The paddling of a teen girl
There are many different implements that parents may choose to use on the teen girl that finds herself in trouble. Certainly when they were little girls, a few smacks with mom or dad’s hand was enough to get the point across, but as they grow older, most parents move onto an implement that is more effective in creating an experience that she would not likely want repeated. In most homes, the belt is the next logical step, as a result of access and effectiveness. There is a suitable belt for spanking in just about every home in the US, which is why it is used so often.
For many parents, especially the moms out there, they will often turn to common household implements, such as a wooden spoon, a coat hanger, a sandal, sometimes even an electrical cord. These are implements that are used more out of convenience as they are just handy. We have all known those girls who were spanked with anything and everything that mom could get a hold of at a second’s notice. She is not particular, does not even really choose the implement based on the offense, she is just a busy woman and the spanking needs to happen at that very moment, without her searching the house for the right tool for the job.
Now there are those special parents, who feel that corporal punishment is not just a spontaneous act, who are willing to go the extra mile to make sure that they have the proper tools, for proper discipline, on hand. They know, in many cases first hand, that effective corporal punishment does not happen accidentally, and are willing to put in the time and the effort to make each and every spanking that they administer is one that will never be forgotten. These also tend to be the parents that don’t just spank for every little thing, often utilizing other methods of punishment, but when they do decide to spank their daughter, they will do it to the best of their ability to make sure that real learning takes place.
For these parents, any household object will not do. They are not just going to grab whatever is handy; they will actually take the time to create the tool that they think will be the most successful in applying a hard spanking. This is where a well-made, sturdy wooden paddle comes into play. Now, not every paddle that is used on a young lady’s bottom in the home is going to be personally made my mom or dad. But this does not mean that they have not put in the time and effort to find the right paddle. It might be an old cutting board found at an antique store, or even an ornamental or decorative paddle that was intended to hang on the wall. The point is that they saw this particular item and felt it would be a successful teaching tool to have in the home. They went out of their way to make sure that they had something that would hurt enough to change their daughter’s behavior.
The next step is the parents, generally the dad, that decide that they need a custom tool to punish their daughter’s bottom with. It might be based on her age, or that previous implements were not getting the desired effect, or maybe that one infraction, that was so bad, that he decided that it was time to show her what a proper spanking is all about. But when a parent is willing to hand make an implement, with the sole purpose of spanking his daughter’s bottom; you know that discipline is taken very seriously in this house.
You rarely see a homemade paddle that is just thrown together and all rough around the edges. If they are going to take the time to build such an important tool, they generally put a lot of time and effort into it. In many cases, he will find himself at the hardware store, examining the various types of woods, checking thickness, durability, and spending the amount of time required to get what will best suit his purposes. Once he gets the wood home, he will stencil out the paddle design on the wood, and get the rough version cut out. He will need to consider how large of a paddle to use, what an effective length for the handle will be, and most importantly, the size of the striking portion of the paddle. Will he be using this paddle more like a hairbrush, going with a thick cheek to cheek sort of design, or does he think something more like a frat paddle, or school paddle will be the most effective to use for corporal punishment.
Once he has the rough shape cut out, clearly he is going to spend some time making it look good, as well as increasing the functionality of the paddle. There will be a lot of sanding, rounding of the edges, and he now needs to consider if holes in the paddle will be beneficial. Holes help the air escape, allowing for a harder paddling, they also can increase bruising, not to mention that a paddle with holes just looks more intimidating. Once he has done the finish work, you can count of the fact that it will require staining. He might even decide to drill a little hole in the handle, so he can attach a loop of cord, so this new family discipline tool can be dis played as a reminder of everyone to behave.
This might seem a little over the top, but you would be amazed at how many homes have a paddle such as this hanging in some obscure location. These are households in which corporal punishment in taken very seriously, and also tend to have some very well behaved teenage girls running around. In many homes, the parents are not shy about the fact that their teenage daughters still need a good paddling from time to time, and they have no problem hanging the paddle in a common area of the house for anyone and everyone to see. You can imagine the added embarrassment, and probably a standard story the young lady tells her friends who come over, about the paddle that is hanging on the wall, which could anything but the truth, that it is used on her bottom when she misbehaves.
The most common factor regarding parents who have chosen to purchase, or build a paddle, is that they take the idea of a spanking very seriously. There is a very good chance that they were raised in a similar environment, in which their own bottoms were completely worn out if they misbehaved, so they know the value and effectiveness of not only a spanking, but a paddling. A paddling is far different from just a regular spanking. Most parents chose to use an implement that provides a lot of sting to their daughter’s bottom, thus making the duration of the spanking the punishment. Very quickly after it is all over, the spanking is all but forgotten and she just goes on with her day. This is a very short term solution to the problem.
But a parent, who is willing to go the extra mile to actually build a paddle to spank their daughter with, is not just looking for a short term solution. They have actively decided that the previous implement that they were using to spank their daughter with was not having the desired effects, and this is saying a lot. A heavy leather belt is indeed a very effective discipline tool, one that has the potential to really wear a young lady’s bottom out. So we are talking about folks who have decided that this is still not enough to get the job done. So there are very few people out there that are going to put in the time and effort to construct a paddle and not use it to its full potential.
The full potential of a paddle is the ability to create long lasting memories of that spanking. It is not an implement that simply creates a stinging sensation to her bottom that quickly goes away. The sensation of a paddle is far different because it brings the muscles in her bottom well into play. It is not just providing a sting to her skin, it is applied in a manner in which the skin is compressed, the fatty tissue is pushed away, and direct contact is made with her muscles. This is where long term learning comes into play. A spanking such as this will be far more painful than what can be accomplished with a belt, so while it is being administered, more learning will actually be taking place. But once her paddling is complete, there is the potential for additional learning for the next day or so.
A proper paddling leads to a very sore bottom. Dad did not spend a few hours in the garage for any other reason but to create an implement that would leave her bottom sore. Why else would he have put in that time if he was not looking for actual results? His goal in the first place, in choosing that ¾” piece of oak, was to make sure that she would feel the spanking for a few days. Not only will there be additional long term soreness, but there will also be a visual reminder for her as to the results of her actions. She might even have a few embarrassing moments in the school locker room, for the rest of that week, as she tries her best to hide that fact that she has a bruised bottom. It is very embarrassing to be a 17 year old girl who is not only still spanked, but actually paddled with the paddle that hangs on the living room wall.
The pictures used in this post are not staged photos, they are pictures from the very real videos that show exactly how a hard paddling is applied in the homes of America. Exclusively at Realspankings.com
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