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Daughters still receive frequent OTK handspankings from mom and dad

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An OTK spanking from mom.

I often write about the more severe aspects of parental corporal punishment for older teenage daughters.  But the reality of it is, many girls are not spanked with the goal of providing long term learning and soreness to her bottom, often it is just about setting her little butt on fire, at that very moment, for her behavior.  Some parents do not see a spanking as a means to eliminating bad behavior; it is simply to punctuate the fact that at that very moment in time, they are not happy with how she is behaving.

Most often this is achieved with a spontaneous handspanking, delivered with the purpose of

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A handspanking before bed for this teen girl.

burning her bottom for a few minutes, but not with the goal of bruises and soreness.  For a quick spanking such as this, for an older teen girl, it is best accomplished on her bare bottom.  As a hand does not hit with the power of a belt of a paddle, and is primarily designed to just sting, it is not effective over pants.  The purpose is to provide a lot of sting to the skin, so a hand on the bare bottom is really the only way to make this happen.  With a heavy implement like a paddle, the primary goal is to make her sore for several days, so the overall length of the spanking in not quite as important as the lesson will continue long after the paddling is over.  But with a handspanking, the punishment ends pretty much as

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A perfectly spanked teen bottom.

soon as the spanking stops.  After the spanking, she will feel a little heat to her bottom, but that is about it.  So it is very important that a bare bottom handspanking last for as long as possible, as all of the learning is taking place during the spanking.

For a handspanking to be the most effective, duration and coverage are very important.  With a paddle, most of the swats are going to be placed low on her bottom, both for safety reasons as well as making sure the part of her bottom that touches when she sits down becomes the most sore.  With a handspanking, there are no dangers posed to her tailbone, so a parent is able to spank every single inch of her bottom, and the top of her

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Even with just his hand, dad is able to really blister her bottom.

thighs if needed.  The less fleshy parts of her bottom are more sensitive than the lower parts, so full coverage assures that she really feels the burn.  It makes little sense to just keep spanking the same two spots on her bottom, so covering the widest area possible helps to teach her a lesson.   Just as important as coverage is indeed duration.  For a teen girl to really feel the effects of a handspanking, it needs to last as long as the parent is able to spank with a good intensity.  Three to four minutes is an ideal length for a handspanking, and while she will not feel much of it after an hour or so, if done correctly, those four minutes can do a lot in helping her realize her mistakes.

While a handspanking is nowhere as severe as a spanking with a proper implement, there are many strict parents that only use handspankings.  The strictness is not always a result of what someone is spanked with, but can it can also be measured by how often a spanking takes place.  There are some teen girls who get their bottom spanked severely with an implement, in a manner that leaves them sore for days, but this may only occur several times a year.  But there are those moms and dads out there that instead, spank for each and every

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Mom spanks her bottom after school.

little infraction that occurs.  This leads to a situation in which a young lady might end up baring her bottom and going over a parent’s knee for every little thing.  There are households in the US in which a girl may find herself on the receiving end of a spanking, just about every day.  The strict mom never hesitates to spank, and it can simply be the wrong look, the wrong words, chores not done well enough, homework not completed, it really does not matter, each and every one of these issues is always dealt with through spanking.

For these strict parents, when the last spanking occurred has no bearing on the situation at all.  Every single behavior that requires a spanking does indeed lead to a spanking.  They will often treat each infraction separately.  Picture the mom that comes home and sees her daughter watching TV instead of doing homework, and then notices the dishes that are still sitting in the sink.  This behavior does not warrant a single spanking, it requires two.  Her mom turns off the TV, sits down on the couch and pulls her teen

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She is not very happy about having her bottom spanked by her mom.

daughter over her knee for a hard bare bottom spanking.  When her bottom is on fire, she is told to get up and take care of the dishes in the sink.  Less than ten minutes later, mom is pulling out a kitchen chair and her daughter once again goes over her knee for another spanking.  The spanking is not shorter or lighter as a result of her bottom already having been spanked; each infraction is dealt with on its own merits.

