Waiting before receiving corporal punishment
Certainly there are many parents who discipline on the spot without any time spent allowing the young lady to think about what she did or what the results will be. Yes this can indeed by quite effective as it allows for immediate negative reinforcement and allows her to associate the immediate pain she is feeling with the event that just occurred. But in the long run, I do not think this is the most effective way to administer corporal punishment.
Alone in her room, all she can think about is that corporal punishment will soon be applied to her poor bottom.
The process of spanking a naughty teen girl, in many cases, should be more of an overall event than just a painful experience. By simply bending her over and immediately brining pain to her bottom, there are so many dynamics to the overall punishment experience that are lacking. One of the most important parts of this process if the waiting and anticipation of the punishment. Regardless of how much trouble she is in and how hard the spanking will be, if she is given a little time to think about it, it will always become worse for her in her mind. Parents around the world have different techniques for really taking advantage of this process in order to make the punishment more effective.
She does not know when it will happen, or how it will happen, but left alone with her thoughts it always becomes much worse in her head.
The most common method is to send the young lady to her room and for her to be told that she will be spanked later. There are no requirements as to what she can or cannot do in her room, she simply knows that at some point someone will be paying her bottom a visit. This is best accomplished my not telling when someone will be visiting her, who it will be, or even what she will be spanked with. She is just left waiting with her imagination running wild with the thoughts of how bad it will be. She is able to run through a dozen scenarios as she considers if it will be mom or dad, on the bare or over clothes, will it be the paddle or the belt, what position will she assume, how long will it last, and how hard will she cry.
She knows it will be from her dad, it will be on the bare, and he will be using the paddle…she just does not know when.
She will try her best to busy herself, play on her phone, or do a little homework, but the reality is, she can think of nothing but the punishment she is to receive. There is really nothing she can do to clear her mind of the thought that at any moment, or in several hours, her bottom is going to be blistered. She might get a few seconds of peace here and there but her mind is always brought right back to a jolt of reality that somehow involves corporal punishment and lots of tears.
With her bottom bared and the paddle in front of her, all she can think about is how bruised her bottom is going to be.
Another common method used by parents is somewhat of a focused wait. It is not quite the same as corner time; it is more a long moment of reflection. In this case the young lady in trouble is sent to a specific location and told to just think about what she has done. This is also often done with the implement to be used on her in her possession. Many young ladies across this country have been sent to get the wooden spoon or hairbrush and then are just required to sit on their bed and wait. In this case there is nothing to distract them and they are left alone with the implement that will be responsible for such great pain. As much as they might try to not look at it, or even touch it, that becomes quite impossible and all they can think about is the last time it was used on them and how much it hurt.
Dad is in no hurry to tear her bottom up with the belt. He may make her wait 15 minutes as he finished his favorite TV show.
Even with an older teenage girl, corner time still has its place in the homes across the world. Nothing makes a girl who is getting a little too big for her britches, realizes her age and immaturity and having her bare her bottom and stand in the corner before, and after, her spanking. It demonstrates to her who is really still in charge and the authority they still have over her. Bare bottom corner time not only adds the period of reflection, but it adds a very embarrassing element to the process. The best versions of corner time are done in a somewhat public manner for this exact reason. While standing with her nose in the corner and her bottom bared in her bedroom still allows for her imagination to run wild as to how she will be spanked, it is nowhere the same experience as waiting with her bottom bared while standing in the family room for all to see.
Even at the age of 18, when she requires corporal punishment and a little bare bottom corner time, she will receive it.
Another popular version of making a young lady wait to receive corporal punishment is for her to have to assume the position she is to be punished in. This is made even more difficult for her if she is made to wait with her bottom bared. A timeout in position leaves a little less to the imagination as she already knows what position she is to be spanked, and may indeed also know what she is going to be spanked with. But this really leaves her focused on one thing in particular…the pain her bottom will be feeling. This can be done in the privacy of her room, or more effectively in full view of anyone present.
Dad has sent her to the basement where all the corporal punishment is administered. She waits in position with the strap hung above her. She waits for her dad to come down and give her the strapping of her life.
When she is made to wait in position, this too can become a punishment itself if she is required to maintain it for any length of time. It is not as easy as it sounds to bend over and grab your ankles for a considerable period of time. She then finds herself finds herself in a bit of a metal struggle as she wants to be done with the position, but the only way that is going to happen involves crying her eyes out as dad stripes her bottom with his heavy leather belt.
In order to make the application of corporal punishment more of an event, and not just an experience, it is indeed important to utilize some manner in which a young lady is made to wait, and therefore anticipate, and fear the punishment to the fullest.
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