There are many different implements that parents may choose to use on the teen girl that finds herself in trouble. Certainly when they were little girls, a few smacks with mom or dad’s hand was enough to get the point across, but as they grow older, most parents move onto an implement that is more effective in creating an experience that she would not likely want repeated. In most homes, the belt is the next logical step, as a result of access and effectiveness. There is a suitable belt for spanking in just about every home in the US, which is why it is used so often.
Baring her bottom for a session with dad’s homemade paddle.
For many parents, especially the moms out there, they will often turn to common household implements, such as a wooden spoon, a coat hanger, a sandal, sometimes even an electrical cord. These are implements that are used more out of convenience as they are just handy. We have all known those girls who were spanked with anything and everything that mom could get a hold of at a second’s notice. She is not particular, does not even really choose the implement based on the offense, she is just a busy woman and the spanking needs to happen at that very moment, without her searching the house for the right tool for the job.
In the privacy of her bedroom, dad uses the paddle for some long term learning.
Now there are those special parents, who feel that corporal punishment is not just a spontaneous act, who are willing to go the extra mile to make sure that they have the proper tools, for proper discipline, on hand. They know, in many cases first hand, that effective corporal punishment does not happen accidentally, and are willing to put in the time and the effort to make each and every spanking that they administer is one that will never be forgotten. These also tend to be the parents that don’t just spank for every little thing, often utilizing other methods of punishment, but when they do decide to spank their daughter, they will do it to the best of their ability to make sure that real learning takes place.
A bare bottom paddling before bed assures a change in behavior.
For these parents, any household object will not do. They are not just going to grab whatever is handy; they will actually take the time to create the tool that they think will be the most successful in applying a hard spanking. This is where a well-made, sturdy wooden paddle comes into play. Now, not every paddle that is used on a young lady’s bottom in the home is going to be personally made my mom or dad. But this does not mean that they have not put in the time and effort to find the right paddle. It might be an old cutting board found at an antique store, or even an ornamental or decorative paddle that was intended to hang on the wall. The point is that they saw this particular item and felt it would be a successful teaching tool to have in the home. They went out of their way to make sure that they had something that would hurt enough to change their daughter’s behavior.
Both daughters will be feeling dad’s paddle tonight.
The next step is the parents, generally the dad, that decide that they need a custom tool to punish their daughter’s bottom with. It might be based on her age, or that previous implements were not getting the desired effect, or maybe that one infraction, that was so bad, that he decided that it was time to show her what a proper spanking is all about. But when a parent is willing to hand make an implement, with the sole purpose of spanking his daughter’s bottom; you know that discipline is taken very seriously in this house.
This dad built a very thick and heavy paddle with the sole purpose of bruising her bottom whenever it is required.
You rarely see a homemade paddle that is just thrown together and all rough around the edges. If they are going to take the time to build such an important tool, they generally put a lot of time and effort into it. In many cases, he will find himself at the hardware store, examining the various types of woods, checking thickness, durability, and spending the amount of time required to get what will best suit his purposes. Once he gets the wood home, he will stencil out the paddle design on the wood, and get the rough version cut out. He will need to consider how large of a paddle to use, what an effective length for the handle will be, and most importantly, the size of the striking portion of the paddle. Will he be using this paddle more like a hairbrush, going with a thick cheek to cheek sort of design, or does he think something more like a frat paddle, or school paddle will be the most effective to use for corporal punishment.
He built a paddle that is still very effective, even over clothing.
Once he has the rough shape cut out, clearly he is going to spend some time making it look good, as well as increasing the functionality of the paddle. There will be a lot of sanding, rounding of the edges, and he now needs to consider if holes in the paddle will be beneficial. Holes help the air escape, allowing for a harder paddling, they also can increase bruising, not to mention that a paddle with holes just looks more intimidating. Once he has done the finish work, you can count of the fact that it will require staining. He might even decide to drill a little hole in the handle, so he can attach a loop of cord, so this new family discipline tool can be dis played as a reminder of everyone to behave.
