Step 1 (The Sentence)
Mom sits down with her 18 year old daughter and explains to her that there are still very real consequences for her actions. Borrowing mom’s car without asking and coming back late are totally inexcusable offenses, ones that have to be dealt with. 18 or not, some situations simply call for the use of corporal punishment. Yes she will be grounded, and she will lose access to the car for quite some time, but to make sure she fully appreciates the seriousness of the situation, her bottom will need a little work.
Step 2 (The Wait)
Send young lady to her room and allow her to have just enough time to contemplate what is about to happen. She is given time to anticipate how much a few minutes with the belt from mom can really hurt. It does not matter that she has been getting the belt for many years now; it really never gets any easier to endure. She knows her pants will come down and she knows her mom will not stop until the task has been efficiently completed, which for her means tears and a well-worn out bottom.
Step 3 (Preparing the Bottom)
Mom comes to the room and offers a final few words of encouragement and then tells her daughter to pull down her pants and bend over the bed. Arguing serves no purpose; she stopped trying that many years ago. All she can do now is present her butt as told, try to stay as still as possible during the strapping, and just hope that the tears come fast as it will certainly never end until that happens.
Step 4 (The Learning) With a belt of sufficient size and weight mom gets right to work. The spanking is applied very enthusiastically, but calmly. The lecture and discussion are already over; there is no point in letting words interfere with the learning process. The focus now is on accurate and hard strokes, with the purpose of this point of the process, to produce pain to her daughter’s ass. The emphasis should not be on how many strokes she receives, or how long the punishment lasts, but her daughter’s reaction to the punishment. The 1st phase will involve her grunting and trying to fight through it, which means there is still much work to do. The next phase will be the beginning of tears and her body fighting hard, with lots of physical reactions to the strapping, which means there is still much work to do. At some point during phase three, the tears will turn into heavy crying and her body will begin to relax a little, accepting her punishment a little better, which means they are close to the end. Phase four will involve a final flurry of strokes to assure a long tern lesson has been learned.
So very much of what we watch online regarding spanking videos tends to stray pretty far from reality. As with the post below, I wanted to explore what really happens behind closed doors when an angry mom decides that her teen daughter needs a spanking. I think the audio recording of very real strapping, below, demonstrates what typically takes place. We start off with a mom, trying to maintain her composure, but has decided that her daughter needs to be spanked. In this case, the young lady was suspended from school but decided not to tell her mom that was the case. She gets dressed like any other morning, like she is going to go to school, but before she is able to get out the door, her mom sees the notice from school that her daughter was suspended. At this point she is dealing with two separate issues, that of her daughter being in trouble at school, and then her trying to cover it up. She is understandably upset, so for this spanking she requires her daughter to pull down her pants and panties and lay over the bed. There is no stripping naked which is common is many spanking videos, she is not required to bend over and grab her ankles, her mom simply has her lay down in a position that allows her to strap her bare butt. There is not a lot of delay and her mom gets right to it with the belt. You can tell from the sound of the strokes that it is a hard strapping from the very beginning and the girl clearly reacts. She does not hold perfectly still and has to be reminded a couple of times by her mom to get her hands and feet out of the way. From a strapping of this intensity that is perfectly natural as it would be hard to hold still. Her mom lectures her throughout the strapping but does not do the goofy punctuating each word with each stroke. She is clearly pissed and what she is telling her daughter is seems perfectly reasonable.
