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Levels of severity when spanking the teenage daughter

In many homes throughout the country, when corporal punishment is required for a teen daughter, it is often administered exactly the same way, each and every time.  This is typically more common when a young’s lady’s dad is the disciplinarian.  Whether it is with a paddle or with his belt, dads tend to be pretty consistent in their approach.  A young lady in trouble with her dad knows that if she crosses the line, she may get 20 with dad’s belt.  He may spank a little harder on occasion but she pretty much knows what to expect every time she gets spanked.  While still somewhat effective, it is not quite the same as when a parent is willing to mix up the punishment, varying the intensity, the implement, and even the position.

This teen was spanked by her mom just enough to produce a pink bottom and a gentle reminder on how she needs to behave.

Typically it tends to be the moms out there who are more creative with how they apply corporal punishment.  Dads can often just rely on strength to get their point across, but not all moms have that same advantage.  I think the tendencies for moms to be more creative also come from their own upbringing.  For a current mom with a teenage daughter, a woman who grew up in the 50’s, corporal punishment was the norm in every household.  In those days the dads worked and the moms ran the household.  This was also the day and age when severe corporal punishment was not frowned upon.  This type of mom, as she was growing up, may find herself over her mom’s knee, getting a long and hard spanking with a wooden hairbrush, or out back picking a switch for a long session of getting her bare bottom and thighs covered with welts.

This type of mom sees corporal punishment as an important tool in raising her daughter

Just the right amount of pink to get a teen girl’s attention.

and does not hesitate to use it as often as it is required.  This mom is also not going to be stuck with just using a single implement, or always spanking the same way, as she knows that different offenses call for different levels of severity.  You can count on the fact that the old fashion mom will always spank bare bottom, it is just a part of the process as far as she is concerned.  If she is really old fashioned, she may also still utilize corner time before or after spanking her daughter.  For the most common offense, one that requires just a spanking as a bit of a reminder about her behavior or attitude, the traditional mom will typically take her daughter over her knee for a short, but hard handspanking.  It is not a punishment in which she is looking to leave her daughter with a bruised bottom, she is simply looking to light her little bottom on fire for a minute or two and leave anywhere from pink to red.

The OTK handspanking is her go to punishment and she will use it frequently, for every little

For a strong reminder, mom spanks just a little harder and a little longer, providing her daughter with a perfectly red bottom.

offense that happens.  With a strict and traditional mom, a short but to the point handspanking, can occur more than once a day.  It is for the moments when her daughter looks at her the wrong way, or is not minding her manners, or maybe forgets to clean up after herself.  The handspanking is really not for a violation of the rules of the home, it is more or a reminder.  After a handspanking such as this, there may be some sniffles and a couple of tears, but the whole event is forgotten shortly after it is over.  The young lady’s bottom will be anywhere from pink to red, but the sting goes away just a few minutes after the last smack to her little bottom.

While this type of mom will use a bare bottom hand spanking frequently, she also knows that as the level of disrespect or disobedience grows, that she has so many tools within the home to grow with the offense.  It does not take a lot of shopping, or looking around to find the right tool to spank her daughter.  Moms like this have been creative for

This young lady required more than just a handspanking so her mom bent her over the bed for a quick session with the belt.

years and know exactly where to look in the home to find the next level of implement to use when her daughter requires more than just a reminder of her behavior.  As reminders turn to full on punishments, moms over the years have found so many useful household items to teach a proper lesson.  For decades creative moms have opened kitchen drawers to pull out a wooden spoon, or even a plastic spatula.  There is no doubt that in her closet there is a belt of her husbands that she knows will achieve the desired effect.  The picking of a switch is an age old tradition that still sends fear right to the heart of the teenage girl.  The use of a ruler, yardsticks, slippers, sandals, cutting boards, and just about anything else a mom can think of, have a way of really getting to the heart of a problem.

But when a basic household implement comes out, the young lady in trouble is generally going to get

The wooden spoon was just enough to gently bruises her bottom.

more than just a pink bottom.  If this traditional mom has decided to use an implement, this means she feels like a problem really needs to be dealt with in a serious manner.  She is no longer just reminding her daughter about how to act or behave; she is now choosing to punish her daughter for something she did wrong.  This means a violation of a clearly set rule in the home has taken place.  She now needs to not only bare her daughter’s bottom and spank her in a manner intended to provide great discomfort, but she needs to teach her daughter a real lesson, one that will linger, even after the spanking is over.

