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The benefits of a bare bottom when spanking the older teen girl

A bare bottom spanking is so very effective for many reasons, which is why it is still a common practice in the homes of the US, when an older teen girl needs to be punished.  When it comes to a young lady having to bare her bottom for a spanking, the first thing that comes to mind is the fact that it will hurt more as a result of being on the bare skin.  While this is indeed true, let’s take a look at all of the benefits of a bared bottom for a spanking.

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Mom knows that a bare bottom spanking works much better

When the teenage girl finds herself in trouble for a minor offense, and may have only earned herself a handspanking, it is pretty much mandatory that her bottom be bared for the process.  A handspanking over pants and panties does very little to provide much sting, and the only way any sort of lesson is going to be learned is with skin to skin contact.  A handspanking, by design, only really works during the course of the punishment, as the sting goes away pretty quickly, with no long term discomfort.  The only real benefit is for the parent to provide as much sting as possible, so her bottom must be bared to make in progress in her learning.

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By baring her bottom, he is clearly achieving the desired results.

Clearly baring a young lady’s bottom is not limited to a handspanking and a punishment with any implement can be further enhanced with a bare bottom.  An implement such as a belt becomes even more effective, as a belt is an implement with the potential for a lot of sting.  A belt can be used with great effect over a teen girl’s pants, especially if it is a heavy belt.  But there is no doubt that leather applied to her bare skin is far more effective in getting the desired results.  But the purpose of baring a teen girl’s bottom goes so far beyond just that of adding more sting.

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Mom bared her tiny teen bottom before getting to work with the belt.

The baring of a bottom brings additional psychological factors that can serve to make a punishment far more memorable than just making it hurt more.  Often the perception of pain, prior to the spanking, can be just as memorable as the spanking itself.  Picture the young lady, in a shit load of trouble, standing before her dad as his belt is pulled from his pants.  It is already bad for her, as she sees that dad is going to use the belt, so she knows she is really in for it.  This is not a simple handspanking from mom, and she knows this is going to be the real deal.  Just when it seems like it is going to be as bad as it gets, she hears those dreaded words from dad, “turn around, bare your bottom, and bend over”.  What was already going to be a memorable punishment, just because all that more effective.  As she pulls down her pants and panties and bends over, a real lesson is already being learned.  Many teen girls find themselves in tears, as the bare their little butts, knowing how bad it is going to be.  Before the belt is ever applied to her teen bottom, the learning has already begun.

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Dad learned a long time ago that his belt is far more effective on her bare bottom.

Another great benefit of a bare bottom spanking is demonstrating to the teen girl, who thinks she is all grown up, that she will be treated exactly how she acts, and regardless of her age, her parents are still in charge.  After the age of eight or nine, most girls reach a point where there parents do not see them in any state of undress at all.  It is a common progression in most households, in which privacy and modesty are respected.  But when it comes to her discipline, all bets are off, and her behavior directly affects the amount of modesty she is allowed.  Picture the little princess, spoiled rotten, with her own car, the biggest and best IPhone, lives on Twitter and Facebook, and just thinks she is all that.  But when the time comes, that a real impression needs to be made about her attitude and being too big for her britches, a bare bottom spanking is the great equalizer.

Those three simple words “bare your bottom” have a very real effect on someone’s behavior.  She thinks she is all grown up and in control, but when it comes down to it, her parents are still in charge.  There are very few situations in life in which someone can demand that someone else show their butt.  But when a parent feels the nature of her offense requires it, they can indeed exercise this option.  Nothing deflates a young lady’s ego, and sense of entitlement, then having to present her bare bottom to be spanked.  Being cute, popular, with well-off parents does nothing to help her in this situation.  Quite simply, she acted like a spoiled little brat, and as a result, her spoiled little bare bottom is going to be given the attention it deserves.

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Each and every time it is required, dad has her bare her teen bottom for a good paddling.