What I think is most important about listening to this strapping is how hard it is, how the girl reacts, and how long it lasts. From the very first stroke the girl has a verbal reaction. From the sound of the leather belt on her bare ass, it seems like a very reasonable reaction. But after just ten strokes, the little grunts of pain, quickly transition, to very real tears. A proper spanking of a teen girl, from an angry mom with a heavy leather belt really does not take that long to get the desired results. Unlike the world of spanking videos in which you rarely see tears or hear real crying, or when you do get to tears the spanking stops, when this girl begins to cry her mom just keeps spanking harder. I think this is pretty common when a mom spanks her teen daughter, she is not just looking for a few tears, she wants to see actual crying. But this girl just keeps crying harder, and you can hear her start to become breathless, with long pauses in the crying as she gasps for air. But we don’t just get the little yelps of pain and then crying, as it intensifies, it leads to full on bawling like a baby. When the mom finally does stop after just over 30 strokes with the belt, the crying does not stop. This is because this is a real punishment, her butt is on fire, and the pain will continue to bother her for quite some time. Based on what we know about the infraction, the overall punishment seems fair to me. A teenage girl getting in trouble at school, enough so that she is hiding it from her parents, and then trying to just pretend to go to school, I think a belt to her bare bottom, even as a high school aged girl is fair. The strapping was done forcefully, but there was nothing in it that made it sound abusive. The mother was angry, but controlled her temper, and while mad, she did not really talk down to her daughter or treat her disrespectfully. I do not think it really should be measured by the amount of strokes, as it takes different amounts for different girls. It should be measured my the results and I think that it was taken to the place required for learning to take place. She did not just suck it up and grunt her way through it, she was clearly in pain. Her bottom was blistered long enough and hard enough to get her crying like a little girl in trouble, which should always be the goal of any spanking. Well deserved, the proper punishment for the infraction, and the right amount of pain to teach a long term lesson. A job well done.
Probably the most used implement for blistering a young lady’s bottom is dad’s leather belt. This mostly has to do with availability and effectiveness. Just about every home in the US has a men’s leather belt in it. It might be as simple as a thin little dress belt for the white collar father’s suit, or for the less fortunate daughters in the country, a very heavy Western style belt. While thicker and wider belts are clearly the most effective, just about any belt is enough to get the job done, especially when applied to a young lady’s bare bottom.
A belt is not always as effective as a paddle in creating long term discomfort, as it does not tend leave as deep and long lasting bruising. However, when it comes to simply setting a teen girl’s bottom on fire, it has very few equals. A hard paddling tends to quickly numb a girl’s bottom, and while her bottom might be sore for days, some of the effectiveness of the overall lesson decreases during the paddling. But with a belt, she will feel the burning to her bottom from the beginning to the end, without her bottom ever becoming numb.
A heavy belt can still be quite effective when applied over clothing, allowing a parent the ability to apply a spontaneous strapping, regardless of the situation or who is present. The belt is also quite convenient as most parents do not go throughout their day carrying a paddle with them, but a belt is always within reach. For those times when a spanking just cannot wait until they get home, the belt allows a dad to find a semi private spot and to blister his daughter’s bottom on the spot.
The belt is indeed most effective when applied to a teen girl’s bare bottom, as the more sting that she feels, the better the chance of her learning. A belt is really one of the best implements for using for a hard bare bottom punishment, as it does very little damage to the skin and simply provides as much sting as required. With a paddle, a young lady’s bottom may be completely worn out, with fear of the skin breaking after as few as a dozen swats, but with the belt, a much longer spanking can indeed take place. There are those times that a spanking may need to last five minutes or longer, to assure a lesson is learned, and with a belt there really is no limit as to the number of strokes that can be applied. This really allows the severity to be easily scaled to fit any situation. If she just needs a quick strapping to get her attention for some minor infraction, then a quick dozen will get her attention. But on those occasions when maximum severity is required, her bare bottom can just be strapped until it is clear the job is done.
Consider the girl below and the ongoing issue her dad has with her cell phone. She has the latest and greatest smart phone, which he pays for, and it seems she is always on it, texting or talking, 24 hours a day. However, when he tries to get a hold of her, she never seems to be around to answer it, or respond to his texts to her. She always blames it on a dead battery or something else, so he bought her chargers for her car, her room, and whenever else she needs them. She also has the annoying habit of stealing his charger, which he can never find as a result. Finally one day he had enough, after not being able to get a hold of her for more than five hours. When he came home from work, he saw that not only was her phone working, but she was actively using it as he walked in the door. He does not care that she is now 18, or that she has not been spanked in a couple of years, as on this day she has earned herself the spanking of her life. The ottoman is pulled to the middle of the room, she is made to drop her pants and panties to her ankles, and he gets to work with the belt. There is no set number of strokes she is to receive, or a set time period that he is going to blister her bottom. Instead, he straps her bare bottom with his heavy belt until he is fully convinced that the cell phone issues will never occur again. It is not a quick process and he continues until her bottom is black and blue and the tears are flowing as hard as they ever have from a spanking. On this day, the not only punished her for her behavior, it corrects all future instances of it occurring again.
