I often write about the process of corporal punishment being administered in the home. While it is often a long and drawn out event, with a lecture, some waiting, and then a hard spanking administered by a parent, sometimes it is much more simple than that. There are many teen girls who find themselves in trouble and are facing a very pissed off mom. There is not a lecture, there is not a kind and gentle explanation of “this is going to hurt me more than it is going to hurt you”, or “I am sorry, this is for your own good”. Often there is a pissed off mom who makes her daughter strip off her pants and gets to work beating her bottom with a belt. I do not think it is the best method, but sometimes a mom just needs to take out her frustrations with her daughter using a belt. There are many teen girls throughout the world that experience a very hard and very angry whoopin on a regular basis. The animations below show exactly what i am talking about.
A pissed off mom with a belt leads to a blistered bottom for this teen girl.
Feeling mom;s anger and her belt during this bare bottom strapping.
When she was little her mom handled all of the spankings in the house. About the time that she was 15 she was given a spanking from her mom, while her dad was present, and after it was all over, as she walked out of the room, both her parents heard her mutter under her breath, “it didn’t even hurt”. Her dad walked out of the room, grabbed her by the arm, and gave her the hardest spanking of her life with his hand over her jeans. From that day on he was the only one who spanked her bottom.
But after that 1st spanking he gave her, he decided that there was no reason to hurt his hand the way he just had so he went into the garage and built an oval shaped paddle out of some spare oak he had from shelves he had built in his office. Discipline became quick and simple from that day forward whenever it was required. The process was always the same and it never wavered regardless of the offense.
Bending over for a 100 swat paddling from her dad.
The small oak paddle was kept in a drawer in the kitchen, which is also where she was always spanked. He would march her into the kitchen, have her bend over and put her hands on her knees. He never bared her bottom as it was not required, the oak paddle had enough thud to it that she felt every bit of her spanking through her pants. Once she was bent over, he would spank as hard as possible and very fast. He always gave her 100 paddle swats, laying two on one cheek and then two on the other. If she took her hands off of her knees, stood up, or moved her feet at all, the count started over again. It was quick, effective, left her bottom bruised, and with tears in her eyes. Since that day a few years ago when dad took over the spanking, she has never again stated that a spanking did not hurt.
He paddles her teen bottom long and hard and does not stop until all 100 swats have been applied severely.
Mom is pissed and her bottom is going to pay the price.
The timing was quite unfortunate for Brandi, but this was not the 1st time this had come about. Since Brandi graduated from high school, she decided to have a very lazy summer. She had not gotten a job yet, nor had she applied to any colleges. Her mom had grown very tired of Brandi’s lazy ways and one of the center points of this issue was the ongoing issue with Brandi’s room. Her mom was always on her case about her room but Brandi seemed to choose to not do anything about it.
That morning at breakfast, while Brandi was still sleeping, her mom had a full on melt down while speaking to her husband. She told him that she was at her wits ends and did not even know what to do anymore. She stated that she was about to freak out over the state of Brandi’s room. Brandi’s dad offered her a simple solution and told her that when she got home from work today that is Brandi’s room was still out of control, that she should take Brandi over her knee and spank her bare bottom like she used to when Brandi was a little girl. Brandi had not been spanked in almost 10 years, but her mom felt that would be
Her 1st spanking in 10 years is going to happen in front of her best friend.
fitting punishment and agreed 100% with him. If, at the age of 19, she was going to act like a spoiled little girl, she would give her the spanking she deserved.
At 4:30 Brandi’s mom came home, half hoping that her room would be clean, but also kind of hoping it was not. Brandi’s mom was fed up and giving her daughter a good spanking would help her to feel better. It had not occurred to her in many years to spank her daughter’s bottom, but she knew that Brandi deserved it. She marched right up to Brandi room where she could hear music blaring. Without knocking she opened the door and saw Brandi and her best friend Jill sitting on the bed. Brandi room was far worse than it had been the last time her mom checked, so
Mom takes out her anger on her daughter’s bottom.
she was fuming in an instant. She had not planned on Jill being present, but she had been psyching herself up for this moment all day and there was no turning back now.