There are two variations on a bare bottom spanking.  The first requires her to bare her own bottom and present it to be punished.  This is very effective as it gives her full ownership of the spanking.  Mom is not going to pin her down and pull her pants down; she is required to do it herself.  She is actually cooperating by helping to provide a situation that is going to make her punishment more painful.  This is her spanking, mom wants it to hurt as much as possible, and she is going to have to assist in the entire process.  This can be a very powerful component to a proper spanking and when all is said and done, she will be a better person by helping to make her own discipline as effective as possible.

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It does not matter that she is 18, mom always makes her bare her bottom and present it for each and every spanking.

The other variation is for the parent to bare the bottom of the teen girl that is about to be spanked.  This goes to the earlier point of showing a young lady that is her behavior requires it, that her parents still have the right to bare her bottom.  There is no other situation in a typical home in which a mom or a dad can demand that their 17-18 year old daughter has to show any part of her anatomy.  But if her behavior requires it, she not only has to bare her bottom, but they will actually do it for her.  It demonstrates who is actually in control in the home.  They are not only going to spank her teen butt, they will actually pull down her pants and her panties to do so.

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Sent to her room so a dose of mom’s belt. Mom bares her bottom to show her who is really in charge.

I have never believed that anyone should be humiliated over the course of corporal punishment, but I believe that embarrassment can go a long way to supplement any form of discipline.  Picture the typical teen girl and how she lives her daily life.  Lots people will do whatever is required to not be embarrassed, hell, this alone can often lead to bad behavior.  There are many girls who get in trouble because they do not want to embarrass themselves by being the only one that will not engage in a certain activity.  Well do you know what is very embarrassing for the teenage girl?  Having to bare her bottom for her mom or her dad, so they can give her a good whoopin.  They will be just as likely to adjust their behavior to avoid presenting their bare butts for a spanking as they will to avoid the actual pain of a spanking.

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Paddled in the living room, after dinner, with the family present.

A bare bottom spanking that takes place in a common area of a house, can further add to the overall embarrassment.  Being sent to her room to wait for her bare bottom spanking is one thing, but knowing that it can happen right there in the dining room, is something completely different.  I cannot think of a teen girl in this world that will not give a second thought to her behavior if she knows the results are getting her bare bottom spanked in front of whatever family members are present.  It only takes a single whoopin with a belt, on her bare butt, in the middle of the family room, while her little brothers watching, to make a very real change in her behavior.  We have now taken something that might only have the potential to hurt and changed it into a situation she would never want to be in, even without the spanking.

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A paddling right after school, in the living room, with her brothers watching.

Beyond all of these other factors that make a bare bottom spanking effective, we still come back to the point that a spanking on her bare bottom hurts much more.  Is this not the point of a spanking? A spanking should provide as much pain as the situation calls for.  We are talking about the punishment of older teen girls, not little children, so clearly the spanking needs to hurt a lot to be an actual deterrent.  If she is able to just suck it up and it not hurt all that much, it does nothing to change behavior.  So the spanking should take place in a manner that brings the most amount of pain to her bottom, which can be applied in a safe manner.  A bare bottom also allows the parent to gauge the progress that they are making.  A belt applied over her jeans, with her kicking, screaming, and throwing a fit, does not allow the parent to effectively gauge the actual progress that is being made.  Maybe she is just putting on an act and playing it all up to end things quicker.  But when a parent chooses to bare the bottom, they can check their work as they go.  A bottom that is barely pink does nothing for a long term change in attitude. But with a bare bottom, they can see when real results are being achieved.  Regardless of how much she is carrying on, the spanking needs to be applied long enough and hard enough, that her bottom ends up sore.  When she is bent over and her teen bottom is bared, they will be able to see first-hand when her bottom starts to bruise. This allows them to accurately apply the lesson required and get exactly the result that not only they are looking for, but have been earned.