I grew up with a girl in my neighborhood, one that was spanked until about the age of 15.  As someone that was interested as spanking, I would often pry a little as to what her spankings were like.  She saw spanking as just a fact of life for her, so she was not all that embarrassed to talk about it.  I

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Spanked on her teen bottom in the kitchen.

can recall the time that she detailed an event that led to three spankings for her in a ten minute period.  There was whatever her original behavior was that earned her a spanking, and it took place in the living room.  When the spanking was over, as she was leaving the living room, she shot her mom a hateful look.  Hateful looks were not allowed in that home, so her mom called her back over, bared her butt, and gave her another spanking.  When that one was over, she went up to her room, and slammed her door.  She knew as soon as the door closed so loudly, that she was in for it again.  She told me that she ran to her window to open it, to blame the door slamming on the wind.  She barely had the window halfway open when her door opened.  Her mom sat down on her bed, bared her butt, and once again pulled her over her knee.  Over the course of a ten minute period of time, she spent the better part of nine minutes getting spanked by her mom.  That was her reality, even as a girl in ninth grade.  I asked her the most spankings she thought she had ever gotten in a week, which she guessed to have been at least 10.

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Dad deals with all behavior by spanking her teen butt.

While some parents spank for long term results, others simply spank to demonstrate to

their daughter each and every instances of behavior that they find unacceptable.  It does not have to be a brutal spanking, and they are content with reddening her bottom as often as is required.  Even if the level of pain is not as bad, as a 15+ year old girl, having to bare her bottom and go over one of her parent’s laps, is still a painful and embarrassing event, one that she would prefer to avoid.

Posted October 11th, 2013.

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Severe spanking and corporal punishment for an older teen daughter

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The results of a paddling she will remember for a long time.

There are many parents out there that feel that the only proper spanking is one that is delivered severely.  It can be for the smallest infraction, but they still feel that if a spanking has been earned, that it needs to be applied in the hardest manner possible.  You typically find this kind of strictness and severity in homes in which there is a heavy religious influence.  There is the standard Bible quote that is the go to for many strict parents:

“He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes.

This is their justification for spanking in the 1st place, but the quote that is often interpreted as spanking needs to be administered severely is:

“ Withhold not correction from the child: for [if] thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die.”

Within these homes, young ladies tend to be very well behaved as they know the consequences of their actions will lead to very real

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It takes her mom quite awhile to achieve these results, but they result in learning.

and long lasting pain to their bottom.  I have read interviews with girls who grew up in very conservative Christian homes, in which every time they were spanked, it continued until they stopped crying altogether.  Their parents felt that crying during a spanking was a sign of willfulness, and that a spanking was not over until that willfulness is gone.  I also once read an interview with a young woman who had left the Amish community and she gave much detail about the spanking she received at the hands of her mother.  She was always punished with a heavy leather strap, in the privacy of her room, with her dress up and her undergarments down, while laying over the edge of the bed.  Her mom always strapped her until she stopped crying, but the main problem was that this took a very long time.  She went on to give details in which the whole process could go on for well over 20 minutes, and her mom spanked her so hard with the strap, that she often tired out before she could achieve the results she was looking for, leading to her mom having to take many breaks during the strapping.

While not every parent spanks with the goal for the actual crying to stop during the spanking, the strictest of parents, are indeed spanking with the goal of a permanent change of behavior in their teen girl.  A hard spanking is generally applied as a result a teen girl’s bad behavior, and is simply a punishment for those actions.  But for the more severe offenses, strict parents are not only spanking as a punishment for what they did, but they are trying to address this behavior in the future.  This is where the whole concept of long term learning comes into play.  Their goal is not for her to just be sorry for what she did, but for the spanking to be severe enough that it affects her thinking process every time she is faced with a decision of right and wrong in the future.

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For many teen girls, a bottom bruised this badly is just the norm for them.

This is really only accomplished with a severe enough spanking that she spends close to week with a sore bottom.  Teen girls are resilient and a quick spanking from mom or dad can quickly fade from their memories, which once again leads to clouded judgment when faced with future questionable decisions.  Maximum clarity is provided to the young lady with maximum soreness and bruising following a spanking.  It easy for her to forget how much a two minute handspanking hurt at the time, but it is very hard to forget that severe spanking, with a belt, hairbrush, or paddle in which sitting was not possible for a couple of days, and still quite uncomfortable for close to a week.  These are the types of punishment that help to change behavior, as they will never forget that week following that one severe spanking, for the rest of their lives.  When it comes to spanking a teen girl, there is no doubt that bruises equal learning.