There are also some girls that a belt to their bottom is just a fact of life and it happens as often as it is required. The young lady below made the mistake of making a bit of a smart remark to her parents while at the dinner table. There is no anger, there is no yelling, and her mom just tells her that she will get a session with the belt before she goes to bed. The rest of the evening goes just as any other evening would. Chores are taken care of, homework is completed, and they even watch a little TV as a family, without another word being said about the previous incident. The girl heads to her room to get ready for bed, changes into her pajamas, brushes her teeth, and does a little reading before her bedtime. Before her bedtime her mom comes to her room with the belt and has her bare her bottom and roll over on the bed and lay over her pillow. It was a small offense, but this mom has a zero tolerance policy, so she gives her daughter’s bottom the blistering it requires.
There are some parents, just out of courtesy and to allow their daughters a little modesty, that never spank on the bare bottom. This does make the job of properly punishing a naughty teen girl a little more difficult with a belt. But with the proper belt selection and a little more work, the job can indeed be done in an effective manner. The dad below has a special belt that he uses only for spanking his daughter and it is one that works well even over her jeans and panties. As you can see, he does not just swing the belt with his arm, but rather he puts his whole entire body behind each and every swing. Her lack of movement is not a result of her not experiencing intense pain, she simply knows from experience that if she moves even a little bit out of position, that he will add another ten strokes. She wants this to be over as soon as possible, so she complies to the best of her ability.
The girl below is one that lives in a household in which mom sentences the punishments, but dad carries them out. When she finds herself in trouble with her mom, she has to wait until dad gets home to find out exactly how bad her whuppin is going to be. She will have to sit and listen as her parents discuss her behavior, with her rarely having a say at all in the conversation. Eventually her mom will basically order a spanking and tell her dad exactly how bad it should be. It can vary from “you need to teach her a bit of a lesson” to “I believe she needs the whuppin of her life”. There are times when her dad barely even knows what she did wrong, but he trusts his wife’s judgment and always gives exactly what was sentenced. The next step is for her to go into her dad’s study, bare her bottom, and bend over and place her hands on the wall. Her tight little teen butt will then get anywhere from 20 to 50 strokes with her dad’s heavy belt, and she will be in tears after just a few.
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One of the most essential parts of a proper spanking for a teenage girl by her parents is her presenting her bottom to be spanked. She is no longer a little girl and no one should have to hold her in place for her spanking. The spanking is being given to her for her own good, it is for her benefit, so there is no reason that she should not be required to cooperate for the duration of her punishment. But more importantly, she needs to willingly present her bottom to be spanked. A parent should not be required to raise their voice, or threaten additional spanking; it should be as simple as her being told to bare her bottom, and for her to assume the position that is required. This is such an important part of the process as it demonstrates that she is willingly accepting the consequences that her behavior created. She should realize that her actions were inappropriate and she should also realize that it is her parent’s job to make sure that the appropriate punishment is given for her actions. This is her spanking, she earned it, and she should see to it that she assists in any way possible. By lowering her pants and panties and bending over, presenting her bottom to be punished, she is indeed acknowledging that she is in the wrong. As much as she knows how much it is going to hurt, she makes her bottom available for whatever her parent feels will be the most effective in teaching her a lesson.
It is not an easy task for a 16-18 year old girl to present her bottom for a spanking. She probably feels that she is too old, at this age, to even be spanked in the first place. Not since she was a little girl was anyone allowed to see any part of her body without clothes. She does not want her mom or dad to see her naked below the waist. The act of presenting her bottom is highly embarrassing, but does further establish to her that her parents are still in charge. Not only can they require her to lower her pants and panties, they can also require her to place her bare bottom in the very best position that will allow them to apply as much pain as possible to it.
Take for instance the girl below. Her parents have been quite unhappy with her behavior for several weeks and they have finally had enough. Her actions on this day were the final straw and both parents agree that it is time that she gets a hard, bare bottom strapping, from dad’s belt. It is clear from the look on her face that she is not at all thrilled by this idea, but deep down inside, she knows she deserves it. She is not sent to her room, her strapping is not going to take place in private, she is going to get it right there in the kitchen, and mom is also going to watch the whole thing. The last thing in the world she wants is to bare her bottom, grab her ankles, and let her dad strap her until she cries, but that is exactly what she is doing. Her behavior requires her bottom to be in the air waiting for pain to be liberally applied to it.
