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The importance of a sore bottom

Far too often when an older teenage girl is punished by one of her parents, they overlooked one of the most important aspects of a spanking…the sore bottom.  Even more importantly, they overlook making sure that the “sit spot” is a sore as possible.  Many parents just get caught up in the act of spanking, which is often just a way for them to express their anger, and they do not do their best to make sure that long term learning is taking place.  They end up just spanking away, with little regard to accuracy, or even a solid plan as to how they are spanking.  Yes, it may indeed end in tears as a hard spanking does indeed sting, but more often than not, just a few minutes after the spanking is over, the naughty girl is left with only a warm bottom.

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He cares enough to make sure that her bottom is bruised during her spanking.

Now a parent who is not just releasing their anger regarding their daughter’s behavior will take the time to do the job properly.  It will not be a hurried process and each and every swat will be well measured and will serve a purpose.  The bare bottom paddling above is a perfect example of a father willing to take the time to administer a punishment that will serve her interests in the long run.  Clearly he has paddled her entire bottom and just the top of her thighs.  This allows for as much sting to cover as large of an area as possible. and when done properly, will take a couple of minutes to accomplish.  This allows her to really learn her lesson over the course of her paddling and to also get the tears flowing.  But it is clear that this father really cares about his daughter, as he is taking the extra time at the end to properly bruise the part of her teen bottom that touches the chair when she sits down.  He is not just haphazardly paddling anywhere, he is finishing up with very focused swats in the same spots.  While her whole entire backside is glowing and a little bruised, he is putting in the extra care and effort to assure that sitting will not be the most pleasant task, for at least a couple of days.  He is making sure that her bottom will be sending a message to her brain, regarding her behavior, to assure that adjustments will be taking place.

This very intense bare bottom paddling video comes from the member’s area of RealspankingsInstitute.com.
 

Posted October 29th, 2014.

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Watching his big sister getting spanked by dad

For many little brothers out there, there is no bigger joy than seeing their older sister get spanked.  Even if they too end up on the receiving end of mom or dad’s paddle or belt on occasion, when it is time for their sister to get it, it is pure happiness.   Imagine the 12 year old boy that is constantly being hassled by his 17 year old sister, and she tells him what a baby he is, or how immature he acts.  She will not let him hang out with her or her friends because they are “adults” in her eyes.  But what those friends of hers do not know is that when she misbehaves, she is punished the same way she has always been, with a bare bottom spanking.

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Watching his older sister get a bare bottom paddling from dad.

There are very few ways that he has to get back at his sister for the torment she puts him through, but getting to see her get a spanking ranks high on the list.  Anytime that one of his parents is talking to his sister, and voices start to rise, he perks right up to see where it may be leading.  The best situation for him is when he begins to hear his sister raise her voice back, as this is always the quickest path to a spanking in this house.  There is no excuse for backtalk as far as their parents are concerned, and it generally always leads to a sore bottom.  But his sister has a temper, something that gets her into trouble far too often and sometimes she just can’t help but to yell at her parents.  When that yelling begins, it is often hard for him to hide the smile on his face.

paddling from dad in her room

He just loves to watch her teenage bottom turn black and blue as their dad tears her poor butt up with the heavy wooden paddle.

The most common way that he gets to see his sister get spanked is a quick and spontaneous spanking from their mom.  When mom gets pissed she just grabs whatever is closest and starts smacking his sister on her bottom, but over her clothing.  These are just quick reminder type spankings and are a pretty common occurrence.  While it is still a spanking and one that he gets to see quite often, it does not bring him quite as much joy as when she is really in trouble and sent to her room for a spanking.  This typically means that she is really in for it, and that typically means a visit from dad with the paddle.  Nothing makes him happier than to hear “you get your ass into your bedroom, dad will be in in a bit to wear that bottom out”.

He does not get to see this play out too often, but with his room being next to hers, he certainly gets to hear it each and every time.  There are the rare occasions in which the door is left open just far enough, and he bends her over in a manner that it can be viewed from the door.  He just loves to see his “adult” sister having to bare her bottom like a little girl and bend over the bed.  He loves to hear her wine and cry about how much it is going to hurt before it even gets started.  And while it is indeed his sister, the fact that he gets to see a teenage girl’s bare bottom adds a little thrill to the whole thing.  He knows from his own experience on the receiving end of dad’s paddle how much it hurts, but it seems that his sister gets it even harder than he does.

