of her behavior on her sore behind.  Yes, the actual punishment might be over, but the reminder remains in place.

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There is a good chance, shortly after her spanking, that she will be baring her own bottom for a closer look.  Not only will she look, she will touch.  She will feel the heat that she herself created.  It may be mom or dad that set it on fire, but what she is now looking at and touching is as a result of her actions.  Right there before her eyes she is able to see what she did.

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After a really good spanking, many young ladies will lie down on the bed and give their bottom a good rub, attempting to make the sting go away.  As much as she caresses her sore bottom, nothing will really sooth the pain except for time.  With each beat of her heart she feels a throbbing on her tender bottom.  Each pulse once again reminds her of her actions and she is able to feel those results clearly.

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This does not just apply in the home environment, as young ladies are not immune to corporal punishment in the school.  While it might be a little trickier, you can count on the high school girl, to find a private little moment, in which she can inspect her recently paddled bottom.  It may be a quick moment in the girl’s bathroom, a trip to the locker room, or even with a tiny makeup mirror in the privacy of a bathroom stall.  Everyone who has been recently spanked has to take a look, they just can’t help it.  They need to see exactly what it causing them so much discomfort.

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Being able to see her sore bottom really helps the overall learning experience, it is even more powerful if the marks last a couple of days.  Each morning she is able to look in the mirror and see what she did.  The punishment did not simply go away, it is still right here staring her in the face.  It helps her remember what she did, and more importantly what she can do different in the future to avoid exactly what she is seeing.

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Posted June 3rd, 2015.

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The spanking that she will never forget

For many young ladies, who were spanked for as long as they can remember, all the way up to their high school years, there will always be one, if not a few, of those spankings that they will never forget.  There are many factors that can make a spanking a very memorable one, but those particular spankings will live with them forever.

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Her first spanking with a wooden spoon is a spanking she will always remember.

One of the first types of spankings that they tend to remember for a lifetime is the first time they were spanked on their bare bottom.  For some young ladies this is how they were always spanked, or were only spanked this way when they were little.  For the high school aged girl, who committed that one infraction that seems to demand her bottom be bared for the first time in many years, she will never forget as those pants and panties came down, knowing exactly how bad it was going to feel on her bare bottom.

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It has been a good ten years since dad bared her bottom for a spanking.

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She will always remember the day that discipline in the household changed.

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She will always remember the day mom gave her a bare bottom spanking.

Another memorable type of spanking is the transition of implements.  For those young ladies who were spanked throughout all of their school aged years, spankings typically started off as a hand spanking.  Strict parents who spank throughout the teenage years rarely rely on just their hand as their daughter grows older.  Typically around the end of grade school they realize that their hand is no longer getting the job done anymore.  It is at this point that an implement of some sort comes into play.  Any girl that grew up in such an environment can probably describe in very good detail the first day that she bent over for a good dose of the belt.

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The day dad’s belt came off for her spanking is a day she will never forget.

In some households, the belt is then replaced by a paddle.  There is no doubt the young lady who finds herself in so much trouble that her dad decides to go out in the garage and make a paddle, specifically to be applied to her bottom, will never forget that moment.  She hears the power saw working hard out in the garage, knowing that once the work is done, her bottom will be paying the price.

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To this very day, the sounds of a power saw bring back very vivid memories.

Not all parents build a paddle, as there are many household items that can serve the same purpose.  There are many decorative wooden items that make a very handy paddle, or often a wooden bread board is used.  Either way, the first swat from a paddle, from a young lady who is used to getting the belt or a simple handspanking, is a day she will always remember.

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After years of getting the belt, her first paddling will always be fresh in her mind.

There are also those young ladies who were primarily spanked by their mothers, as she was the one running in the household and in charge of discipline.  On those occasions in which her behavior required something a little more painful than mom could provide, a spanking was not given, it was sentenced.  For most girls, in which a spanking from dad was the worst consequence, she not only will remember that spanking, she will remember all events leading up to it.  It is one thing to get in trouble and then be immediately spanked, and a far different memory when mom tells her that when her dad gets home that night that she is going to make sure he blisters her bottom.  The agony of waiting for a spanking can be quite a memorable event, especially when she fully knows what a spanking from dad will consist of.  A couple dozen strokes from the belt from mom is a far different experience than a pants down paddling from dad with mom looking on encouraging it to be longer and harder.

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She will never forget waiting all day for dad to get home and then baring her bottom to be paddled.

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She remembers every single bare bottom paddling she ever received from her dad.

Location can also play into a long lasting spanking memory for a teenage girl.  Maybe it was the first time that her spanking was not administered in the privacy of a bedroom and instead took place right on the spot.  Or a spanking that was administered in front of her siblings as a lesson and warning to everyone as to what happens when the rules are not followed.  Maybe it was her first “big girl” spanking, in which mom decides to take her down to the basement, where noise will not be an issue, and bare her bottom for the strapping of her life.

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That day that mom marched her down into the basement, belt in hand, and told her to bare her bottom is a day she will never forget.

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She can still hear the sounds of the belt echoing in the basement as it was applied severely to her bare butt.

For most young ladies, the spanking of her life will be based on the one that she can recall hurting the very most.  These are typically tied to some type of behavior that is off the charts as far as her parents are concerned.  A young lady never forgets that night that her parents picked her up from the police station, or when she comes home from a high school party stumbling around from too much alcohol.  These are the types of spanking in which, once complete, will forever be burned into her memory.  This may be the day that the parents decide that she needs to know what the backside of a hairbrush feels like on her bare bottom. 