She yelled at Brandi about her room, her mom was completely furious at this point. She said that she had had enough and that it was time for a consequence. Brandi’s mom knocked enough stuff off of the bed to make room to sit down and told Brandi that she was getting a long and hard spanking. Brandi actually laughed as she did not believe her mom. Brandi’s mom said loud and clear, “if you do not get your pants and panties down, RIGHT NOW, I am going to go get a belt and beat your ass black and blue”. Brandi started to get the point and slowly unbuttoned her pants. Jill tried to excuse herself but Brandi’s mom told her to stay where she was. Jill had never seen her so mad and simply said “Yes Ma’am”, words she had never used before with Brandi’s mom.
As soon as Brandi’s bottom was bare her mom yanked her over her knee and started spanking hard. This was not the kind of spanking
Her bottom is getting red but this spanking will last more than 5 minutes.
in which a parent is gentle in their approach, or it is done out of love and kindness. Her mom was mad, as mad as she can remember being and Brandi’s cute bottom was going to pay the price. She spanked with a ferocity that she did not know she had in her. This was not the kind of spanking that she gave Brandi when she was nine or ten, this was an intense, hardcore, bare bottom beating, as hard as she could smack. Over and over again she spanked her daughter’s bottom as Brandi started to kick and scream. Poor Jill just sat there dumbfounded but could not help watch the whole thing. She watched as her best friend’s butt went from a nice shade of pink to a deep and dark red. She had always known Brandi to be pretty tough and was completely caught off guard as Brandi began to cry. Once Brandi’s tears began her mom stopped. Brandi and Jill both were glad that it was finally over.
Jill can’t help but to look at her friend’s well spanked bottom.
Brandi’s mom sat there for a minute, completely out of breath. While Brandi was still over her lap she asked her if this was going to be enough to get her to clean her “God DAMN ROOM”. Brandi answered yes through her tears, in which her mom replied, “it is almost enough to get you to clean your room”. She then proceeded to start the entire spanking over again. Brandi’s crying intensified as her mom got all of her anger out on her daughter’s bottom. She once again spanked as hard and fast as she could and was quickly achieving the results she was looking for. Brandi was reduced to a 19 year old, crying little baby. After at least another three minutes of solid spanking her mom stopped. She told Brandi to get up off of her lap. Brandi jumped right up and began to rub her bright red bottom. Jill tried to be causal about the whole thing, but she could not help but to stare at her friend’s glowing bottom. Brandi’s mom told Jill that now she could go home. Brandi’s mom told her that she had 30 minutes to make her room perfect or that they would start again with the belt. With tears in her eyes and a sore bottom, Brandi started to clean her room.
There are many steps required for an effective spanking took take place in the home environment. For many decades these steps have assured a well spanked bottom and a proper lesson being learned. Let’s take a look at each of the steps individually.
Her mom lectures her and tells her exactly why she is about to be spanked.
The Lecture
The 1st step in any proper spanking is the lecture. It does no good when punishing a young lady if she does not know exactly why she is being spanked. Good parents will sit down with their teen daughter and explain exactly what aspect of her behavior has found to be undesirable. She will be informed that what she did is not allowed and that she needs to be punished for it. The lecture should give her full ownership of her actions and full ownership of the
Being told in a loving and gentle manner that she is about to have her bare bottom paddled.
punishment that she has earned. Good parents will structure this lecture based on a cause and effect relationship between her actions and the punishment. She is not being spanked because they are mad at her, she is being spanked because that is the punishment that she knows she will receive when she misbehaves. It is her actions, and her actions only, that have led to this moment. She knew when she made the conscience decision to break the rules, that if she was caught, there would indeed be consequences. She has earned the spanking she is about to receive and it is the parents job to see to it that she gets exactly what she has earned.
Sent to her room, told to change into her PJ’s and wait for her spanking.
