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The Study of Corporal Punishment and Spanking for Discipline

Her little secret

We have all known a girl just like her, but for the most part, we had no idea.  She may exist a little more often in the South, but this girl actually lives in every part of our country and throughout the world.  We may think that she no longer exists, as this is a more modern time, but that assumption would be incorrect.  This young lady is alive and well and may indeed be your next door neighbor.  There is no way to tell her apart from any other teen girl out there, as her little secret only takes place behind closed doors.  She has no reason to share her secret with anyone, as she finds the whole thing quite embarrassing, but it really is out of her hands and is just part of her daily life.

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A bright red bottom after a bare bottom spanking from mom.

For this young lady getting spanked is, and always has been, just a daily part of her life.  It may be that she is not very well behaved, or that she has very strict parents (typically a combination of both), but spanking is not just the primary form of punishment in her house, it is the only form of punishment.  While this may indeed take place in a household in which the dad takes care of the discipline, it is much more common with a stay at home mom that handles the spankings herself.  This mom will generally have grown up in a similar environment and knows first-hand how effective a spanking can be.

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A few swats in the living room on her bare bottom, serve as a reminder as to what TV shows she is allowed to watch.

For this young lady a spanking can indeed be a daily occurrence, as mom has zero tolerance for any misbehavior or slacking on chores.  Some spankings will be quick and to the point and are merely meant to get the young lady focused on whatever it is she should have been doing.  These types of spankings can happen even more often than daily and generally take place on the spot.  First thing in the morning, just after breakfast, mom inquires as to who left their cereal bowl in the sink and not in the dishwasher and the naughty young lady must own up to her offense.  The wooden spoon comes right out of the drawer and she is bent over the counter for a quick little lesson on cleaning up after herself.  It is quite informal, not extremely painful over her pants and panties, but it still serves as a reminder that mom is not a maid.  She may squeeze out a tear or two, but in the grand scope of things, it is simply a reminder.

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Panties down for a trip over mom’s knee.

This young lady does not share her little secret with anyone, as it is quite embarrassing to still be spanked as a teenage girl.  As she walks to the bus stop with her bottom still burning from the spoon, she tries to compose herself so no one will know that beneath her pants her bottom is bright red and throbbing a little.  While the quick little reminder spankings are quite common, a spanking for bigger issues happen on a regular basis as well.  At her age, with her behavior, and her mom’s strict requirements and guidelines, there really is no way to completely avoid it. It may be behavior, grades, chores, cell phone bill, or the thing that tends to get her bottom into the most trouble…her smart mouth.

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She will be sent to school this morning with a nice warm bottom as a reminder.

While the daily spankings tend to take place on the spot with whatever mom can get her hands on to make a proper impression, when she finds herself in a lot of trouble, she is sent to her parent’s room to wait.  While she cannot recall a time in her life in which she was not spanked and might spend the better part of most weeks with a sore bottom, there is really no getting used to a trip to her parent’s room for a spanking.  This means mom is really mad and the shit has really hit the fan.  This means her bottom will be bared and she will be spanked in a way that she will remember for a very long time.  Mom might use the belt on her, or she may use the hairbrush, but before it is over she will have been crying for a several minutes.

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Some spanking require a little special attention from the belt.

After a good and long session with the belt, or mom’s brush that exists only for spanking her bottom, she has an even bigger secret.  There are at least a few days a month that this young lady is walking around with a bruised bottom hidden underneath her clothes. None of her friends know that as she sits at her school desk that her bottom is often pulsating with each beat of her heart.  Many people see her as being “restless” in class, but the truth is, sitting can often be quite uncomfortable for her. Many of her friends think she is sometimes shy in the locker room, as on some days she chooses to change into or out of gym clothes in a bathroom stall.  Never in a million years would any of them ever imagine that she is hiding the fact that mom tore up her bare bottom the night before.

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If her behavior justifies the wooden paddle, then that is what she will receive.

Good old fashioned corporal punishment is alive and well and is used far more often than any of us will ever realize.  The truth is, outside of our own homes, we have no idea which teen bottom is being punished for acting in a manner that her parents do not believe is suitable for a proper young lady.  Based on current corporal punishment statistics, right now, at this very moment there is a young lady in each and every high school in this country squirming in her seat, at least a little bit, from the last spanking that she received. These girls are not being abused; they are being raised in a manner that their parents believe is right.  When these young ladies get a little mouthy, or start slacking, or bring home that report card that is unacceptable, their bottoms do indeed pay the price.