In full view of anyone present, her shorts come down for a hard paddling from dad.
This might seem a little over the top, but you would be amazed at how many homes have a paddle such as this hanging in some obscure location. These are households in which corporal punishment in taken very seriously, and also tend to have some very well behaved teenage girls running around. In many homes, the parents are not shy about the fact that their teenage daughters still need a good paddling from time to time, and they have no problem hanging the paddle in a common area of the house for anyone and everyone to see. You can imagine the added embarrassment, and probably a standard story the young lady tells her friends who come over, about the paddle that is hanging on the wall, which could anything but the truth, that it is used on her bottom when she misbehaves.
Bare bottom with the paddle gets the job done.
The most common factor regarding parents who have chosen to purchase, or build a paddle, is that they take the idea of a spanking very seriously. There is a very good chance that they were raised in a similar environment, in which their own bottoms were completely worn out if they misbehaved, so they know the value and effectiveness of not only a spanking, but a paddling. A paddling is far different from just a regular spanking. Most parents chose to use an implement that provides a lot of sting to their daughter’s bottom, thus making the duration of the spanking the punishment. Very quickly after it is all over, the spanking is all but forgotten and she just goes on with her day. This is a very short term solution to the problem.
Her brother loves nothing more than when he gets a peek at his big sister getting her bottom worn out from dad.
But a parent, who is willing to go the extra mile to actually build a paddle to spank their daughter with, is not just looking for a short term solution. They have actively decided that the previous implement that they were using to spank their daughter with was not having the desired effects, and this is saying a lot. A heavy leather belt is indeed a very effective discipline tool, one that has the potential to really wear a young lady’s bottom out. So we are talking about folks who have decided that this is still not enough to get the job done. So there are very few people out there that are going to put in the time and effort to construct a paddle and not use it to its full potential.
This dad knows exactly how to use the paddle to its full potential.
The full potential of a paddle is the ability to create long lasting memories of that spanking. It is not an implement that simply creates a stinging sensation to her bottom that quickly goes away. The sensation of a paddle is far different because it brings the muscles in her bottom well into play. It is not just providing a sting to her skin, it is applied in a manner in which the skin is compressed, the fatty tissue is pushed away, and direct contact is made with her muscles. This is where long term learning comes into play. A spanking such as this will be far more painful than what can be accomplished with a belt, so while it is being administered, more learning will actually be taking place. But once her paddling is complete, there is the potential for additional learning for the next day or so.
She is paddled while her sister waits for her turn.
A proper paddling leads to a very sore bottom. Dad did not spend a few hours in the garage for any other reason but to create an implement that would leave her bottom sore. Why else would he have put in that time if he was not looking for actual results? His goal in the first place, in choosing that ¾” piece of oak, was to make sure that she would feel the spanking for a few days. Not only will there be additional long term soreness, but there will also be a visual reminder for her as to the results of her actions. She might even have a few embarrassing moments in the school locker room, for the rest of that week, as she tries her best to hide that fact that she has a bruised bottom. It is very embarrassing to be a 17 year old girl who is not only still spanked, but actually paddled with the paddle that hangs on the living room wall.
Her bottom is both sore and has a visual indicator as to how dad feels about her behavior.
The pictures used in this post are not staged photos, they are pictures from the very real videos that show exactly how a hard paddling is applied in the homes of America. Exclusively at Realspankings.com
There are many parents who are attempting to be a little more liberal and not utilize corporal punishment as much as they did in the past. In many homes, most spankings take place when their daughter is quite young, with attempts to phase it out as the girl grows older. This is often met with mixed results, and there are indeed times when a good spanking just needs to come back into play.
Bent over the couch for the whoopin of her life.
In this recent update from realspankings.com we get to see a scene that plays exactly as I have just described. Syrena finds herself in a considerable amount of trouble at home, which results in her being “grounded” from her cell phone and car. She did not expect that her dad would check the history on her phone, which leads to him choosing a different punishment.
That is the clear sign of learning on her face.
