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A heavy leather belt can be an effective learning tool for the teen girl

When it comes to long term soreness following a spanking, it is hard to beat the results of a wooden

Bending over for a long strapping with dad’s belt.

paddle or an old antique hairbrush, however, with a little thought and time well spent, a belt can be very effective in changing the attitude of a teenage girl.  There are four primary factors that influence the effectiveness of a spanking with a belt; the type of belt used, the severity of the strokes, the overall amount of strokes she receives, and the state of dress that she is in for her strapping.

A thin leather belt is just not enough to get the job done.  A tremendous amount of sting can be achieved with a thin belt, but it does little for the long term growth of the girl being spanked, as a result of the pain from the spanking ending just about the same time the spanking itself does.  A heavy leather belt does not just hit with a sting, it hits with a thud, and really impacts deep onto her bottom, not just affecting her skin, but the muscle tissue below.  This is a requirement for long term learning as a heavy belt produces a bruised bottom, which is the goal

The thicker the strap the better the lesson is learned.

during any serious punishment spanking.  A very heavy belt is not always that comfortable to wear, so many parents go to the local Western store and choose a belt that is strictly used for the discipline of their older teen daughter.  This also allows for the belt to be folded in half and creating a crease in the middle, that often affects the way a belt fits.  A major benefit of a heavy leather belt, over that of a heavy wooden paddle, is it increases the safety factor greatly.  With a heavy oak paddle there are always concerns with striking the tailbone, and with wood often being harder than bone, this can create issues.  But with a heavy belt, no such concerns exist and a spanking can be administered with the only concern being how much of a lesson she learns.

Severity of strokes is key when using a belt as it does not hit as hard as a wooden implement.  No teen girl had ever really learned a lesson with just a dozen moderate strokes applied to her bottom.  It is only a piece of leather, and many teens are strapped over their clothing, so the hardest stroke that can be applied, should be.  Take a look at the examples below as to how a proper stroke with a belt is applied.

In the 1st example his teen daughter has gotten home far too late and well past her curfew.  Bare bottoms strappings are not used in this home so he needs to get the full effect of every stroke he applies to her bottom.  In addition, she is wearing denim jeans, which greatly reduce the effectiveness of a good strapping, so he has to use maximum effort in order to achieve the desired results.  His form is quite good and you can see that he puts everything into each stroke of the belt.  His technique is a lot like a major league baseball pitcher.  The swing starts very high and he leans his whole body back into it.  His other hand is also raised high to help achieve momentum with his body.  When he swings the belt, the force is not just coming from his just his arm; it is created from his entire body.  His whole body pivots at the waist, both of his feet pivot as he turns, and both his arm and wrist move to achieve maximum velocity with the belt.  Just as with a proper start to his swing, he has a complete follow through, so the momentum of the belt is not stopped at all as it hits her bottom.

A very hard strapping that will lead to tears and learning.

In the next example we have too sisters who thought that they could let their smart mouths get the best of them since they are out in public.  Unfortunately for the two of them, their dad wears the primary implement used to punish them around his waist, so it is always handy.  He finds a little private spot in the park, bends them each over, and gives them the whooping of their lives.  His technique is the same as the one above and you can tell by the way she lifts her leg after each stroke that he is making a real impression on her bottom and attitude.

Two sisters getting their bottoms strapped in a public park.

The next factor is the amount of strokes applied during any given punishment.  Certainly this is going to vary based on not only the teen girl being spanked but also based on what she did wrong.  Any infraction that is bad enough to require a spanking should obviously result in tears, this is a given and one of the primary purposes of spanking her bottom in the 1st place.  But the questions remains as to how many strokes she should receive.  At the very least it should be enough that she goes from tears, to crying, and then several more after the desired emotional state has been achieved.  But as is the case with using a heavy leather belt that was discussed above, the punishment needs to last longer than just the duration of the spanking.  Even if she is fully crying during her punishment, if an hour later it does not seem all that bad to her anymore, then it probably was not a lesson learned.  For severe infractions, she needs to be sore for two days as a minimum.  Many parents hesitate to continue strapping their older teen daughter’s bottom once she is crying, but they are really doing her an injustice as there will not be a long term change in her behavior.  The parents that really care about their teen daughter’s development will go the extra mile to make sure that she actually learns from her spanking.  This may be a trial and error situation, especially if they do not spank her on her bare bottom as they will not be able to see the results.  If she received a hard strapping the night before, and then comes down for breakfast the next morning and is able to sit down without any visible signs of discomfort, than they did not do their job well enough.  They should use this as a learning experience and know that the next time she is presenting her bottom for a strapping that they need to double the amount of strokes as a minimum.  If her bottom is not too sore to sit comfortably, then she might have already forgotten about the spanking she received.