Many strict parents, for that one offense that the young lady commits that stand head and shoulders above the rest, as most of her

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Her mom decides to use the switch on her bare bottom and thighs to teach her a lesson she will never forget.

spankings are already pretty severe, they might chose that moment to find a way to make sure that this one spanking really stands out.  This may be the day that she realizes that her mom still has an old antique hairbrush stashed away in a box in the attic that needs to come out for a very severe punishment that leaves her bottom marked and sore in a manner she never knew before.  Or maybe the frustrated parent recalls those summers on their grandparent’s farm, in which grandma always sent them for a switch to be used to stripe their bottom and thighs.  For a young lady who is used to feeling the belt on a regular basis, the pure sting of a switch can really open her eyes and change her attitude.  Some parents elect to simply double the length of a punishment for the more severe actions, but the very strict and creative parents, chose to add additional spankings after the initial spanking.  In households this strict, it is not completely out of the question for a daily spanking to be awarded to the naughty young lady, for several days in a row.

The daily spanking is indeed one of the most effective ways to achieve results and

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The results of a paddling over an already bruised bottom. She will be sleeping on her side for many days.

learning.  Picture the teen girl, in the most trouble she has ever been in in her life, who is sent to her room, for a long session with dad’s paddle, and then told she will get it again, every morning, for the next three days.  Each morning, with her muscles tight and sore from the previous paddling, she is woken up by her dad just before he heads out to work.  With sleep still in her eyes, she roles out of bed, bares her bruised bottom, and once again is paddled.  Nothing teaches a lesson as much as a hard paddling on a bruised bottom.  Her bottom is already sore to the touch, sitting is difficult, and she has to sleep on her side, so the feel of the paddle becomes unbearable.  By the fourth paddling, he is adding new bruises to already fading bruises, and when it comes to her learning, this is pretty much grad school.  It may be harsh and severe, but it is the type of lesson which eliminates that particular bad behavior for the rest of her life.  She can be a 40 year old women and she will still remember the offense that she committed, and the resulting punishment, that received when she was 18 years old.

Spanking of this severity are not the norm, but there are many high school age girls, walking down the hall of their school, with their bottoms bruised and sore as you read this.    In their strict and religious home, severe corporal punishment is not the exception, it is the norm.  Her parents, just like their parents, believe in the teachings of the Bible and they believe misbehavior should be dealt with in a strict and severe manner.  They do not think that a spanking is over when their daughter starts to cry, they believe that that is simply a good start.  A red bottom will never be enough for them when teaching a lesson, black and blue are the only colors they know.  They know that after a spanking, if their daughter is able to sit down at the dinner table, then they have more work to do.

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For some girls, severe discipline is a way of life and when they misbehave, their bottom pays the price.

Posted October 10th, 2013.

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A thick and heavy belt is the most effective for corporal punishment

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The perfect belt for corporal punishment

Just like with any other job, a job worth doing well, the choice of tools is very important.  With the wrong tool, a job can take much longer, or be much less effective in the long run.  It is best to maximize the effectiveness of a job by choosing the perfect tool.  When it comes giving an older teen girl a spanking, the selection of the tool to be used is very important.  The job at hand, when applying a spanking, is to bring pain to her bottom.  Not just enough pain to make her bottom sting, but enough pain to make her bottom very sore.  With the wrong tool, a proper lesson might not be learned, so tool selection is very important when it comes to corporal punishment.

Most little girls, who are spanked by their parents, are typically given a handspanking when

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This belt will teach any girl a lesson.

they are young.  But strict parents do realize over the course of time, that their hand is no longer getting the job done.  For the majority of young ladies in America, this eventually leads to their 1st spanking with a belt.  Belts are very popular because they exists in every home and all a parent must do is go and get one and put it to work.  But not all belts are created equal, and some of them are just not up to the task of providing the amount of pain required to a teen girl’s bottom.  Certainly a lot of this can be combated by applying the belt to her bare bottom.  This will greatly increase the sting of the spanking, but sting alone does not always leave the impression that is needed in the long run.

