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The importance of a sore bottom

Far too often when an older teenage girl is punished by one of her parents, they overlooked one of the most important aspects of a spanking…the sore bottom.  Even more importantly, they overlook making sure that the “sit spot” is a sore as possible.  Many parents just get caught up in the act of spanking, which is often just a way for them to express their anger, and they do not do their best to make sure that long term learning is taking place.  They end up just spanking away, with little regard to accuracy, or even a solid plan as to how they are spanking.  Yes, it may indeed end in tears as a hard spanking does indeed sting, but more often than not, just a few minutes after the spanking is over, the naughty girl is left with only a warm bottom.

bruised butt from dad's paddle

He cares enough to make sure that her bottom is bruised during her spanking.

Now a parent who is not just releasing their anger regarding their daughter’s behavior will take the time to do the job properly.  It will not be a hurried process and each and every swat will be well measured and will serve a purpose.  The bare bottom paddling above is a perfect example of a father willing to take the time to administer a punishment that will serve her interests in the long run.  Clearly he has paddled her entire bottom and just the top of her thighs.  This allows for as much sting to cover as large of an area as possible. and when done properly, will take a couple of minutes to accomplish.  This allows her to really learn her lesson over the course of her paddling and to also get the tears flowing.  But it is clear that this father really cares about his daughter, as he is taking the extra time at the end to properly bruise the part of her teen bottom that touches the chair when she sits down.  He is not just haphazardly paddling anywhere, he is finishing up with very focused swats in the same spots.  While her whole entire backside is glowing and a little bruised, he is putting in the extra care and effort to assure that sitting will not be the most pleasant task, for at least a couple of days.  He is making sure that her bottom will be sending a message to her brain, regarding her behavior, to assure that adjustments will be taking place.

This very intense bare bottom paddling video comes from the member’s area of RealspankingsInstitute.com.
 

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Watching his big sister getting spanked by dad

For many little brothers out there, there is no bigger joy than seeing their older sister get spanked.  Even if they too end up on the receiving end of mom or dad’s paddle or belt on occasion, when it is time for their sister to get it, it is pure happiness.   Imagine the 12 year old boy that is constantly being hassled by his 17 year old sister, and she tells him what a baby he is, or how immature he acts.  She will not let him hang out with her or her friends because they are “adults” in her eyes.  But what those friends of hers do not know is that when she misbehaves, she is punished the same way she has always been, with a bare bottom spanking.

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Watching his older sister get a bare bottom paddling from dad.

There are very few ways that he has to get back at his sister for the torment she puts him through, but getting to see her get a spanking ranks high on the list.  Anytime that one of his parents is talking to his sister, and voices start to rise, he perks right up to see where it may be leading.  The best situation for him is when he begins to hear his sister raise her voice back, as this is always the quickest path to a spanking in this house.  There is no excuse for backtalk as far as their parents are concerned, and it generally always leads to a sore bottom.  But his sister has a temper, something that gets her into trouble far too often and sometimes she just can’t help but to yell at her parents.  When that yelling begins, it is often hard for him to hide the smile on his face.

paddling from dad in her room

He just loves to watch her teenage bottom turn black and blue as their dad tears her poor butt up with the heavy wooden paddle.

The most common way that he gets to see his sister get spanked is a quick and spontaneous spanking from their mom.  When mom gets pissed she just grabs whatever is closest and starts smacking his sister on her bottom, but over her clothing.  These are just quick reminder type spankings and are a pretty common occurrence.  While it is still a spanking and one that he gets to see quite often, it does not bring him quite as much joy as when she is really in trouble and sent to her room for a spanking.  This typically means that she is really in for it, and that typically means a visit from dad with the paddle.  Nothing makes him happier than to hear “you get your ass into your bedroom, dad will be in in a bit to wear that bottom out”.

He does not get to see this play out too often, but with his room being next to hers, he certainly gets to hear it each and every time.  There are the rare occasions in which the door is left open just far enough, and he bends her over in a manner that it can be viewed from the door.  He just loves to see his “adult” sister having to bare her bottom like a little girl and bend over the bed.  He loves to hear her wine and cry about how much it is going to hurt before it even gets started.  And while it is indeed his sister, the fact that he gets to see a teenage girl’s bare bottom adds a little thrill to the whole thing.  He knows from his own experience on the receiving end of dad’s paddle how much it hurts, but it seems that his sister gets it even harder than he does.

bruised butt from dad's paddle

It is clear that she will not be sitting on that bruised butt anytime soon.

But for him the very best part is simply watching her bottom change from white, to red, to purple and to get to listen to her crying.  She often teases him hard enough to bring him to tears so it is nice to see her in the same situation.  She tries to pretend that she is this big tough girl, but the tears start as soon as the first swat lands.  After just a few swats she is bawling like a little baby and just keeps carrying on throughout.  She always has trouble holding still, which always results in dad to paddle her bare bottom even longer.  For a paddling in the bedroom, it never ends until her whole entire bottom is bruised and swollen.  Eventually it will finally stop and their dad will just leave her room.  Once dad is gone and the coast is clear he will try to sneak a final peek at her bruised butt, if the door is still cracked, and listen to her still crying on her bed.