The Wait
The next step in a proper spanking, after the lecture, is a period of waiting. While some parents like to administer a spanking on the spot, at the very moment an infraction occurs, this is not always the most effective approach. Once a young lady has been informed of what she did wrong and the punishment she will receive, she needs a little time to consider her actions. Most parents will send their daughter to her room for a little while before her spanking. This allows her time alone with her thoughts and to help her better figure out not only what she did to get herself into this situation, but what she can do in the future to avoid a similar circumstance. This also gives her time to sit and think about the spanking she is about to receive. The stress alone of waiting for a spanking can be a powerful learning tool and is an effective addition to any spanking. Yes, the physical pain of a spanking can be unbearable, but sitting and thinking about how much her bottom is going to hurt as a result can be equally as painful emotionally. A spanking itself is about more than just the physical application of pain to a teen girl’s bottom, it is a process, and waiting for her butt to be spanked in an important part of that process.
Sent to her room to wait, with the very paddle that will be used on her teen bottom. She looks at it and wonders how bad her bottom will be bruised.
Into Position
Many people see a young lady being put into position for her spanking as simply being a requirement to get the job done. However, positioning is one of the most important steps regarding a spanking. This step is most important because it requires her to become an active participant in her punishment. No teen girl should be forced into position prior to her spanking, she needs to cooperate. This is her spanking, she has earned it, it is for her own good, so she needs to assist in the process. Having her get into position also serves as a reminder that regardless of her age, she is still a child to her parents. She may feel all grown up at the age of 17 or 18, but as long as she misbehaves in this home, her bottom can still pay the price. This is very much emphasized when a parent instructs their teen daughter to basically present her bottom to be punished.
Getting into position for a hard bare bottom spanking from her mom.
The position chosen is also quite important and is more than just functional. Yes, the right position needs to be chosen for the type of implement used, as we would not want a teen girl over the knee for a hard belt spanking or a paddling with a large paddle, but the position can add very effective elements to a spanking. An 18 year old girl, that is just too big for her britches, might benefit from having to lay over her dad’s lap for a hard otk spanking. Just when she is feeling all grown up she is being spanked the same way a young child would be. This serves as a reminder of who is really the boss in the family and who is still acting like a child. Position can also really make a teen girl feel exposed, or even embarrassed for her spanking. Nothing makes a young lady’s heart race than being told to bend over and grab her ankles for a good and hard paddling. This is not a position of comfort and when her bottom is bare, it certainly makes her feel exposed and on display. This position also goes back to the cooperation factor during a spanking. A paddling in this position is not the same as lying over a pillow on the side of her bed where she can just lay there and take it. This position requires her full attention to even stay in place while her bottom is paddled. She has to assist in her punishment to even get through the whole process and certainly lack of assistance requires more paddling. Different positions provide different experiences and it is a vital part of the process of being spanked.
Clothing or Lack there of
In some families as a teen gets older they often stop with bare bottom spankings. As she has grown to become a woman her parents may decide to allow her a little modesty during her spanking. I can understand this concept, but clearly a bare bottom spanking works the best. Just as with position, the process of baring a bottom for a spanking is more than just functional. When a teen girl requires a bare bottom spanking there are two approaches to getting her bottom bare, both which are very effective. The 1st is to require her to lower her pants and panties for her spanking. Once again, she is part of the whole process and is assisting in her spanking. Nothing allows ownership of a spanking as much as her having to remove all the physical barriers between her skin and whatever she is going to be spanked with. As she lowers her clothing and panties she knows she is actively helping to make the process of her spanking hurt even more. This also once again demonstrates who is in charge as there is no other situation in her life (except maybe jail) in which an adult can demand that she take down her panties and show her bare bottom.
She is an active participant in her punishment as she is required to bare her bottom, bend over, and present her little butt to be spanked by her dad.