To get the long term results that most parents are looking for through corporal punishment, sting alone is not enough.  A spanking with a belt that is not made of leather, certainly stings a young lady’s bottom, and can produce tears, but within the hour the pain of her spanking is a distant memory.  The redness quickly fades and the pain fully subsides, which does very little to really discourage bad behavior.  It simply leaves her knowing that is she gets in trouble again; it will all be over with soon.  This is not the kind of punishment that leads to permanent changes of behavior, which should really be the goal of any good spanking.

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Thicker is indeed better when it comes to spanking with a belt.

A sturdy leather belt is the most effective belt for providing the proper amount of discipline to a teen girl’s bottom.   When it comes to really getting results, the thicker the belt the better.  Certainly not all punishments require a severe spanking, but it is better to have too much belt, as opposed to too little.  With a very thick and wide belt, it is possible to provide a severe spanking when it is required, but things can be dialed down should the occasion call for it.  A thick belt also serves the purpose of being still quite effective over pants and panties; whereas a lighter belt will not produce the same results.  There are many teen girls who are no longer spanked on their bare bottom, so in these cases, maximum belt thickness is mandatory.  Much of the sting is reduced during a punishment over clothing, but with a thick and heavy belt, maximum long term soreness is assured.

The best belts for corporal punishment are not always practical to wear on a daily basis; so many parents decide to purchase a belt that is only used for spanking their daughter.  It can be quite effective to allow the daughter to be a participant in the trip where the purchase of that belt is made.  This can serve as an added deterrent when she sees what belt has been chosen to use on her bottom.  It will be quite effective as she watches her parents, at a Western supply store, pulling various heavy belts of the rack and comparing the overall size and thickness of the belts, clearly looking for the one that has the potential to hurt the most.  They might even make her a further part of the process by telling her to look for the heaviest and widest belt that she can find.  A heavy belt in which the only purpose is corporal punishment, also allows the parents to get a really good crease in it, so it folds perfectly every time.  If it is not a belt for daily wear, this also allows the belt to be put somewhere visible in the house, as a daily reminder of what will happen when she misbehaves.  Some parents go as far as having their daughter keep the belt somewhere in her room, so the visual reminder is never that far away.

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Mom gets her point across much quicker with a heavy leather belt, on her teen daughter’s bare bottom.

When the day comes that a severe spanking is required, parents will be happy they have the right tool for the job.  A heavy belt, doubled up, and applied full force to a teen girl’s bottom, really does have a way of not only punishing her for her behavior, but decreasing the chances of it ever happening again.

Posted October 9th, 2013.

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Daughter spanked while laying on the bed

There are many different positions that parents utilize for a proper spanking of the teen girl.  Some girls are still made to feel like the little girl they are acting like and end up crawling over mom or dad’s lap for a hard OTK spanking.  Probably more common, for the older teen, is to be told to bend and place their hands on an object such as a chair, a couch, or more commonly, the edge of their bed.  For the young lady who gets spanked on the spot, wherever the infraction occurs, it is more common for her just to be made to bend over and place her hands on her knees, or even to grab her ankles.  While all of the positions have their benefits, some make it much easier for the naughty girl to move around and to get out of position.

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Baring her tiny teen bottom for a hard strapping from mom.

A tried and true position used for spanking the teen bottom, is that of simply laying down on the bed.  This position has the advantage that there really is nowhere for her to go during her spanking.  If she bends her legs, or moves her arms, it does not change anything regarding the placement of her bottom.  Most teen girls end up struggling during a severe bare bottom spanking, and in this position, all that she can really do is put her hands back, or role to her side.  Both of these problems tend to be self-correcting, as a hard smack with a belt to the hands, tends to keep them out of the way. If she rolls to her side, all the happens is her hips feel the smack, and she quickly realizes that it is much easier to take the spanking on her padded bottom, than on her hips.

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Dad has her lay on the bed for a long spanking with his belt.

