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Daughters still receive frequent OTK handspankings from mom and dad

I often write about the more severe aspects of parental corporal punishment for older teenage daughters.  But the reality of it is, many girls are not spanked with the goal of providing long term learning and soreness to her bottom, often it is just about setting her little butt on fire, at that very moment, for her behavior.  Some parents do not see a spanking as a means to eliminating bad behavior; it is simply to punctuate the fact that at that very moment in time, they are not happy with how she is behaving.

Most often this is achieved with a spontaneous handspanking, delivered with the purpose of

burning her bottom for a few minutes, but not with the goal of bruises and soreness.  For a quick spanking such as this, for an older teen girl, it is best accomplished on her bare bottom.  As a hand does not hit with the power of a belt of a paddle, and is primarily designed to just sting, it is not effective over pants.  The purpose is to provide a lot of sting to the skin, so a hand on the bare bottom is really the only way to make this happen.  With a heavy implement like a paddle, the primary goal is to make her sore for several days, so the overall length of the spanking in not quite as important as the lesson will continue long after the paddling is over.  But with a handspanking, the punishment ends pretty much as

soon as the spanking stops.  After the spanking, she will feel a little heat to her bottom, but that is about it.  So it is very important that a bare bottom handspanking last for as long as possible, as all of the learning is taking place during the spanking.

For a handspanking to be the most effective, duration and coverage are very important.  With a paddle, most of the swats are going to be placed low on her bottom, both for safety reasons as well as making sure the part of her bottom that touches when she sits down becomes the most sore.  With a handspanking, there are no dangers posed to her tailbone, so a parent is able to spank every single inch of her bottom, and the top of her

thighs if needed.  The less fleshy parts of her bottom are more sensitive than the lower parts, so full coverage assures that she really feels the burn.  It makes little sense to just keep spanking the same two spots on her bottom, so covering the widest area possible helps to teach her a lesson.   Just as important as coverage is indeed duration.  For a teen girl to really feel the effects of a handspanking, it needs to last as long as the parent is able to spank with a good intensity.  Three to four minutes is an ideal length for a handspanking, and while she will not feel much of it after an hour or so, if done correctly, those four minutes can do a lot in helping her realize her mistakes.

While a handspanking is nowhere as severe as a spanking with a proper implement, there are many strict parents that only use handspankings.  The strictness is not always a result of what someone is spanked with, but can it can also be measured by how often a spanking takes place.  There are some teen girls who get their bottom spanked severely with an implement, in a manner that leaves them sore for days, but this may only occur several times a year.  But there are those moms and dads out there that instead, spank for each and every

little infraction that occurs.  This leads to a situation in which a young lady might end up baring her bottom and going over a parent’s knee for every little thing.  There are households in the US in which a girl may find herself on the receiving end of a spanking, just about every day.  The strict mom never hesitates to spank, and it can simply be the wrong look, the wrong words, chores not done well enough, homework not completed, it really does not matter, each and every one of these issues is always dealt with through spanking.

For these strict parents, when the last spanking occurred has no bearing on the situation at all.  Every single behavior that requires a spanking does indeed lead to a spanking.  They will often treat each infraction separately.  Picture the mom that comes home and sees her daughter watching TV instead of doing homework, and then notices the dishes that are still sitting in the sink.  This behavior does not warrant a single spanking, it requires two.  Her mom turns off the TV, sits down on the couch and pulls her teen

daughter over her knee for a hard bare bottom spanking.  When her bottom is on fire, she is told to get up and take care of the dishes in the sink.  Less than ten minutes later, mom is pulling out a kitchen chair and her daughter once again goes over her knee for another spanking.  The spanking is not shorter or lighter as a result of her bottom already having been spanked; each infraction is dealt with on its own merits.

I grew up with a girl in my neighborhood, one that was spanked until about the age of 15.  As someone that was interested as spanking, I would often pry a little as to what her spankings were like.  She saw spanking as just a fact of life for her, so she was not all that embarrassed to talk about it.  I

can recall the time that she detailed an event that led to three spankings for her in a ten minute period.  There was whatever her original behavior was that earned her a spanking, and it took place in the living room.  When the spanking was over, as she was leaving the living room, she shot her mom a hateful look.  Hateful looks were not allowed in that home, so her mom called her back over, bared her butt, and gave her another spanking.  When that one was over, she went up to her room, and slammed her door.  She knew as soon as the door closed so loudly, that she was in for it again.  She told me that she ran to her window to open it, to blame the door slamming on the wind.  She barely had the window halfway open when her door opened.  Her mom sat down on her bed, bared her butt, and once again pulled her over her knee.  Over the course of a ten minute period of time, she spent the better part of nine minutes getting spanked by her mom.  That was her reality, even as a girl in ninth grade.  I asked her the most spankings she thought she had ever gotten in a week, which she guessed to have been at least 10.

While some parents spank for long term results, others simply spank to demonstrate to

their daughter each and every instances of behavior that they find unacceptable.  It does not have to be a brutal spanking, and they are content with reddening her bottom as often as is required.  Even if the level of pain is not as bad, as a 15+ year old girl, having to bare her bottom and go over one of her parent’s laps, is still a painful and embarrassing event, one that she would prefer to avoid.

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