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Making a spanking an event to remember

For many teen girls the process of getting spanked is quite simple, and it is really just about pain being applied to their bottoms in a forceful manner.  It may even happen right on the spot, in which their mom or dad just grab them by their arm and deliver a few whacks to their bottoms to emphasize a point they are trying to make.  It may become a little more formal in which they are sent to the room in which the discipline typically takes place and then are spanked with an implement of some sort. But even in this decade, there are still some parents out there that believe that a spanking is more than just the application of pain to a young lady’s bottom.  These parents remember all too well, the long drawn out process, that were the punishments they received growing up and have decided to continue the tradition.  They know, from 1st hand experience, that a spanking that is more of an event leaves a longer lasting impression on the teen girl and greatly decreases the chance of future transgressions.

There are many ways that a spanking can become more of an event that just a spanking alone.  Many old fashioned moms prefer

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Embarrassed as her mom announces her spanking in front of her friends.

for a spanking to be sentenced at some point in the day, but decide to delay is for quite some time.  They use this time to frequently remind their daughter about the spanking that will take place and will often take of advantage of the very embarrassing nature of a teen girl who is still spanked at home.  Like a mom who tells her daughter during breakfast that she is going to get a spanking after school and then drives the carpool.  As her daughter is in the backseat, with her friends on the way to school, laughing and having a good time, she uses that moment to punctuate the fact that she will be spanked.  As the girls are smiling and giggling, she reminds her daughter, in front of her friends, that she is not sure why she is so happy at the moment, as her bottom will be blistered after school.  This not only serves as a reminder, which puts her mind back on the spanking, but it serves a as a very real deterrent.  The next time she considers misbehaving, she will not only think about how much a spanking hurts, she will also think about how horribly embarrassed she was as her mom announced to her friends that she is still spanked as a teen.

Another common method to make a spanking a full on event is to require that a daughter become an active participant in the spanking.  She is not just bent over and spanked; she has to help the overall process in as many ways as possible.  There is the time honored tradition of making a young lady go out in the yard and pick a switch.  Nothing makes a spanking more of an event than making her choose the implement that will be used on her bottom.  As she touches every twig on a tree or a bush, she has to consider what it will feel like when swiped across her bare butt and thighs.  After she chooses, she then has to go through the painstaking task of picking off each and every little leaf.  She might go through the entire process, only to be told by one of her parents, that the switch she chose was not big enough, or long enough, and is sent back out to the yard to start the process all over again.

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Having to pick and clean the very implements that will be used to stripe her bottom and thighs

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The spanking is discussed at the table

There are parents that make a spanking an event by bringing the rest of the family into the conversation.  Many young ladies have had to sit through a family dinner and listen as the parents discuss the spanking that is about to take place, with all of her siblings present.  Everyone, except the naughty girl about to be spanked, grins ear to ear, as the parents talk about the offense that occurred and the spanking that is about to happen.  This is not a private event, it feels more like a board meeting in which the only order of business is how exactly to spank her bottom.  The parents weigh the severity of the situation, the mom lobbies for a paddle to be used for this spanking, bare bottom or not is discussed, and ultimately how many swats she is to get.

 

There are also parents that make the public nature of the spanking continue well past the dinner conversation.  After dinner, chores

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A belt spanking in front of the family

are completed, showers are taken, and everyone gets ready for bed.  Prior to bedtime, the girl to be spanked and all of her siblings are called back down to the family room.  The spanking that is to take place is going to be more of a viewing than just a general spanking.  This serves the purpose of reminding everyone present that if they do not stay on their best behavior that this could indeed be their bottom next time.  But it also serves the purpose of making the spanking a much more memorable event.  No 18 year old girl is comfortable with any level of nudity at that age, around their younger siblings.  Having to bare her bottom with her little brothers watching can be quite embarrassing.  The embarrassment continues as the older sister, who tries to act so tough, is reduced to tears, just like her younger siblings.  They get to see that when her bare bottom is paddled, she is not as tough as she pretends, and she becomes a crying little kid just like the rest of them.

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Mom gives her a hard whoopin in the living room, in full presence of her siblings.

Some parents still chose to supplement a spanking with corner time before or after the spanking.  Being put into a corner is something that most teen girls associate with a punishment for a toddler aged child.  She is quickly reminded of her place and that fact that she is still a child, as mom tells her to go stand in the corner before her spanking.  She is left alone with her thoughts, which at that point, are mostly about how her butt is about to be set on fire.  There is no TV to look at, no cell phone to distract her, she simply stares at a wall and waits for the inevitable.  Even more powerful is corner time after a spanking.  For a simple spanking, in the privacy of a girl’s room, one that is not so much an event, a girl is spanked and left alone.  She can rub her sore bottom as much as she wants and can cry in the privacy of her room, feeling very sorry for herself.  But for the teen girl who is put in corner time after her spanking, with very specific directions not to touch her sore bottom, it is a much different experience.  This is now a full on event and she stand in the corner, with her bare bottom very sore and on display, crying hard for everyone present to hear.  She knows that regardless of what is going on in the home, that her bruised and sore bottom is a very real focal point for everyone in the home.

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Spanked on and put on display in corner time

There are those times when the spanking itself becomes a long and drawn out event all on its own.  These come about from the parents who choose to make the spanking and the lecture, simultaneous events.  The parents sit her down and talked to her about her behavior.  At some point she is required to stand up, drop her pants and panties, and get her bottom spanked several times.  She is then required to sit back down, pants and panties at her ankles, and the lecture continues.  When they once again reach a point in which their point needs to be emphasized, they make her bend back over for more swats to her behind.  This process can last as long as an hour, with her bottom being spanked every few minutes.  When parents are dealing with multiple offenses, this really allows them to punctuate each and every infraction and to deal with them on an individual bases.  It also allows them to demonstrate to her which ones they feel are more severe.  The discussion of her attitude might only warrant a dozen with the belt, but when they get to the topic of her report card, 30+ strokes with the belt let her know where she really needs to concentrate her efforts.

For the unfortunate teen, who just can’t seem to get her act together, and has very strict parents, a spanking is not just a simple process meant to hurt her butt.  These parents are creative in their ways and make some spankings an event that they will remember for many years to come.  It might be her active participation, or some public element added to her spanking.  It might take a very embarrassing element added to her spanking like it being on her bare bottom in front of others, or the addition of corner time.  But when all of these elements are added together, it creates a punishment that the teen girl will do anything in her power to avoid in the future, which makes the spanking event, very successful.

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Posted in Corporal Punishment Pictures and Corporal Punishment with a Belt and Corporal Punishment with a Paddle and Spanked by Dad and Spanked by Mom by admin on September 26th, 2013 at 10:37 am.

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