While this is a video from a paid site, it truly shows us just how effective real corporal punishment with a belt can be. The video is highly realistic in that this young lady receives a severe whoopin over her jeans. As much as we would like to think it happens, it is quite rare for an 18 year old girl to get a bare bottom whoopin in the home from her parents.
When her grounding does not seem to be working, dad decides to use the belt.
But even without her bottom being bared, we get to see what very real corporal punishment is like when applied to a teen girl’s bottom. What I love about these scenes from Realspankings.com is that we get to see the reality of corporal punishment. This is not like a typical pay site video in which there is some gentle warm-up. This is how girls in the South are punished on a daily basis. Dad explains why she is being spanked, she is required to bend over, his belt comes off, and he gets to work. By “getting to work” I mean that he swings the belt as hard and as fast as he can, with tears being the goal from the very first stroke.
There is no arguing with the results, this was a whoopin that taught a very real lesson.
We also get to see how very effective a belt can really be over clothing. A lot of people think that if it is not on the bare that it is not all that effective. But when this scene is over, we get to see this young lady examine her poor bottom. It is not just pink, her bottom is swollen and bruised from a couple dozen effective strokes over her tight jeans. If you have ever wondered how effective a belt really is when used on a teen girl, this video shows the reality of effective discipline.
A bare bottom spanking is so very effective for many reasons, which is why it is still a common practice in the homes of the US, when an older teen girl needs to be punished. When it comes to a young lady having to bare her bottom for a spanking, the first thing that comes to mind is the fact that it will hurt more as a result of being on the bare skin. While this is indeed true, let’s take a look at all of the benefits of a bared bottom for a spanking.
Mom knows that a bare bottom spanking works much better
When the teenage girl finds herself in trouble for a minor offense, and may have only earned herself a handspanking, it is pretty much mandatory that her bottom be bared for the process. A handspanking over pants and panties does very little to provide much sting, and the only way any sort of lesson is going to be learned is with skin to skin contact. A handspanking, by design, only really works during the course of the punishment, as the sting goes away pretty quickly, with no long term discomfort. The only real benefit is for the parent to provide as much sting as possible, so her bottom must be bared to make in progress in her learning.
By baring her bottom, he is clearly achieving the desired results.
Clearly baring a young lady’s bottom is not limited to a handspanking and a punishment with any implement can be further enhanced with a bare bottom. An implement such as a belt becomes even more effective, as a belt is an implement with the potential for a lot of sting. A belt can be used with great effect over a teen girl’s pants, especially if it is a heavy belt. But there is no doubt that leather applied to her bare skin is far more effective in getting the desired results. But the purpose of baring a teen girl’s bottom goes so far beyond just that of adding more sting.
Mom bared her tiny teen bottom before getting to work with the belt.
The baring of a bottom brings additional psychological factors that can serve to make a punishment far more memorable than just making it hurt more. Often the perception of pain, prior to the spanking, can be just as memorable as the spanking itself. Picture the young lady, in a shit load of trouble, standing before her dad as his belt is pulled from his pants. It is already bad for her, as she sees that dad is going to use the belt, so she knows she is really in for it. This is not a simple handspanking from mom, and she knows this is going to be the real deal. Just when it seems like it is going to be as bad as it gets, she hears those dreaded words from dad, “turn around, bare your bottom, and bend over”. What was already going to be a memorable punishment, just because all that more effective. As she pulls down her pants and panties and bends over, a real lesson is already being learned. Many teen girls find themselves in tears, as the bare their little butts, knowing how bad it is going to be. Before the belt is ever applied to her teen bottom, the learning has already begun.
Dad learned a long time ago that his belt is far more effective on her bare bottom.
Another great benefit of a bare bottom spanking is demonstrating to the teen girl, who thinks she is all grown up, that she will be treated exactly how she acts, and regardless of her age, her parents are still in charge. After the age of eight or nine, most girls reach a point where there parents do not see them in any state of undress at all. It is a common progression in most households, in which privacy and modesty are respected. But when it comes to her discipline, all bets are off, and her behavior directly affects the amount of modesty she is allowed. Picture the little princess, spoiled rotten, with her own car, the biggest and best IPhone, lives on Twitter and Facebook, and just thinks she is all that. But when the time comes, that a real impression needs to be made about her attitude and being too big for her britches, a bare bottom spanking is the great equalizer.
