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The entire process of spanking an older teen girl

There are many steps required for an effective spanking took take place in the home environment.  For many decades these steps have assured a well spanked bottom and a proper lesson being learned.  Let’s take a look at each of the steps individually.

 

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Her mom lectures her and tells her exactly why she is about to be spanked.

The Lecture
The 1st step in any proper spanking is the lecture.  It does no good when punishing a young lady if she does not know exactly why she is being spanked.  Good parents will sit down with their teen daughter and explain exactly what aspect of her behavior has found to be undesirable.  She will be informed that what she did is not allowed and that she needs to be punished for it.  The lecture should give her full ownership of her actions and full ownership of the

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Being told in a loving and gentle manner that she is about to have her bare bottom paddled.

punishment that she has earned. Good parents will structure this lecture based on a cause and effect relationship between her actions and the punishment.  She is not being spanked because they are mad at her, she is being spanked because that is the punishment that she knows she will receive when she misbehaves.  It is her actions, and her actions only, that have led to this moment.  She knew when she made the conscience decision to break the rules, that if she was caught, there would indeed be consequences.  She has earned the spanking she is about to receive and it is the parents job to see to it that she gets exactly what she has earned.

 

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Sent to her room, told to change into her PJ’s and wait for her spanking.

The Wait
The next step in a proper spanking, after the lecture, is a period of waiting.  While some parents like to administer a spanking on the spot, at the very moment an infraction occurs, this is not always the most effective approach.  Once a young lady has been informed of what she did wrong and the punishment she will receive, she needs a little time to consider her actions.  Most parents will send their daughter to her room for a little while before her spanking.  This allows her time alone with her thoughts and to help her better figure out not only what she did to get herself into this situation, but what she can do in the future to avoid a similar circumstance.  This also gives her time to sit and think about the spanking she is about to receive.  The stress alone of waiting for a spanking can be a powerful learning tool and is an effective addition to any spanking.  Yes, the physical pain of a spanking can be unbearable, but sitting and thinking about how much her bottom is going to hurt as a result can be equally as painful emotionally.  A spanking itself is about more than just the physical application of pain to a teen girl’s bottom, it is a process, and waiting for her butt to be spanked in an important part of that process.

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Sent to her room to wait, with the very paddle that will be used on her teen bottom. She looks at it and wonders how bad her bottom will be bruised.

Into Position
Many people see a young lady being put into position for her spanking as simply being a requirement to get the job done.  However, positioning is one of the most important steps regarding a spanking.  This step is most important because it requires her to become an active participant in her punishment.  No teen girl should be forced into position prior to her spanking, she needs to cooperate.  This is her spanking, she has earned it, it is for her own good, so she needs to assist in the process. Having her get into position also serves as a reminder that regardless of her age, she is still a child to her parents.  She may feel all grown up at the age of 17 or 18, but as long as she misbehaves in this home, her bottom can still pay the price.  This is very much emphasized when a parent instructs their teen daughter to basically present her bottom to be punished. 

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Getting into position for a hard bare bottom spanking from her mom.

The position chosen is also quite important and is more than just functional.  Yes, the right position needs to be chosen for the type of implement used, as we would not want a teen girl over the knee for a hard belt spanking or a paddling with a large paddle, but the position can add very effective elements to a spanking.  An 18 year old girl, that is just too big for her britches, might benefit from having to lay over her dad’s lap for a hard otk spanking.  Just when she is feeling all grown up she is being spanked the same way a young child would be.  This serves as a reminder of who is really the boss in the family and who is still acting like a child.  Position can also really make a teen girl feel exposed, or even embarrassed for her spanking.  Nothing makes a young lady’s heart race than being told to bend over and grab her ankles for a good and hard paddling.  This is not a position of comfort and when her bottom is bare, it certainly makes her feel exposed and on display.  This position also goes back to the cooperation factor during a spanking.  A paddling in this position is not the same as lying over a pillow on the side of her bed where she can just lay there and take it.  This position requires her full attention to even stay in place while her bottom is paddled.  She has to assist in her punishment to even get through the whole process and certainly lack of assistance requires more paddling.  Different positions provide different experiences and it is a vital part of the process of being spanked.