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It is clear that she will not be sitting on that bruised butt anytime soon.

But for him the very best part is simply watching her bottom change from white, to red, to purple and to get to listen to her crying.  She often teases him hard enough to bring him to tears so it is nice to see her in the same situation.  She tries to pretend that she is this big tough girl, but the tears start as soon as the first swat lands.  After just a few swats she is bawling like a little baby and just keeps carrying on throughout.  She always has trouble holding still, which always results in dad to paddle her bare bottom even longer.  For a paddling in the bedroom, it never ends until her whole entire bottom is bruised and swollen.  Eventually it will finally stop and their dad will just leave her room.  Once dad is gone and the coast is clear he will try to sneak a final peek at her bruised butt, if the door is still cracked, and listen to her still crying on her bed.

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The results of a hard bare bottom paddling from dad.

Posted October 23rd, 2014.

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Dad gives his 18 year old daughter a bare bottom paddling for facial piercings.

It is pretty common, that as a young lady turns 18 she seems to feel that she is all of a sudden an adult.  It feels that the world has all of a sudden opened up to her and now she can finally do what she wants.  This feeling is only a reality if the young lady packs up her stuff and moves out on her 18th birthday.  The majority of 18 year old girls still live at home, many are still in high school, with most fully dependent on their parents in every way.  This puts the 18 year old teenage girl in somewhat of an interesting situation in that she is legally an adult, she can vote, she can even move out without her parent’s permission, but as long as she still lives at home, she has to obey her parent’s rules.  For many young ladies, who find themselves still living at home at the age of 18, in conservative Christian households, this may mean that even as legal adults that their bottoms may still be spanked, paddled, and strapped.

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Dad is about to show her with his paddle how he feels about her new piercing.

The young lady above is a perfect example.  On her 18th birthday, she decided to celebrate her new freedom by going out and getting her tongue and upper lip pierced.  It was not only something she had wanted to do for quite some time, it was also the perfect way to show her parents that she is all grown up and does not need their permission anymore.  While she was a little nervous to go home and let her dad see the new piercings, she had been preparing for this moment for weeks.  She was finally going to let him know that she is her own person, with her own identity, and that there was nothing he could do about it.  He might be a conservative and a military man, but that was not who she was, or who she would ever be, and these piercings were going to show him exactly that.

It took all of two seconds for her dad to notice the piercing to her upper lip and he immediately began to lose it.  To allow him a moment to calm down, he told her that he did not even want to talk to her at the moment and suggested that she go to her room.  She went to her room, with her heart beating fast, but she knew this was going to be her moment to make a stand.  It took a good 30 minutes before her dad showed up to her room and she was fully prepared with her speech about being an adult and how she was her own person.  What she was not prepared for was that her dad came into her room with the family paddle.  This paddle, which her dad had constructed for use on her and her brother and sister, had not been used on her in at least two years.  While it had been quite some time since she had been paddled, she certainly could vividly remember the last several times her bottom had felt it.

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Presenting her 18 year old bottom to be paddled by dad.

It was amazing how quick the little speech she had prepared slowly dissipated as a result of the presence of the paddle.  She tried to get some words out about being “an adult now”, only to be cut off by her dad as he explained that no one would ever live under his roof “with that shit in their face”.  He tried his best to remain calm as he explained that if she thinks she is all grown up, and could put herself through some pain, and can alter her body, he would show her exactly what kind of pain she can endure to her body as “an adult”.  He told her to stand up as he examined the piercing more closely, and with disgust in his voice he told her to turn around and bend over.  She had hoped to feel empowered and more confident, but the reality of the situation was, as it had always been, when her dad told her to bend over for a paddling, there was nothing she could do about it.  Her feelings of being an adult were fading quickly as she presented her teenage bottom to her dad to be spanked.

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She reacts to the paddling and dad then spots her tongue piercing, now her bottom will have to be bared.

He wasted no time and got right to work with the wooden paddle.  It also took very little time for her to react to the paddling just as she did when she was 14.  After just a few swats with the paddle to her jean covered bottom, she began to holler and scream.  Her eyes filled with tears as her dad really tore her bottom up.  After just a few swats, her dad noticed something…that her tongue was pierced as well. He could not believe who his daughter was becoming and he pretty much lost it.  He told her to stand up and to “get those fucking pants and panties down…RIGHT NOW”.  She could not even remember that last time she had a bare bottom spanking, but it was clear from the tone of his voice that this was not the time to argue.  She stood up, unbuttoned her jeans, and lowered both her pants and panties past her already sore bottom, and down to her knees.  He told her to bend back over and he went back to work with the paddle.  Her butt was already glowing red, but that was nowhere close to what he was looking for.  He raised the paddle over and over again, bringing it down full-force on her 18 year old bottom, and which each swat he could see the bruises starting to form. 