The state of dress that she is in is also a very important factor when it comes to overall learning during a spanking with a belt.  A heavy leather belt can indeed be quite effective even when used over clothes.  It will still leave her with a bruised bottom and soreness for days, but much of the sting is reduced during the spanking itself.  Long term soreness is quite important for her to learn, but the physical application of the punishment should be as painful as possible.  Ideally, parents are looking to create a situation that their teen daughter would never want to be repeated.  A proper spanking can not only reduce the instances of bad behavior, but if done right, it has the potential to completely eliminate the unwanted behavior.  I come from the school of thought that if a situation warrants a spanking, then the most should be made from it.  Why allow her bottom any protection, or her any modesty, if her behavior calls for corporal punishment?  Many parents hesitate to bare their daughter’s bottom once she is 17 or 18 years old.  I think the thinking is that she is an adult now and it would be embarrassing for her to have to present her bare bottom to be spanked.  If there is something that can be added to a punishment that will make it more uncomfortable or embarrassing for her, that should be embraced not avoided.  But the main point is that a belt stings far worse when it hits a bare bottom than when it kits clothing.  Long term soreness is important, but the sting of the spanking is the initial impression that will have an effect on her attitude and behavior.  This is why it is so important to bare her bottom for her strapping.  She should have to undo her pants, lower her panties, and present her bottom properly for the spanking of her life.  Her parent’s thoughts should not be on whether she is embarrassed or not, their thoughts should be on how they can blister her bottom in a manner that leads to learning.  A bare bottom also allows them to gauge the effectiveness of the spanking.  It is much easier to see if long term soreness is going to be a factor if they can see her bottom while it is being spanked.  Let’s face it, a red bottom after a spanking does not promote change as much as a purple, or black and blue bottom.  It takes a while to bruise a bottom with a belt, but it is certainly possible with the right belt and the right swing.  A hard strapping over jeans, with as many as 50-60 strokes might seem like it was enough to do the trick.  But that same strapping on a bare bottom will be much more clear as to if the job is complete.  If after 50 strokes, her bottom is just red with a little pepper bruising, then they are not even close.  Her parents need to be committed to making that bottom good and sore, and the truth is, this requires a color beyond red.  Let’s look at an example.

This young lady is receiving a very hard bare bottom strapping from her dad as a result of inappropriate pictures found on her cell phone. Everything about this punishment is designed for maximum effectiveness.  You can see that he is utilizing a very full swing, the belt is made from heavy leather, and her bottom is bared.  At this point in the spanking she is already crying and her bottom is showing the signs of a hard spanking.  But the reality is that her bottom is just starting to bruise and only in one spot, likely from the belt hitting that same area several times.  Yes her bottom is starting to mark, yes she is in tears, yes it is a severe strapping, but the truth is that he is not done and he knows it.  From the spot on her bottom that is already beginning to bruise, to the tops of her thighs, she needs to be bruised.  This is the part of her bottom that will touch every time she sits down and he is not going to stop until the proper results are visible.

Dad’s belt is beginning to bruise her bare bottom, but he is just getting started.

Another benefit of a belt is that of the inclusion of the thighs.  A belt is just leather, so the spanking does not need to be limited to just her bottom.  The upper thighs are more than fleshy enough to sustain hard strokes with a belt and it also allows a parent to adjust the spanking at any given moment.  For the teen girl who refuses to hold still during her strapping, then it makes perfect sense to strap her thighs.  A hard stroke of a strap on the thighs hurts far worse than one on the bottom, there is simply less padding.  She might think that the spanking is so intense that she cannot hold still, but when she realizes that the spanking will just move to her thighs until she holds still, it is amazing how quickly she can find that extra bit of strength and do what she is told.  Sometimes a spanking just needs to be more intense than others, so the thighs are included from the very beginning.  Here a couple examples of the thighs being strapped during a teen girl’s punishment.