Clothing or Lack there of
In some families as a teen gets older they often stop with bare bottom spankings.  As she has grown to become a woman her parents may decide to allow her a little modesty during her spanking.  I can understand this concept, but clearly a bare bottom spanking works the best.  Just as with position, the process of baring a bottom for a spanking is more than just functional.  When a teen girl requires a bare bottom spanking there are two approaches to getting her bottom bare, both which are very effective.  The 1st is to require her to lower her pants and panties for her spanking.  Once again, she is part of the whole process and is assisting in her spanking.  Nothing allows ownership of a spanking as much as her having to remove all the physical barriers between her skin and whatever she is going to be spanked with.  As she lowers her clothing and panties she knows she is actively helping to make the process of her spanking hurt even more.  This also once again demonstrates who is in charge as there is no other situation in her life (except maybe jail) in which an adult can demand that she take down her panties and show her bare bottom.

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She is an active participant in her punishment as she is required to bare her bottom, bend over, and present her little butt to be spanked by her dad.

The other situation is when a parent chooses to bare her bottom for her.  There is no questioning the power dynamic that is exchanged when this happens.  When a dad sits down and tells his daughter to step closer, and then reaches for the button on his daughter’s pants, there is no doubt who is still a child in this relationship.  To have to stand there as her dad lowers her pants and then her panties is quite embarrassing for the teen girl.  It is a very effective way to let her know that dad is still fully in control of her life and is still not beyond taking down her pants to blister her bottom.  Baring a teen bottom for a spanking is about more than just adding additional pain it adds a very important dynamic that aids in the overall process of an effective punishment.

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Nothing makes an 18 year old girl feel more like a child than when dad bares her bottom and then takes her over his lap.

The Actual Spanking
All of the steps outlined here are an important part of any spanking, as a spanking is a complete

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Mom lays her over a pillow on the bed and blisters her bottom with a heavy leather belt.

process, and not just about the smacking of a teen girl’s bottom.  But at some point during the process we get the actual application of physical pain to a girl’s bottom.   There are many different ways to spank, different implements to use, and different positions for a young lady to be spanked in.  Since we are discussing the punishment of an older teen girl, we will assume that hand spankings went out the window a long time ago.  Most girls who are still spanked at the age of 17-18, have probably been spanked all of their lives.  Typical parents progress to implements that are more severe as the young lady grows older.  The most common implement used most often on a teen girl’s bottom is a belt.  Every house has many and there are often many variations of belts to use depending on the severity of the infraction.  A recent viral video of the Judge spanking his daughter with a belt is a perfect example.  After he discovers what his daughter has been up to, he sends his wife to get the belt, and you can clearly hear him say “get the big one”.

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Mom uses the heavy wood paddle to bruise her bottom.

Many families also make good use of a paddle.  There are many dads in this country, fed up with their daughter’s behavior, which decided to go out into their garage and make a proper punishment paddle.  No dad has ever gone out and built a little ping pong type paddle, they tend to go more with fraternity style paddles.  There are 3 ft long, ¾”, oak paddles alive and well throughout this country.  Many moms find this type of paddle quite effective as they do not have to work so hard to punish their daughter’s bottom, as a single swat with a heavy fraternity type paddle, gets the point across.

Regardless of the implement used, what makes a spanking effective for an older teen girl in

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With her bottom and thighs a proper shade of red, it is time for dad to start bruising her bottom.

the intensity and longevity of the spanking itself.  Let’s face it; parents who are still spanking their teen daughter at the age of 17 or 18 are quite strict.  They are not spanking her just as a simple little warning, or to just get her attention, she is being spanked as a very real and serious punishment.  They are spanking in an attempt to extinguish the behavior, not just as a reminder to not do it.  A spanking in this situation needs to be painful, almost impossible to endure, and it needs last well beyond the actual smacking of her bottom.  It also cannot be something she is just able to grit her teeth through and take it.  A real spanking always involves tears and not just a few of them.  Many parents feel that the spanking has not actually started until their daughter is crying.  Anything before the tears is basically a warm-up and when the tears start to flow is when they feel the learning has started to take place.  An older teen girl requires a lot of learning so the spanking needs to last as long as is required.

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With all of her bottom now stinging, it is time to really get to work. He concentrates the hairbrush on the lowest part of her bottom, assuring she will be bruised and sore for many days.

Obviously, different implements require a differing amount of strokes.  A heavy wooden paddle can get the job done in as few as 20 swats, where a belt might require more than 100 strokes to get to the same place.  Some parents give a set amount of swats based on the infraction, others go by time, but the most successful method is to go until the desired reaction is achieved.  The desired results can be measured in two different ways and both are required.  The 1st is the emotional state of the girl being spanked.  There should be a logical progression from grunts, to the 1st tears, to full out uncontrollable crying, to her finally achieving a moment where she begins to settle down a little.   This process demonstrates that she has taken her punishment, felt every second of it, and finally starts to give in to it.  This is a sure fire sign of learning taking place.