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The results of a hard bare bottom paddling from dad.

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Waiting before receiving corporal punishment

Certainly there are many parents who discipline on the spot without any time spent allowing the young lady to think about what she did or what the results will be.  Yes this can indeed by quite effective as it allows for immediate negative reinforcement and allows her to associate the immediate pain she is feeling with the event that just occurred.  But in the long run, I do not think this is the most effective way to administer corporal punishment.

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Alone in her room, all she can think about is that corporal punishment will soon be applied to her poor bottom.

The process of spanking a naughty teen girl, in many cases, should be more of an overall event than just a painful experience.  By simply bending her over and immediately brining pain to her bottom, there are so many dynamics to the overall punishment experience that are lacking.  One of the most important parts of this process if the waiting and anticipation of the punishment. Regardless of how much trouble she is in and how hard the spanking will be, if she is given a little time to think about it, it will always become worse for her in her mind.  Parents around the world have different techniques for really taking advantage of this process in order to make the punishment more effective.

waiting for corporal punishment

She does not know when it will happen, or how it will happen, but left alone with her thoughts it always becomes much worse in her head.

The most common method is to send the young lady to her room and for her to be told that she will be spanked later.  There are no requirements as to what she can or cannot do in her room, she simply knows that at some point someone will be paying her bottom a visit.  This is best accomplished my not telling when someone will be visiting her, who it will be, or even what she will be spanked with.  She is just left waiting with her imagination running wild with the thoughts of how bad it will be.  She is able to run through a dozen scenarios as she considers if it will be mom or dad, on the bare or over clothes, will it be the paddle or the belt, what position will she assume, how long will it last, and how hard will she cry.

corporal punishment spanking from dad

She knows it will be from her dad, it will be on the bare, and he will be using the paddle…she just does not know when.

She will try her best to busy herself, play on her phone, or do a little homework, but the reality is, she can think of nothing but the punishment she is to receive.  There is really nothing she can do to clear her mind of the thought that at any moment, or in several hours, her bottom is going to be blistered.  She might get a few seconds of peace here and there but her mind is always brought right back to a jolt of reality that somehow involves corporal punishment and lots of tears.

teen girl paddled by dad corporal punishment

With her bottom bared and the paddle in front of her, all she can think about is how bruised her bottom is going to be.

Another common method used by parents is somewhat of a focused wait.  It is not quite the same as corner time; it is more a long moment of reflection.  In this case the young lady in trouble is sent to a specific location and told to just think about what she has done.  This is also often done with the implement to be used on her in her possession.  Many young ladies across this country have been sent to get the wooden spoon or hairbrush and then are just required to sit on their bed and wait.  In this case there is nothing to distract them and they are left alone with the implement that will be responsible for such great pain.  As much as they might try to not look at it, or even touch it, that becomes quite impossible and all they can think about is the last time it was used on them and how much it hurt.

teen girl belt corporal punishment from dad

Dad is in no hurry to tear her bottom up with the belt. He may make her wait 15 minutes as he finished his favorite TV show.

Even with an older teenage girl, corner time still has its place in the homes across the world.  Nothing makes a girl who is getting a little too big for her britches, realizes her age and immaturity and having her bare her bottom and stand in the corner before, and after, her spanking.  It demonstrates to her who is really still in charge and the authority they still have over her.  Bare bottom corner time not only adds the period of reflection, but it adds a very embarrassing element to the process.  The best versions of corner time are done in a somewhat public manner for this exact reason.  While standing with her nose in the corner and her bottom bared in her bedroom still allows for her imagination to run wild as to how she will be spanked, it is nowhere the same experience as waiting with her bottom bared while standing in the family room for all to see.

teen girl corner time corporal punishment

Even at the age of 18, when she requires corporal punishment and a little bare bottom corner time, she will receive it.

Another popular version of making a young lady wait to receive corporal punishment is for her to have to assume the position she is to be punished in.  This is made even more difficult for her if she is made to wait with her bottom bared.  A timeout in position leaves a little less to the imagination as she already knows what position she is to be spanked, and may indeed also know what she is going to be spanked with. But this really leaves her focused on one thing in particular…the pain her bottom will be feeling.  This can be done in the privacy of her room, or more effectively in full view of anyone present.

teen girl corporal punishment

Dad has sent her to the basement where all the corporal punishment is administered. She waits in position with the strap hung above her. She waits for her dad to come down and give her the strapping of her life.

When she is made to wait in position, this too can become a punishment itself if she is required to maintain it for any length of time.  It is not as easy as it sounds to bend over and grab your ankles for a considerable period of time.  She then finds herself finds herself in a bit of a metal struggle as she wants to be done with the position, but the only way that is going to happen involves crying her eyes out as dad stripes her bottom with his heavy leather belt.

In order to make the application of corporal punishment more of an event, and not just an experience, it is indeed important to utilize some manner in which a young lady is made to wait, and therefore anticipate, and fear the punishment to the fullest.

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