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With her bottom bared, her dad can continue to paddle her until he can actually see a lesson being learned.

All animations come from the realistic spanking videos at

Posted September 21st, 2015.

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“A good hard spanking is sometimes necessary”

When we look at this type of spanking content on the Internet, we are left wondering how often a a good hard spanking is needed for the child 2spanking takes place in the home.  First let’s look at a recent report as to if people support spanking or not.  A recent study (2014) by the University of Chicago posed a question about people’s thoughts on spanking.  They were not just asked if they think spanking is ok, the exact question was “a good hard spanking is sometimes necessary to discipline a child?”. This question was asked to those as young as 18, all the way up to the senior population.  The results below show, that on the average, 7 out of 10 adults in the US not only believe in spanking, but believe in a “good hard spanking”.


A further breakdown of the surveyed population showed an interesting trend, it is the new parents that believe in spanking the most.  You might think that the trend is going down, but this survey shows that 74% of those 18-29 believe in a good hard spanking, fully 10% more than those over the age of 65.


a good hard spanking is needed for the child 3Harris Interactive did a giant survey last year looking into many aspects of corporal punishment in the home.  Their results showed 81% of Americans believed that spanking was appropriate. Obviously this will vary based on where you are at in the country.  The South weighed in with 86% still in support of spanking, followed by the Midwest with 83%.  The study found that 87% of Republicans favored spanking their children, whilea good hard spanking is needed for the child 4 78% of Democrats agreed.  When those aged 18-22 in 2014 were asked if they were spanked 77% said they were. That matches up pretty good with the numbers above from new parents, in which 74% said that a hard spanking is necessary.

As far as how much force was used and whether it was justified, Harris came up with the following.  When asked if they were spanked with “too much force” 79% said that they were not.  When asked if they a good hard spanking is needed for the child 5deserved the spankings they received or not 66% said that the spanking was deserved.  When asked if there were times that they knew they deserved a spanking and did not get one, 51% said that this was the case.

This provides us with a wealth of spanking information and shows that it is not only alive and well, but new parents are more likely to spank than their parents.  It is pretty clear that if you live in the South and have Republican parents, you can count on getting your ass torn up on a regular basis.  The other resultsa good hard spanking is needed for the child 6 show that for the most part, kids and teens are getting a good spanking when they deserve it, and the amount of pain being applied to their bottoms is justified.  While you would think most would be bitter about being spanked, more than half believe there were many things that they should have been spanked for but were not.

a good hard spanking is needed for the child 7So, it is pretty clear from these statistics that right now, at this very moment, there are some belts being pulled from belt loops and bottoms being bared.  In the Deep South, when a young lady’s behavior requires it, in 9 out of 10 households, she isa good hard spanking is needed for the child 8 getting a spanking.   Of those 9 young ladies about to get a spanking, at least 7 of them are going to get “a good hard spanking”.  The statistics show that of those 9 young ladies getting their bottom worn out with dad’s belt, at least 6 of them fully feel that they deserve it.  Not only that, of these 9 young ladies, 5 of them feel that there were other things that they have done that should have resulted in their butts being blistered.

Posted July 7th, 2015.

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A strict mom who spanks her daughters often

If you are over the age of 40, you grew up in a neighborhood in which there was that one mom, who never hesitated to tear up her daughters’ bottoms whenever it was required.  You might not have actually known who that mom was, but you can count on the fact that she existed.  She herself, having grown up in the 50’s, was subjected to harsh corporal punishment from her own mother.  She knew first-hand the results of such effective discipline and never once ever consider raising her own daughters any other way.  Yes, these moms still exist today, but it is not as common as it was over the two previous generations.

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Tearing her teen bottom up with a wooden spoon.

For this mom, there are no time outs, there is no grounding, pretty much all discipline matters are handled on the spot.  She does not need to wait for dad to get home to take care of things; she is more than capable of administering corporal punishment, at any degree of severity, whenever the situation calls for it.  It is not something that she stopped doing once the girls grew older, if anything, the punishments became more frequent and intense as teen girls find all sorts of ways to get themselves into trouble.