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Tears show that she is starting to learn a lesson.

The desired results of a proper spanking having been administered should also be very visible on her bottom.  This is another reason that a bare bottom spanking is best, as the results can be visibly measured.  A properly spanked bottom will have no area on it that is not glowing a very fierce red.  The purpose of the spanking while it is in progress is to provide as much sting as possible to her teen ass.  There is no reason her entire bottom should not be covered as well as the very top of the thighs.  Any spot on her bottom that is not glowing red is just a missed opportunity for learning.  From the top of her butt crack to the top of her thighs, as well as from her left hip to her right, she should feel the pulsating sting from every smack.  While I bright red bottom serves its purpose during the spanking, those sensations fade very quickly.  Just left with a red bottom and in less than an hour, the spanking is a distant memory.  Effective parents choose to add a little more color to a teen girl’s bottom to make sure the lesson stays with her for a while.

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Her mother does not stop spanking once her bottom is red and the tears begin to flow. She knows the importance of a well bruised bottom and does not stop until she is black and blue.

Many people feel that a bruised bottom may be abusive.  But we are not talking about parents beating their kids out of anger, or abusing them in any way.  This discussion is about parents who take the time to give their daughters the punishment they not only deserve, but have earned.  They are willing to go the extra mile to assure that a lesson is learned, and learned well.  The most effective spanking are not over after the last smack, they need to last for days.  The only way this is possible is with a bruised bottom.  The area of focus is a young lady’s bottom, it is fleshy, and if she is bent in the proper manner, even severe swats from a heavy oak paddle will not do any permanent damage.  A proper spanking involves soreness that last for a minimum of three days and this is only accomplished when her young bottom is left bruised.  Many parents start by covering every square inch of their daughter’s bottom and then focus on the lower portion of her bottom for an even harder spanking.  Just above the spot where her thighs meet her butt is what is often referred to as the “sit spot”.  This is the spot in which it is impossible to avoid contact with a chair when she sits down.  Regardless of the implement, any proper spanking will end with a couple minutes dedicated to this part of her anatomy.  After many swats her bottom will tend to go numb anyway, but the point is not for the pain she will be feeling at the moment, this extra work is for down the road.

A Very Sore Bottom

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She inspects her bruised bottom in the mirror…she will be sore for days.

The final phase of a proper spanking is a teen girl with a very sore bottom. Moments after her spanking, her bottom will be on fire.  They may be a little numbness as a result of a severe spanking, but you can count on her feeling a good burn.  It will take her some time to calm herself down, but once her tears are dry, she will still have a burning pain.  As a result of endorphins, which help to combat the pain during the spanking, over the next hour the pain will gradually get worse, not better.  Her body relaxes, the numbness goes away, and she really starts to feel the effects.  Just as the burn of the spanking starts to fade, the deep pain in her muscles will begin.  This is where a bruised bottom comes into play and she really starts to feel a tightness in her muscles and the pulsating sting from her red bottom become a much deeper pulse from deep within.

If she was properly spanked the pain will become worse over a day or two.  The next morning following a spanking tends to be the worse.  She wakes up to a bottom that is so sore that she can barely believe it.  Walking, standing,

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Three days after a severe spanking her bottom still shows the marks. Sitting is still not an option.

but most especially sitting hurts very much.  The pulsating feeling from the night before is replaced with a heavy throbbing and with each beat of her heart she feels pain on her poor teen bottom.  This is why the bruising phase of a spanking is so important.  She is not able to get up and start her day, trying to put the spanking from the night before behind her, the worst part of her spanking in actually in front of her.  For at least another 24 hours, the pain from this spanking will continue to build.   The pain will build until about 36-48 hours after her spanking, but it will not end there.  After the 3rd day her bottom will start to feel a little better, that does not mean she will not still be uncomfortable, but it will at least start to become bearable again.  She will eventually be able to start sitting comfortably after four days or so.  A severe spanking, especially when administered with a wooden implement like a paddle or hairbrush, can leave her bottom sore for up to a week, with bruises still visible for up to a couple of weeks.

A proper spanking is not just about smacking a bottom, it is a process, an event, one with many steps, each important in the learning process. It is her spanking, she has earned it, and it is up to her parents to not skip a single step, as each one helps reduce the chances of her committing that infraction ever again.  Photos and animation all come from severe punishment videos at Realspankings.com

Posted April 29th, 2013.

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A quick hairbrush spanking from mom

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Bent over the couch for her hairbrush spanking.