Those three simple words “bare your bottom” have a very real effect on someone’s behavior. She thinks she is all grown up and in control, but when it comes down to it, her parents are still in charge. There are very few situations in life in which someone can demand that someone else show their butt. But when a parent feels the nature of her offense requires it, they can indeed exercise this option. Nothing deflates a young lady’s ego, and sense of entitlement, then having to present her bare bottom to be spanked. Being cute, popular, with well-off parents does nothing to help her in this situation. Quite simply, she acted like a spoiled little brat, and as a result, her spoiled little bare bottom is going to be given the attention it deserves.
Each and every time it is required, dad has her bare her teen bottom for a good paddling.
There are two variations on a bare bottom spanking. The first requires her to bare her own bottom and present it to be punished. This is very effective as it gives her full ownership of the spanking. Mom is not going to pin her down and pull her pants down; she is required to do it herself. She is actually cooperating by helping to provide a situation that is going to make her punishment more painful. This is her spanking, mom wants it to hurt as much as possible, and she is going to have to assist in the entire process. This can be a very powerful component to a proper spanking and when all is said and done, she will be a better person by helping to make her own discipline as effective as possible.
It does not matter that she is 18, mom always makes her bare her bottom and present it for each and every spanking.
The other variation is for the parent to bare the bottom of the teen girl that is about to be spanked. This goes to the earlier point of showing a young lady that is her behavior requires it, that her parents still have the right to bare her bottom. There is no other situation in a typical home in which a mom or a dad can demand that their 17-18 year old daughter has to show any part of her anatomy. But if her behavior requires it, she not only has to bare her bottom, but they will actually do it for her. It demonstrates who is actually in control in the home. They are not only going to spank her teen butt, they will actually pull down her pants and her panties to do so.
Sent to her room so a dose of mom’s belt. Mom bares her bottom to show her who is really in charge.
I have never believed that anyone should be humiliated over the course of corporal punishment, but I believe that embarrassment can go a long way to supplement any form of discipline. Picture the typical teen girl and how she lives her daily life. Lots people will do whatever is required to not be embarrassed, hell, this alone can often lead to bad behavior. There are many girls who get in trouble because they do not want to embarrass themselves by being the only one that will not engage in a certain activity. Well do you know what is very embarrassing for the teenage girl? Having to bare her bottom for her mom or her dad, so they can give her a good whoopin. They will be just as likely to adjust their behavior to avoid presenting their bare butts for a spanking as they will to avoid the actual pain of a spanking.
Paddled in the living room, after dinner, with the family present.
A bare bottom spanking that takes place in a common area of a house, can further add to the overall embarrassment. Being sent to her room to wait for her bare bottom spanking is one thing, but knowing that it can happen right there in the dining room, is something completely different. I cannot think of a teen girl in this world that will not give a second thought to her behavior if she knows the results are getting her bare bottom spanked in front of whatever family members are present. It only takes a single whoopin with a belt, on her bare butt, in the middle of the family room, while her little brothers watching, to make a very real change in her behavior. We have now taken something that might only have the potential to hurt and changed it into a situation she would never want to be in, even without the spanking.
A paddling right after school, in the living room, with her brothers watching.