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Spanked long and hard by mom.

She has no one way that she spanks; she tends to just go with whatever is required for that particular situation.  She is good enough at what she does that even a simple handspanking can be enough to get the job done.  If she is only using her hand, you can count on butts being bared.  She cannot remember a single trip over her own mother’s knee in which her little bottom wasn’t bared, so why should her own girls be afforded such luxuries.  When she spanks the purpose is to wear their bottoms out, so even better on the bare.

She also believes in spanking in a manner that gets the job done.  At no point in their entire lives did either girl get a few quick smacks to her bottom as some sort of reminder.  If a behavior or an attitude requires that a spanking be administered, then it is going to be a memorable event.  The spankings that she gives to these girls are measured in minutes, not smacks.  Many years of spanking their bottoms has built up an endurance that allows her to spank as fast, as hard, and most importantly, as long as she wants. She does not stop to lecture, the spanking does not build over time, she goes all out from the very first swat and it never ends until she has a tearful

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Mom wears her bottom out.

teen girl before her.

While the hand may be her go to, as it is always available, that is not to say that these young ladies have not experienced household items that are more effective if the moment requires it.  They are both very aware of that one drawer in the kitchen that contains that dreaded wooden spoon, one that has not seen the inside of a pot in 10 years.  They both know that when they are sent for the spoon that their world is going to change very quickly.  She does not use the spoon like a paddle, with well-spaced swats; she uses it just like her hand and spanks fast and hard. She tears up every inch of their teen bottoms with that spoon and has them in tears from the very start.  The use of an implement also does not mean that the spanking will be any shorter than if she was using her hand.  She is using the spoon because that is was their behavior requires, and it too will be applied for minutes at a time.

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The kind of spanking with a wooden spoon that a teen girl tends to remember.

Worst case scenario in this house, for both of the daughters, is what her mom’s go to implement was…the dreaded wooden hairbrush.  This is not an ordinary hairbrush; this is one that was purchased for the sole purpose of bruising

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A spanking with the hairbrush changed behaviors permanently.

bottoms.  With a long wooden handle, and a striking surface at least an inch thick, it is all business.  Its entire purpose in this world is to completely and totally change a young lady’s behavior.  It is used effectively and severely, and when it comes out, the tears begin to flow.  Both girls know, far too well from past experience, that the hairbrush is pure pain.  Just as with her hand or with the spoon, there are no adjustments made as a result of the severity of the implement.  Once again, it is their behavior that designates what they are spanked with, so if the hairbrush is called for, then so be it.  After a few minutes with the brush, sitting is no longer an option.

Spankings can be administered anytime and anywhere in this home, as this mom is not all that picky.  If she is in the middle of something, she will simply send the offending girl to her room to wait.  If she is able to take care of it on the spot, then bottoms are bared and the spanking is given in the most convenient location.  No consideration is given as to their privacy, or who may be present, if a spanking needs to take place, it will.  If the girls have gotten in trouble together, then two bottoms may have to be bared.  She will bend them over the kitchen counter before dinner, over the ottoman while they are watching TV, or lay them over a bed to tear up their behinds.

There is also no consideration given to when her last spanking was.  It could have been two weeks, two days, or two minutes

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Two sisters are spanked together by mom.

since her last spanking, it does not matter, when a spanking is required one is applied.  On more than one occasion a young lady had her bottom blistered in the kitchen, only to go upstairs and slam her bedroom door in anger, which simply led to mom going into their room and starting again.  On their freshly spanked bottom, mom starts all over again, this time with an upgrade to the implement, and probably for a longer period of time.

