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Daughter spanked while laying on the bed

There are many different positions that parents utilize for a proper spanking of the teen girl.  Some girls are still made to feel like the little girl they are acting like and end up crawling over mom or dad’s lap for a hard OTK spanking.  Probably more common, for the older teen, is to be told to bend and place their hands on an object such as a chair, a couch, or more commonly, the edge of their bed.  For the young lady who gets spanked on the spot, wherever the infraction occurs, it is more common for her just to be made to bend over and place her hands on her knees, or even to grab her ankles.  While all of the positions have their benefits, some make it much easier for the naughty girl to move around and to get out of position.

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Baring her tiny teen bottom for a hard strapping from mom.

A tried and true position used for spanking the teen bottom, is that of simply laying down on the bed.  This position has the advantage that there really is nowhere for her to go during her spanking.  If she bends her legs, or moves her arms, it does not change anything regarding the placement of her bottom.  Most teen girls end up struggling during a severe bare bottom spanking, and in this position, all that she can really do is put her hands back, or role to her side.  Both of these problems tend to be self-correcting, as a hard smack with a belt to the hands, tends to keep them out of the way. If she rolls to her side, all the happens is her hips feel the smack, and she quickly realizes that it is much easier to take the spanking on her padded bottom, than on her hips.

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Dad has her lay on the bed for a long spanking with his belt.

There are several variations to this position, and I think most are equally as effective.  Many parents just have their daughter lay over the edge of the bed, in which her feet are still touching the ground.  This allows them full access to her butt and makes it quite easy to deliver hard swats.  This position also allows the spanking to take place with really any implement, as reach is not an issue.  Another variation is for the young lady to be required to lie on the middle of her bed.  Some parents choose to place a couple of pillows for her to lie down on, so her bottom is better presented for spanking.  A huge benefit to this position, if the bed in not against a wall, is equal access to both sides of her butt.  Any teen girl who has ever had a serious spanking with a belt, could tell you that it is generally her right cheek that ends up the most bruised (assuming the parent is right handed).  It is basic physics, in that the end of the belt that is farthest from the hand will be traveling at a higher rate of speed when it makes contact.  With a girl lying down on a bed, her mom or dad is able to switch sides after every few strokes.  A punishment, in which her entire bottom becomes sore and bruised, is much more effective than just a single side being sore.

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Sent to get ready for bed and wait for her spanking. her mom comes in and blisters her teen bottom with a wooden spoon.

So as with any good spanking, the whole process starts with the lecture/sentencing phase.  Her parents sit down with her and calmly explain to her what she has done and why her actions are inappropriate.  There may be discussion of additional punishment such as loss of her cell phone, or grounding, but the conversation ends with her being sentenced to a spanking.  It is typically best if she is told what she will be spanked with, and whether or not it will be on her bare bottom.  This will allow her time to think about what is about to happen.  After she is informed that she is to be spanked, she is sent to her room to await her punishment.

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Dad paddled her hard with his heavy wooden paddle.

While a hard spanking does indeed hurt, it often hurts even more in the teen girl’s head as she sits and waits for it.  No matter how hard she tries to put it out of her mind, all she can really think about is the fact that mom or dad are about to come to her room with the belt, paddle, or wooden spoon.  She knows that any minute now, her world is about to be turned upside down and her bottom will soon be black and blue.  This also serves the purpose of her making those promises to herself that she will not misbehave again, which is the true purpose of the spanking in the 1st place.

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Dad lays her over the edge of her bed, bares her bottom, and teaches her a very real lesson.

Eventually she hears those footsteps coming down the hall towards her room and her heart rate increases even more.  There is that gentle knock on her door, one she that knows she has to respond to, but everything within her does not want to.  She actually has to utter those words “come in”, even though she knows that she is extending an invitation to have her bottom spanked.  Mom or dad then enters her room with the implement of her bottom’s destruction in hand.  She is politely asked to stand up, as her parent grabs the pillows from the end of her bed and places them in the middle.  She is then asked to lower her pants and panties and to climb over the pillows, placing her bottom in the air to be disciplined.