In the next photo we have a family meeting in progress. The parents sit down with both of their daughters and are discussing recent behavior that has become a very real issue. One sister is lucky and gets off with just a warning, as her behavior does not require a spanking at the moment, but the other sister is not so lucky. Her mom is completely fed up and not only decides that she needs to be spanked, but it needs to happen at this very moment. She also feels it will be good for her other daughter to be present, to watch the entire spanking, as it will serve as a good warning to her as to what will happen if she does not get her act together soon. Mom goes and grabs the largest wooden spoon she own and then the next step takes place, the presenting of the bottom. Her mom tells her to bare her butt and to bend over the arm of the couch for her spanking. She pulls her jeans down as requested, but she is hesitant to pull down her panties with her sister and dad present. With the big spoon in her hand, her mom only has to give her a bit of a look and a gesture with the spoon and the panties go right down. While reluctant to do so, she bends over the arm of the couch and presents her bottom for what she knows will be a long and hard session with the spoon. She knows that her bottom will be black and blue when mom is done with her, but she submits as she knows she deserves it.
During the next family meeting the other sister is not so lucky, as over the course of this conversation it becomes clear to both of the sisters that this is not going to end well. What makes it even more difficult this time, it that dad will be doing the spanking. A session with the spoon from their mom is never easy to endure, but when their mom starts talking about dad’s belt, they know they are really in for it. Mom is the primary disciplinarian, so when she gets dad involved with the spanking, she only does so when she wants their bottoms tore up like there is no tomorrow. The conversation eventually leads to where they know it will and mom is done with the lecture. She tells her oldest daughter to stand up, turn around, and to bare her bottom. As hard as it is to present their bottoms for a spanking with the spoon from mom, it is much harder to do so for dad’s belt. The only thing worse than having to present their bare bottoms, are the consequences for not doing so, so both girls comply with mom’s request. The oldest sister steps into the middle of the room, unsnaps her jeans, and lowers them and her panties to her knees. She then bends over and places her hands on her knees and presents her tiny little teen bottom for the lesson it deserves. Over the next ten minutes, both sisters have their bottoms thoroughly blistered until mom thinks that they both have had enough.
But if you think it is hard for the teen girl to properly present her bottom to be spanked with a wooden spoon or a belt, you can only imagine how hard it is for the two cousins below. They are the very best of friends and often stay at each other’s houses. Their dads both grew up in the same home, one in which corporal punishment was utilized often, and as a result, neither girl is a stranger to get her bottom spanked. While not all the common, when the moment requires it, both girls have also been spanked by their uncles. On this particular night, after a day of shopping at the mall, in which they both bought goofy matching pajamas, they decided to have themselves a bit of a slumber party, where they managed to stay up a little too late and make a little too much noise. After several warnings from Abby’s dad, he finally had enough of their disrespect and disregard of his warnings. They both knew from experience that there were very few things that hurt as much as a hard paddling from Abby’s dad and on this particular evening, he was going to make sure that they did not need another spanking for a very long time.
They never considered when they bought their silly little drop seat pajamas that day, that they would prove to be more than useful for a good old fashioned paddling. He had them both open the backs of their pajamas and put them in corner time, with their bare bottoms on display, while he went and got his wooden paddle from Abby’s bedroom. When it came time for her paddling, it was quite difficult for Abby to present her bare butt for her punishment. She knew from experience that that paddle was brutal, even over jeans, and the thought of it on her bare bottom was not a pleasant one. Her cousin was left in corner time as Abby was told to bend over and to present her bottom. She stepped away from the wall, moved in front of the TV in which they had been playing video games on, and reluctantly presented her bare bottom, sticking out of her new pajamas. She reached down and grabbed her knees, knowing exactly what was coming next. It was hard to leave her bottom there, in the perfect position for him to paddle her until she was black and blue. He never spanked her until she was pink, and as she sat there with her bottom ready to be disciplined, she considered how bad it was going to hurt to sit down for the next week. As her dad got started, properly bruising her well-presented bottom, her cousin could only listen, knowing that her little butt was next.