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A not so private spanking

In most cases, the application of corporal punishment is a private affair between a teen girl and one of her parents.  Typically the naughty young lady is either sent to, or escorted to, the location in which she will be spanked, and the spanking then takes places behind closed doors.  But not all naughty young are quite this lucky and their punishment becomes a little more of a public event.

One of the more common variations on this is when two siblings find themselves in trouble together.  There are many parents out there that feel strongly about administering a punishment to all of the offenders at the same time, such as the two young ladies below.  These older teen sisters were both sent to one of the girl’s rooms and told to bare their bottoms and wait for dad to come up to administer the punishment that they have earned.  Dad removes his belt, and as you can see in the picture below, he does not hold back in wearing their little bottoms out.

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Dad uses his belt to make sure that both sisters learn a real lesson on their bare bottoms.

The sisters below find themselves in a lot of trouble with their dad and he decides to take their cell phones for six weeks, which they both strongly protest.  The only other option they are offered is the kind of discipline they received when they were much younger, which is hard corporal punishment.  They are both marched down into the basement for a little bit of privacy for their punishment.  They quickly regret their decision as dad produces a heavy wooden bread board and gets right to work, one at a time, while they grab their ankles.  After a couple of dozen severe swats with the paddle, the desired effect is achieved as they both leave with bruised bottoms and tears in their eyes.

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The sisters are paddled to tears together.

There are some families that handle all discipline issues in the house during the “family meeting”.  Regardless of who is in trouble, all members of the family are brought in for a discussion about behavior.  This allows an environment in which undesirable behavior can be addressed, so all of those present are very clear about what is and is not acceptable behavior.  The offender or offenders can then be punished in full view of everyone present, which helps to serve as a warning to other as to how misbehavior is dealt with.  In the picture below it is clear that a family meeting is currently in session.  The behavior of all three sisters over the course of the week is discussed and then the two unlucky ones go over the arm of the couch for an additional “conversation” with dad’s belt.  The entire family watches as the oldest daughter receives her whoopin, which is hardest for the youngest to watch, as she knows she is next.

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Two sisters receive their whoopin at the family meeting

There are then those parents that feel that a punishment needs to be administered right of the spot at the exact moment an infraction takes place, regardless of who is present.  There have been many young ladies over the years that have had the unfortunate experience of being spanked in front of one of their friends.  The young lady below is experiencing this very thing as her father comes home and realizes that she is relaxing with a friend instead of doing her homework.  Her recent report card led to a new rule in the house that school work will take place, directly after school, and before any other activity.   Even with her best friend present, he orders her up, tells her to bare her bottom, and bend over.  What follows is not only the hardest strapping she has ever received, but the most embarrassing as she is reduced to tears, with her pants and panties at her knees, in front of her very closest friend.

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A severe bare bottom strapping in front of her best friend

There are also those spankings that take place in the privacy of the home in which the person being punished has no idea that someone else is watching.  There have been many little brothers over the years that will do anything to see their bossy older sister getting a good spanking. Or as in the case below, we have the younger sister, who has certainly had her share of whoopins from daddy’s belt, something she hates more than anything else in the world.  As much as those whoopins hurt, she finds it kind of a turn on to watch her older sister get her bottom worn out with dad’s belt.  Whenever she hears her dad tearing her sister’s bottom up, she does everything she can to find a way to watch.

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Spying on her big sister getting her bottom worn out with dad’s belt

All pictures and animations come from the very serious punishment spanking videos in the member’s area of Realspankings.com

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The importance of a sore bottom

Far too often when an older teenage girl is punished by one of her parents, they overlooked one of the most important aspects of a spanking…the sore bottom.  Even more importantly, they overlook making sure that the “sit spot” is a sore as possible.  Many parents just get caught up in the act of spanking, which is often just a way for them to express their anger, and they do not do their best to make sure that long term learning is taking place.  They end up just spanking away, with little regard to accuracy, or even a solid plan as to how they are spanking.  Yes, it may indeed end in tears as a hard spanking does indeed sting, but more often than not, just a few minutes after the spanking is over, the naughty girl is left with only a warm bottom.

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He cares enough to make sure that her bottom is bruised during her spanking.