Corporal punishment is quick, simple, frequent and effective in her house.  As the oldest of 5 children, she is quite used to having her butt spanked.  As a child her mom used her hand and once she reached about middle school she graduated to the exclusive use of the hairbrush on her bottom.  For her and all of her siblings a spanking was a very normal, if not daily event in their home.  Their mother spanked hard and spanked often for each and every little offense that any of the children committed.  It was such a normal event, that when one of them was getting spanked, it barely raised the attention of any of the others.

Every spanking that was administered in this household took place in the family room.  This was

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Her bottom becomes bruised from the very beginning of her spanking from mom.

the most central and most used area of the house.  With five kids their mother was quite busy most of the day and did not have time to send kids to their rooms to be spanked.  Whenever a spanking was required she simply bent the offending child over the arm of the couch.  The younger kids were still spanked with her hand, while for the older ones; she kept a hairbrush in the drawer of the end table next to the couch.  Bottoms were always bared for a spanking regardless of the offense.

As long as the oldest daughter could remember she had always been spanked in this manner, over the couch and on her bare bottom.  It would often take place in front of many of her siblings as this room was the primary gathering place in the house as well as the room with the TV and Xbox in it.  Since her bottom had been bared in front of her siblings for her whole life, it was not all that embarrassing anymore, even now at the age of 17.  She had seen all of their bare butts being spanked more times than she could count.  There were those few occasions when a spanking could not wait and she found herself baring her butt in front of one of her sibling’s friends, but in this house, it just came with the territory.

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Already feeling the sting from the hairbrush, but this will not be over until she is crying.

When a spanking was called for, her mom was not big on words.  There were many times that it was not until she had bared her butt and was bending over that she even knew what she was getting spanked for.  Her mom’s favorite phrase prior to a spanking was quick and to the point, “That’s it, you are getting spanked”.  Those words basically meant that she needed to get her butt into the family room, bare it, and present it. There

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The bruises on her bottom are coming along nicely.

was no arguing, it simply made things far worse.  When she was told she was to be spanked, it was a reality, it was set in stone, and there was no changing her mom’s mind.  She had learned it was best to just suck it up and get it over with, there was no reversing a decision and any attempts to do so

just led to lots more spanking.  If her mom said those words, she would literally walk over to the couch, pull down her pants and her panties, and then bend over and wait.  It would sometimes take a minute or two for her mom to stop what she was doing and she would just have to lay over the arm of the couch and hope her mom got right to it.

Once her mom was ready, the whole process rarely took more than 2 minutes.  Her mom would walk over to the end table, open the drawer and grab the dreaded hairbrush.  She was a busy woman and did not have much time to spare for such things she so always got the spankings over with quickly.  She would walk behind her daughter and just started spanking with the

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Her mom spanks hard enough enough that each smack with the brush leaves a bruise.

hairbrush.  Her style was always the same.  She would lay the brush on one cheek, raise it up, and smack that cheek extremely hard.  The brush would then touch the other cheek for a brief second and the process would be repeated.  The brush was thick and heavy and each swat would leave a small purple bruise.  It was a hard enough spanking that even at this age, after years of hairbrush spankings, it always led to tears.  They really were not an option as her mom did never gave a set number of strokes, or spanked for a set amount of time, she simply spanked until she had her daughter crying.  Tears alone were not enough as she required the type of crying that demonstrated that a lesson was learned.  She typically received between 50-60 swats with the hairbrush over a 2 minute period of time.  This was ample time to really get the tears going and to leave her bottom properly bruised.

When the spanking was complete, it was like nothing had ever happened.  Her mom might say something like “that should do it” and then simply get back to fixing dinner or whatever other household chore she was in the middle of at the time.  There was not a single word said about the spanking, it basically erased all evidence of whatever she was being punished for.  It would take her a moment to compose herself, get her pants back up, and to wipe away her tears.  Her bottom would be very sore for a day or two, but that was the only real evidence that a spanking had taken place.  Her dad was rarely even informed that one of his kids had been in trouble.  As far as her mom was concerned, bad behavior required a hard spanking, but then that was the end of it.

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Mom spanks long and hard providing her with a bruised bottom and tears in her eyes…a lesson learned.

Posted April 22nd, 2013.

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18 is not too old for some good old fashioned OTK corporal punishment from mom

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Waiting in her room for her mom. She is 18 and assumes that she will no longer be spanked.

Her last spanking had been at the age of 12, from that point forward her mom started to ground her as the primary form of punishment.  Sometimes she would be given extra chores, have to miss out on fun school activities, but as far as she knew, spanking was something that was distant memory.  But then there was that night when she made a series of bad decisions.  She came home very late, she smelled like beer and cigarettes, and when confronted by her mom, she lied about all of her activities.  Her mom was clearly mad and just told her to go to bed and they would deal with it the next day.  The next morning, before school, it seemed like her mom had forgotten all about the night before and the issue was never addressed.