There are several variations to this position, and I think most are equally as effective.  Many parents just have their daughter lay over the edge of the bed, in which her feet are still touching the ground.  This allows them full access to her butt and makes it quite easy to deliver hard swats.  This position also allows the spanking to take place with really any implement, as reach is not an issue.  Another variation is for the young lady to be required to lie on the middle of her bed.  Some parents choose to place a couple of pillows for her to lie down on, so her bottom is better presented for spanking.  A huge benefit to this position, if the bed in not against a wall, is equal access to both sides of her butt.  Any teen girl who has ever had a serious spanking with a belt, could tell you that it is generally her right cheek that ends up the most bruised (assuming the parent is right handed).  It is basic physics, in that the end of the belt that is farthest from the hand will be traveling at a higher rate of speed when it makes contact.  With a girl lying down on a bed, her mom or dad is able to switch sides after every few strokes.  A punishment, in which her entire bottom becomes sore and bruised, is much more effective than just a single side being sore.

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Sent to get ready for bed and wait for her spanking. her mom comes in and blisters her teen bottom with a wooden spoon.

So as with any good spanking, the whole process starts with the lecture/sentencing phase.  Her parents sit down with her and calmly explain to her what she has done and why her actions are inappropriate.  There may be discussion of additional punishment such as loss of her cell phone, or grounding, but the conversation ends with her being sentenced to a spanking.  It is typically best if she is told what she will be spanked with, and whether or not it will be on her bare bottom.  This will allow her time to think about what is about to happen.  After she is informed that she is to be spanked, she is sent to her room to await her punishment.

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Dad paddled her hard with his heavy wooden paddle.

While a hard spanking does indeed hurt, it often hurts even more in the teen girl’s head as she sits and waits for it.  No matter how hard she tries to put it out of her mind, all she can really think about is the fact that mom or dad are about to come to her room with the belt, paddle, or wooden spoon.  She knows that any minute now, her world is about to be turned upside down and her bottom will soon be black and blue.  This also serves the purpose of her making those promises to herself that she will not misbehave again, which is the true purpose of the spanking in the 1st place.

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Dad lays her over the edge of her bed, bares her bottom, and teaches her a very real lesson.

Eventually she hears those footsteps coming down the hall towards her room and her heart rate increases even more.  There is that gentle knock on her door, one she that knows she has to respond to, but everything within her does not want to.  She actually has to utter those words “come in”, even though she knows that she is extending an invitation to have her bottom spanked.  Mom or dad then enters her room with the implement of her bottom’s destruction in hand.  She is politely asked to stand up, as her parent grabs the pillows from the end of her bed and places them in the middle.  She is then asked to lower her pants and panties and to climb over the pillows, placing her bottom in the air to be disciplined.

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This time her behavior requires the heavy wooden spoon from mom on her ample teen bottom.

The conversation regarding the spanking has already taken place, so there is really not much left to talk about.  All that is left now is for the real learning to begin.  Unfortunately for this teen girl, she learns best with tears in her eyes and bruises on her bottom.  She is asked if she is ready, and just like when she invited them into her room, she has no choice but to say yes, which is once again inviting the spanking to start.  The implement of choice is raised high into the air and brought down full force to her upturned bottom.  The crack can be heard throughout the house, and her cries are equally as loud.  Before she has a chance to recover from the 1st crack of the paddle, belt, or spoon, the next stroke is laid on equally as hard.  Her body starts to writhe in place as the pain from her bottom is fully processed in her brain.

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Unfortunately for this teen girl, dad is just getting started with his belt. this will not be over until her bottom is black and blue.

Her parents know from experience that the longer and harder a spanking is, the better the long term results in her behavior.  They are not in a rush to get the spanking over with, the goal is a worn out bottom that shows very visible signs that the learning is indeed taking place.  A good dozen strokes are placed onto her bottom and the tears really begin to flow. In order to make sure that they are punishing her to the best of their ability, her mom or dad walks around to the other side of the bed, and starts again, this time making sure the opposite cheek is getting the attention it deserves.  After another dozen hard strokes, they are beginning to see the results that they are looking for.  It is no longer a gentle crying, that has been replaced with heavy sobbing and a very heavy breathing pattern.  Her bottom went from pink, to red, and is now beginning to show the signs of a little bruising.  As the spanking stops momentarily, she has no idea if it is over or not.  Unfortunately, her parent was just moving back to the other side of the bed to start again, wanting to assure complete coverage of her bottom.