Now a parent who is not just releasing their anger regarding their daughter’s behavior will take the time to do the job properly.  It will not be a hurried process and each and every swat will be well measured and will serve a purpose.  The bare bottom paddling above is a perfect example of a father willing to take the time to administer a punishment that will serve her interests in the long run.  Clearly he has paddled her entire bottom and just the top of her thighs.  This allows for as much sting to cover as large of an area as possible. and when done properly, will take a couple of minutes to accomplish.  This allows her to really learn her lesson over the course of her paddling and to also get the tears flowing.  But it is clear that this father really cares about his daughter, as he is taking the extra time at the end to properly bruise the part of her teen bottom that touches the chair when she sits down.  He is not just haphazardly paddling anywhere, he is finishing up with very focused swats in the same spots.  While her whole entire backside is glowing and a little bruised, he is putting in the extra care and effort to assure that sitting will not be the most pleasant task, for at least a couple of days.  He is making sure that her bottom will be sending a message to her brain, regarding her behavior, to assure that adjustments will be taking place.

This very intense bare bottom paddling video comes from the member’s area of RealspankingsInstitute.com.
 

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Watching his big sister getting spanked by dad

For many little brothers out there, there is no bigger joy than seeing their older sister get spanked.  Even if they too end up on the receiving end of mom or dad’s paddle or belt on occasion, when it is time for their sister to get it, it is pure happiness.   Imagine the 12 year old boy that is constantly being hassled by his 17 year old sister, and she tells him what a baby he is, or how immature he acts.  She will not let him hang out with her or her friends because they are “adults” in her eyes.  But what those friends of hers do not know is that when she misbehaves, she is punished the same way she has always been, with a bare bottom spanking.

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Watching his older sister get a bare bottom paddling from dad.

There are very few ways that he has to get back at his sister for the torment she puts him through, but getting to see her get a spanking ranks high on the list.  Anytime that one of his parents is talking to his sister, and voices start to rise, he perks right up to see where it may be leading.  The best situation for him is when he begins to hear his sister raise her voice back, as this is always the quickest path to a spanking in this house.  There is no excuse for backtalk as far as their parents are concerned, and it generally always leads to a sore bottom.  But his sister has a temper, something that gets her into trouble far too often and sometimes she just can’t help but to yell at her parents.  When that yelling begins, it is often hard for him to hide the smile on his face.

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He just loves to watch her teenage bottom turn black and blue as their dad tears her poor butt up with the heavy wooden paddle.

The most common way that he gets to see his sister get spanked is a quick and spontaneous spanking from their mom.  When mom gets pissed she just grabs whatever is closest and starts smacking his sister on her bottom, but over her clothing.  These are just quick reminder type spankings and are a pretty common occurrence.  While it is still a spanking and one that he gets to see quite often, it does not bring him quite as much joy as when she is really in trouble and sent to her room for a spanking.  This typically means that she is really in for it, and that typically means a visit from dad with the paddle.  Nothing makes him happier than to hear “you get your ass into your bedroom, dad will be in in a bit to wear that bottom out”.

He does not get to see this play out too often, but with his room being next to hers, he certainly gets to hear it each and every time.  There are the rare occasions in which the door is left open just far enough, and he bends her over in a manner that it can be viewed from the door.  He just loves to see his “adult” sister having to bare her bottom like a little girl and bend over the bed.  He loves to hear her wine and cry about how much it is going to hurt before it even gets started.  And while it is indeed his sister, the fact that he gets to see a teenage girl’s bare bottom adds a little thrill to the whole thing.  He knows from his own experience on the receiving end of dad’s paddle how much it hurts, but it seems that his sister gets it even harder than he does.

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It is clear that she will not be sitting on that bruised butt anytime soon.

But for him the very best part is simply watching her bottom change from white, to red, to purple and to get to listen to her crying.  She often teases him hard enough to bring him to tears so it is nice to see her in the same situation.  She tries to pretend that she is this big tough girl, but the tears start as soon as the first swat lands.  After just a few swats she is bawling like a little baby and just keeps carrying on throughout.  She always has trouble holding still, which always results in dad to paddle her bare bottom even longer.  For a paddling in the bedroom, it never ends until her whole entire bottom is bruised and swollen.  Eventually it will finally stop and their dad will just leave her room.  Once dad is gone and the coast is clear he will try to sneak a final peek at her bruised butt, if the door is still cracked, and listen to her still crying on her bed.

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The results of a hard bare bottom paddling from dad.

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Severe corporal punishment spanking with a hairbrush for a permanent change of behavior

Anyone who has ever been spanked at any age will typically be able to name the worst spanking they ever experienced.  For most, spankings were something that only happened at a very young age and typically only involved a few swats with a hand to their bottoms.  Handspanking is the most common way to get spanked at an early age, and for many, they never experienced an implement of any sorts.  But even for those that were only handspanked, they can probably still recall that one spanking that stood out more than the rest.