Her dad always straps her upper thighs with his belt, it helps her to learn.

Her dad often punishes her 19 year old bottom with his belt. If she moves the slightest bit out of position he then gives her several hard strokes on her thighs.

The pictures below illustrate my main point that a spanking with a strap can be effective.  These photos demonstrate the results of a severe bare bottom strapping, with a heavy leather belt, administered with maximum force, and consisting of enough strokes to properly bruise her bottom and teach her the lesson she deserved.

All pictures and animations come very real and very intense strapping videos of legal aged teen girl in the member’s area of Realspankings.com

A hard paddling from her dad in front of her friends

She had recently turned 18 and was close to finishing her final year of high school.  Her parents had noticed that her behavior was growing increasingly out of control during this final year of school.  Her grades were slipping, she was always just “a little” late coming home, and she seemed to have an attitude just about every time she spoke.  On this day in particular, things were going to change.  Spanking had been the primary form of discipline in this home, for many years, but since she started high school, they were used more sparingly.  At the most, she found herself bending over for a hard strapping from her dad’s belt, one to two times a month.  But with her behavior growing increasingly out of control, her parents decided that it was time to increase the severity of the spankings she received.

Constructing a paddle to use on his teen daughter’s bottom.

The day came when they received a phone call that she was absent from school, when she had indeed left for school that morning.  Education was very important in their home and skipping school was simply not tolerated.  A couple hours before she was due to arrive home, her father went out into the garage, to begin a little construction project.  He selected a nice piece of heavy oak, left over from a recent shelving project, and got to work building an implement that would make a far greater impression on her 18 year old bottom.  While he knew that his belt certainly left her bottom burning, it was not time to take it to the next level.  He was building a paddle that would leave her bottom bruised and sore for days.  It took him close to two hours to build the paddle and he put a lot of care and detail into it.  He knew that it would be receiving a lot of use over the coming months and he wanted to have a paddle that was good enough to really get the job done.

Putting the final touched on the paddle that will be used to bruise her teen bottom.

He doubted that she told her friends that she was still spanked at home.  At the age of 18, not too many girls still bend over for a spanking, but her parents had decided long ago that as long as she acted the way she did, she would have her bottom spanked.  He had also decided that on this day, her friends would not only find out that she was still spanked, but they would witness it 1st hand.  The timing could not have been more perfect with the construction of the heavy oak paddle.  As he was sanding the final edges on him implement masterpiece, her ride home pulled up in the driveway.  Allison and her two closest friends stepped from the vehicle and started to head into the house.  He stopped their progress and approached Allison with the new paddle in his hand.  She was asked how her day at school was, and she told him that it was fine.  This was a big mistake, as not she had the offense of lying to go with her day of skipping school.

Her paddling is going to take place in front of her friends and the neighbors

That was all he needed to hear to reinforce his initial decision to paddle her in front of her friends.  He told her to put down her purse and bend over the hood of the car.  She knew better than to argue about a spanking that she was about to receive and did as she was told.  Her head was flooded with various emotions.  Her 1st concern was the big board that her dad was holding in his hand.  She was quite aware of his skills with his leather belt, and even at this age, a spanking from him always brought her to tears.  But now here he was with a heavy wooden paddle in his hands and she knew it was going to be bad.  She was also quite embarrassed about the fact that her friends were going to see her spanked like a little girl.  She had never told anyone that her bottom was still spanked, and this was a horrifying way for them to find out.  She was not only concerned with the fact that her friends were going to watch, as this was being done in her driveway, in full view of their neighbors and any car that drove by at the time.

Feeling the burn of the paddle on her teen bottom.