The other situation is when a parent chooses to bare her bottom for her. There is no questioning the power dynamic that is exchanged when this happens. When a dad sits down and tells his daughter to step closer, and then reaches for the button on his daughter’s pants, there is no doubt who is still a child in this relationship. To have to stand there as her dad lowers her pants and then her panties is quite embarrassing for the teen girl. It is a very effective way to let her know that dad is still fully in control of her life and is still not beyond taking down her pants to blister her bottom. Baring a teen bottom for a spanking is about more than just adding additional pain it adds a very important dynamic that aids in the overall process of an effective punishment.
Nothing makes an 18 year old girl feel more like a child than when dad bares her bottom and then takes her over his lap.
The Actual Spanking
All of the steps outlined here are an important part of any spanking, as a spanking is a complete
Mom lays her over a pillow on the bed and blisters her bottom with a heavy leather belt.
process, and not just about the smacking of a teen girl’s bottom. But at some point during the process we get the actual application of physical pain to a girl’s bottom. There are many different ways to spank, different implements to use, and different positions for a young lady to be spanked in. Since we are discussing the punishment of an older teen girl, we will assume that hand spankings went out the window a long time ago. Most girls who are still spanked at the age of 17-18, have probably been spanked all of their lives. Typical parents progress to implements that are more severe as the young lady grows older. The most common implement used most often on a teen girl’s bottom is a belt. Every house has many and there are often many variations of belts to use depending on the severity of the infraction. A recent viral video of the Judge spanking his daughter with a belt is a perfect example. After he discovers what his daughter has been up to, he sends his wife to get the belt, and you can clearly hear him say “get the big one”.
Mom uses the heavy wood paddle to bruise her bottom.
Many families also make good use of a paddle. There are many dads in this country, fed up with their daughter’s behavior, which decided to go out into their garage and make a proper punishment paddle. No dad has ever gone out and built a little ping pong type paddle, they tend to go more with fraternity style paddles. There are 3 ft long, ¾”, oak paddles alive and well throughout this country. Many moms find this type of paddle quite effective as they do not have to work so hard to punish their daughter’s bottom, as a single swat with a heavy fraternity type paddle, gets the point across.
Regardless of the implement used, what makes a spanking effective for an older teen girl in
With her bottom and thighs a proper shade of red, it is time for dad to start bruising her bottom.
the intensity and longevity of the spanking itself. Let’s face it; parents who are still spanking their teen daughter at the age of 17 or 18 are quite strict. They are not spanking her just as a simple little warning, or to just get her attention, she is being spanked as a very real and serious punishment. They are spanking in an attempt to extinguish the behavior, not just as a reminder to not do it. A spanking in this situation needs to be painful, almost impossible to endure, and it needs last well beyond the actual smacking of her bottom. It also cannot be something she is just able to grit her teeth through and take it. A real spanking always involves tears and not just a few of them. Many parents feel that the spanking has not actually started until their daughter is crying. Anything before the tears is basically a warm-up and when the tears start to flow is when they feel the learning has started to take place. An older teen girl requires a lot of learning so the spanking needs to last as long as is required.
With all of her bottom now stinging, it is time to really get to work. He concentrates the hairbrush on the lowest part of her bottom, assuring she will be bruised and sore for many days.
Obviously, different implements require a differing amount of strokes. A heavy wooden paddle can get the job done in as few as 20 swats, where a belt might require more than 100 strokes to get to the same place. Some parents give a set amount of swats based on the infraction, others go by time, but the most successful method is to go until the desired reaction is achieved. The desired results can be measured in two different ways and both are required. The 1st is the emotional state of the girl being spanked. There should be a logical progression from grunts, to the 1st tears, to full out uncontrollable crying, to her finally achieving a moment where she begins to settle down a little. This process demonstrates that she has taken her punishment, felt every second of it, and finally starts to give in to it. This is a sure fire sign of learning taking place.
Tears show that she is starting to learn a lesson.