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This time her behavior requires the heavy wooden spoon from mom on her ample teen bottom.

The conversation regarding the spanking has already taken place, so there is really not much left to talk about.  All that is left now is for the real learning to begin.  Unfortunately for this teen girl, she learns best with tears in her eyes and bruises on her bottom.  She is asked if she is ready, and just like when she invited them into her room, she has no choice but to say yes, which is once again inviting the spanking to start.  The implement of choice is raised high into the air and brought down full force to her upturned bottom.  The crack can be heard throughout the house, and her cries are equally as loud.  Before she has a chance to recover from the 1st crack of the paddle, belt, or spoon, the next stroke is laid on equally as hard.  Her body starts to writhe in place as the pain from her bottom is fully processed in her brain.

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Unfortunately for this teen girl, dad is just getting started with his belt. this will not be over until her bottom is black and blue.

Her parents know from experience that the longer and harder a spanking is, the better the long term results in her behavior.  They are not in a rush to get the spanking over with, the goal is a worn out bottom that shows very visible signs that the learning is indeed taking place.  A good dozen strokes are placed onto her bottom and the tears really begin to flow. In order to make sure that they are punishing her to the best of their ability, her mom or dad walks around to the other side of the bed, and starts again, this time making sure the opposite cheek is getting the attention it deserves.  After another dozen hard strokes, they are beginning to see the results that they are looking for.  It is no longer a gentle crying, that has been replaced with heavy sobbing and a very heavy breathing pattern.  Her bottom went from pink, to red, and is now beginning to show the signs of a little bruising.  As the spanking stops momentarily, she has no idea if it is over or not.  Unfortunately, her parent was just moving back to the other side of the bed to start again, wanting to assure complete coverage of her bottom.

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This teen girl is in a lot of trouble, as this time dad brings out his heavy leather razor strap to assure she is taught the lesson she has earned.

Knowing that there is no way she can take even one more stroke, she grips the covers tight and buries her face.  The next wave of pain begins on her already sore bottom, as the strokes from that evil implement come even harder and faster.  This group of 12 in unbearable and she cannot take it.  Once again there is a pause as she listens to her mom or dad walk back to the other side of the bed.  Her poor left butt cheek is now the focus and the spanking on top of the bruising is far too much for her.  She screams and yells into her bedspread as the point is really being brought home.  All she wants is for it all to stop, she swears that she will never misbehave again, she begs for it to stop.  But if it stopped right then, at that very moment, she would be missing out on a big part of this learning process.

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This mom will not stop spanking her daughter with the wooden spoon until her bottom shows the visible signs of learning.

Her parent knows that they have created enough pain to her bottom, at this moment in time, for her to have learned a good lesson, but they do not want the lesson to end once they stop swinging that implement.  They want her lesson to continue throughout the evening, when she awakes for school the next morning, as she sits down at every desk at school that day, and the next day, and the one after that.  Simply setting her bottom on fire will not achieve that type of result, so as good parents, they know they must continue.  They take as many trips back and forth across the bed that is required to teach the long lasting lesson that is needed.  They love her too much to stop just because she is crying.  The discipline continues until her bottom is black and blue and they can rest assured that she will be sitting gingerly for several days to come.  When it is over, her mom or dad step gently out of her room and allow her to be alone with her thoughts and sore bottom.

All of these pictures and animations come directly from the full length videos in the member’s area of Realspankings.com

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Making a spanking an event to remember

For many teen girls the process of getting spanked is quite simple, and it is really just about pain being applied to their bottoms in a forceful manner.  It may even happen right on the spot, in which their mom or dad just grab them by their arm and deliver a few whacks to their bottoms to emphasize a point they are trying to make.  It may become a little more formal in which they are sent to the room in which the discipline typically takes place and then are spanked with an implement of some sort. But even in this decade, there are still some parents out there that believe that a spanking is more than just the application of pain to a young lady’s bottom.  These parents remember all too well, the long drawn out process, that were the punishments they received growing up and have decided to continue the tradition.  They know, from 1st hand experience, that a spanking that is more of an event leaves a longer lasting impression on the teen girl and greatly decreases the chance of future transgressions.