All of her emotions and concerns quickly disappeared as the 1st swat of the paddle landed in her tiny teen bottom.  She went from being horribly embarrassed and self-conscious about being spanked in a very public manner, to shocked from the pain of paddle hitting her bottom.  A stroke of the belt burned from the very beginning, but this sensation had a lot more pain involved with it.  She felt the burning sensation she was used to, but it also felt as if someone had punched both of her butt cheeks.  This was not a sensation limited to her skin; she could feel it deep down in her muscles.  It literally took her breath away, and before she was able to find her next breath, the next swat one landed.  She wanted to be brave in front of her friends, but this went right out the window as the second swat hit in the exact same place as the 1st.  The tears build up in her eyes and started rolling down her face.  As the third swat was administered with maximum efficiency, her tears turned to full on crying.  She was no longer concerned with what her friends thought, and there was really no way of covering up how bad this paddling hurt.  The crying became more intense as she did her very best to stay in position, something she had learned many years ago, that was mandatory.  Getting out of position had a way of adding to the length of her spankings, and that was something she did not want to happen.

He paddles her bottom hard enough that it will be sore for a couple of days.

Before it was all over, he had only given her ten swats with the paddle.  He was quite impressed with the results and knew that he had made a good decision as far as retiring the belt.  He achieved in ten swats the same results it would have taken at least 30 with the belt to achieve.  He also knew that these results would be longer lasting as her bottom would be bruised and sore for at least a couple of days.  He told her to stand up and sent her friends on home.  Allison’s bottom burned like she had never felt before and there was a pulsating pain with every beat of her heart.  Her dad was actually being quite nice to her in regards to the public portion of her punishment.  The paddling she had just received was for skipping school, but for lying, she would need to be paddled again.  Her parents had decided that on those occasions in which a very serious impression needed to be made, that it would not be out of the question for her to have to bare her bottom for a paddling.  He knew the moment the lie left her mouth that she would need to have her bottom bared, but he did not see this as appropriate to be done in front of her friends and in the front yard.  He walked her into the house and into the dining room, pulled out a chair, told her to drop her pants and panties, and to bend over.  He told her that he was now going to demonstrate what happens when she lies.  With tears still in her eyes, she lowered her jeans and panties, and presented her bruised bottom to be paddled again.

These animations and story comes from an intense paddling video from today’s update in the member’s area of Realspankings.com

Angry mom beats her daughter’s bare bottom with a belt

I often write about the process of corporal punishment being administered in the home.  While it is often a long and drawn out event, with a lecture, some waiting, and then a hard spanking administered by a parent, sometimes it is much more simple than that.  There are many teen girls who find themselves in trouble and are facing a very pissed off mom.  There is not a lecture, there is not a kind and gentle explanation of “this is going to hurt me more than it is going to hurt you”, or “I am sorry, this is for your own good”.  Often there is a pissed off mom who makes her daughter strip off her pants and gets to work beating her bottom with a belt.  I do not think it is the best method, but sometimes a mom just needs to take out her frustrations with her daughter using a belt.  There are many teen girls throughout the world that experience a very hard and very angry whoopin on a regular basis.  The animations below show exactly what i am talking about.

A pissed off mom with a belt leads to a blistered bottom for this teen girl.

Feeling mom;s anger and her belt during this bare bottom strapping.

The entire process of spanking an older teen girl

There are many steps required for an effective spanking took take place in the home environment.  For many decades these steps have assured a well spanked bottom and a proper lesson being learned.  Let’s take a look at each of the steps individually.

Her mom lectures her and tells her exactly why she is about to be spanked.

The Lecture
The 1st step in any proper spanking is the lecture.  It does no good when punishing a young lady if she does not know exactly why she is being spanked.  Good parents will sit down with their teen daughter and explain exactly what aspect of her behavior has found to be undesirable.  She will be informed that what she did is not allowed and that she needs to be punished for it.  The lecture should give her full ownership of her actions and full ownership of the

Being told in a loving and gentle manner that she is about to have her bare bottom paddled.

punishment that she has earned. Good parents will structure this lecture based on a cause and effect relationship between her actions and the punishment.  She is not being spanked because they are mad at her, she is being spanked because that is the punishment that she knows she will receive when she misbehaves.  It is her actions, and her actions only, that have led to this moment.  She knew when she made the conscience decision to break the rules, that if she was caught, there would indeed be consequences.  She has earned the spanking she is about to receive and it is the parents job to see to it that she gets exactly what she has earned.

Sent to her room, told to change into her PJ’s and wait for her spanking.