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Once her bottom is bared he really gets to work with the paddle, assuring that she is bruised and sore.

It did not take long for the tears to really start to flow, once her bottom was bared.  But this was not a lesson that was going to end quickly, as he needed her to fully realize that she would indeed continue to abide by his rules as long as she lived at home.  So he continued to paddle her bottom and watch as her skin compressed and sent a wave throughout her bottom.  She struggle a bit, kicked her legs, but somehow managed to stay in position.  It may have been a few years since her last paddling from dad, but she knew that it would never end if she did not keep somewhat still.  The paddling continued until he felt her bottom was marked enough that she would struggle to sit-down.  When she was crying hard enough, and her bottom was finally purple enough, he stopped paddling her teen butt.

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A severe bare bottom paddling is what is required for this 18 year old teen girl to learn a proper lesson from dad.

She was no longer feeling like a newly empowered adult as she cried, with her pants and panties around her knees, with a freshly paddled bottom.  She now felt silly for even having gotten the piercings and thinking that somehow she was going to change her dad’s mind overnight.  He told her to stand up and look at him which she did.  He explained that if she came downstairs to the breakfast table in the morning with “that shit still in her face and mouth” then they would repeat the process again.  He told her that by piercing herself that all she had done was demonstrate how immature she really was.  It was clear that she still needed much parental guidance and that he would bruise her bottom every day if that was what was required.  He then set the paddle on her dresser and told her that it would not move from that spot, as he guessed that it was going to become a more frequent part of her life…and then he left her room.

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Her bare bottom shows the results of dad’s education.

From the severe bare bottom paddling video in the member’s area of Realspankings.com

Posted May 12th, 2014.

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A hard bare bottom paddling from dad

For many older teen girls, the choice to be well behaved or not is pretty much the same as gambling.  No girl behaves perfectly all of the time, but she know that on those occasions that she decides to push the envelope a little, that she is taking a chance.  If she gets away with it, no harm and no foul.  But for many young ladies, if her parents become aware of her behavior, then she knows that her bottom will indeed pay the price.

Take for instance the young lady below.  She borrowed her dad’s car with clear instructions on when she was to be back with it.  As this is an issue that has come up before, dad has little tolerance for such lateness.  She knew, when she made the decision to make one more stop with her friends on the way home, that she was taking a chance on being late. Her gamble did not pay off; she came home more than 15 minutes late with her dad’s car.  Being that this was a conversation that had been covered in great detail lately; her dad had no words for her.  He simply pulled out the ottoman, placed a couple pillows over it, and told her to bare her bottom and climb on over.  He then walked to the kitchen and grabbed a small cutting board and then got to work.  He swung the little paddle very hard, alternating from cheek to cheek, until the tears began to flow.  Each swat compressed her skin, allowing the paddle to make contact with the muscles deep in her bottom, assuring a properly bruised bottom that would be sore for days.  The next time she borrows her car, she might spend a little more time considering what the results will be if she comes home late.

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Dad wears her teen bottom out with a very hard paddling.

From the severe HD punishment video in the member’s area of Realspankings.com

Posted April 15th, 2014.

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Levels of severity when spanking the teenage daughter

In many homes throughout the country, when corporal punishment is required for a teen daughter, it is often administered exactly the same way, each and every time.  This is typically more common when a young’s lady’s dad is the disciplinarian.  Whether it is with a paddle or with his belt, dads tend to be pretty consistent in their approach.  A young lady in trouble with her dad knows that if she crosses the line, she may get 20 with dad’s belt.  He may spank a little harder on occasion but she pretty much knows what to expect every time she gets spanked.  While still somewhat effective, it is not quite the same as when a parent is willing to mix up the punishment, varying the intensity, the implement, and even the position.

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This teen was spanked by her mom just enough to produce a pink bottom and a gentle reminder on how she needs to behave.