When she got home from school that afternoon, it was clear to her that her mom had not forgotten

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Mom breaks the news to her, she is going to get her 1st spanking in 6 years.

at all.  Her mom handled it all in a very nice way and never once raised her voice.  She told her that she knew that she had been drinking, that much was clear, and she suspected that she had also been smoking.  Her mom informed her that she was grounded for two weeks and that she would not have any more nights out for the remainder of the school year.  This all by itself was bad news as this was her senior year of high school and the events and parties were really lining up.  Just as she was processing this very bad news her

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Lowering her pants for her spanking.

mom took her by surprise.  She was told that in addition to the restrictions that her mom was also going to deal with things in a manner that she remembered being quite effective.  With only that brief amount of information she was told to go to her room and that her mom would be up shortly.

She went up and sat on her bed wondering what this could really mean.  Her last spanking had been when she was in 6th or 7th grade and she could not imagine this was what her mom meant.  This did however have the exact same feel as when she used to be spanked.  She was always sent to her room to wait for a spanking, but back then, she was told she was going to be spanked.  While it had been many years, she can still remember the process.  Also not gone from her memory was how much a spanking hurt.  She racked her brain trying to figure out another form of punishment her mom had used on her that had been “quite effective”.  She did not have to wait too long as her mom knocked on her door less than 5 minutes later.

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Her mom bares her 18 year old bottom for a very hard handspanking.

Her mom came in and got right to the point.  She told her that she was doing things that were not only against the rules of the house, but were illegal at her age.  To top things off, she decided to not be truthful and to lie right to her face.  Her mom saw this as unacceptable behavior that she had not seen from her daughter in many years.  As a result she was going to treat her like she had so many years ago.  Her mom told her to stand up and then she took a seat on the bed.  She knew instantly what this meant as this is how she had always been spanked.  Her mom simply said, “get them down”.  She knew there was no avoiding what was about to happen and unbuttoned her jeans.

Her mom grabbed her by her arm and pulled her over her knee.  She felt her mom place her fingers into the waistband of her

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The moment has come and her otk spanking from mom begins.

panties and felt them being lowered to her thighs.  Her mother adjusted her on her lap a little and without another word being spoken, she began.  The brief thought that she had that this would not be so bad, as she was much older, was quickly replaced with the shock of the pain.  It was clear that when she was a little girl her mom had gone pretty easy on her during a spanking.  Today this was not the case and her 18 year old bottom was instantly set on fire.  Her mom spanked her with a ferocity that she did not know was possible.  After just a few smacks to her bare bottom she started kicking her feet and struggling.  Her mom placed her free hand on her waist and held her in place as she spanked even harder.  A spanking when she was 12 was a relatively quick event, never lasting more than a minute.  It was clear after a minute that this was not anywhere close to being over.  Her mom spanked her butt long and hard and left no part of her teen bottom unmarked.  It took close to 2 minutes before the tears began, but when they hit, they hit hard.

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This is a spanking her teen butt will remember for quite some time.

Her emotions were complicated and hard to identify.  Her butt hurt so bad she could not help but cry.  She was also horribly embarrassed to have her bottom bared and to be over her mom’s knee, especially at this age.  Last night she felt all grown up, drinking and smoking, but less than 24 hours later she was kicking and screaming like a child getting a good spanking from her mommy.  To make things even worse, the spanking did not seem like it was ever going to end.  She lost track of time and had no idea how many times her bottom had been smacked, but she knew that she had been crying for what seemed like a long time.  Her tears were ignored as her mom was relentless in spanking her bottom.  After what had to have been at least 4-5 minutes, the spanking finally stopped.  Her mom was very tired and just sat there for a moment trying to catch her breath.  She could not stop crying

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Some time to reflect on her behavior.

and just laid on her mom’s lap sobbing uncontrollably.

Her mom finally tapped her on the shoulder and told her to climb off of her lap.  She kind of rolled off and just kneeled on the floor.  Her mother saw this as an opportunity and told her this was the right place for her.  She was instructed to fold her arms behind her back and to stay in that kneeling position next to her bed.  Her mother felt that a little “time out” might do her some good and give her some perspective.  She was told to stay in that position with her bright red bottom on display until her mom returned.  She was told to think long and hard about how she wants to conduct herself and the choices she wants to make in life.  With that being said she was left alone with her thoughts and her glowing bottom.