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This teen girl is in a lot of trouble, as this time dad brings out his heavy leather razor strap to assure she is taught the lesson she has earned.

Knowing that there is no way she can take even one more stroke, she grips the covers tight and buries her face.  The next wave of pain begins on her already sore bottom, as the strokes from that evil implement come even harder and faster.  This group of 12 in unbearable and she cannot take it.  Once again there is a pause as she listens to her mom or dad walk back to the other side of the bed.  Her poor left butt cheek is now the focus and the spanking on top of the bruising is far too much for her.  She screams and yells into her bedspread as the point is really being brought home.  All she wants is for it all to stop, she swears that she will never misbehave again, she begs for it to stop.  But if it stopped right then, at that very moment, she would be missing out on a big part of this learning process.

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This mom will not stop spanking her daughter with the wooden spoon until her bottom shows the visible signs of learning.

Her parent knows that they have created enough pain to her bottom, at this moment in time, for her to have learned a good lesson, but they do not want the lesson to end once they stop swinging that implement.  They want her lesson to continue throughout the evening, when she awakes for school the next morning, as she sits down at every desk at school that day, and the next day, and the one after that.  Simply setting her bottom on fire will not achieve that type of result, so as good parents, they know they must continue.  They take as many trips back and forth across the bed that is required to teach the long lasting lesson that is needed.  They love her too much to stop just because she is crying.  The discipline continues until her bottom is black and blue and they can rest assured that she will be sitting gingerly for several days to come.  When it is over, her mom or dad step gently out of her room and allow her to be alone with her thoughts and sore bottom.

All of these pictures and animations come directly from the full length videos in the member’s area of Realspankings.com

Posted September 30th, 2013.

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Making a spanking an event to remember

For many teen girls the process of getting spanked is quite simple, and it is really just about pain being applied to their bottoms in a forceful manner.  It may even happen right on the spot, in which their mom or dad just grab them by their arm and deliver a few whacks to their bottoms to emphasize a point they are trying to make.  It may become a little more formal in which they are sent to the room in which the discipline typically takes place and then are spanked with an implement of some sort. But even in this decade, there are still some parents out there that believe that a spanking is more than just the application of pain to a young lady’s bottom.  These parents remember all too well, the long drawn out process, that were the punishments they received growing up and have decided to continue the tradition.  They know, from 1st hand experience, that a spanking that is more of an event leaves a longer lasting impression on the teen girl and greatly decreases the chance of future transgressions.

There are many ways that a spanking can become more of an event that just a spanking alone.  Many old fashioned moms prefer

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Embarrassed as her mom announces her spanking in front of her friends.

for a spanking to be sentenced at some point in the day, but decide to delay is for quite some time.  They use this time to frequently remind their daughter about the spanking that will take place and will often take of advantage of the very embarrassing nature of a teen girl who is still spanked at home.  Like a mom who tells her daughter during breakfast that she is going to get a spanking after school and then drives the carpool.  As her daughter is in the backseat, with her friends on the way to school, laughing and having a good time, she uses that moment to punctuate the fact that she will be spanked.  As the girls are smiling and giggling, she reminds her daughter, in front of her friends, that she is not sure why she is so happy at the moment, as her bottom will be blistered after school.  This not only serves as a reminder, which puts her mind back on the spanking, but it serves a as a very real deterrent.  The next time she considers misbehaving, she will not only think about how much a spanking hurts, she will also think about how horribly embarrassed she was as her mom announced to her friends that she is still spanked as a teen.

Another common method to make a spanking a full on event is to require that a daughter become an active participant in the spanking.  She is not just bent over and spanked; she has to help the overall process in as many ways as possible.  There is the time honored tradition of making a young lady go out in the yard and pick a switch.  Nothing makes a spanking more of an event than making her choose the implement that will be used on her bottom.  As she touches every twig on a tree or a bush, she has to consider what it will feel like when swiped across her bare butt and thighs.  After she chooses, she then has to go through the painstaking task of picking off each and every little leaf.  She might go through the entire process, only to be told by one of her parents, that the switch she chose was not big enough, or long enough, and is sent back out to the yard to start the process all over again.