There are also those parents that are in no hurry to begin the punishment once their daughter’s bottom is properly presented for a good spanking. The dad below is clearly one who believes this is the most effective way to handle things. After he sends her to get the paddle, she is required to bare her bottom, lie over the arm of the couch, and present her bottom to be paddled. But he wants her to have time to consider not only what she has done, but what exactly is going to happen as a result. He is in no hurry at all and prefers to watch the rest of the show on TV before getting around to paddling her teen ass. Her bare bottom is simply there, in the perfect position for him to teach her a lesson, but has to wait in anticipation for it to happen. Her whole world at the moment is all about her bare bottom simply waiting to be paddled. She is able to see the paddle next to him and all she can think about is how much it hurts. She considered how many she will get, how long she will be able to hold out until she cries, and for how many days she will be sore. She wants to run away, but she cannot, all she can do is wait, with her bottom properly presented for the spanking she has earned and very much deserves.
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There are many parents that utilize spanking, as the primary means to punish their daughters, as long as they still live at home. Teen girls as old as 19 years of age, may still finding themselves baring their bottoms for some good old fashioned corporal punishment from mom or dad. But the application of corporal punishment is not always limited to the physical punishment of a teen girl’s bottom.
Traditionally, corporal punishment is applied to a girl’s bottom. It is the ideal location on her body to be physically punished as it is properly padded, which allows a punishment to be applied liberally, without the fear of causing any damage. A teen girl’s butt is able to withstand a severe spanking and it also allows for the use of whatever implement is required. She may only need a quick handspanking as a reminder to behave, or the situation might call for a long session with dad’s heavy wooden paddle, which leaves her bottom bruised. The physical punishment of a daughter’s bottom can also be easily varied as a result of the fact that she typically wears both panties and pants. Once an implement is chosen for her punishment, it can be applied over all of her layers, only her panties, or to her bare bottom.
Beyond the benefits of her bottom being ideally suited to accepting hard physical discipline, there are additional advantages of the bottom being the primary focus of corporal punishment. A teen girl’s bottom is a fairly intimate part of her body that typically no one has access to. A parent being able to demand that she not only present her bottom to be spanked, but in many cases bare
her bottom, demonstrates control. It shows the teen girl, that no matter how old that she feels that she is, that her parents are still fully in charge or her. That spot on her body that no one is allowed to see or touch, can not only be seen and touched, but it will be touched in such a way that it becomes quite sore. The bottom is also ideal for physical discipline because when sore, it serves as a long term learning tool. There are many parts of the body that can become sore, and it is quite easy for her just to put it out of her mind. But a properly punished bottom is hard for her to forget about as it is involved in so many body movements. The reality is, most people spend the majority of their day sitting down and there is simply no way to avoid this. Whether the recently punished girl is at work or at school, there is no ignoring her bruised butt after a spanking. For the majority of her day, and even while sleeping at night, she will be reminded of her behavior and the corporal punishment she received as a result.
Corporal punishment defined is “punishment applied to the body of an offender”, which means that it is not always to a young lady’s bottom. Many parents are quite creative in their use of corporal punishment and that punishment can go well beyond the spanking of a girl’s bottom. One of the additional areas on a girl’s body that a parent may include, or even make the primary focus, is the backs of a teen girl’s thighs. Traditionally, a good session with a switch would often include a girl’s thighs. This was especially prevalent in the Victorian days, in which proper young ladies would wear dresses on a regular basis. A parent that wanted to apply a switching to bare skin, but still allow a young lady to retain her modesty, would simply have her raise her dress far enough to expose the backs of her legs. The entire punishment with the switch would then be applied to only the backs of her thighs. This all by itself can be quite a severe punishment and certainly has helped many young ladies learn a proper lesson. This type of punishment is not limited to the good old days, and there are still many young ladies throughout the world that are sent for a switch on a regular basis.
