Severe spanking and corporal punishment for an older teen daughter
The results of a paddling she will remember for a long time.
There are many parents out there that feel that the only proper spanking is one that is delivered severely. It can be for the smallest infraction, but they still feel that if a spanking has been earned, that it needs to be applied in the hardest manner possible. You typically find this kind of strictness and severity in homes in which there is a heavy religious influence. There is the standard Bible quote that is the go to for many strict parents:
“He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes.”
This is their justification for spanking in the 1st place, but the quote that is often interpreted as spanking needs to be administered severely is:
“ Withhold not correction from the child: for [if] thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die.”
Within these homes, young ladies tend to be very well behaved as they know the consequences of their actions will lead to very real
It takes her mom quite awhile to achieve these results, but they result in learning.
and long lasting pain to their bottom. I have read interviews with girls who grew up in very conservative Christian homes, in which every time they were spanked, it continued until they stopped crying altogether. Their parents felt that crying during a spanking was a sign of willfulness, and that a spanking was not over until that willfulness is gone. I also once read an interview with a young woman who had left the Amish community and she gave much detail about the spanking she received at the hands of her mother. She was always punished with a heavy leather strap, in the privacy of her room, with her dress up and her undergarments down, while laying over the edge of the bed. Her mom always strapped her until she stopped crying, but the main problem was that this took a very long time. She went on to give details in which the whole process could go on for well over 20 minutes, and her mom spanked her so hard with the strap, that she often tired out before she could achieve the results she was looking for, leading to her mom having to take many breaks during the strapping.
While not every parent spanks with the goal for the actual crying to stop during the spanking, the strictest of parents, are indeed spanking with the goal of a permanent change of behavior in their teen girl. A hard spanking is generally applied as a result a teen girl’s bad behavior, and is simply a punishment for those actions. But for the more severe offenses, strict parents are not only spanking as a punishment for what they did, but they are trying to address this behavior in the future. This is where the whole concept of long term learning comes into play. Their goal is not for her to just be sorry for what she did, but for the spanking to be severe enough that it affects her thinking process every time she is faced with a decision of right and wrong in the future.
For many teen girls, a bottom bruised this badly is just the norm for them.
This is really only accomplished with a severe enough spanking that she spends close to week with a sore bottom. Teen girls are resilient and a quick spanking from mom or dad can quickly fade from their memories, which once again leads to clouded judgment when faced with future questionable decisions. Maximum clarity is provided to the young lady with maximum soreness and bruising following a spanking. It easy for her to forget how much a two minute handspanking hurt at the time, but it is very hard to forget that severe spanking, with a belt, hairbrush, or paddle in which sitting was not possible for a couple of days, and still quite uncomfortable for close to a week. These are the types of punishment that help to change behavior, as they will never forget that week following that one severe spanking, for the rest of their lives. When it comes to spanking a teen girl, there is no doubt that bruises equal learning.
Many strict parents, for that one offense that the young lady commits that stand head and shoulders above the rest, as most of her
Her mom decides to use the switch on her bare bottom and thighs to teach her a lesson she will never forget.
spankings are already pretty severe, they might chose that moment to find a way to make sure that this one spanking really stands out. This may be the day that she realizes that her mom still has an old antique hairbrush stashed away in a box in the attic that needs to come out for a very severe punishment that leaves her bottom marked and sore in a manner she never knew before. Or maybe the frustrated parent recalls those summers on their grandparent’s farm, in which grandma always sent them for a switch to be used to stripe their bottom and thighs. For a young lady who is used to feeling the belt on a regular basis, the pure sting of a switch can really open her eyes and change her attitude. Some parents elect to simply double the length of a punishment for the more severe actions, but the very strict and creative parents, chose to add additional spankings after the initial spanking. In households this strict, it is not completely out of the question for a daily spanking to be awarded to the naughty young lady, for several days in a row.
The daily spanking is indeed one of the most effective ways to achieve results and
The results of a paddling over an already bruised bottom. She will be sleeping on her side for many days.
learning. Picture the teen girl, in the most trouble she has ever been in in her life, who is sent to her room, for a long session with dad’s paddle, and then told she will get it again, every morning, for the next three days. Each morning, with her muscles tight and sore from the previous paddling, she is woken up by her dad just before he heads out to work. With sleep still in her eyes, she roles out of bed, bares her bruised bottom, and once again is paddled. Nothing teaches a lesson as much as a hard paddling on a bruised bottom. Her bottom is already sore to the touch, sitting is difficult, and she has to sleep on her side, so the feel of the paddle becomes unbearable. By the fourth paddling, he is adding new bruises to already fading bruises, and when it comes to her learning, this is pretty much grad school. It may be harsh and severe, but it is the type of lesson which eliminates that particular bad behavior for the rest of her life. She can be a 40 year old women and she will still remember the offense that she committed, and the resulting punishment, that received when she was 18 years old.
Spanking of this severity are not the norm, but there are many high school age girls, walking down the hall of their school, with their bottoms bruised and sore as you read this. In their strict and religious home, severe corporal punishment is not the exception, it is the norm. Her parents, just like their parents, believe in the teachings of the Bible and they believe misbehavior should be dealt with in a strict and severe manner. They do not think that a spanking is over when their daughter starts to cry, they believe that that is simply a good start. A red bottom will never be enough for them when teaching a lesson, black and blue are the only colors they know. They know that after a spanking, if their daughter is able to sit down at the dinner table, then they have more work to do.
For some girls, severe discipline is a way of life and when they misbehave, their bottom pays the price.
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