When it comes to the punishment of an older teen girl, conflicting terms are used that mean the same thing. Picture a girl, 18 years of age, and a senior in high school. She still lives under her parent’s roof and is subject to the same discipline she has received since she was a child. This might be the loss of privileges, the occasional grounding, but in this household, a spanking is the typical form of punishment.
She goes over dad's knee for a hard spanking with the hairbrush
In the situations in which she finds herself in a great amount of trouble, there is no doubt that she will be spanked, and her spanking will be severe. But here is where our conflicting terms take place. Her parents sit her down and have a long talk with her regarding her infractions. It is clear that she is in a great amount of trouble, and it is also clear that she is going to get her bottom bruised for this offense. Her dad tells her that it is quite unfortunate, but for this offense she will be receiving a “GOOD spanking with the brush, one that she will never forget”.
It is not used very often, but she has felt it before and she knows
Her bottom shows the marks from the spanking from her dad
that there is nothing “GOOD” about a spanking with an antique wooden hairbrush. She knows that she will have to bare her bottom and she knows she will go over her dad’s knee for this punishment. He will start by smacking her teen bottom as hard as he can, and it will leave bruises from the very first swat. It will be impossible to hold back the tears and it will last for quite some time. He will cover every inch of her
A little corner time after her hairbrush spanking from dad
tight butt and it will hurt more than any other spanking she has ever received. After a “GOOD” two to three minutes of spanking, she will be crying uncontrollably, covered in sweat, and her bottom will be throbbing in so very much pain. She will have learned a very real lesson, and just like was promised, she will never forget this spanking.
When she talks to her best friend on the phone that night, and tells her that she was spanked with the hairbrush on her bare bottom, when her friend asks how it was, her only response will be “BAD”!
The above photos come from a recent update in the member’s area of Realspankings.com in which Lila is spanked long and hard with the brush in a very real punishment session.
What is Spanking? The formal definition is:
Spanking refers to the act of striking the buttocks of another person to cause temporary pain without producing physical injury. It generally involves one person striking the buttocks of another person with an open hand. When an open hand is used, spanking is referred to in some countries as slapping or smacking. More severe forms of spanking, such as switching, paddling, belting, caning, whipping, and birching, involve the use of an implement instead of a hand.
But spanking means many different things for many different people. Let’s take a look at how very different spanking can be for one certain group of people…the older teenage girl. Chances are that a girl that is gets spanked after the age of 14 has probably been spanked most of her life. With the older teen girl who receives a spanking there tends to be a common thread. There is a very good chance that her parents are religious. Many people believe that the Bible clearly calls for the spanking of a child and they follow through with that
Dad gives her a spanking over her jeans.
direction. There is a higher probability of a girl raised in the South to receive a spanking as opposed to other areas of the country. Obviously a girl that is getting spanked at home well into her teen years is probably a bit of a trouble maker.
But a spanking for one girl might not be the same as a spanking to another girl. Even looking at the definition above we can see that there is a lot of variance in how a
She is given a spanking in the kitchen with her bottom bared.
spanking is applied. For some teen girls they might still receive their spanking the way they always have, bent over the knee of their dad for a long and hard spanking with his hand. He may apply the spanking hard enough and long enough that he does not need to bare her bottom. As long as the spanking leads to tears and a sore bottom, he is satisfied with spanking he administered. Some girls may not be so lucky and might find themselves having to lower their pants and panties for a long and hard handspanking on their bare bottoms. Some moms and dads do not even allow any privacy when administering a spanking and might just bend the naughty girl over right there in the kitchen, make her put her hands on the sink, and spank her teen bottom until she has learned her lesson. Sometimes this is done in full view of the rest of the family as a warning to her brothers and sisters to be on their best behavior.
