Many parents fully understand that importance of anticipation when it comes to spanking their teen daughter. If at the very moment that she gets in trouble, she is spanked, she does not have much time to reflect on her behavior. It is often quite beneficial for there to be a time delay from the time she is in trouble, until the time in which she is spanked. Waiting to have her bottom bared and spanked can often be as bad as the spanking itself, as she has to consider exactly how hard her bottom is going to get it.
Sent to her room, assuming the position, and then she just has to wait.
Parents take different approaches to this general idea, with the most common version to simply send her to her room to wait for her spanking. While still effective, this does allow her the ability to try and distract herself by getting on her phone or computer to kill the time she has to wait for her spanking. While no longer as common with older teens, some parents utilize corner time, thereby removing any stimulus, leaving her alone with her thoughts as she stares at a wall and can think of very little other than the spanking she is about to receive. Some parents prefer to sentence their daughter with a spanking, but not tell her when it is going to happen. Her punishment could be minutes, hours, or even days away. This does not keep her as focused on the spanking she has earned, but it does have a way of popping into her head often. It could be two days later and she is at school enjoying time with her friends, when that thought once again enters her mind. She quickly loses her smile as she thinks about dad’s heavy belt on her bare bottom.
One of the most effective methods is for the naughty young lady to be told she is to be spanked and then put into the position she is to be spanked in, with the spanking occurring some time later. This serves the same purpose of corner time, but really puts the emphasis of her bottom into her head. She is required to bend over, butt in the air, and there is really nothing else she can think about but her bottom that is currently on display. Her butt is simply there, in the position it needs to be, waiting to be punished. Her thoughts are on the pain it is about to feel and nothing more.
While this is often done with her in her room, hands on her bed, butt in the air, it is often used in a more public manner. When it
While the family goes about their normal routine, she waits in the family room, bottom bared, waiting for her spanking to begin.
comes to a household in which she has siblings, this is even more effective. Dad tells her that she is going to be spanked and she is required to stand up right there, in the family room and bare her bottom and put her hands on her knees. For the next 15 minutes the normal activities of the house go on around her. Her little brother sits at the table working on homework while mom works in the kitchen preparing dinner. Everyone is busy with the normal evening routine while she is stuck in that spot, her bare teen bottom in the air, just waiting to be spanked. All she can think about is what she did wrong, how she will never do it again, and how she just wished it was all over. There are few situations in this world in which a teen girl cannot wait to get her spanking over with more than this.
She is required to grab her ankles for the duration of the family meeting, then she will feel dad’s belt.
Depending on how long she is made to wait, just assuming an uncomfortable spanking position can slowly become a punishment all in itself. Having to grab her ankles for a few minutes is no big deal, but after 20 minutes, it becomes quite uncomfortable. Some parents take a slightly different approach and the position is assumed prior to the lecture. Having already decided that someone is getting spanked, a family meeting is called and the two sisters are brought down into the living room with the parents. The naughty daughter that they have already decided is going to get the belt, is not invited to sit down, instead she is invited to bend over. As they have a nice and long family discussion, she has to remain in the middle of the room; ass high in the air, waiting for the belt that dad already has in his hand. There is no question as to if she will be spanked, but she has to wait until the discussion and lecture are over to find out exactly what she is getting spanked for and to find out how bad it will be.
It could also be for a parent that does not want to be inconvenienced with the spanking of his daughter. He is at home, enjoying a book or his favorite TV show, when his daughter comes home an hour later from a day at the
Dad is in no hurry to paddle her teen bottom, he will get to it when he is ready.
lake with her friends. As soon as she walks in the door he tells her that she is going to be spanked, but it will be done at his convenience, as there is no reason that her behavior should force him to alter what he is doing at the moment. He tells her to lower her bikini bottoms and to bend over and place her hand on the edge of the stairs in the family room. Nothing changes for him at that very moment, she is simply bent over with her bare bottom on display waiting for when he decides to go and get the paddle. He is in no hurry, this is her punishment, she earned it, so she can wait until he is good and ready to bruise her little bottom.
Both sisters are sent to their parents room to wait for their spanking.