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A heavy wooden hairbrush is always an effective implement for a hard spanking.

For those that grew up in a strict household in which corporal punishment was the primary, if not the only form of punishment, there is a good chance that as they grew older, they graduated to something other than just a handspanking from mom or dad.  There are those parents out there that have the one implement that they always use, typically a belt or a wooden spoon, and there are also those parents that will spank with whatever is closest at the time.  Kids in these households had the unique experience of being spanked with belts, switches, hangers, paddles, brushes, electric cords, and whatever else mom or dad could manage to find to get the job done.  There is no doubt that all of these kids can tell you not only what their worst spanking was, what it was for, but can give great detail as to the implement they were spanked with.

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The results from this hairbrush spanking is something this teen girl will never forget,

I think in the grand scope of spanking implements, used over the generations to teach a proper lesson to a child or a teen, there is one that stands out as the granddaddy of all spanking implements, and that would be the hairbrush.  We are not talking about a cheap plastic brush that is sitting on your counter right now, or even the wooden hairbrushes that you can buy in stores today, we are talking about the get to the point, tears instantly, bruise your butt in a second, antique wooden hairbrush.

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With a proper antique hairbrush, results are achieved instantly.

This type of implement, while not as popular today, was certainly the go to item for moms of the 1950’s. This was a time when spanking was more the norm than any other form of punishment, and those moms remembered not only how it felt to feel the brush, but how well it changed their behavior instantly.  In many cases, these moms used the very same brush on their daughters that they felt themselves.

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A big and heavy brush is always better when tending to a teen girl’s bottom.

These were not the days of a couple of smacks as a warning for future behavior, these were the days of “spare the rod and spoil the child”.  A spanking was not a brief encounter; it was an event between a mother and her son or daughter, or both.  Kids and teens were sent to their rooms to wait, knowing that they would be getting the brush.  When the brush was involved, there was no doubt what the hardest spanking they ever received was, it was the one that was about to take place.  These were the days when as kids grew into teens, the spankings did not go away; they just became more severe as they should know better at that age.

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50 ago, a bruised bottom from a spanking was not a problem, it was expected.

It was also very common in those days for kids to get in trouble together, and as a result, end up getting spanked together.  This might not always mean spanked in the same room, but certainly each sent to their own rooms to wait out their fate.  There would be the sounds of footsteps down the hall, as they wonder which room mom is going to start in.  There is a little relief when her sister’s door opens, but sometimes going second is worse.  She then hears the sounds of mom and sister, walking together down the hall to their parent’s bedroom.  She is able to visualize in her mind what is happening, as she has been through it before.  Mom pulls out the little stool from her dressing table and opens the drawer where the brush is stored.  It is a giant wooden brush, like they have not made in 40 years, with half of the bristles missing.  It is at least an inch thick and it has not seen a head of hair since it was used on their mom’s bottom 30 years before.  She knows that the silence she is currently hearing is the process of a dress going up and panties going down, as she can picture her sister going over mom’s knee at that very moment.

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Mom wears her bottom out with the brush while her sister listens and waits for her turn over mom’s knee.

Even from down the hall through at least one closed door, it sounds like fireworks going off.  While she never really has a problem with her sister getting spanked, it is never easy when she knows that she is next.  It only takes a few pops of the fireworks before her sister’s pleading and crying begin, and they will not be ending anytime soon.  She tries not to count because she knows that she will receive a similar amount.  There is no change in the sound or the rhythm as mom always gives it her very best.  She knows her mom is not worried about school counselors, or social services, as in those days, everyone got spanked.  A teen girl with a bruised bottom, changing at school, is not an abused girl, she is simply a girl who got in trouble and received what she deserved.

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Hard swats with a wooden hairbrush, to a teen girl’s bottom, always changes attitudes and behavior.

It is a full two minutes later before the sounds from down the hall stop, and then all she can hear is the crying.  It is not a gentle sobbing; it is the sound of a young lady whose bottom is currently on fire and throbbing with every beat of her heart.  It is also not a sound that fades anytime soon.  She hears the crying grow louder as her sister walks down the hall and returns to her own room.  Now with only one wall between her and the punished girl, the crying seems even louder.  She knows from her own experience that the crying will not stop anytime soon.  She hears it become a little more muffled, as it is clear that  her sister has now buried her face in her covers, lying on her bed (face down of course), and really starts to let it all go.  As much effort as her mom puts into any given spanking, she knows it will be several minutes before it is her turn to go over mom’s knee, as she will want to rest up before starting the process again.