But if we are being realistic in our exploration of the spanking of a teenage girl, we must realize that for the older teens, a handspanking is rarely going to take care of the problem. Many parents decide, as their daughters get older, that a more severe form of spanking is required. This often
Dad bares her bottom and gives her a spanking with a belt.
leads to what implement is available in any given household that can be used to give a hard spanking. For most teen girls this typically means the belt. Every house has a leather belt, so it is not uncommon for it to be folded in half and used to apply a very effective spanking to a naughty daughter’s bottom. It is not surprising how effective dad’s large Western belt can be when discipline is required. It can be used for spanking over jeans, a skirt, pajamas, or even the pretty Sunday dress that she wears to Church. But obviously when she receives a spanking with a belt on her bare bottom, the most amount of learning takes place. It is a much different type of spanking when a young
Presenting her teen bottom for a spanking with the belt.
lady is marched to her room, required to lower her pants and panties, for a long session with the belt on her bare bottom. Many parents require their teen daughter to bend over the bed, others simply have them bend over in the center of the room and put their hands on their knees. With their teen butt in the air their spanking with the belt begins. Each stroke leaves a welt on her tight bottom, and with each one there is learning taking place. A long and hard spanking with a belt gets immediate and long lasting results. Unlike a simple handspanking, a belt brings tears right away.
Just as the belt is a level of severity beyond a handspanking, there are always other options for dealing with the naughtiest of girls. For many teen girls this involves their bottom being
Getting a spanking with a wooden spoon
spanked with a wooden implement. The most readily available in any house is a wooden spoon. While somewhat small, when a wooden spoon is used for spanking it can really bruise a bottom quickly. It is light enough that it can be used to cover a teen girl’s entire bottom, even the backs of her thighs, but the sting is intense and really gets a naughty girl promising to be good. Due to its lightness it is best used for spanking a bare bottom. For a
A spanking on ber butt with dad's paddle
household that really takes their spanking seriously, there are a couple of levels of spanking that go far and above the rest. Some families actually go out of their way to create a spanking implement that is used to punish naughty girls. The most common form this comes in is a wooden paddle. Constructed in the garages, sheds, and workshops of dads across the country, wooden paddles are built for the spanking of the naughtiest bottoms out there. A wooden paddle is quite a convincing deterrent when looking to adjust a naughty girl’s bad behavior. One of the nicest features of a wooden paddle is that it is effective over clothes and on the bare bottom. Often there is not the time or the privacy to go through the ritual of sending her to her room, baring her bottom, and then
Mom makes her bare her butt for a spanking with the paddle
applying a proper spanking. Consider the teen girl who decides to be a smart mouth right as the family is walking out the door to leave the house. Dad can simply grab the paddle from the closet and give her a spanking with the paddle, right there on the spot, and still achieve the desired results. Even over pants and panties a heavy wooden paddle, maybe even one with holes in it, is sure to blister her bottom and have her in tears in no time. Take that same paddle and apply it to her bare bottom and you will have a young lady on the straight and narrow for weeks to come.
A final factor in the spanking equation regarding severity and implements has to do with tradition. There are some families in which for generations spanking has been the primary method of discipline. It is not uncommon for moms to spank their daughters in the exact same way that they were spanked by their mothers. Also within this tradition may be a spanking implement that has been handed down, the most common of these implements in a heavy wooden antique hairbrush. A mom knows from first-hand experience how effective the brush is as her mother used to bruise her bottom with it when she was a teen. She hates to have to use it for a spanking but knows that
A severe spanking with the wooden hairbrush
some situations in life call for a spanking that will never be forgotten. By taking her almost adult daughter and having her lower her pants and panties, lay her over her knees, and then spanking her with her mom’s hairbrush, she is assured a lesson will be learned. The mom can still recall exactly how that brush felt on her bare bottom, so she knows the lessons never go away. She also knows that after the spanking with the hairbrush that the pain of the spanking lingers for many days. She can recall crying herself to sleep, while lying on her belly, as her bottom was much too sore to sleep on her back. She can still remember the next morning, getting out of bed, and how it was sore to even walk. She can recall looking at her bottom in the mirror and seeing a mess of black and blue covering her entire bottom. It feels like it was just yesterday that she tried to sit at the hard chairs at the dinner table and found it almost impossible to do so. She remembers all of this clearly as she administers a spanking to her teen daughter with the same brush, seeing the same marks on her daughter’s bottom, knowing her daughter is learning the same lessons.
A spanking comes in many shapes and forms, but when applied correctly for the given situation it is an effective form of discipline for teenage girls throughout the world. The above pictures come from the member’s area of Realspankings.com, a site that currently has 1600 different spanking videos that explore the spanking and corporal punishment of legal age teen girls.