This event might not be limited to just one teen girl, as sometimes families administer punishments to their daughters, who have gotten in trouble together, at the same time. After a nice and long talk with their parents, both sisters are sent to mom and dad’s room to wait. They are told to head up to the room, bend over, and to wait without any talking. They spend close to 20 minutes in their parent’s room, bottoms ready to be punished, and they cannot say a word. Twenty minutes feels like an eternity as they wait to see if dad is bringing that paddle or the belt. Their bottoms begin to tingle with anticipation as they know that at any moment, they will hear those footsteps, the ones that mean pain and learning is about to begin.
The results of a paddling she will remember for a long time.
There are many parents out there that feel that the only proper spanking is one that is delivered severely. It can be for the smallest infraction, but they still feel that if a spanking has been earned, that it needs to be applied in the hardest manner possible. You typically find this kind of strictness and severity in homes in which there is a heavy religious influence. There is the standard Bible quote that is the go to for many strict parents:
“He that spareth his rod hateth his son: but he that loveth him chasteneth him betimes.”
This is their justification for spanking in the 1st place, but the quote that is often interpreted as spanking needs to be administered severely is:
“ Withhold not correction from the child: for [if] thou beatest him with the rod, he shall not die.”
Within these homes, young ladies tend to be very well behaved as they know the consequences of their actions will lead to very real
It takes her mom quite awhile to achieve these results, but they result in learning.
and long lasting pain to their bottom. I have read interviews with girls who grew up in very conservative Christian homes, in which every time they were spanked, it continued until they stopped crying altogether. Their parents felt that crying during a spanking was a sign of willfulness, and that a spanking was not over until that willfulness is gone. I also once read an interview with a young woman who had left the Amish community and she gave much detail about the spanking she received at the hands of her mother. She was always punished with a heavy leather strap, in the privacy of her room, with her dress up and her undergarments down, while laying over the edge of the bed. Her mom always strapped her until she stopped crying, but the main problem was that this took a very long time. She went on to give details in which the whole process could go on for well over 20 minutes, and her mom spanked her so hard with the strap, that she often tired out before she could achieve the results she was looking for, leading to her mom having to take many breaks during the strapping.
While not every parent spanks with the goal for the actual crying to stop during the spanking, the strictest of parents, are indeed spanking with the goal of a permanent change of behavior in their teen girl. A hard spanking is generally applied as a result a teen girl’s bad behavior, and is simply a punishment for those actions. But for the more severe offenses, strict parents are not only spanking as a punishment for what they did, but they are trying to address this behavior in the future. This is where the whole concept of long term learning comes into play. Their goal is not for her to just be sorry for what she did, but for the spanking to be severe enough that it affects her thinking process every time she is faced with a decision of right and wrong in the future.
For many teen girls, a bottom bruised this badly is just the norm for them.
This is really only accomplished with a severe enough spanking that she spends close to week with a sore bottom. Teen girls are resilient and a quick spanking from mom or dad can quickly fade from their memories, which once again leads to clouded judgment when faced with future questionable decisions. Maximum clarity is provided to the young lady with maximum soreness and bruising following a spanking. It easy for her to forget how much a two minute handspanking hurt at the time, but it is very hard to forget that severe spanking, with a belt, hairbrush, or paddle in which sitting was not possible for a couple of days, and still quite uncomfortable for close to a week. These are the types of punishment that help to change behavior, as they will never forget that week following that one severe spanking, for the rest of their lives. When it comes to spanking a teen girl, there is no doubt that bruises equal learning.
Many strict parents, for that one offense that the young lady commits that stand head and shoulders above the rest, as most of her
Her mom decides to use the switch on her bare bottom and thighs to teach her a lesson she will never forget.
spankings are already pretty severe, they might chose that moment to find a way to make sure that this one spanking really stands out. This may be the day that she realizes that her mom still has an old antique hairbrush stashed away in a box in the attic that needs to come out for a very severe punishment that leaves her bottom marked and sore in a manner she never knew before. Or maybe the frustrated parent recalls those summers on their grandparent’s farm, in which grandma always sent them for a switch to be used to stripe their bottom and thighs. For a young lady who is used to feeling the belt on a regular basis, the pure sting of a switch can really open her eyes and change her attitude. Some parents elect to simply double the length of a punishment for the more severe actions, but the very strict and creative parents, chose to add additional spankings after the initial spanking. In households this strict, it is not completely out of the question for a daily spanking to be awarded to the naughty young lady, for several days in a row.