Typically it tends to be the moms out there who are more creative with how they apply corporal punishment.  Dads can often just rely on strength to get their point across, but not all moms have that same advantage.  I think the tendencies for moms to be more creative also come from their own upbringing.  For a current mom with a teenage daughter, a woman who grew up in the 50’s, corporal punishment was the norm in every household.  In those days the dads worked and the moms ran the household.  This was also the day and age when severe corporal punishment was not frowned upon.  This type of mom, as she was growing up, may find herself over her mom’s knee, getting a long and hard spanking with a wooden hairbrush, or out back picking a switch for a long session of getting her bare bottom and thighs covered with welts.

This type of mom sees corporal punishment as an important tool in raising her daughter

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Just the right amount of pink to get a teen girl’s attention.

and does not hesitate to use it as often as it is required.  This mom is also not going to be stuck with just using a single implement, or always spanking the same way, as she knows that different offenses call for different levels of severity.  You can count on the fact that the old fashion mom will always spank bare bottom, it is just a part of the process as far as she is concerned.  If she is really old fashioned, she may also still utilize corner time before or after spanking her daughter.  For the most common offense, one that requires just a spanking as a bit of a reminder about her behavior or attitude, the traditional mom will typically take her daughter over her knee for a short, but hard handspanking.  It is not a punishment in which she is looking to leave her daughter with a bruised bottom, she is simply looking to light her little bottom on fire for a minute or two and leave anywhere from pink to red.

The OTK handspanking is her go to punishment and she will use it frequently, for every little

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For a strong reminder, mom spanks just a little harder and a little longer, providing her daughter with a perfectly red bottom.

offense that happens.  With a strict and traditional mom, a short but to the point handspanking, can occur more than once a day.  It is for the moments when her daughter looks at her the wrong way, or is not minding her manners, or maybe forgets to clean up after herself.  The handspanking is really not for a violation of the rules of the home, it is more or a reminder.  After a handspanking such as this, there may be some sniffles and a couple of tears, but the whole event is forgotten shortly after it is over.  The young lady’s bottom will be anywhere from pink to red, but the sting goes away just a few minutes after the last smack to her little bottom.

While this type of mom will use a bare bottom hand spanking frequently, she also knows that as the level of disrespect or disobedience grows, that she has so many tools within the home to grow with the offense.  It does not take a lot of shopping, or looking around to find the right tool to spank her daughter.  Moms like this have been creative for

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This young lady required more than just a handspanking so her mom bent her over the bed for a quick session with the belt.

years and know exactly where to look in the home to find the next level of implement to use when her daughter requires more than just a reminder of her behavior.  As reminders turn to full on punishments, moms over the years have found so many useful household items to teach a proper lesson.  For decades creative moms have opened kitchen drawers to pull out a wooden spoon, or even a plastic spatula.  There is no doubt that in her closet there is a belt of her husbands that she knows will achieve the desired effect.  The picking of a switch is an age old tradition that still sends fear right to the heart of the teenage girl.  The use of a ruler, yardsticks, slippers, sandals, cutting boards, and just about anything else a mom can think of, have a way of really getting to the heart of a problem.

But when a basic household implement comes out, the young lady in trouble is generally going to get

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The wooden spoon was just enough to gently bruises her bottom.

more than just a pink bottom.  If this traditional mom has decided to use an implement, this means she feels like a problem really needs to be dealt with in a serious manner.  She is no longer just reminding her daughter about how to act or behave; she is now choosing to punish her daughter for something she did wrong.  This means a violation of a clearly set rule in the home has taken place.  She now needs to not only bare her daughter’s bottom and spank her in a manner intended to provide great discomfort, but she needs to teach her daughter a real lesson, one that will linger, even after the spanking is over.

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Just enough spanking that she will still feel it the next day.

This is where we go from a pink bottom, to a bottom that starts to show visible marks.  This is also the transition from a girl with tears in her eyes, to a young lady that is crying as a result of her spanking.  We are still not taking about the severity that goes along with the “spanking of her life”. But the kind of punishment a teen girl might find herself on the receiving end of a few times a month.  It is probably the kind of day in which the young lady has already been over her mom’s knee, and the attitude to misbehavior continues.  Mom finally has enough and decides it is time to give her a spanking that produces immediate results.  Her daughter is sent for whatever implement mom thinks will be most beneficial at this moment, and once again her teen bottom is bared.

This is where a spanking becomes a real punishment and mom spanks much more enthusiastically. She needs for this spanking to be remembered and she needs for it to hurt a lot.  It might be with a wooden spoon, or with dad’s belt, but she knows that it is going to have to last until her bottom shows the clear results of the punishment.  A couple of tears are just not going to get them where they need to be and she will have to spend a good couple minutes getting the desired results.  A young lady who has her bottom spanked often, generally requires anywhere from 30-50 strokes with a belt or a spoon before the proper impression has been made.