Teen girls, who are still spanked at a later age, might find themselves being punished by
Grabbing her ankles for a hard school paddling
many individuals. If she attends school in the South, it is not unrealistic to believe that she might still receive paddlings at school. There is no age limit as to who can receive a paddling, so for an 18 year old high school senior to bend over and grab her ankles in the Principal’s office, for some hard swats to her teen bottom, it is not all that uncommon. If she lives in a town in which corporal punishment is administered in school, then there is a very strong chance that she also gets spanked at home. The corporal punishment of teen girls tends to not just be a school thing, but a community thing. In school districts in which they still paddled, it is probably talked about and encouraged through the Church. Many parents believe that if a paddling is administered at school, then some good old fashioned discipline will also be administered at home.
Cleaning a switch to be used on her bare bottom
In the home environment, a teen girl may find herself spanked by different individuals. It is not out of the question for a teen girl to still be spanked by a grandparent, especially the grandmother. Many older teens find themselves getting a very traditional and old fashioned spanking when visiting grandma. She does not like her granddaughter’s behavior, so the young lady is sent out to pick a switch, which is probably a very foreign concept for this teen girl. Grandmothers grew up in the era when corporal punishment was always quite severe, so her idea of a punishment is to raise her granddaughter’s dress, lower her panties, and stripe her bottom and thighs with the switch. Grandmas expect tears from any spanking they give and will not stop until they are achieved. While less common, Aunts and Uncles might also be disciplinarians if they live close and are a regular part of the family. This can also happen with friends of the family. Two women, who are very close and have daughters of similar age that are good friends, might grant each other permission to spank the others’ daughter. This is more like each girl having two moms and they know that they have to be on their best behavior in either household.
While the teen girl might receive corporal punishment at school, from a relative, or even from a neighbor, it is most common for her to be spanked by her mom or dad. In a situation in which dad works full-time and the mom is a stay at home parent, it is quite common for her to be the primary disciplinarian. This makes the most sense as she is the one sending her daughter off to school each day, and is there when she gets home. During the summer, any discipline that needs to take place before dinner, it will be mom who administers it. There are those moms who always use the “wait until your father gets home” concept and do not spank themselves. The most effective mom’s do not hesitate to apply a good spanking to her daughter’s bottom any time it is needed. In this situation, dad does not always have to be the bad guy.
This keeps the young lady of the house on her best behavior regardless of who is home. Knowing that inappropriate behavior will not be tolerated and the discipline will not be delayed tends to help a teen girl follow the rules. There are many teens that you see that
Mom never hesitates to paddle her teen bottom when needed
act a certain way with their mom, a way they would never act with their dad. When mom does not hesitate to bare her daughter’s bottom and apply a very long and very hard paddling, this sort of behavior does not take place. Her mom might just send her daughter to get the family paddle, have her drop her pants and panties right there in the family room, and give her a dozen good swats to her teen butt. It might be that her mom is one that believes that a lesson is best learned with a strap. The very moment that her daughter finds herself in trouble, mom grabs her by the arm and drags her to the bedroom. Mom then retrieves the belt that is only used for spanking a young lady’s bottom. Her daughter
Mom uses the belt to administer a hard punishment spanking.
is made to bare her teen butt, bend over and put her hands on her knees, and then is given a whoopin’ that she will never forget. While her dad spanks in a more controlled manner, this mom swings wild and crazy, striping her daughter’s bottom, hips, and thighs. Mom has no set number of strokes with the leather belt, she just spanks long and hard until she no longer has the strength to beat her daughter’s bottom.
For some high school girls, dad may take care of all of the discipline in the house, which
She waits for dad to get home, knowing he is going to blister her bottom
leaves her having to wait for her spanking each time she is to be punished. Imagine the young lady who finds herself in trouble with mom in the morning, after dad has already gone to work. Her mother tells her at breakfast that she is going to have her bottom worn out by her dad when he gets home tonight. She has to go through her entire day, trying not to focus on the fact that her perfect little butt is going to be bruised and sore that night. During school, every time she manages to focus on her studies for a moment, her mind drifts back to the thought of having to bare her bottom and present it to her father for a long and hard spanking.