Beyond all of these other factors that make a bare bottom spanking effective, we still come back to the point that a spanking on her bare bottom hurts much more. Is this not the point of a spanking? A spanking should provide as much pain as the situation calls for. We are talking about the punishment of older teen girls, not little children, so clearly the spanking needs to hurt a lot to be an actual deterrent. If she is able to just suck it up and it not hurt all that much, it does nothing to change behavior. So the spanking should take place in a manner that brings the most amount of pain to her bottom, which can be applied in a safe manner. A bare bottom also allows the parent to gauge the progress that they are making. A belt applied over her jeans, with her kicking, screaming, and throwing a fit, does not allow the parent to effectively gauge the actual progress that is being made. Maybe she is just putting on an act and playing it all up to end things quicker. But when a parent chooses to bare the bottom, they can check their work as they go. A bottom that is barely pink does nothing for a long term change in attitude. But with a bare bottom, they can see when real results are being achieved. Regardless of how much she is carrying on, the spanking needs to be applied long enough and hard enough, that her bottom ends up sore. When she is bent over and her teen bottom is bared, they will be able to see first-hand when her bottom starts to bruise. This allows them to accurately apply the lesson required and get exactly the result that not only they are looking for, but have been earned.
With her bottom bared, her dad can continue to paddle her until he can actually see a lesson being learned.
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If you are over the age of 40, you grew up in a neighborhood in which there was that one mom, who never hesitated to tear up her daughters’ bottoms whenever it was required. You might not have actually known who that mom was, but you can count on the fact that she existed. She herself, having grown up in the 50’s, was subjected to harsh corporal punishment from her own mother. She knew first-hand the results of such effective discipline and never once ever consider raising her own daughters any other way. Yes, these moms still exist today, but it is not as common as it was over the two previous generations.
Tearing her teen bottom up with a wooden spoon.
For this mom, there are no time outs, there is no grounding, pretty much all discipline matters are handled on the spot. She does not need to wait for dad to get home to take care of things; she is more than capable of administering corporal punishment, at any degree of severity, whenever the situation calls for it. It is not something that she stopped doing once the girls grew older, if anything, the punishments became more frequent and intense as teen girls find all sorts of ways to get themselves into trouble.
Spanked long and hard by mom.
She has no one way that she spanks; she tends to just go with whatever is required for that particular situation. She is good enough at what she does that even a simple handspanking can be enough to get the job done. If she is only using her hand, you can count on butts being bared. She cannot remember a single trip over her own mother’s knee in which her little bottom wasn’t bared, so why should her own girls be afforded such luxuries. When she spanks the purpose is to wear their bottoms out, so even better on the bare.
She also believes in spanking in a manner that gets the job done. At no point in their entire lives did either girl get a few quick smacks to her bottom as some sort of reminder. If a behavior or an attitude requires that a spanking be administered, then it is going to be a memorable event. The spankings that she gives to these girls are measured in minutes, not smacks. Many years of spanking their bottoms has built up an endurance that allows her to spank as fast, as hard, and most importantly, as long as she wants. She does not stop to lecture, the spanking does not build over time, she goes all out from the very first swat and it never ends until she has a tearful
Mom wears her bottom out.
teen girl before her.
While the hand may be her go to, as it is always available, that is not to say that these young ladies have not experienced household items that are more effective if the moment requires it. They are both very aware of that one drawer in the kitchen that contains that dreaded wooden spoon, one that has not seen the inside of a pot in 10 years. They both know that when they are sent for the spoon that their world is going to change very quickly. She does not use the spoon like a paddle, with well-spaced swats; she uses it just like her hand and spanks fast and hard. She tears up every inch of their teen bottoms with that spoon and has them in tears from the very start. The use of an implement also does not mean that the spanking will be any shorter than if she was using her hand. She is using the spoon because that is was their behavior requires, and it too will be applied for minutes at a time.
The kind of spanking with a wooden spoon that a teen girl tends to remember.
Worst case scenario in this house, for both of the daughters, is what her mom’s go to implement was…the dreaded wooden hairbrush. This is not an ordinary hairbrush; this is one that was purchased for the sole purpose of bruising
A spanking with the hairbrush changed behaviors permanently.
bottoms. With a long wooden handle, and a striking surface at least an inch thick, it is all business. Its entire purpose in this world is to completely and totally change a young lady’s behavior. It is used effectively and severely, and when it comes out, the tears begin to flow. Both girls know, far too well from past experience, that the hairbrush is pure pain. Just as with her hand or with the spoon, there are no adjustments made as a result of the severity of the implement. Once again, it is their behavior that designates what they are spanked with, so if the hairbrush is called for, then so be it. After a few minutes with the brush, sitting is no longer an option.