The Wait
The next step in a proper spanking, after the lecture, is a period of waiting.  While some parents like to administer a spanking on the spot, at the very moment an infraction occurs, this is not always the most effective approach.  Once a young lady has been informed of what she did wrong and the punishment she will receive, she needs a little time to consider her actions.  Most parents will send their daughter to her room for a little while before her spanking.  This allows her time alone with her thoughts and to help her better figure out not only what she did to get herself into this situation, but what she can do in the future to avoid a similar circumstance.  This also gives her time to sit and think about the spanking she is about to receive.  The stress alone of waiting for a spanking can be a powerful learning tool and is an effective addition to any spanking.  Yes, the physical pain of a spanking can be unbearable, but sitting and thinking about how much her bottom is going to hurt as a result can be equally as painful emotionally.  A spanking itself is about more than just the physical application of pain to a teen girl’s bottom, it is a process, and waiting for her butt to be spanked in an important part of that process.

Sent to her room to wait, with the very paddle that will be used on her teen bottom. She looks at it and wonders how bad her bottom will be bruised.

Into Position
Many people see a young lady being put into position for her spanking as simply being a requirement to get the job done.  However, positioning is one of the most important steps regarding a spanking.  This step is most important because it requires her to become an active participant in her punishment.  No teen girl should be forced into position prior to her spanking, she needs to cooperate.  This is her spanking, she has earned it, it is for her own good, so she needs to assist in the process. Having her get into position also serves as a reminder that regardless of her age, she is still a child to her parents.  She may feel all grown up at the age of 17 or 18, but as long as she misbehaves in this home, her bottom can still pay the price.  This is very much emphasized when a parent instructs their teen daughter to basically present her bottom to be punished. 

Getting into position for a hard bare bottom spanking from her mom.

The position chosen is also quite important and is more than just functional.  Yes, the right position needs to be chosen for the type of implement used, as we would not want a teen girl over the knee for a hard belt spanking or a paddling with a large paddle, but the position can add very effective elements to a spanking.  An 18 year old girl, that is just too big for her britches, might benefit from having to lay over her dad’s lap for a hard otk spanking.  Just when she is feeling all grown up she is being spanked the same way a young child would be.  This serves as a reminder of who is really the boss in the family and who is still acting like a child.  Position can also really make a teen girl feel exposed, or even embarrassed for her spanking.  Nothing makes a young lady’s heart race than being told to bend over and grab her ankles for a good and hard paddling.  This is not a position of comfort and when her bottom is bare, it certainly makes her feel exposed and on display.  This position also goes back to the cooperation factor during a spanking.  A paddling in this position is not the same as lying over a pillow on the side of her bed where she can just lay there and take it.  This position requires her full attention to even stay in place while her bottom is paddled.  She has to assist in her punishment to even get through the whole process and certainly lack of assistance requires more paddling.  Different positions provide different experiences and it is a vital part of the process of being spanked.

Clothing or Lack there of
In some families as a teen gets older they often stop with bare bottom spankings.  As she has grown to become a woman her parents may decide to allow her a little modesty during her spanking.  I can understand this concept, but clearly a bare bottom spanking works the best.  Just as with position, the process of baring a bottom for a spanking is more than just functional.  When a teen girl requires a bare bottom spanking there are two approaches to getting her bottom bare, both which are very effective.  The 1st is to require her to lower her pants and panties for her spanking.  Once again, she is part of the whole process and is assisting in her spanking.  Nothing allows ownership of a spanking as much as her having to remove all the physical barriers between her skin and whatever she is going to be spanked with.  As she lowers her clothing and panties she knows she is actively helping to make the process of her spanking hurt even more.  This also once again demonstrates who is in charge as there is no other situation in her life (except maybe jail) in which an adult can demand that she take down her panties and show her bare bottom.

She is an active participant in her punishment as she is required to bare her bottom, bend over, and present her little butt to be spanked by her dad.

The other situation is when a parent chooses to bare her bottom for her.  There is no questioning the power dynamic that is exchanged when this happens.  When a dad sits down and tells his daughter to step closer, and then reaches for the button on his daughter’s pants, there is no doubt who is still a child in this relationship.  To have to stand there as her dad lowers her pants and then her panties is quite embarrassing for the teen girl.  It is a very effective way to let her know that dad is still fully in control of her life and is still not beyond taking down her pants to blister her bottom.  Baring a teen bottom for a spanking is about more than just adding additional pain it adds a very important dynamic that aids in the overall process of an effective punishment.