The inclusion of the thighs for corporal punishment is not limited to the use of the switch by any means. Many parents choose to include the thighs during a spanking as an additional deterrent during a spanking. When a young lady is having trouble holding still during her spanking, many moms and dads will move the spanking to her thighs. Being that the thighs have far less paddling than her bottom, a belt to the thighs hurts much more than to her bottom. She quickly, and painfully, learns that it is much better to hold still and cooperate during her spanking that it is to be punished on her thighs. It is her punishment, so she should be assisting is making it as effective as possible, but sometimes she needs to feel how bad it can really be before she decides to submit to what she has earned. A hard spanking of a teen girl’s thighs also has the tendency to leave very visible marks. During the summer months, this can serve as an additional punishment, as she will not be able to wear shorts or a bathing suit for a few days without her friends asking questions.
There are a couple of additional body parts that can be included in the application of corporal punishment, which most people do not think of. The first of these is a young lady’s knees. Obviously, no good parent would ever spank their daughter’s knees, as this would be dangerous and should never be considered, but when kneeling is included in corner time, discomfort to the knees can become an important addition to a punishment. Traditionally, the addition of corner time to a punishment allows the young lady who has just been spanked, some time for reflection on her behavior. It gives her some time in which all visual stimuli has been removed, so there are no distractions from her thoughts and her sore bottom. Some parents start with corner time, allowing a young lady to focus her thoughts on the anticipation of the punishment her bottom is about to receive. Another key part of corner time is the embarrassment factor. Corner time is most effective after a spanking when a young lady is required to leave her recently spanked bottom visible to anyone present. Many teen girls have had to listen to the snickers of their siblings while they stand in the corner with their bright red bottoms on display. Having to display any part of her naked body, is such a public manner, can add a lot to a punishment and helps to deter future bad behavior.
There are those situations in a young lady’s life in which the addition of corner time needs to be more than just embarrassing. With a little creativity, corner time by itself, can be considered effective corporal punishment. This is best accomplished as a result of position and time spent, and this is where the punishment of her knees comes into play. Simply standing in a corner can become tiresome at some point, but we are all capable of standing for hours at a time. The same holds true with kneeling, assuming that the surface that we are kneeling on is soft. Many parents choose to have their daughters kneel on a surface that is far from comfortable, which quickly increases the punishment factor of her corner time. A hard wood or tile floor is a good start for the parent looking to increase the discomfort of a corner time session. Even better in the grand scope of a corner time punishment is for the young lady to have to kneel on a brick of cement fireplace mantle. When kneeling, almost 95% of her weight will be on her knees, and when required to maintain this position for an hour, it becomes quite difficult to do. Some parents also require her to fold her hands behind her back, or to put her hands behind the back of her head. There is no doubt that when a teen girl has received a hard spanking and then is required to kneel on a fireplace mantle, with her hands behind her back, with her bare bottom on display for everyone present, for an hour, that this is effective corporal punishment that goes well beyond her bottom being spanked.
Another area of the teen girl’s body that can be physically punished with corporal punishment is her mouth. I am not talking about a mom slapping her daughter across the cheek, as I think that the striking of the face is a dangerous act. I am talking about the concept of washing the teen girl’s mouth out with soap. While a bar of soap in a girl’s mouth is not painful, it is still a physical punishment applied to a part of her body, and when done correctly, it is indeed a punishment. Most people go well out of their way to avoid foods that they do not like the taste of, and the taste of soap in the mouth, is definitely a taste that everyone would like to avoid. The process of washing her mouth out with soap also serves the purpose of punishing the exact part of her body that created the offense. There are really no situations in which a teen girl did something with her bottom, which required it to be what is punished, her bottom is simply the best location for applying physical punishment. But a teen girl’s mouth is so often the source of what gets her into trouble. She may be in trouble for lying, yelling, smoking, being disrespectful, and all of the other things that a teen girl’s mouth gets her into. It makes a lot of sense that the actual source of the problem be punished. This is not to say that a hard spanking should not accompany the mouth soaping, but for a girl that is used to getting her bottom spanked on a regular basis, 10 minutes with a bar of soap going in and out of her mouth, can only help in the learning process.
While a teen girl’s bottom will always be the best location for the application of corporal punishment from her parents, it is not the only part of her body that can receive discipline. For the creative parents, thighs, knees, and a teen girl’s mouth can also be very effective areas when applying corporal punishment and can help to better teach her the lesson that she has deserves.