The daily spanking is indeed one of the most effective ways to achieve results and
The results of a paddling over an already bruised bottom. She will be sleeping on her side for many days.
learning. Picture the teen girl, in the most trouble she has ever been in in her life, who is sent to her room, for a long session with dad’s paddle, and then told she will get it again, every morning, for the next three days. Each morning, with her muscles tight and sore from the previous paddling, she is woken up by her dad just before he heads out to work. With sleep still in her eyes, she roles out of bed, bares her bruised bottom, and once again is paddled. Nothing teaches a lesson as much as a hard paddling on a bruised bottom. Her bottom is already sore to the touch, sitting is difficult, and she has to sleep on her side, so the feel of the paddle becomes unbearable. By the fourth paddling, he is adding new bruises to already fading bruises, and when it comes to her learning, this is pretty much grad school. It may be harsh and severe, but it is the type of lesson which eliminates that particular bad behavior for the rest of her life. She can be a 40 year old women and she will still remember the offense that she committed, and the resulting punishment, that received when she was 18 years old.
Spanking of this severity are not the norm, but there are many high school age girls, walking down the hall of their school, with their bottoms bruised and sore as you read this. In their strict and religious home, severe corporal punishment is not the exception, it is the norm. Her parents, just like their parents, believe in the teachings of the Bible and they believe misbehavior should be dealt with in a strict and severe manner. They do not think that a spanking is over when their daughter starts to cry, they believe that that is simply a good start. A red bottom will never be enough for them when teaching a lesson, black and blue are the only colors they know. They know that after a spanking, if their daughter is able to sit down at the dinner table, then they have more work to do.
For some girls, severe discipline is a way of life and when they misbehave, their bottom pays the price.
The perfect belt for corporal punishment
Just like with any other job, a job worth doing well, the choice of tools is very important. With the wrong tool, a job can take much longer, or be much less effective in the long run. It is best to maximize the effectiveness of a job by choosing the perfect tool. When it comes giving an older teen girl a spanking, the selection of the tool to be used is very important. The job at hand, when applying a spanking, is to bring pain to her bottom. Not just enough pain to make her bottom sting, but enough pain to make her bottom very sore. With the wrong tool, a proper lesson might not be learned, so tool selection is very important when it comes to corporal punishment.
Most little girls, who are spanked by their parents, are typically given a handspanking when
This belt will teach any girl a lesson.
they are young. But strict parents do realize over the course of time, that their hand is no longer getting the job done. For the majority of young ladies in America, this eventually leads to their 1st spanking with a belt. Belts are very popular because they exists in every home and all a parent must do is go and get one and put it to work. But not all belts are created equal, and some of them are just not up to the task of providing the amount of pain required to a teen girl’s bottom. Certainly a lot of this can be combated by applying the belt to her bare bottom. This will greatly increase the sting of the spanking, but sting alone does not always leave the impression that is needed in the long run.
To get the long term results that most parents are looking for through corporal punishment, sting alone is not enough. A spanking with a belt that is not made of leather, certainly stings a young lady’s bottom, and can produce tears, but within the hour the pain of her spanking is a distant memory. The redness quickly fades and the pain fully subsides, which does very little to really discourage bad behavior. It simply leaves her knowing that is she gets in trouble again; it will all be over with soon. This is not the kind of punishment that leads to permanent changes of behavior, which should really be the goal of any good spanking.
Thicker is indeed better when it comes to spanking with a belt.