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Her bottom is going to need quite a while to cool off. She is placed in corner time and is not allowed to rub her recently strapped bottom.

When a punishment of this nature is complete, there will typically be a couple of minutes of crying and sniffling.  She will want to rub her bottom as it will be quite sore.  This is often the type of

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A few swats with the bread board seemed to have done the trick.

punishment that is followed by corner time, so she is not allowed to touch her sore bottom and this also allows her a few minutes to think about what she had done.  If her mom did a good job, her bottom will be quite sore for the rest of the day.  When she wakes up the next day, there may be a few visual reminders of her behavior on her bottom, and her bottom might be just a little sore.  Sitting will not be a problem for her, but she might get a little ache or two if she sits on a hard surface.  Her bottom is not sore to the point that she cannot endure sitting, but she will be reminded a little of her spanking from the previous day.

For every teen girl out there with a strict and traditional mom, that spanks often, there is typically that implement, the one that is held in reserve, for the most severe spanking imaginable.  This is the implement that mom will use as a threat for future bad behavior, or for repeat offenses.  This implement is generally not a typical household item; it is generally something that exists only for spanking a teen girl’s bottom.  It may be that antique hairbrush that has not seen hair in 50 years and has only been used to spank a young lady’s bottom.  It might be that paddle, the one that the mom had her husband make in the garage, the kind of implement that changes attitudes and behaviors from the very 1st swat.  It may even be a belt, not a normal sized belt, but a thick and heavy belt that mom picked out, exclusively for the purpose providing the most effective punishment that is possible.  Whatever it is the mom chooses to use in this situation, it is an object of fear for the young lady.

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The kind of spanking that a young lady has trouble forgetting. her mom spanked her teen bottom long and hard until the desired results are were achieved.

The teen daughter fears this implement so much because if it is pulled out, she knows she is in for a life changing spanking.  This will not be a handspanking leading to a pink bottom; this will not even be a couple of minutes with the wooden spoon leading to a bottom peppered with bruises. When that brush or paddle comes out, she knows that not being able to sit might be a actual reality.  She knows that she has pushed the very limits of the rules and that her bottom is going to pay the price.  This will not end in tears, this will end in hysterics.  She knows that it will be the type of spanking in which she is gasping for breath, begging her mom to stop.  While her mom is very strict, she also knows throughout the whole spanking, that the punishment is fitting the crime.

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Mom used the heavy wooden paddle and spanked her daughter until a real change of behavior took place.

The strict and traditional mom knows that a spanking such as this is reserved for the very worst offenses.  These are the situations in which her daughter has put her own safety on the line, or has committed an offense that could actually be considered criminal.  It is the type of behavior that the mom knows needs to be fully extinguished for good, so she turns to the only implements that she knows will get the job done.  She also knows there is no reason to pull out a severe implement if she is not willing to fully commit to using in in the most effective manner as possible. The most effective manner to use it is to ignore her daughter’s pleas and crying and to just keep on spanking until the job is done.  She knows that the job is not done until her daughter’s bottom is black and blue.  This needs to be a punishment that continues for days, and if she does a good job that is exactly what will happen.

severe hairbrush spanking from mom

As difficult as it is to do, her mom knows that she has to continue spanking with the heavy wooden hairbrush until the job is complete. Real learning needs to take place and it is not over until her bottom looks like this.

A proper punishment from a severe implement makes sitting down a punishment.  A hard enough session with a heavy wooden brush can make even walking or sleeping a punishment.  It leaves an unbearable lingering pain that there is just no escaping.  There is literally not a single minute, over the course of the next 48 hours in which she is not aware of how much her bottom hurts.  This awareness results in her being very cognizant of what lead to her bottom feeling like that in the first place.  But unfortunately for this sore bottom girl in a strict household, having had her bottom turned black and blue does not somehow reset a clock, or allow her to slack on what is required of her in the home.  It might be the very next morning, in which she leaves her cereal bowl in the sink, that mom pulls her over her knee and gives her the handspanking that is required for that moment.

All of these images, which demonstrate a proper spanking from mild to severe come from the very real punishment videos in the member’s area of Spankingteenjessica.com, part of the four girl teen spanking pass.

Posted April 7th, 2014.

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