The desired results of a proper spanking having been administered should also be very visible on her bottom. This is another reason that a bare bottom spanking is best, as the results can be visibly measured. A properly spanked bottom will have no area on it that is not glowing a very fierce red. The purpose of the spanking while it is in progress is to provide as much sting as possible to her teen ass. There is no reason her entire bottom should not be covered as well as the very top of the thighs. Any spot on her bottom that is not glowing red is just a missed opportunity for learning. From the top of her butt crack to the top of her thighs, as well as from her left hip to her right, she should feel the pulsating sting from every smack. While I bright red bottom serves its purpose during the spanking, those sensations fade very quickly. Just left with a red bottom and in less than an hour, the spanking is a distant memory. Effective parents choose to add a little more color to a teen girl’s bottom to make sure the lesson stays with her for a while.
Her mother does not stop spanking once her bottom is red and the tears begin to flow. She knows the importance of a well bruised bottom and does not stop until she is black and blue.
Many people feel that a bruised bottom may be abusive. But we are not talking about parents beating their kids out of anger, or abusing them in any way. This discussion is about parents who take the time to give their daughters the punishment they not only deserve, but have earned. They are willing to go the extra mile to assure that a lesson is learned, and learned well. The most effective spanking are not over after the last smack, they need to last for days. The only way this is possible is with a bruised bottom. The area of focus is a young lady’s bottom, it is fleshy, and if she is bent in the proper manner, even severe swats from a heavy oak paddle will not do any permanent damage. A proper spanking involves soreness that last for a minimum of three days and this is only accomplished when her young bottom is left bruised. Many parents start by covering every square inch of their daughter’s bottom and then focus on the lower portion of her bottom for an even harder spanking. Just above the spot where her thighs meet her butt is what is often referred to as the “sit spot”. This is the spot in which it is impossible to avoid contact with a chair when she sits down. Regardless of the implement, any proper spanking will end with a couple minutes dedicated to this part of her anatomy. After many swats her bottom will tend to go numb anyway, but the point is not for the pain she will be feeling at the moment, this extra work is for down the road.
A Very Sore Bottom
She inspects her bruised bottom in the mirror…she will be sore for days.
The final phase of a proper spanking is a teen girl with a very sore bottom. Moments after her spanking, her bottom will be on fire. They may be a little numbness as a result of a severe spanking, but you can count on her feeling a good burn. It will take her some time to calm herself down, but once her tears are dry, she will still have a burning pain. As a result of endorphins, which help to combat the pain during the spanking, over the next hour the pain will gradually get worse, not better. Her body relaxes, the numbness goes away, and she really starts to feel the effects. Just as the burn of the spanking starts to fade, the deep pain in her muscles will begin. This is where a bruised bottom comes into play and she really starts to feel a tightness in her muscles and the pulsating sting from her red bottom become a much deeper pulse from deep within.
If she was properly spanked the pain will become worse over a day or two. The next morning following a spanking tends to be the worse. She wakes up to a bottom that is so sore that she can barely believe it. Walking, standing,
Three days after a severe spanking her bottom still shows the marks. Sitting is still not an option.
but most especially sitting hurts very much. The pulsating feeling from the night before is replaced with a heavy throbbing and with each beat of her heart she feels pain on her poor teen bottom. This is why the bruising phase of a spanking is so important. She is not able to get up and start her day, trying to put the spanking from the night before behind her, the worst part of her spanking in actually in front of her. For at least another 24 hours, the pain from this spanking will continue to build. The pain will build until about 36-48 hours after her spanking, but it will not end there. After the 3rd day her bottom will start to feel a little better, that does not mean she will not still be uncomfortable, but it will at least start to become bearable again. She will eventually be able to start sitting comfortably after four days or so. A severe spanking, especially when administered with a wooden implement like a paddle or hairbrush, can leave her bottom sore for up to a week, with bruises still visible for up to a couple of weeks.
A proper spanking is not just about smacking a bottom, it is a process, an event, one with many steps, each important in the learning process. It is her spanking, she has earned it, and it is up to her parents to not skip a single step, as each one helps reduce the chances of her committing that infraction ever again. Photos and animation all come from severe punishment videos at Realspankings.com
Bent over the couch for her hairbrush spanking.