What is typically the worst case scenario for the still spanked at home teen, is the situation described above when mom is the primary disciplinarian. Mom does not hesitate to blister her daughter’s bottom whenever the need arises, but she feels that there still has to be level of severity that the punishment can be raised to. This punishment is reserved for the only the most severe offenses. This is not the typical coming home late, not doing her chores, smarting off, etc. This level of discipline is for lying, cheating, stealing, and getting in trouble with the law sort of offenses. These
She has been told that she will be spanked by dad.
occasions are when the mom who spanks, decides that this offense needs to be handled by dad. Her parents agreed long ago that when the dad has to be the one to give a spanking, that it will be the kind of spanking that a teen girl will never forget. After all, mom still bares her teen daughter’s bottom and spanks hard and to tears. Mom does not hesitate to use a belt, paddle, wooden spoon, even a switch when it is required. But let’s be realistic, the typical dad can spank harder than the typical mom and there has to be a level that is beyond the everyday spanking that she might receive. When the occasion warrants it, she is told that she is in trouble, she knows to expect a spanking, bit when her mother informs her that it will be a spanking from dad, the tears start.
She might be sent to her room to wait for dad to get home, or she may just be required to go about her day. Regardless of the process, all she can think about is a spanking from dad. She thinks back to the last time she was spanked by dad and she can remember every single detail…how could she forget. He typically uses the antique wooden hairbrush, one that is so old that there are barely any bristles left on it. This brush has not seen a head of hair in several decades and has only been used on young lady’s bottoms for a couple of generations. He has always been a very loving and caring father, but when it comes to him applying discipline, her is merciless. He assumes that if the infraction is bad enough that his wife needs him to handle it, then he is going to make sure that the issue never needs to be addressed again. She remembers that the last time she was spanked it seemed to go on forever. He took her to her parent’s
Baring her teen bottom for a long session with the hairbrush
room and had her sit down on the bed. He went and got the hairbrush from its place in her mother’s bureau and sat down next to her on the bed. The lecture was short as her mother had pretty much covered it all. She was asked to stand up and to pull down her pants. She was then pulled over his knees, and then he lowered her panties to her knees. He knew from experience that she could not hold still for such a severe spanking, so
A long and hard hairbrush spanking teaches a real lesson
he placed his right leg over the backs or her legs and folded her right arm behind her back. With her firmly on place, the spanking began. Even though this was not her first spanking with the brush, she was amazed at how much it hurt. It had to be close to an inch thick and hit with such a thud. His goal was to achieve results so he spanks with maximum force from the very 1st swat. The heavy brush leaves a large bruise with every swat, but he loves his daughter enough to ignore the marks. He learned long ago that is he spanks her hard enough, he may not need to spank her again for more than a year. With each spanking he gives her, he hopes that it may be the last one he ever has to give.
Young ladies who still receive corporal punishment as teen girls might get spanked by a number of different people in their lives. As long as the discipline is fair, but severe, and the punishment fits the crime, the naughty girl will learn a very real lesson, and have a sore bottom for many days to come. The above account is illustrated from the very real discipline videos from the various sites included with the realspankings pass. Eight sites for one membership featuring hard hitting punishment videos, featuring real 18-19 year old teen girls.
Not all spankings are administered right on the spot. It is quite common for a young lady
Sent to her room, ready for bed, and will be getting a spanking from her dad
to be told that she is to be spanked and to have to wait all day for it. One of the most common occurrences is for a young lady to be sent to her room, to wait to be spanked before bed. This can happen in many ways and for many reasons. Quite common is for the teen girl to be in trouble with her mom, but it is dad who administers the corporal punishment. She is sent to her room and has to wait until dad gets home for a spanking. It is also quite common for the subject of who is in trouble and needs to be spanked, to be the topic at the dinner table. The family is all together, there are no tempers or emotions present, and the parents have a conversation regarding someone breaking the rules. Their teen daughter is able to defend herself and offer her side of the story. The parents then decide if a spanking is in order or not. The daughter is informed that she will be punished, that it will be a bare bottom spanking, and that she will be spanked before bed. She is required to help with the dishes as always, but is then sent to her room, to change into her pj’s, and wait.
She knows that dad just got home, she knows her bottom is about to be spanked with hairbrush
The waiting can often be as hard as the spanking itself. Sitting in her room, only able to focus on the spanking that is going to take place. Some parents heighten this anticipation by not allowing her to do anything while in her room but sit and think. No TV, no music, no books, nothing to allow her mind to wander from the task at hand. For the teen girl who was sent to her room early in the day, waiting for dad to come up with the belt or the paddle, it can be a long wait. Her heart starts racing when she hears him pull up and come into the house. She can hear her parents talking through her closed door, but has no idea what is being said. He may come right up the stairs to her room and get it over with, or he might not spank her teen bottom until bed time. Or maybe she will be called down to dinner and how she will be spanked will become dinner conversation. Maybe it won’t be mentioned at all, or maybe he will let her know exactly what is coming, “Your mom said that you have been quite the trouble maker lately. She thinks I need to teach the ‘lesson of your life’. After dinner you need to get back into your room and get ready for bed, I will be up in a couple hours with the hairbrush. I am afraid we are going to have to blister your bottom long and hard”.