There are many ways that a spanking can become more of an event that just a spanking alone.  Many old fashioned moms prefer

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Embarrassed as her mom announces her spanking in front of her friends.

for a spanking to be sentenced at some point in the day, but decide to delay is for quite some time.  They use this time to frequently remind their daughter about the spanking that will take place and will often take of advantage of the very embarrassing nature of a teen girl who is still spanked at home.  Like a mom who tells her daughter during breakfast that she is going to get a spanking after school and then drives the carpool.  As her daughter is in the backseat, with her friends on the way to school, laughing and having a good time, she uses that moment to punctuate the fact that she will be spanked.  As the girls are smiling and giggling, she reminds her daughter, in front of her friends, that she is not sure why she is so happy at the moment, as her bottom will be blistered after school.  This not only serves as a reminder, which puts her mind back on the spanking, but it serves a as a very real deterrent.  The next time she considers misbehaving, she will not only think about how much a spanking hurts, she will also think about how horribly embarrassed she was as her mom announced to her friends that she is still spanked as a teen.

Another common method to make a spanking a full on event is to require that a daughter become an active participant in the spanking.  She is not just bent over and spanked; she has to help the overall process in as many ways as possible.  There is the time honored tradition of making a young lady go out in the yard and pick a switch.  Nothing makes a spanking more of an event than making her choose the implement that will be used on her bottom.  As she touches every twig on a tree or a bush, she has to consider what it will feel like when swiped across her bare butt and thighs.  After she chooses, she then has to go through the painstaking task of picking off each and every little leaf.  She might go through the entire process, only to be told by one of her parents, that the switch she chose was not big enough, or long enough, and is sent back out to the yard to start the process all over again.

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Having to pick and clean the very implements that will be used to stripe her bottom and thighs

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The spanking is discussed at the table

There are parents that make a spanking an event by bringing the rest of the family into the conversation.  Many young ladies have had to sit through a family dinner and listen as the parents discuss the spanking that is about to take place, with all of her siblings present.  Everyone, except the naughty girl about to be spanked, grins ear to ear, as the parents talk about the offense that occurred and the spanking that is about to happen.  This is not a private event, it feels more like a board meeting in which the only order of business is how exactly to spank her bottom.  The parents weigh the severity of the situation, the mom lobbies for a paddle to be used for this spanking, bare bottom or not is discussed, and ultimately how many swats she is to get.

 

There are also parents that make the public nature of the spanking continue well past the dinner conversation.  After dinner, chores

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A belt spanking in front of the family

are completed, showers are taken, and everyone gets ready for bed.  Prior to bedtime, the girl to be spanked and all of her siblings are called back down to the family room.  The spanking that is to take place is going to be more of a viewing than just a general spanking.  This serves the purpose of reminding everyone present that if they do not stay on their best behavior that this could indeed be their bottom next time.  But it also serves the purpose of making the spanking a much more memorable event.  No 18 year old girl is comfortable with any level of nudity at that age, around their younger siblings.  Having to bare her bottom with her little brothers watching can be quite embarrassing.  The embarrassment continues as the older sister, who tries to act so tough, is reduced to tears, just like her younger siblings.  They get to see that when her bare bottom is paddled, she is not as tough as she pretends, and she becomes a crying little kid just like the rest of them.

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Mom gives her a hard whoopin in the living room, in full presence of her siblings.

Some parents still chose to supplement a spanking with corner time before or after the spanking.  Being put into a corner is something that most teen girls associate with a punishment for a toddler aged child.  She is quickly reminded of her place and that fact that she is still a child, as mom tells her to go stand in the corner before her spanking.  She is left alone with her thoughts, which at that point, are mostly about how her butt is about to be set on fire.  There is no TV to look at, no cell phone to distract her, she simply stares at a wall and waits for the inevitable.  Even more powerful is corner time after a spanking.  For a simple spanking, in the privacy of a girl’s room, one that is not so much an event, a girl is spanked and left alone.  She can rub her sore bottom as much as she wants and can cry in the privacy of her room, feeling very sorry for herself.  But for the teen girl who is put in corner time after her spanking, with very specific directions not to touch her sore bottom, it is a much different experience.  This is now a full on event and she stand in the corner, with her bare bottom very sore and on display, crying hard for everyone present to hear.  She knows that regardless of what is going on in the home, that her bruised and sore bottom is a very real focal point for everyone in the home.