A sturdy leather belt is the most effective belt for providing the proper amount of discipline to a teen girl’s bottom. When it comes to really getting results, the thicker the belt the better. Certainly not all punishments require a severe spanking, but it is better to have too much belt, as opposed to too little. With a very thick and wide belt, it is possible to provide a severe spanking when it is required, but things can be dialed down should the occasion call for it. A thick belt also serves the purpose of being still quite effective over pants and panties; whereas a lighter belt will not produce the same results. There are many teen girls who are no longer spanked on their bare bottom, so in these cases, maximum belt thickness is mandatory. Much of the sting is reduced during a punishment over clothing, but with a thick and heavy belt, maximum long term soreness is assured.
The best belts for corporal punishment are not always practical to wear on a daily basis; so many parents decide to purchase a belt that is only used for spanking their daughter. It can be quite effective to allow the daughter to be a participant in the trip where the purchase of that belt is made. This can serve as an added deterrent when she sees what belt has been chosen to use on her bottom. It will be quite effective as she watches her parents, at a Western supply store, pulling various heavy belts of the rack and comparing the overall size and thickness of the belts, clearly looking for the one that has the potential to hurt the most. They might even make her a further part of the process by telling her to look for the heaviest and widest belt that she can find. A heavy belt in which the only purpose is corporal punishment, also allows the parents to get a really good crease in it, so it folds perfectly every time. If it is not a belt for daily wear, this also allows the belt to be put somewhere visible in the house, as a daily reminder of what will happen when she misbehaves. Some parents go as far as having their daughter keep the belt somewhere in her room, so the visual reminder is never that far away.
Mom gets her point across much quicker with a heavy leather belt, on her teen daughter’s bare bottom.
When the day comes that a severe spanking is required, parents will be happy they have the right tool for the job. A heavy belt, doubled up, and applied full force to a teen girl’s bottom, really does have a way of not only punishing her for her behavior, but decreasing the chances of it ever happening again.
He has asked her many times to dress more appropriately. He is not a fan of the short shorts and he feels that they send the wrong impression to men. But as teens always do, she continued to push the envelope, and the shorts she continued to buy, seemed to be getting shorter and shorter. He finally had to put his foot down and forbid his daughter from wearing them. He thought they were making progress, until that day that he showed up 10 minutes early to get her from school. It seems that those ten minutes were the time that she would have used to change from the shorts to she was now wearing, back into the outfit that he dropped her off at school in.
Required to bend over and present her teen bottom to be paddled by her dad.
He had tried to encourage her, he had tried lecturing her, and he finally forbid her, and he felt like he was out of options, so all that was left was to paddle her. He explained to her on the ride home that he no longer had a choice and he had tried everything else. If she was going to directly defy him by smuggling the shorts to school, then he would find a different way to assure that she was unable to wear something that showed her butt cheeks. He told her that he would simply paddle her bottom, long enough, and hard enough that the bottom of her butt cheeks were black and blue. Then if she wanted to show off her tiny teen butt, she could show off the fact that she is still spanked by her dad.
To make his point about the shorts, he starts the paddling with them still in place…they will not remain there very long.
We they got home he asked her were the pants were that she had worn to school that morning, and she pulled them out of her bag. He then pulled out the ottoman, set the jeans on them, and told her to bend over. She had a few minutes to contemplate her actions as he went and got the paddle that had not seen much use recently. He had tried hard, as a parent of an older to teen, to take spanking out of the equation, but her behavior on occasion still warranted a bruised bottom. With her bottom presented properly for her paddling, she could indeed feel her little butt cheeks sticking out the bottom of those shorts and for the first time that day, she began to regret her behavior. In just a few moments, she would feel much more than just regret.
The only choice worse than wearing those shorts, are the panties. Even with her panties still up, her bare bottom is feeling the sting of dad’s paddle.
He came back with the small paddle in his hand, the paddle that he had made several years before. He had designed it to be the perfect size for her tiny bottom. He had built it as a large oval shape so it was the right size for each smack of the paddle to cover an entire butt cheek. He had used it with great effectiveness in the past, but he had decided that on this occasion he would spank her with a severity that she had rarely felt. Without another word being spoken he walked up behind her and began to paddle her over those tiny shorts. He swung that paddle in a manner that got her attention very quickly. He kept his promise and focused low on her bottom, assuring that she would be bruised in places that would show should she try to wear shorts like that in the coming days.