Nothing makes an 18 year old girl feel more like a child than when dad bares her bottom and then takes her over his lap.

The Actual Spanking
All of the steps outlined here are an important part of any spanking, as a spanking is a complete

Mom lays her over a pillow on the bed and blisters her bottom with a heavy leather belt.

process, and not just about the smacking of a teen girl’s bottom.  But at some point during the process we get the actual application of physical pain to a girl’s bottom.   There are many different ways to spank, different implements to use, and different positions for a young lady to be spanked in.  Since we are discussing the punishment of an older teen girl, we will assume that hand spankings went out the window a long time ago.  Most girls who are still spanked at the age of 17-18, have probably been spanked all of their lives.  Typical parents progress to implements that are more severe as the young lady grows older.  The most common implement used most often on a teen girl’s bottom is a belt.  Every house has many and there are often many variations of belts to use depending on the severity of the infraction.  A recent viral video of the Judge spanking his daughter with a belt is a perfect example.  After he discovers what his daughter has been up to, he sends his wife to get the belt, and you can clearly hear him say “get the big one”.

Mom uses the heavy wood paddle to bruise her bottom.

Many families also make good use of a paddle.  There are many dads in this country, fed up with their daughter’s behavior, which decided to go out into their garage and make a proper punishment paddle.  No dad has ever gone out and built a little ping pong type paddle, they tend to go more with fraternity style paddles.  There are 3 ft long, ¾”, oak paddles alive and well throughout this country.  Many moms find this type of paddle quite effective as they do not have to work so hard to punish their daughter’s bottom, as a single swat with a heavy fraternity type paddle, gets the point across.

Regardless of the implement used, what makes a spanking effective for an older teen girl in

With her bottom and thighs a proper shade of red, it is time for dad to start bruising her bottom.

the intensity and longevity of the spanking itself.  Let’s face it; parents who are still spanking their teen daughter at the age of 17 or 18 are quite strict.  They are not spanking her just as a simple little warning, or to just get her attention, she is being spanked as a very real and serious punishment.  They are spanking in an attempt to extinguish the behavior, not just as a reminder to not do it.  A spanking in this situation needs to be painful, almost impossible to endure, and it needs last well beyond the actual smacking of her bottom.  It also cannot be something she is just able to grit her teeth through and take it.  A real spanking always involves tears and not just a few of them.  Many parents feel that the spanking has not actually started until their daughter is crying.  Anything before the tears is basically a warm-up and when the tears start to flow is when they feel the learning has started to take place.  An older teen girl requires a lot of learning so the spanking needs to last as long as is required.

With all of her bottom now stinging, it is time to really get to work. He concentrates the hairbrush on the lowest part of her bottom, assuring she will be bruised and sore for many days.

Obviously, different implements require a differing amount of strokes.  A heavy wooden paddle can get the job done in as few as 20 swats, where a belt might require more than 100 strokes to get to the same place.  Some parents give a set amount of swats based on the infraction, others go by time, but the most successful method is to go until the desired reaction is achieved.  The desired results can be measured in two different ways and both are required.  The 1st is the emotional state of the girl being spanked.  There should be a logical progression from grunts, to the 1st tears, to full out uncontrollable crying, to her finally achieving a moment where she begins to settle down a little.   This process demonstrates that she has taken her punishment, felt every second of it, and finally starts to give in to it.  This is a sure fire sign of learning taking place.

Tears show that she is starting to learn a lesson.

The desired results of a proper spanking having been administered should also be very visible on her bottom.  This is another reason that a bare bottom spanking is best, as the results can be visibly measured.  A properly spanked bottom will have no area on it that is not glowing a very fierce red.  The purpose of the spanking while it is in progress is to provide as much sting as possible to her teen ass.  There is no reason her entire bottom should not be covered as well as the very top of the thighs.  Any spot on her bottom that is not glowing red is just a missed opportunity for learning.  From the top of her butt crack to the top of her thighs, as well as from her left hip to her right, she should feel the pulsating sting from every smack.  While I bright red bottom serves its purpose during the spanking, those sensations fade very quickly.  Just left with a red bottom and in less than an hour, the spanking is a distant memory.  Effective parents choose to add a little more color to a teen girl’s bottom to make sure the lesson stays with her for a while.