Posted April 18th, 2013.

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Getting a whipping from mom with a belt

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Sleeping in on this day is going to get her a whipping from mom with the belt.

It took a lot of convincing to get her mother to let her stay out late on a school night. If was the world premiere of a movie that was showing at midnight and she explained that “all of her friends” would be going. She convinced her mom that it would not affect her school day at all and that she would even get up early to make sure she was not late to school. Her mom knew better but she decided to give in this one time and see how it went.

Well, it went exactly how her mom pictured it going. When her mom got out of the shower the next morning, she could hear her daughter’s alarm still going off in her room, at least 20 minutes after the time it was set for. She was immediately angry and knew that even against her best judgment she had made a parenting mistake. This was a mistake that she knew how to fix and the correction would be applied to her daughter’s bottom. She went to her closet, and grabbed her husband’s thickest and heaviest leather belt, she was certain this would be a more effective alarm clock.

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Mom yanks her out of bed with the belt in hand for a hard whipping.

She marched into her daughter’s room, with the alarm still going off full blast. She turned off the alarm, grabbed her daughter by the wrist, and yanked her out of bed. Before her daughter barely had her eyes open, she was bent over the side of her bed with her nighty above her waist. Her mom said nothing and just went to work on her daughter’s bottom with the belt. It took a good 3-4 strokes with the heavy belt before she was awake enough to realize what she was being spanked for. The time on her clock told her all she needed to know.

She tried her best not to spank out of anger, but this morning she was pissed off and her daughter’s bottom was going to pay the price. She swung that heavy belt harder than she ever had before. She not only swung hard, she swung fast. She was pissed that she had let her daughter change her mind on what she knew was the right decision to begin with. Her daughter had promised her that she would be up early and nothing made her angrier than broken promises. She was going to give her teen butt a whipping that she would never forget.

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A long and hard whipping with the heavy leather belt.

She blistered her daughter’s bottom for a good three minutes before it was over. She left her bottom covered

with stripes and welts that would be with her for the rest of the day. When she was finally done, she simply opened her daughter’s closet and handed her a dress. She told her that if she had to wake her up, then she would choose what she wore to school. She told her that today she would wear a dress and look like a lady, which she knew in itself was a pretty good punishment as her daughter had not worn a dress one time to high school. With a sore bottom and tears still in her eyes, she pulled on the dress and got herself ready for school.

Posted April 15th, 2013.

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Sometimes corporal punishment alone is not enough to teach a teen girl

Some parents are forced to get creative when it comes to applying corporal punishment to their daughters.  For a girl who grew up in an environment in which corporal punishment is a daily part of her life, as she gets older, it might not be the same deterrent that it used to be.  Sure, her parents have always spanked her hard and as she became an older teen, may have been forced to apply corporal punishment with great severity.  Maybe it is the fact that she has grown used to having her bottom bruised on a regular basis, or maybe she just has a high pain tolerance, but such issues have forced parents to be creative and find other ways to make corporal punishment more effective.

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Her mom bares her 18 year old bottom for her spanking

As a teen girl approaches her college years, she starts to feel independent, and like a fully functioning, independent, adult.  But the reality is, is that she is now quite there yet.  She is not supporting herself, raising a family, or really all that self-sufficient.  This results in her sometimes getting a little too big for her britches.  Parents that get creative with corporal punishment often use this very fact and add some reminders to her punishment that let her know that she is still a teen, still living under their roof, and can still be treated like a child when she acts like one.

One of the most common techniques to bring a teen girl back to size, it to bare her bottom for her spanking.  We are not only talking about her butt being

dad bares daughter's bottom for a spanking

She is horrified as her dad pulls down her pants and panties himself.

bared for a spanking, we are talking about the mom or the dad baring her bottom for her. Not since she was a few years out of diapers and dressing herself have her parents had any sort of control over this part of her life.  Imagine the 18 year old girl, getting her 3rd spanking in a month, and her dad decides to show her show is really in control.  He pulls a chair out from the kitchen table, calls her over to him, and then reaches for the button on her pants.  She is horrified as her dad pulls down her pants and her panties for a long and hard spanking over his knee.  She might be used to the pain of a long spanking from her dad, but she will remember the day that he pulled down her pants for her and bared her bottom like she was 6 years old.

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Sent to her room, told to bare her bottom, and wait for her spanking.