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Hairbrush+tiny teen bare butt= education.

It is not simply limited to the teens of the 50’s that know what a good bare bottom spanking with a brush is like, as in some strict households the tradition still continues to this day.  In many cases, it is the same brush that was used on their grandmother that just keeps getting handed down.  While the bristles will not last forever, a brush like that never really loses its effectiveness.  For some moms, they have gone out of their way to find a brush like the one their mom used on them.  It might be a good find at an antique store, or the perfect wooden bath brush found online.  Regardless of what they use, you can be assured that did their best to find something that is as effective as what they felt growing up.  The main benefit of such a brush is that it is heavy enough and thick enough, that any mom can achieve equal results with it.

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Making some progress but still a long way to go for this naughty girl.

Consider the petite mom with a 17 year old daughter that has been spanked her entire life.  A mom without much arm strength is going to get nowhere using just her hand.  Even a heavy belt requires some skill in getting the right swing in, but such in not the case with a hairbrush.  A spanking with a wooden brush is the exact same as a spanking administered with the hand, there is simply an object that helps apply the spanking with some force.  A hairbrush is the great equalizer and allows any mom to get exactly the results that she is looking for.  Yes, maybe a smaller mom might need to apply it a few more times, but the end result will be the same.

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It does not take much work from mom to properly discipline her daughter with the brush.

Obviously, a hairbrush will always work the best when used on a girl’s bare bottom, but that does not always have to be the case.  It can be used with enough force that it will get the job done regardless of the state of dress.  A hairbrush is the perfect implement because it achieves many things so with so little effort.  First of all, when applied to bare skin…well very few things burn more.  It provides the kind of sting that really can change behavior, in such a short time.  But the major benefit is that along with the sting, with each and every smack, it creates a bruise.  Each swat will provide the young lady with a nice little bull’s eye on her little bottom.  With her in the proper position, in which over the knee is ideal for a hairbrush spanking; her bottom will be bent just perfectly.  With her bent over, the muscles of her bottom will all be pressed to the surface and it will also pull her skin tight.  Even a young lady with a little extra cushion on her bottom will not be safe from the pain of a hairbrush spanking.

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It is easy to track the progress of the spanking as each swat leaves a small bruise.

Each swat with the heavy wooden brush will land in a very specific spot.  With a large wooden paddle, a much larger area is covered, but it also tends to diffuse the impact a little.  In addition, with a big paddle, all of the swats tend to hit in close to the same spot.  But with a brush and a bare bottom, mom is able to really cover all parts of the bottom while still avoiding the tailbone.  All of the glut muscles are able to be targeted, thus assuring that there is no part of her bottom that will not feel long lasting soreness.  Another problem with a wooden paddle, while it is able to achieve long term soreness as a result of repeated swats to the same spot, this tends to create numbness quickly.  By spreading the swats around the bottom before repeating any single swat, no real numbness occurs.  This allows for maximum benefit during the spanking itself, assuring that she feels as much as possible for as long as possible.

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Her bottom will be black and blue before mom is finished, but this spanking is well deserved.

Eventually all areas that can be covered, will be covered and any further punishment will mostly be for long term benefit as her bottom will start to go numb and the overall spanking will be easier to tolerate.  A mom who is able to provide the most effective spanking will begin to focus on the areas of her daughter’s bottom that are most likely to touch a seat when she sits down.  With the brush she is able to really focus on the very bottom of her butt cheeks and the very top of the thighs.  After just a few repeated swats to the exact same spot, full on numbness is likely, but this part of the spanking is not for the moment, it is for a few days from now.  This is where the real educations begins and is likely to be a big influence on her behavior, not just in the coming days and weeks, but in the coming months and years.

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Dad spanks her tiny teen bottom hard, compressing the skin, and making sure that she feels this punishment for days.

Remember, we are talking about the spanking of her life, one that she will never forget.  It might seem that mom is being far too strict and borderline abusive, but we are talking about issues that deal with drugs, alcohol, cigarettes, breaking the law, or something that put herself of someone else in danger.  This is not some basic spanking for forgetting to do chores or homework; this is a spanking that is intended to completely eliminate undesirable behavior.  Her mom is able to continue to spank her bare bottom until it is black and blue because she knows how well it worked on her, for that moment in her own life, when she made the poorest of judgment calls.  She is also confident that in 30 years, when her daughter’s own 16 year old daughter, comes home from “a night at the mall with friends”, reeking of alcohol and stumbling in the door, that the same brush she just used will be put to good use.

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