Spankings can be administered anytime and anywhere in this home, as this mom is not all that picky. If she is in the middle of something, she will simply send the offending girl to her room to wait. If she is able to take care of it on the spot, then bottoms are bared and the spanking is given in the most convenient location. No consideration is given as to their privacy, or who may be present, if a spanking needs to take place, it will. If the girls have gotten in trouble together, then two bottoms may have to be bared. She will bend them over the kitchen counter before dinner, over the ottoman while they are watching TV, or lay them over a bed to tear up their behinds.
There is also no consideration given to when her last spanking was. It could have been two weeks, two days, or two minutes
Two sisters are spanked together by mom.
since her last spanking, it does not matter, when a spanking is required one is applied. On more than one occasion a young lady had her bottom blistered in the kitchen, only to go upstairs and slam her bedroom door in anger, which simply led to mom going into their room and starting again. On their freshly spanked bottom, mom starts all over again, this time with an upgrade to the implement, and probably for a longer period of time.
In a time when social services and similar organizations stayed out of such matters, the state of her daughters’ bottoms was never a concern. If some adult in the school environment noticed the bruised bottom or upper thighs of one of these girls, they just assumed she had earned a spanking. This kind of mom did not just spank to apply a little bit of pain to the offending girl’s backside, she always spanked with the goal of tearing that bottom up. A proper spanking means her daughter climbs off her knees and does a little dance from the pain. She rubs her bottom ferociously trying to make the sting go away. For the next couple of days she is able to see the results of her behavior on her bottom. But most importantly, she is unable to sit comfortably for a day or two. She is the one who broke the rules and her bottom had to pay the price.
Let’s face it, a sore bottom is not just part of the process it is the overall goal when a young lady has misbehaved. The spanking itself needs to be very painful; it will always be the biggest overall deterrent against future bad behavior. Her bottom needs to be set on fire for a considerable duration of time, providing a sufficient amount of kicking and screaming, and of course tears.
But when a spanking is administered effectively, it is not over after the last smack. If she was really naughty, and a paddle or something similar was used, she will have a bruised and sore bottom. But I am not just talking about soreness; I am talking about a visual indicator that reminds her that she has been bad.
The one thing you can always count on after a teen girl has been spanked by mom or dad, is that she is not only going to rub her bottom, she is going to look at it. This is a very good thing in that she can actually see the results of her behavior on her sore behind. Yes, the actual punishment might be over, but the reminder remains in place.
There is a good chance, shortly after her spanking, that she will be baring her own bottom for a closer look. Not only will she look, she will touch. She will feel the heat that she herself created. It may be mom or dad that set it on fire, but what she is now looking at and touching is as a result of her actions. Right there before her eyes she is able to see what she did.
After a really good spanking, many young ladies will lie down on the bed and give their bottom a good rub, attempting to make the sting go away. As much as she caresses her sore bottom, nothing will really sooth the pain except for time. With each beat of her heart she feels a throbbing on her tender bottom. Each pulse once again reminds her of her actions and she is able to feel those results clearly.
This does not just apply in the home environment, as young ladies are not immune to corporal punishment in the school. While it might be a little trickier, you can count on the high school girl, to find a private little moment, in which she can inspect her recently paddled bottom. It may be a quick moment in the girl’s bathroom, a trip to the locker room, or even with a tiny makeup mirror in the privacy of a bathroom stall. Everyone who has been recently spanked has to take a look, they just can’t help it. They need to see exactly what it causing them so much discomfort.
Being able to see her sore bottom really helps the overall learning experience, it is even more powerful if the marks last a couple of days. Each morning she is able to look in the mirror and see what she did. The punishment did not simply go away, it is still right here staring her in the face. It helps her remember what she did, and more importantly what she can do different in the future to avoid exactly what she is seeing.