In a time when social services and similar organizations stayed out of such matters, the state of her daughters’ bottoms was never a concern.  If some adult in the school environment noticed the bruised bottom or upper thighs of one of these girls, they just assumed she had earned a spanking.  This kind of mom did not just spank to apply a little bit of pain to the offending girl’s backside, she always spanked with the goal of tearing that bottom up. A proper spanking means her daughter climbs off her knees and does a little dance from the pain.  She rubs her bottom ferociously trying to make the sting go away. For the next couple of days she is able to see the results of her behavior on her bottom.  But most importantly, she is unable to sit comfortably for a day or two.  She is the one who broke the rules and her bottom had to pay the price.

Posted June 26th, 2015.

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A lovely red bottom helps reinforce the punishment

Let’s face it, a sore bottom is not just part of the process it is the overall goal when a young lady has misbehaved.  The spanking itself needs to be very painful; it will always be the biggest overall deterrent against future bad behavior.  Her bottom needs to be set on fire for a considerable duration of time, providing a sufficient amount of kicking and screaming, and of course tears.

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But when a spanking is administered effectively, it is not over after the last smack.  If she was really naughty, and a paddle or something similar was used, she will have a bruised and sore bottom.  But I am not just talking about soreness; I am talking about a visual indicator that reminds her that she has been bad.

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The one thing you can always count on after a teen girl has been spanked by mom or dad, is that she is not only going to rub her bottom, she is going to look at it.  This is a very good thing in that she can actually see the results of her behavior on her sore behind.  Yes, the actual punishment might be over, but the reminder remains in place.

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There is a good chance, shortly after her spanking, that she will be baring her own bottom for a closer look.  Not only will she look, she will touch.  She will feel the heat that she herself created.  It may be mom or dad that set it on fire, but what she is now looking at and touching is as a result of her actions.  Right there before her eyes she is able to see what she did.

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After a really good spanking, many young ladies will lie down on the bed and give their bottom a good rub, attempting to make the sting go away.  As much as she caresses her sore bottom, nothing will really sooth the pain except for time.  With each beat of her heart she feels a throbbing on her tender bottom.  Each pulse once again reminds her of her actions and she is able to feel those results clearly.

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This does not just apply in the home environment, as young ladies are not immune to corporal punishment in the school.  While it might be a little trickier, you can count on the high school girl, to find a private little moment, in which she can inspect her recently paddled bottom.  It may be a quick moment in the girl’s bathroom, a trip to the locker room, or even with a tiny makeup mirror in the privacy of a bathroom stall.  Everyone who has been recently spanked has to take a look, they just can’t help it.  They need to see exactly what it causing them so much discomfort.

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Being able to see her sore bottom really helps the overall learning experience, it is even more powerful if the marks last a couple of days.  Each morning she is able to look in the mirror and see what she did.  The punishment did not simply go away, it is still right here staring her in the face.  It helps her remember what she did, and more importantly what she can do different in the future to avoid exactly what she is seeing.

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Posted June 3rd, 2015.

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The spanking that she will never forget

For many young ladies, who were spanked for as long as they can remember, all the way up to their high school years, there will always be one, if not a few, of those spankings that they will never forget.  There are many factors that can make a spanking a very memorable one, but those particular spankings will live with them forever.

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Her first spanking with a wooden spoon is a spanking she will always remember.

One of the first types of spankings that they tend to remember for a lifetime is the first time they were spanked on their bare bottom.  For some young ladies this is how they were always spanked, or were only spanked this way when they were little.  For the high school aged girl, who committed that one infraction that seems to demand her bottom be bared for the first time in many years, she will never forget as those pants and panties came down, knowing exactly how bad it was going to feel on her bare bottom.

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It has been a good ten years since dad bared her bottom for a spanking.

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She will always remember the day that discipline in the household changed.

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She will always remember the day mom gave her a bare bottom spanking.