Just enough spanking that she will still feel it the next day.

This is where we go from a pink bottom, to a bottom that starts to show visible marks.  This is also the transition from a girl with tears in her eyes, to a young lady that is crying as a result of her spanking.  We are still not taking about the severity that goes along with the “spanking of her life”. But the kind of punishment a teen girl might find herself on the receiving end of a few times a month.  It is probably the kind of day in which the young lady has already been over her mom’s knee, and the attitude to misbehavior continues.  Mom finally has enough and decides it is time to give her a spanking that produces immediate results.  Her daughter is sent for whatever implement mom thinks will be most beneficial at this moment, and once again her teen bottom is bared.

This is where a spanking becomes a real punishment and mom spanks much more enthusiastically. She needs for this spanking to be remembered and she needs for it to hurt a lot.  It might be with a wooden spoon, or with dad’s belt, but she knows that it is going to have to last until her bottom shows the clear results of the punishment.  A couple of tears are just not going to get them where they need to be and she will have to spend a good couple minutes getting the desired results.  A young lady who has her bottom spanked often, generally requires anywhere from 30-50 strokes with a belt or a spoon before the proper impression has been made.

Her bottom is going to need quite a while to cool off. She is placed in corner time and is not allowed to rub her recently strapped bottom.

When a punishment of this nature is complete, there will typically be a couple of minutes of crying and sniffling.  She will want to rub her bottom as it will be quite sore.  This is often the type of

A few swats with the bread board seemed to have done the trick.

punishment that is followed by corner time, so she is not allowed to touch her sore bottom and this also allows her a few minutes to think about what she had done.  If her mom did a good job, her bottom will be quite sore for the rest of the day.  When she wakes up the next day, there may be a few visual reminders of her behavior on her bottom, and her bottom might be just a little sore.  Sitting will not be a problem for her, but she might get a little ache or two if she sits on a hard surface.  Her bottom is not sore to the point that she cannot endure sitting, but she will be reminded a little of her spanking from the previous day.

For every teen girl out there with a strict and traditional mom, that spanks often, there is typically that implement, the one that is held in reserve, for the most severe spanking imaginable.  This is the implement that mom will use as a threat for future bad behavior, or for repeat offenses.  This implement is generally not a typical household item; it is generally something that exists only for spanking a teen girl’s bottom.  It may be that antique hairbrush that has not seen hair in 50 years and has only been used to spank a young lady’s bottom.  It might be that paddle, the one that the mom had her husband make in the garage, the kind of implement that changes attitudes and behaviors from the very 1st swat.  It may even be a belt, not a normal sized belt, but a thick and heavy belt that mom picked out, exclusively for the purpose providing the most effective punishment that is possible.  Whatever it is the mom chooses to use in this situation, it is an object of fear for the young lady.

The kind of spanking that a young lady has trouble forgetting. her mom spanked her teen bottom long and hard until the desired results are were achieved.

The teen daughter fears this implement so much because if it is pulled out, she knows she is in for a life changing spanking.  This will not be a handspanking leading to a pink bottom; this will not even be a couple of minutes with the wooden spoon leading to a bottom peppered with bruises. When that brush or paddle comes out, she knows that not being able to sit might be a actual reality.  She knows that she has pushed the very limits of the rules and that her bottom is going to pay the price.  This will not end in tears, this will end in hysterics.  She knows that it will be the type of spanking in which she is gasping for breath, begging her mom to stop.  While her mom is very strict, she also knows throughout the whole spanking, that the punishment is fitting the crime.

Mom used the heavy wooden paddle and spanked her daughter until a real change of behavior took place.

The strict and traditional mom knows that a spanking such as this is reserved for the very worst offenses.  These are the situations in which her daughter has put her own safety on the line, or has committed an offense that could actually be considered criminal.  It is the type of behavior that the mom knows needs to be fully extinguished for good, so she turns to the only implements that she knows will get the job done.  She also knows there is no reason to pull out a severe implement if she is not willing to fully commit to using in in the most effective manner as possible. The most effective manner to use it is to ignore her daughter’s pleas and crying and to just keep on spanking until the job is done.  She knows that the job is not done until her daughter’s bottom is black and blue.  This needs to be a punishment that continues for days, and if she does a good job that is exactly what will happen.