Many of the creative techniques that a parent might use on an older teen to further enhance the effectiveness of corporal punishment involves some level of embarrassment.  Just as with having her bottom bared by a parent, there are many things that make a spanking more embarrassing and they typically involve some level of nudity.  Once puberty hits, a teen girl is generally very private with her body.  Most parents do not see their daughter in any level of undress after the age of 12 or so.  Demonstrating to her that they still have control over all aspects of her life, including when and where her bare bottom is on display is a powerful learning tool.  It may be as simple as a girl being sent to her room to be spanked and told to get her pants and panties down while she waits.  Even at the age of 18, she is quickly learning that her parents are in charge; so much so that they can order her to her room, and make her get mostly naked while she just sits there waiting to be punished. 

There are parents that take this a step farther and do not even allow the modesty of baring her butt

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With her bottom bared and in the air, she waits for dad to strap her with the belt.

and waiting in her room.  Picture the dad that lectures his teen daughter right there in the family room and after their discussion he tells her that she will be spanked with his belt.  He has her standup, bare her bottom, and bend over with her hands on the steps to the hallway.  He is in no hurry to punish her, which is how he typically does things.  For this strapping, he makes her wait in that position, with her bare teen bottom in the air.  She does not know how long she will be in that position, he seems to not be in a hurry, all she knows that it is embarrassing and uncomfortable.  For the 1st time in her life she just wishes he would start spanking her bottom with his belt.  Her spanking has taken on a whole new

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For this spanking, he requires her to be fully nude.

effectiveness and regardless of the spanking she receives; she will remember this one for a very long time and do her best to avoid it.

Even without a long wait, nudity alone can be quite a deterrent.  A teen girl that knows she is going to get her bottom beat long and hard with a belt or a paddle might be deterred from bad behavior, but if this is a regular occurrence, she might just be able to tolerate it.  But if her last spanking involved having to not just bare her bottom, but to remove all of her clothing, she might just have to give a second thought to being naughty.  If dad marched up to her room and ordered her to strip fully naked before he pulled

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Mom pulls her teen daughter straight out of the shower and spanks her wet and naked bottom.

her over his knee, that would be a very memorable event.  Or what of the privacy of the bathroom was all of a sudden violated and she learned that when she misbehaved that even that area was not off limits?  Picture the teen girl is in the shower when her mom just barges in, pulls her from the shower dripping wet, as naked as the day she was born, bends her over the bathtub, and starts spanking her wet bottom.  This is a punishment that is about more than just a sore bottom, she is losing privacy, modesty, and the things she has grown to expect as a young lady.  This changes the course of events for her and she realizes that she not only gains a sore bottom but it losing privileges that she has come to expect in life.

Probably one of the most used punishment techniques that parents utilize, that lead to embarrassment for the teen girl, is adding a public element to her spanking.  The 1st thing this accomplishes is it serves as warning for her siblings in the house.  When a young lady is spanked in front of her brothers and sisters, it helps keep everyone well behaved.  But the main thing it accomplishes is to embarrass whoever is being spanked in such a

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Dad paddles her bare bottom in the kitchen in front of her siblings

manner.  As with the privacy issue above, no teen girl wants to bare her bottom for anyone except maybe her boyfriend.  Having to present her bare teen bottom to be spanked, anywhere in the house but the privacy of a bedroom, is horrifying for her.  But is goes well beyond just the basic concept of nudity.  She likes to pretend she is tough and that a spanking at this age is no big deal.  But when dad bares her butt and goes to work in the kitchen with the heavy bread board, it is a very big deal and she is unable to control her emotions.  She is not the tough big sister anymore as her siblings watch her cry and carry on, just as they do when they get a good paddling.

For some parents a public spanking of their daughter might not be limited to just siblings being

teen girl spanked in front of friends

After smarting off, her mom bares her butt and spanks her in front of all of her friends

present.  Some girls get a little sassy and try to impress their friends by smarting off to a parent.  Imagine the 18 year old girl sitting in the living room with her closest friends and she decided to get a little attitude with her mom.  That mom takes no lip from any of her children, especially not in the presence of others.  She is horrified as her mom bares her bottom and takes her over her lap right in front of everyone.  These girls did not even know that she was still spanked at this age, much less with her teen bottom bared and over her mom’s knee.  Even with just a simple handspanking, you can count on this being a punishment she will always remember and so will her friends.  Imagine her embarrassment when the spanking is over and she is once

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Mom wakes her with the paddle and does it in a way she will never forget.

again left alone with her friends.  One thing is for sure, it will be quite some time before she mouths off to her mom again.