Her mother does not stop spanking once her bottom is red and the tears begin to flow. She knows the importance of a well bruised bottom and does not stop until she is black and blue.

Many people feel that a bruised bottom may be abusive.  But we are not talking about parents beating their kids out of anger, or abusing them in any way.  This discussion is about parents who take the time to give their daughters the punishment they not only deserve, but have earned.  They are willing to go the extra mile to assure that a lesson is learned, and learned well.  The most effective spanking are not over after the last smack, they need to last for days.  The only way this is possible is with a bruised bottom.  The area of focus is a young lady’s bottom, it is fleshy, and if she is bent in the proper manner, even severe swats from a heavy oak paddle will not do any permanent damage.  A proper spanking involves soreness that last for a minimum of three days and this is only accomplished when her young bottom is left bruised.  Many parents start by covering every square inch of their daughter’s bottom and then focus on the lower portion of her bottom for an even harder spanking.  Just above the spot where her thighs meet her butt is what is often referred to as the “sit spot”.  This is the spot in which it is impossible to avoid contact with a chair when she sits down.  Regardless of the implement, any proper spanking will end with a couple minutes dedicated to this part of her anatomy.  After many swats her bottom will tend to go numb anyway, but the point is not for the pain she will be feeling at the moment, this extra work is for down the road.

A Very Sore Bottom

She inspects her bruised bottom in the mirror…she will be sore for days.

The final phase of a proper spanking is a teen girl with a very sore bottom. Moments after her spanking, her bottom will be on fire.  They may be a little numbness as a result of a severe spanking, but you can count on her feeling a good burn.  It will take her some time to calm herself down, but once her tears are dry, she will still have a burning pain.  As a result of endorphins, which help to combat the pain during the spanking, over the next hour the pain will gradually get worse, not better.  Her body relaxes, the numbness goes away, and she really starts to feel the effects.  Just as the burn of the spanking starts to fade, the deep pain in her muscles will begin.  This is where a bruised bottom comes into play and she really starts to feel a tightness in her muscles and the pulsating sting from her red bottom become a much deeper pulse from deep within.

If she was properly spanked the pain will become worse over a day or two.  The next morning following a spanking tends to be the worse.  She wakes up to a bottom that is so sore that she can barely believe it.  Walking, standing,

Three days after a severe spanking her bottom still shows the marks. Sitting is still not an option.

but most especially sitting hurts very much.  The pulsating feeling from the night before is replaced with a heavy throbbing and with each beat of her heart she feels pain on her poor teen bottom.  This is why the bruising phase of a spanking is so important.  She is not able to get up and start her day, trying to put the spanking from the night before behind her, the worst part of her spanking in actually in front of her.  For at least another 24 hours, the pain from this spanking will continue to build.   The pain will build until about 36-48 hours after her spanking, but it will not end there.  After the 3rd day her bottom will start to feel a little better, that does not mean she will not still be uncomfortable, but it will at least start to become bearable again.  She will eventually be able to start sitting comfortably after four days or so.  A severe spanking, especially when administered with a wooden implement like a paddle or hairbrush, can leave her bottom sore for up to a week, with bruises still visible for up to a couple of weeks.

A proper spanking is not just about smacking a bottom, it is a process, an event, one with many steps, each important in the learning process. It is her spanking, she has earned it, and it is up to her parents to not skip a single step, as each one helps reduce the chances of her committing that infraction ever again.  Photos and animation all come from severe punishment videos at Realspankings.com

18 is not too old for some good old fashioned OTK corporal punishment from mom

Waiting in her room for her mom. She is 18 and assumes that she will no longer be spanked.

Her last spanking had been at the age of 12, from that point forward her mom started to ground her as the primary form of punishment.  Sometimes she would be given extra chores, have to miss out on fun school activities, but as far as she knew, spanking was something that was distant memory.  But then there was that night when she made a series of bad decisions.  She came home very late, she smelled like beer and cigarettes, and when confronted by her mom, she lied about all of her activities.  Her mom was clearly mad and just told her to go to bed and they would deal with it the next day.  The next morning, before school, it seemed like her mom had forgotten all about the night before and the issue was never addressed.