As difficult as it is to do, her mom knows that she has to continue spanking with the heavy wooden hairbrush until the job is complete. Real learning needs to take place and it is not over until her bottom looks like this.

A proper punishment from a severe implement makes sitting down a punishment.  A hard enough session with a heavy wooden brush can make even walking or sleeping a punishment.  It leaves an unbearable lingering pain that there is just no escaping.  There is literally not a single minute, over the course of the next 48 hours in which she is not aware of how much her bottom hurts.  This awareness results in her being very cognizant of what lead to her bottom feeling like that in the first place.  But unfortunately for this sore bottom girl in a strict household, having had her bottom turned black and blue does not somehow reset a clock, or allow her to slack on what is required of her in the home.  It might be the very next morning, in which she leaves her cereal bowl in the sink, that mom pulls her over her knee and gives her the handspanking that is required for that moment.

All of these images, which demonstrate a proper spanking from mild to severe come from the very real punishment videos in the member’s area of Spankingteenjessica.com, part of the four girl teen spanking pass.

Five easy steps for effective corporal punishment

Step 1 (The Sentence)
Mom sits down with her 18 year old daughter and explains to her that there are still very real consequences for her actions.  Borrowing mom’s car without asking and coming back late are totally inexcusable offenses, ones that have to be dealt with.  18 or not, some situations simply call for the use of corporal punishment.  Yes she will be grounded, and she will lose access to the car for quite some time, but to make sure she fully appreciates the seriousness of the situation, her bottom will need a little work.

Step 2- Waiting in her room for mom to come in with the belt.

Step 2 (The Wait)
Send young lady to her room and allow her to have just enough time to contemplate what is about to happen.  She is given time to anticipate how much a few minutes with the belt from mom can really hurt.  It does not matter that she has been getting the belt for many years now; it really never gets any easier to endure.  She knows her pants will come down and she knows her mom will not stop until the task has been efficiently completed, which for her means tears and a well-worn out bottom.

Step 3- Preparing the Bottom. She knows that all she can do at this point is to power her pants and present her bottom to be strapped.

Step 3 (Preparing the Bottom)
Mom comes to the room and offers a final few words of encouragement and then tells her daughter to pull down her pants and bend over the bed.  Arguing serves no purpose; she stopped trying that many years ago.  All she can do now is present her butt as told, try to stay as still as possible during the strapping, and just hope that the tears come fast as it will certainly never end until that happens.

Step 4- The Learning. During the learning phase, pain is used as a tool for getting the required results. The more pain there is, the better the results.

Step 4 (The Learning)
With a belt of sufficient size and weight mom gets right to work.  The spanking is applied very enthusiastically, but calmly.  The lecture and discussion are already over; there is no point in letting words interfere with the learning process.  The focus now is on accurate and hard strokes, with the purpose of this point of the process, to produce pain to her daughter’s ass.  The emphasis should not be on how many strokes she receives, or how long the punishment lasts, but her daughter’s reaction to the punishment.  The 1st phase will involve her grunting and trying to fight through it, which means there is still much work to do.  The next phase will be the beginning of tears and her body fighting hard, with lots of physical reactions to the strapping, which means there is still much work to do.  At some point during phase three, the tears will turn into heavy crying and her body will begin to relax a little, accepting her punishment a little better, which means they are close to the end.  Phase four will involve a final flurry of strokes to assure a long tern lesson has been learned.

Step 5 (Repeat as necessary)

What really goes on behind closed doors when a mom who utilizes corporal punishment punished her teen daughter?

So very much of what we watch online regarding spanking videos tends to stray pretty far from reality.  As with the post below, I wanted to explore what really happens behind closed doors when an angry mom decides that her teen daughter needs a spanking.  I think the audio recording of very real strapping, below, demonstrates what typically takes place.  We start off with a mom, trying to maintain her composure, but has decided that her daughter needs to be spanked.  In this case, the young lady was suspended from school but decided not to tell her mom that was the case.  She gets dressed like any other morning, like she is going to go to school, but before she is able to get out the door, her mom sees the notice from school that her daughter was suspended.  At this point she is dealing with two separate issues, that of her daughter being in trouble at school, and then her trying to cover it up.  She is understandably upset, so for this spanking she requires her daughter to pull down her pants and panties and lay over the bed.  There is no stripping naked which is common is many spanking videos, she is not required to bend over and grab her ankles, her mom simply has her lay down in a position that allows her to strap her bare butt.  There is not a lot of delay and her mom gets right to it with the belt.  You can tell from the sound of the strokes that it is a hard strapping from the very beginning and the girl clearly reacts.  She does not hold perfectly still and has to be reminded a couple of times by her mom to get her hands and feet out of the way.  From a strapping of this intensity that is perfectly natural as it would be hard to hold still.  Her mom lectures her throughout the strapping but does not do the goofy punctuating each word with each stroke.  She is clearly pissed and what she is telling her daughter is seems perfectly reasonable.