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Her behavior on this day required a very effective and old fashioned method of discipline.

Or for the very bad infraction, this might be the day that it seems that dad will never stop with the belt on her bare bottom.  He just keeps swinging and swinging until the lesson of the day is more than visible on her bottom.

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She will never forget the day that dad strapped her bottom until it was black and blue.

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She still remembers how her bottom felt that day.

For a young lady in this much trouble, her parents may just decide that she will be receiving the paddle on her bare bottom until the job is done.  This bare bottom paddling will not stop when the tears are flowing, it will stop when there are no more tears.

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This was a paddling she has never forgotten.

Regardless of the circumstances, each and every girl who grew up receiving frequent corporal punishment will be able to describe at least one spanking that she will never forget. All photos and animations are from some very memorable punishment videos from the member’s area of Realspankings.com

Posted April 6th, 2015.

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Her little secret

We have all known a girl just like her, but for the most part, we had no idea.  She may exist a little more often in the South, but this girl actually lives in every part of our country and throughout the world.  We may think that she no longer exists, as this is a more modern time, but that assumption would be incorrect.  This young lady is alive and well and may indeed be your next door neighbor.  There is no way to tell her apart from any other teen girl out there, as her little secret only takes place behind closed doors.  She has no reason to share her secret with anyone, as she finds the whole thing quite embarrassing, but it really is out of her hands and is just part of her daily life.

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A bright red bottom after a bare bottom spanking from mom.

For this young lady getting spanked is, and always has been, just a daily part of her life.  It may be that she is not very well behaved, or that she has very strict parents (typically a combination of both), but spanking is not just the primary form of punishment in her house, it is the only form of punishment.  While this may indeed take place in a household in which the dad takes care of the discipline, it is much more common with a stay at home mom that handles the spankings herself.  This mom will generally have grown up in a similar environment and knows first-hand how effective a spanking can be.

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A few swats in the living room on her bare bottom, serve as a reminder as to what TV shows she is allowed to watch.

For this young lady a spanking can indeed be a daily occurrence, as mom has zero tolerance for any misbehavior or slacking on chores.  Some spankings will be quick and to the point and are merely meant to get the young lady focused on whatever it is she should have been doing.  These types of spankings can happen even more often than daily and generally take place on the spot.  First thing in the morning, just after breakfast, mom inquires as to who left their cereal bowl in the sink and not in the dishwasher and the naughty young lady must own up to her offense.  The wooden spoon comes right out of the drawer and she is bent over the counter for a quick little lesson on cleaning up after herself.  It is quite informal, not extremely painful over her pants and panties, but it still serves as a reminder that mom is not a maid.  She may squeeze out a tear or two, but in the grand scope of things, it is simply a reminder.

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Panties down for a trip over mom’s knee.

This young lady does not share her little secret with anyone, as it is quite embarrassing to still be spanked as a teenage girl.  As she walks to the bus stop with her bottom still burning from the spoon, she tries to compose herself so no one will know that beneath her pants her bottom is bright red and throbbing a little.  While the quick little reminder spankings are quite common, a spanking for bigger issues happen on a regular basis as well.  At her age, with her behavior, and her mom’s strict requirements and guidelines, there really is no way to completely avoid it. It may be behavior, grades, chores, cell phone bill, or the thing that tends to get her bottom into the most trouble…her smart mouth.

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She will be sent to school this morning with a nice warm bottom as a reminder.

While the daily spankings tend to take place on the spot with whatever mom can get her hands on to make a proper impression, when she finds herself in a lot of trouble, she is sent to her parent’s room to wait.  While she cannot recall a time in her life in which she was not spanked and might spend the better part of most weeks with a sore bottom, there is really no getting used to a trip to her parent’s room for a spanking.  This means mom is really mad and the shit has really hit the fan.  This means her bottom will be bared and she will be spanked in a way that she will remember for a very long time.  Mom might use the belt on her, or she may use the hairbrush, but before it is over she will have been crying for a several minutes.

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Some spanking require a little special attention from the belt.

After a good and long session with the belt, or mom’s brush that exists only for spanking her bottom, she has an even bigger secret.  There are at least a few days a month that this young lady is walking around with a bruised bottom hidden underneath her clothes. None of her friends know that as she sits at her school desk that her bottom is often pulsating with each beat of her heart.  Many people see her as being “restless” in class, but the truth is, sitting can often be quite uncomfortable for her. Many of her friends think she is sometimes shy in the locker room, as on some days she chooses to change into or out of gym clothes in a bathroom stall.  Never in a million years would any of them ever imagine that she is hiding the fact that mom tore up her bare bottom the night before.

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If her behavior justifies the wooden paddle, then that is what she will receive.

Good old fashioned corporal punishment is alive and well and is used far more often than any of us will ever realize.  The truth is, outside of our own homes, we have no idea which teen bottom is being punished for acting in a manner that her parents do not believe is suitable for a proper young lady.  Based on current corporal punishment statistics, right now, at this very moment there is a young lady in each and every high school in this country squirming in her seat, at least a little bit, from the last spanking that she received. These girls are not being abused; they are being raised in a manner that their parents believe is right.  When these young ladies get a little mouthy, or start slacking, or bring home that report card that is unacceptable, their bottoms do indeed pay the price.

Posted December 17th, 2014.

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