The position a teen girl is spanked in can also be a creative way for her punishment to be changed.  There are many girls that are spanked the same way every time they get in trouble.  They are sent to their room, a parent comes in, and she is told to bend over the bed for a long session with the belt of the paddle.  It is standard, it is what she expects, it is simply how it always happens.  Her parents always spank long and hard, until she has been crying for several minutes, so there is really no way to change this.  But if a memorable spanking is really required, they might need to change up the position for a spanking that will leave an impression.  Maybe her mom waits to spank her until the next morning, marches to her room, pulls back the covers, and folds her daughter’s legs back to her chest for a good paddling.  Nothing makes a teen feel more like a little girl than assuming a position to be spanked in that she has not been in since her mom

teen girl strapping from mom

Placed in a very uncomfortable position for a hard strapping in her teen bottom from mom.

changed her diapers. Or maybe the position itself is quite uncomfortable and just keeping in that position is a bit of a punishment.  A strict mom, fed up with her daughter’s behavior may decide to strap her daughter right there in the living room.  Instead of bending her over the arm of the couch likes she always does, she has her daughter bend over and place her hands on the floor, in a very uncomfortable yoga type position. It makes sense to leave her here for a little bit, stressing her muscles, as she waits for her tiny bottom to be strapped.  Nothing emphasizes that a bottom is about to be spanked than having her bare bottom as the highest point on her body.  It’s just hanging out there in the cool breeze waiting to be warmed up in a very bad way.

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Corner time for the teen girl after her spanking from dad.

The last aspects that can be added to corporal punishment, to make it much more effective for the girl that is used to a regular spanking, is corner time.  This really brings all of the previous points together with one simple act.  Corner time plays on the whole concept of having a parent being in control and being able to make their daughter do something that would never occur in her daily life.  It also feeds off of the issue of embarrassment as any proper corner time will involve a bare bottom at the very least.  It can easily have a very public element and be done anywhere in the house, where her bruised bottom will be on display for anyone to see.  It also brings her down in size and makes her feel very much like a little girl again, nose in the corner, for a time out.  And finally, if done properly it can be so very uncomfortable and can be a punishment all in itself.

Corner time can be quite simple and used as just a moment of reflection after a spanking.  Dad

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Dad puts her bare bottom on display for some corner time after her hard spanking.

might pull his daughter over his knee for a spontaneous spanking while he is on the couch.  When it is complete she is required to stand next to the TV for 30 minutes with her pants down.  There is nothing formal or uncomfortable about the position itself, but it does take away all external stimuli and has her focusing on what she did that required a spanking.  Corner time such as this also has a very public aspect and you know each and every sibling in the house will at least sneak a peek at her bright red teen bottom.

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She is placed in 1 hour of corner time in her room after she was spanked

It can also be utilized to be a little more uncomfortable and make her feel embarrassed and exposed.  As in the example above, let’s look at the dad that for the 1st time decided to make his daughter strip naked for her spanking.  After 5 minutes, fully naked, over his knee, when he finally stops spanking she realizes that her punishment is not over.  He marcher her to the corner, still fully naked, and makes her stand in the corner.  To further emphasize that he still has full control over his daughter’s actions, he has her place her hands behind her head and stay in that position.  He thinks a full hour in this position should do the trick and bring a level of punishment to the table that she has never experienced.  He might have just given her the normal five minute OTK handspanking she expects, but having been required to strip and then do an hour of corner time, he has completely changed not only the effectiveness of the spanking, but changed how long this punishment will live in her memory.

The last version of corner time is a tried and true method for many moms across America.  This

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Hard and painful corner time to go with her very bruised bottom.

involves a strict session of corporal punishment followed by corner time that in itself is a pretty rough punishment.  It involves having a young lady assume a position that is very uncomfortable and hard to maintain for a long period of time.  Some parents go as easy as having their daughter knee on a hardwood floor or the brick mantle of a fire place.  I have read about parents that have placed rice, or even frozen peas for their daughters to kneel on.  Over time this really works the knees and when she is all done, more than just her bottom is sore.  One of the hardest positions to maintain is when a teen girl is required to kneel in front of a wall, with her hands behind her head, and her elbows against the wall.  She is then required to lift her feet off of the ground, essentially putting all of her body weight on her knees.  This also become quite hard on the backs of her legs as the muscles grow tired quickly in this position.  Most parents supervise corner time of this nature, as she is required to keep this position for 5-10 minutes.  It is made clear at the beginning that if her feet touch the ground, that not only does the corner time start over, but so does the spanking.  This helps teach the teen girl about control and willpower.  She learns that with the proper motivation (in this case more spanking) she can accomplish whatever she sets her mind to. She also learns that it is not just about what she wants in life, that sometimes there are things that are required, and if she works hard, they can be accomplished.

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Posted April 11th, 2013.

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