Corporal punishment is quick, simple, frequent and effective in her house. As the oldest of 5 children, she is quite used to having her butt spanked. As a child her mom used her hand and once she reached about middle school she graduated to the exclusive use of the hairbrush on her bottom. For her and all of her siblings a spanking was a very normal, if not daily event in their home. Their mother spanked hard and spanked often for each and every little offense that any of the children committed. It was such a normal event, that when one of them was getting spanked, it barely raised the attention of any of the others.
Every spanking that was administered in this household took place in the family room. This was
Her bottom becomes bruised from the very beginning of her spanking from mom.
the most central and most used area of the house. With five kids their mother was quite busy most of the day and did not have time to send kids to their rooms to be spanked. Whenever a spanking was required she simply bent the offending child over the arm of the couch. The younger kids were still spanked with her hand, while for the older ones; she kept a hairbrush in the drawer of the end table next to the couch. Bottoms were always bared for a spanking regardless of the offense.
As long as the oldest daughter could remember she had always been spanked in this manner, over the couch and on her bare bottom. It would often take place in front of many of her siblings as this room was the primary gathering place in the house as well as the room with the TV and Xbox in it. Since her bottom had been bared in front of her siblings for her whole life, it was not all that embarrassing anymore, even now at the age of 17. She had seen all of their bare butts being spanked more times than she could count. There were those few occasions when a spanking could not wait and she found herself baring her butt in front of one of her sibling’s friends, but in this house, it just came with the territory.
Already feeling the sting from the hairbrush, but this will not be over until she is crying.
When a spanking was called for, her mom was not big on words. There were many times that it was not until she had bared her butt and was bending over that she even knew what she was getting spanked for. Her mom’s favorite phrase prior to a spanking was quick and to the point, “That’s it, you are getting spanked”. Those words basically meant that she needed to get her butt into the family room, bare it, and present it. There
The bruises on her bottom are coming along nicely.
was no arguing, it simply made things far worse. When she was told she was to be spanked, it was a reality, it was set in stone, and there was no changing her mom’s mind. She had learned it was best to just suck it up and get it over with, there was no reversing a decision and any attempts to do so
just led to lots more spanking. If her mom said those words, she would literally walk over to the couch, pull down her pants and her panties, and then bend over and wait. It would sometimes take a minute or two for her mom to stop what she was doing and she would just have to lay over the arm of the couch and hope her mom got right to it.
Once her mom was ready, the whole process rarely took more than 2 minutes. Her mom would walk over to the end table, open the drawer and grab the dreaded hairbrush. She was a busy woman and did not have much time to spare for such things she so always got the spankings over with quickly. She would walk behind her daughter and just started spanking with the
Her mom spanks hard enough enough that each smack with the brush leaves a bruise.
hairbrush. Her style was always the same. She would lay the brush on one cheek, raise it up, and smack that cheek extremely hard. The brush would then touch the other cheek for a brief second and the process would be repeated. The brush was thick and heavy and each swat would leave a small purple bruise. It was a hard enough spanking that even at this age, after years of hairbrush spankings, it always led to tears. They really were not an option as her mom did never gave a set number of strokes, or spanked for a set amount of time, she simply spanked until she had her daughter crying. Tears alone were not enough as she required the type of crying that demonstrated that a lesson was learned. She typically received between 50-60 swats with the hairbrush over a 2 minute period of time. This was ample time to really get the tears going and to leave her bottom properly bruised.
When the spanking was complete, it was like nothing had ever happened. Her mom might say something like “that should do it” and then simply get back to fixing dinner or whatever other household chore she was in the middle of at the time. There was not a single word said about the spanking, it basically erased all evidence of whatever she was being punished for. It would take her a moment to compose herself, get her pants back up, and to wipe away her tears. Her bottom would be very sore for a day or two, but that was the only real evidence that a spanking had taken place. Her dad was rarely even informed that one of his kids had been in trouble. As far as her mom was concerned, bad behavior required a hard spanking, but then that was the end of it.
Mom spanks long and hard providing her with a bruised bottom and tears in her eyes…a lesson learned.