What I think is most important about listening to this strapping is how hard it is, how the girl reacts, and how long it lasts.  From the very first stroke the girl has a verbal reaction.  From the sound of the leather belt on her bare ass, it seems like a very reasonable reaction.  But after just ten strokes, the little grunts of pain, quickly transition, to very real tears.  A proper spanking of a teen girl, from an angry mom with a heavy leather belt really does not take that long to get the desired results.  Unlike the world of spanking videos in which you rarely see tears or hear real crying, or when you do get to tears the spanking stops, when this girl begins to cry her mom just keeps spanking harder.  I think this is pretty common when a mom spanks her teen daughter, she is not just looking for a few tears, she wants to see actual crying.  But this girl just keeps crying harder, and you can hear her start to become breathless, with long pauses in the crying as she gasps for air.  But we don’t just get the little yelps of pain and then crying, as it intensifies, it leads to full on bawling like a baby.  When the mom finally does stop after just over 30 strokes with the belt, the crying does not stop.  This is because this is a real punishment, her butt is on fire, and the pain will continue to bother her for quite some time.  Based on what we know about the infraction, the overall punishment seems fair to me.  A teenage girl getting in trouble at school, enough so that she is hiding it from her parents, and then trying to just pretend to go to school, I think a belt to her bare bottom, even as a high school aged girl is fair.  The strapping was done forcefully, but there was nothing in it that made it sound abusive.  The mother was angry, but controlled her temper, and while mad, she did not really talk down to her daughter or treat her disrespectfully.  I do not think it really should be measured by the amount of strokes, as it takes different amounts for different girls.  It should be measured my the results and I think that it was taken to the place required for learning to take place.  She did not just suck it up and grunt her way through it, she was clearly in pain.  Her bottom was blistered long enough and hard enough to get her crying like a little girl in trouble, which should always be the goal of any spanking.  Well deserved, the proper punishment for the infraction, and the right amount of pain to teach a long term lesson.  A job well done.

The sounds of a real bare bottom strapping

When an 18 year old girl is sent to her room for a hard bare bottom strapping from her dad, what does it really sound like?  How long does it last, how long before she cries, how hard is the belt really used on her bare bottom?  Press play below and listen to the sounds of an 18 year old girl getting a proper bare bottom strapping that leaves her in tears.

A strapping from dad before bed

The process is always the same when she gets in trouble; a spanking is sentenced by her mom and carried out by her dad.  Her dad works late and always gets home right before her bed time.  The waiting is always the hardest part as her mom may have sentenced her to a spanking at any point in the day.  She has to go through the rest of the day knowing that just before she tries to go to sleep that her dad will be lighting her bottom on fire with the strap he has for just that purpose.  She knows her mom tells him how long and hard to strap her bare butt as the punishment generally fits the crime.  When he gets home and finally comes up to her room there is no discussion about what she did, as her mom has already read her the riot act regarding her behavior.  The process is always the same when he comes to her room to punish her.  It starts with him telling her to stand up and he then places a pillow over the corner of the bed.  He tells her to lower her panties, raise her PJ shirt, and then to lie over the pillow.  With one hand he holds her in place and then begins strapping her bare bottom with a thick leather strap.  Depending on what she did wrong, she will get anywhere between 20-100 strokes.  When her mom is really mad at her, she will come and stand in the doorway and watch the punishment take place.  On more than one occasion, when the strapping was over, her mom simply said “again”, which always made for an uncomfortable night.  When her bottom was properly blistered with the strap, her dad would tell her goodnight and leave her room, closing the door behind him.

A hard bare bottom strapping from dad

The above video comes from RealspankingsInstitute.com part of the Realspankingspass.com family of sites.