Another memorable type of spanking is the transition of implements.  For those young ladies who were spanked throughout all of their school aged years, spankings typically started off as a hand spanking.  Strict parents who spank throughout the teenage years rarely rely on just their hand as their daughter grows older.  Typically around the end of grade school they realize that their hand is no longer getting the job done anymore.  It is at this point that an implement of some sort comes into play.  Any girl that grew up in such an environment can probably describe in very good detail the first day that she bent over for a good dose of the belt.

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The day dad’s belt came off for her spanking is a day she will never forget.

In some households, the belt is then replaced by a paddle.  There is no doubt the young lady who finds herself in so much trouble that her dad decides to go out in the garage and make a paddle, specifically to be applied to her bottom, will never forget that moment.  She hears the power saw working hard out in the garage, knowing that once the work is done, her bottom will be paying the price.

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To this very day, the sounds of a power saw bring back very vivid memories.

Not all parents build a paddle, as there are many household items that can serve the same purpose.  There are many decorative wooden items that make a very handy paddle, or often a wooden bread board is used.  Either way, the first swat from a paddle, from a young lady who is used to getting the belt or a simple handspanking, is a day she will always remember.

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After years of getting the belt, her first paddling will always be fresh in her mind.

There are also those young ladies who were primarily spanked by their mothers, as she was the one running in the household and in charge of discipline.  On those occasions in which her behavior required something a little more painful than mom could provide, a spanking was not given, it was sentenced.  For most girls, in which a spanking from dad was the worst consequence, she not only will remember that spanking, she will remember all events leading up to it.  It is one thing to get in trouble and then be immediately spanked, and a far different memory when mom tells her that when her dad gets home that night that she is going to make sure he blisters her bottom.  The agony of waiting for a spanking can be quite a memorable event, especially when she fully knows what a spanking from dad will consist of.  A couple dozen strokes from the belt from mom is a far different experience than a pants down paddling from dad with mom looking on encouraging it to be longer and harder.

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She will never forget waiting all day for dad to get home and then baring her bottom to be paddled.

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She remembers every single bare bottom paddling she ever received from her dad.

Location can also play into a long lasting spanking memory for a teenage girl.  Maybe it was the first time that her spanking was not administered in the privacy of a bedroom and instead took place right on the spot.  Or a spanking that was administered in front of her siblings as a lesson and warning to everyone as to what happens when the rules are not followed.  Maybe it was her first “big girl” spanking, in which mom decides to take her down to the basement, where noise will not be an issue, and bare her bottom for the strapping of her life.

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That day that mom marched her down into the basement, belt in hand, and told her to bare her bottom is a day she will never forget.

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She can still hear the sounds of the belt echoing in the basement as it was applied severely to her bare butt.

For most young ladies, the spanking of her life will be based on the one that she can recall hurting the very most.  These are typically tied to some type of behavior that is off the charts as far as her parents are concerned.  A young lady never forgets that night that her parents picked her up from the police station, or when she comes home from a high school party stumbling around from too much alcohol.  These are the types of spanking in which, once complete, will forever be burned into her memory.  This may be the day that the parents decide that she needs to know what the backside of a hairbrush feels like on her bare bottom. 

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Her behavior on this day required a very effective and old fashioned method of discipline.

Or for the very bad infraction, this might be the day that it seems that dad will never stop with the belt on her bare bottom.  He just keeps swinging and swinging until the lesson of the day is more than visible on her bottom.

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She will never forget the day that dad strapped her bottom until it was black and blue.

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She still remembers how her bottom felt that day.

For a young lady in this much trouble, her parents may just decide that she will be receiving the paddle on her bare bottom until the job is done.  This bare bottom paddling will not stop when the tears are flowing, it will stop when there are no more tears.

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This was a paddling she has never forgotten.

Regardless of the circumstances, each and every girl who grew up receiving frequent corporal punishment will be able to describe at least one spanking that she will never forget. All photos and animations are from some very memorable punishment videos from the member’s area of

Posted April 6th, 2015.

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