When she got home from school that afternoon, it was clear to her that her mom had not forgotten

Mom breaks the news to her, she is going to get her 1st spanking in 6 years.

at all.  Her mom handled it all in a very nice way and never once raised her voice.  She told her that she knew that she had been drinking, that much was clear, and she suspected that she had also been smoking.  Her mom informed her that she was grounded for two weeks and that she would not have any more nights out for the remainder of the school year.  This all by itself was bad news as this was her senior year of high school and the events and parties were really lining up.  Just as she was processing this very bad news her

Lowering her pants for her spanking.

mom took her by surprise.  She was told that in addition to the restrictions that her mom was also going to deal with things in a manner that she remembered being quite effective.  With only that brief amount of information she was told to go to her room and that her mom would be up shortly.

She went up and sat on her bed wondering what this could really mean.  Her last spanking had been when she was in 6th or 7th grade and she could not imagine this was what her mom meant.  This did however have the exact same feel as when she used to be spanked.  She was always sent to her room to wait for a spanking, but back then, she was told she was going to be spanked.  While it had been many years, she can still remember the process.  Also not gone from her memory was how much a spanking hurt.  She racked her brain trying to figure out another form of punishment her mom had used on her that had been “quite effective”.  She did not have to wait too long as her mom knocked on her door less than 5 minutes later.

Her mom bares her 18 year old bottom for a very hard handspanking.

Her mom came in and got right to the point.  She told her that she was doing things that were not only against the rules of the house, but were illegal at her age.  To top things off, she decided to not be truthful and to lie right to her face.  Her mom saw this as unacceptable behavior that she had not seen from her daughter in many years.  As a result she was going to treat her like she had so many years ago.  Her mom told her to stand up and then she took a seat on the bed.  She knew instantly what this meant as this is how she had always been spanked.  Her mom simply said, “get them down”.  She knew there was no avoiding what was about to happen and unbuttoned her jeans.

Her mom grabbed her by her arm and pulled her over her knee.  She felt her mom place her fingers into the waistband of her

The moment has come and her otk spanking from mom begins.

panties and felt them being lowered to her thighs.  Her mother adjusted her on her lap a little and without another word being spoken, she began.  The brief thought that she had that this would not be so bad, as she was much older, was quickly replaced with the shock of the pain.  It was clear that when she was a little girl her mom had gone pretty easy on her during a spanking.  Today this was not the case and her 18 year old bottom was instantly set on fire.  Her mom spanked her with a ferocity that she did not know was possible.  After just a few smacks to her bare bottom she started kicking her feet and struggling.  Her mom placed her free hand on her waist and held her in place as she spanked even harder.  A spanking when she was 12 was a relatively quick event, never lasting more than a minute.  It was clear after a minute that this was not anywhere close to being over.  Her mom spanked her butt long and hard and left no part of her teen bottom unmarked.  It took close to 2 minutes before the tears began, but when they hit, they hit hard.

This is a spanking her teen butt will remember for quite some time.

Her emotions were complicated and hard to identify.  Her butt hurt so bad she could not help but cry.  She was also horribly embarrassed to have her bottom bared and to be over her mom’s knee, especially at this age.  Last night she felt all grown up, drinking and smoking, but less than 24 hours later she was kicking and screaming like a child getting a good spanking from her mommy.  To make things even worse, the spanking did not seem like it was ever going to end.  She lost track of time and had no idea how many times her bottom had been smacked, but she knew that she had been crying for what seemed like a long time.  Her tears were ignored as her mom was relentless in spanking her bottom.  After what had to have been at least 4-5 minutes, the spanking finally stopped.  Her mom was very tired and just sat there for a moment trying to catch her breath.  She could not stop crying

Some time to reflect on her behavior.

and just laid on her mom’s lap sobbing uncontrollably.

Her mom finally tapped her on the shoulder and told her to climb off of her lap.  She kind of rolled off and just kneeled on the floor.  Her mother saw this as an opportunity and told her this was the right place for her.  She was instructed to fold her arms behind her back and to stay in that kneeling position next to her bed.  Her mother felt that a little “time out” might do her some good and give her some perspective.  She was told to stay in that position with her bright red bottom on display until her mom returned.  She was told to think long and hard about how she wants to conduct herself and the choices she wants to make in life.  With that being said she was left alone with her thoughts and her glowing bottom.