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Having to pick and clean the very implements that will be used to stripe her bottom and thighs

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The spanking is discussed at the table

There are parents that make a spanking an event by bringing the rest of the family into the conversation.  Many young ladies have had to sit through a family dinner and listen as the parents discuss the spanking that is about to take place, with all of her siblings present.  Everyone, except the naughty girl about to be spanked, grins ear to ear, as the parents talk about the offense that occurred and the spanking that is about to happen.  This is not a private event, it feels more like a board meeting in which the only order of business is how exactly to spank her bottom.  The parents weigh the severity of the situation, the mom lobbies for a paddle to be used for this spanking, bare bottom or not is discussed, and ultimately how many swats she is to get.

 

There are also parents that make the public nature of the spanking continue well past the dinner conversation.  After dinner, chores

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A belt spanking in front of the family

are completed, showers are taken, and everyone gets ready for bed.  Prior to bedtime, the girl to be spanked and all of her siblings are called back down to the family room.  The spanking that is to take place is going to be more of a viewing than just a general spanking.  This serves the purpose of reminding everyone present that if they do not stay on their best behavior that this could indeed be their bottom next time.  But it also serves the purpose of making the spanking a much more memorable event.  No 18 year old girl is comfortable with any level of nudity at that age, around their younger siblings.  Having to bare her bottom with her little brothers watching can be quite embarrassing.  The embarrassment continues as the older sister, who tries to act so tough, is reduced to tears, just like her younger siblings.  They get to see that when her bare bottom is paddled, she is not as tough as she pretends, and she becomes a crying little kid just like the rest of them.

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Mom gives her a hard whoopin in the living room, in full presence of her siblings.

Some parents still chose to supplement a spanking with corner time before or after the spanking.  Being put into a corner is something that most teen girls associate with a punishment for a toddler aged child.  She is quickly reminded of her place and that fact that she is still a child, as mom tells her to go stand in the corner before her spanking.  She is left alone with her thoughts, which at that point, are mostly about how her butt is about to be set on fire.  There is no TV to look at, no cell phone to distract her, she simply stares at a wall and waits for the inevitable.  Even more powerful is corner time after a spanking.  For a simple spanking, in the privacy of a girl’s room, one that is not so much an event, a girl is spanked and left alone.  She can rub her sore bottom as much as she wants and can cry in the privacy of her room, feeling very sorry for herself.  But for the teen girl who is put in corner time after her spanking, with very specific directions not to touch her sore bottom, it is a much different experience.  This is now a full on event and she stand in the corner, with her bare bottom very sore and on display, crying hard for everyone present to hear.  She knows that regardless of what is going on in the home, that her bruised and sore bottom is a very real focal point for everyone in the home.

corner time after a spanking

Spanked on and put on display in corner time

There are those times when the spanking itself becomes a long and drawn out event all on its own.  These come about from the parents who choose to make the spanking and the lecture, simultaneous events.  The parents sit her down and talked to her about her behavior.  At some point she is required to stand up, drop her pants and panties, and get her bottom spanked several times.  She is then required to sit back down, pants and panties at her ankles, and the lecture continues.  When they once again reach a point in which their point needs to be emphasized, they make her bend back over for more swats to her behind.  This process can last as long as an hour, with her bottom being spanked every few minutes.  When parents are dealing with multiple offenses, this really allows them to punctuate each and every infraction and to deal with them on an individual bases.  It also allows them to demonstrate to her which ones they feel are more severe.  The discussion of her attitude might only warrant a dozen with the belt, but when they get to the topic of her report card, 30+ strokes with the belt let her know where she really needs to concentrate her efforts.

For the unfortunate teen, who just can’t seem to get her act together, and has very strict parents, a spanking is not just a simple process meant to hurt her butt.  These parents are creative in their ways and make some spankings an event that they will remember for many years to come.  It might be her active participation, or some public element added to her spanking.  It might take a very embarrassing element added to her spanking like it being on her bare bottom in front of others, or the addition of corner time.  But when all of these elements are added together, it creates a punishment that the teen girl will do anything in her power to avoid in the future, which makes the spanking event, very successful.

Posted September 26th, 2013.

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