He pulls her panties tightly into the crack of her bottom and paddles her bare bottom severely.
From the very beginning, he knew that this paddling was not going to be limited to over her shorts, but he felt it was necessary to apply a few over the shorts, as they were the reason for this paddling in the 1st place. After a half a dozen swats, she was made to lower her shorts. The panties she was wearing did not provide much coverage and even with them on, most of the swats were applied to bare skin. He paddled her tiny teen bottom severely, while she did her best to remain in place. Typically, this type of infraction would have warranted a bare bottom paddling from the beginning, but he had a reason for doing it in steps. He wanted to further emphasize how inappropriate it was to walk around with her clothing crawling up into her ass, so he finished the paddling providing her with that exact experience. Her grabbed her panties, and pulled them roughly deep into the crack of her bottom. He held them in place and lifted them high into the air, almost lifting her off the ground. It was at this point that the real paddling began and he proceeded to blister her bare bottom with the paddle. He paddled long and hard until her bottom was black and blue, with an extra emphasis being placed on the lowest part of her bottom cheeks.
Inspecting the damage to her well paddled bottom.
When it was clear that she had learned a proper lesson, he stopped the paddling. He told her to put the pants that she had worn to school back on, and then proceeded to throw the little shorts in the trash. The tight jeans that she had worn were difficult to get back on over her swollen butt and created even more discomfort. She went upstairs and headed to her room but decided to stop in the bathroom and inspect her sore bottom. She once again pulled down the tight jeans and looked at her bruised bottom in the mirror. He had certainly kept his promise and it was very clear to her that there was no way she would be wearing short shorts any time again soon, as hew little butt and the tops of her thighs were marked in such a manner that she would have a lot of explaining to do to her friends.
If you want to see this actual event take place on full HD video, it is from Monday’s update in the member’s area of Realspankings.com. I have not added anything to the description of this very real paddling, I described it exactly how it appears in this hard paddling video.
For many teen girls the process of getting spanked is quite simple, and it is really just about pain being applied to their bottoms in a forceful manner. It may even happen right on the spot, in which their mom or dad just grab them by their arm and deliver a few whacks to their bottoms to emphasize a point they are trying to make. It may become a little more formal in which they are sent to the room in which the discipline typically takes place and then are spanked with an implement of some sort. But even in this decade, there are still some parents out there that believe that a spanking is more than just the application of pain to a young lady’s bottom. These parents remember all too well, the long drawn out process, that were the punishments they received growing up and have decided to continue the tradition. They know, from 1st hand experience, that a spanking that is more of an event leaves a longer lasting impression on the teen girl and greatly decreases the chance of future transgressions.
There are many ways that a spanking can become more of an event that just a spanking alone. Many old fashioned moms prefer
Embarrassed as her mom announces her spanking in front of her friends.
for a spanking to be sentenced at some point in the day, but decide to delay is for quite some time. They use this time to frequently remind their daughter about the spanking that will take place and will often take of advantage of the very embarrassing nature of a teen girl who is still spanked at home. Like a mom who tells her daughter during breakfast that she is going to get a spanking after school and then drives the carpool. As her daughter is in the backseat, with her friends on the way to school, laughing and having a good time, she uses that moment to punctuate the fact that she will be spanked. As the girls are smiling and giggling, she reminds her daughter, in front of her friends, that she is not sure why she is so happy at the moment, as her bottom will be blistered after school. This not only serves as a reminder, which puts her mind back on the spanking, but it serves a as a very real deterrent. The next time she considers misbehaving, she will not only think about how much a spanking hurts, she will also think about how horribly embarrassed she was as her mom announced to her friends that she is still spanked as a teen.
Another common method to make a spanking a full on event is to require that a daughter become an active participant in the spanking. She is not just bent over and spanked; she has to help the overall process in as many ways as possible. There is the time honored tradition of making a young lady go out in the yard and pick a switch. Nothing makes a spanking more of an event than making her choose the implement that will be used on her bottom. As she touches every twig on a tree or a bush, she has to consider what it will feel like when swiped across her bare butt and thighs. After she chooses, she then has to go through the painstaking task of picking off each and every little leaf. She might go through the entire process, only to be told by one of her parents, that the switch she chose was not big enough, or long enough, and is sent back out to the yard to start the process all over again.