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Spanked on and put on display in corner time

There are those times when the spanking itself becomes a long and drawn out event all on its own.  These come about from the parents who choose to make the spanking and the lecture, simultaneous events.  The parents sit her down and talked to her about her behavior.  At some point she is required to stand up, drop her pants and panties, and get her bottom spanked several times.  She is then required to sit back down, pants and panties at her ankles, and the lecture continues.  When they once again reach a point in which their point needs to be emphasized, they make her bend back over for more swats to her behind.  This process can last as long as an hour, with her bottom being spanked every few minutes.  When parents are dealing with multiple offenses, this really allows them to punctuate each and every infraction and to deal with them on an individual bases.  It also allows them to demonstrate to her which ones they feel are more severe.  The discussion of her attitude might only warrant a dozen with the belt, but when they get to the topic of her report card, 30+ strokes with the belt let her know where she really needs to concentrate her efforts.

For the unfortunate teen, who just can’t seem to get her act together, and has very strict parents, a spanking is not just a simple process meant to hurt her butt.  These parents are creative in their ways and make some spankings an event that they will remember for many years to come.  It might be her active participation, or some public element added to her spanking.  It might take a very embarrassing element added to her spanking like it being on her bare bottom in front of others, or the addition of corner time.  But when all of these elements are added together, it creates a punishment that the teen girl will do anything in her power to avoid in the future, which makes the spanking event, very successful.

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An angry mom with a belt can teach a very real lesson

It really depends on the household as to who is the primary disciplinarian.  For those young ladies live in a home in which the mom is the primary spanker, they need to watch their step.  While dads are known for delivering a hard hitting spanking, never underestimate the resolve of an angry mom with a belt.  Dads are often able to get the job done with fewer strokes, but moms tend to be a little more emotional when it comes to delivering a hard spanking.  In addition, a stay at home mom is the one who sees each and every little infraction, and often lets the little things slide.  But when a teen girl finds herself in enough trouble for a spanking, mom clearly remembers each and every little thing she has done recently.

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Mom wears her daughter’s bottom out with a belt.

It is also more common for a mom to bare the bottom of her daughter than a dad.  As a girl becomes an older teen, showing her bottom is not as common when it comes to being spanked by dad.  But an angry mom has no trouble at all making her daughter pull down her pants and her panties prior to a spanking.  Many dads administer a spanking in a methodical way; simply applying the amount of strokes that he feels is required.  For a mom, she if often spanking until she gets all of her frustrations out and this may indeed lead to a much longer and harder spanking.  Dads often feel sorry for their daughter as she cries and screams her way through a spanking, but moms seem to be much more tolerant of hearing the results of a hard punishment.  If anything, moms often see the screaming and crying as progress, and it does nothing to slow them down.

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The real results of a long and hard bare bottom strapping from mom. This teen girl’s bottom shows what an angry mom is really capable of.

So a teen girl with a strict mom needs to watch her step or her bottom can really pay the price.  She can find herself sent to her room while her mom gets the belt.  The very angry mom enters the room and tells her to pull down her pants and her panties and to turn around and bend over the bed.  Mom’s frustration has built, so this is not going to be a strapping that only involves a dozen strokes.  Instead, this mom is going to get to work on her daughter’s bottom and will not stop until the tears are flowing.  But for this mom, tears alone are not enough.  She is going to work her daughter’s bottom until it every inch of it is black and blue.  She might not spank all that often, but when she does, she wants it to be a memorable life event for her daughter.  This is best accomplished when a bottom is left so sore that sitting is no longer an option.

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