Having to pick and clean the very implements that will be used to stripe her bottom and thighs
The spanking is discussed at the table
There are parents that make a spanking an event by bringing the rest of the family into the conversation. Many young ladies have had to sit through a family dinner and listen as the parents discuss the spanking that is about to take place, with all of her siblings present. Everyone, except the naughty girl about to be spanked, grins ear to ear, as the parents talk about the offense that occurred and the spanking that is about to happen. This is not a private event, it feels more like a board meeting in which the only order of business is how exactly to spank her bottom. The parents weigh the severity of the situation, the mom lobbies for a paddle to be used for this spanking, bare bottom or not is discussed, and ultimately how many swats she is to get.
There are also parents that make the public nature of the spanking continue well past the dinner conversation. After dinner, chores
A belt spanking in front of the family
are completed, showers are taken, and everyone gets ready for bed. Prior to bedtime, the girl to be spanked and all of her siblings are called back down to the family room. The spanking that is to take place is going to be more of a viewing than just a general spanking. This serves the purpose of reminding everyone present that if they do not stay on their best behavior that this could indeed be their bottom next time. But it also serves the purpose of making the spanking a much more memorable event. No 18 year old girl is comfortable with any level of nudity at that age, around their younger siblings. Having to bare her bottom with her little brothers watching can be quite embarrassing. The embarrassment continues as the older sister, who tries to act so tough, is reduced to tears, just like her younger siblings. They get to see that when her bare bottom is paddled, she is not as tough as she pretends, and she becomes a crying little kid just like the rest of them.
Mom gives her a hard whoopin in the living room, in full presence of her siblings.
Some parents still chose to supplement a spanking with corner time before or after the spanking. Being put into a corner is something that most teen girls associate with a punishment for a toddler aged child. She is quickly reminded of her place and that fact that she is still a child, as mom tells her to go stand in the corner before her spanking. She is left alone with her thoughts, which at that point, are mostly about how her butt is about to be set on fire. There is no TV to look at, no cell phone to distract her, she simply stares at a wall and waits for the inevitable. Even more powerful is corner time after a spanking. For a simple spanking, in the privacy of a girl’s room, one that is not so much an event, a girl is spanked and left alone. She can rub her sore bottom as much as she wants and can cry in the privacy of her room, feeling very sorry for herself. But for the teen girl who is put in corner time after her spanking, with very specific directions not to touch her sore bottom, it is a much different experience. This is now a full on event and she stand in the corner, with her bare bottom very sore and on display, crying hard for everyone present to hear. She knows that regardless of what is going on in the home, that her bruised and sore bottom is a very real focal point for everyone in the home.
Spanked on and put on display in corner time
There are those times when the spanking itself becomes a long and drawn out event all on its own. These come about from the parents who choose to make the spanking and the lecture, simultaneous events. The parents sit her down and talked to her about her behavior. At some point she is required to stand up, drop her pants and panties, and get her bottom spanked several times. She is then required to sit back down, pants and panties at her ankles, and the lecture continues. When they once again reach a point in which their point needs to be emphasized, they make her bend back over for more swats to her behind. This process can last as long as an hour, with her bottom being spanked every few minutes. When parents are dealing with multiple offenses, this really allows them to punctuate each and every infraction and to deal with them on an individual bases. It also allows them to demonstrate to her which ones they feel are more severe. The discussion of her attitude might only warrant a dozen with the belt, but when they get to the topic of her report card, 30+ strokes with the belt let her know where she really needs to concentrate her efforts.
For the unfortunate teen, who just can’t seem to get her act together, and has very strict parents, a spanking is not just a simple process meant to hurt her butt. These parents are creative in their ways and make some spankings an event that they will remember for many years to come. It might be her active participation, or some public element added to her spanking. It might take a very embarrassing element added to her spanking like it being on her bare bottom in front of others, or the addition of corner time. But when all of these elements are added together, it creates a punishment that the teen girl will do anything in her power to avoid in the future, which makes the spanking event, very successful.