Imagine what an effect that conversation will have on her behavior. Sitting on her bed, in
Mom spanks her daughter's butt, thighs, and hips with the strap. Severe transgressions require severe consequences
her little nighty, heart racing every time she hears a footstep in the house. She would be so focused on the last time she felt the hairbrush and how each smack left a bruise on her bottom. For every teen girl who has ever gone through this type of wait, they know how maddening it can be. Some may even have to wait long enough that they doze off. Or ever worse, dad works late hours and she has to go to bed, knowing when he gets home, that her parents will have the talk. Sound asleep she wakes up to the light on in her room and his voice. Her heart races as she knows in just seconds her bottom will be blistered.
Dad spanked her long and hard with his belt
Regardless of how long the wait is, eventually a spanking will occur. Her door might eventually open and mom comes in to give her a hard whuppin’. Maybe this time it will be
Getting spanked with the hairbrush in the living room in front of the whole family
dad and he will have the paddle. For some young ladies, their door opens only to find themselves called back into the family room for her spanking. This family may believe that a spanking is a family event. She might be called down in her nighty, and see that the family is all watching TV. She is told to raise her nighty, drop her panties, and bend over the arm of the couch. Her very private time with her thoughts in her room is replaced with a very
teen spanking picture
public paddling in full view of her brothers and sisters. They know better than to snicker, but they certainly watch each and every swat of the antique hairbrush applied severely to her teen butt.
It does not really matter if it is public or done in the privacy of her room, if done right, it still gets results. Moms throughout the country have
Mom uses a wooden spoon to spank her teen bottom
become quite proficient with large Western belts. Placing a pillow on the bed, having her daughter bare her bottom and lie down on the pillow, and prepare herself to be taught a lesson. Her mom has learned that she needs to swing the belt hard and that she needs to spank for many minutes to teach this girl a lesson. Gone are the days of a dozen good smacks. Her 18 year old bottom only seems to respond to a belt licking that she will wear on her bottom for days. Or maybe it is dad that gives the before bedtime spankings. He
Dad blisters her ass with the razor strap
may enter her room, bare her bottom, and have her bend over the edge of the bed for a long session with the razor strap. Whoever the spanker, whatever the implement, a before bed spanking is quite effective and achieves results on a teen girl’s bottom.
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A very nice true account of getting spanked with a hairbrush while growing up, sent to me by one of my blog readers.
For me, honest to goodness all out spanking and corporal punishment began when I was maybe 12 or 13 years old. Sure, as a child I had the occasional few swats delivered to my backside, generally in a very spontaneous manner. As I recall, more than one time my dress was raised for a swat with a hand from my mother on my panties. It was not formal, it was not all that painful, but it was enough to get my attention. It was not the standard form of discipline in my home, I was typically grounded, or lost privileges of some sort. When I was younger, I was a very social being, so the thought of not getting to play outside was the worst thing possible.
As I approached my teen years, I tended to spend more time in my room, listening to music and reading. Being grounded at this age did not mean quite as much as it did, and certainly was much less of a deterrent. It was around this time that spanking, and I mean full blown tears and screaming sort of spanking, became a reality for me. It did not happen very often, I would guess that I received just less than ten formal spanking in my life from the age of 12 to around 17 or 18. The reason I was spanked so rarely was the fact that my parent’s technique worked very well. So well in fact that if I found myself in just about any situation that may be considered “against the rules”, I questioned whether my behavior could result in me being spanked. If I thought there was any chance of my behavior resulting in a spanking, I tended to not engage in that behavior. I guess that is what you would call effective discipline.
I would say that for each and every formal spanking that I received, it was deserved. There was no doubt that I had indeed done something wrong. They did not spank for any little offense, and tended to cut me quite a bit of slack. I can recall several things that I was spanked for over the years. The most common thread was something that I had been warned about several times. Another common theme was me “not contributing” to the running of the household, which basically meant I was slacking on my chores. It took probably a couple of weeks of reminders for things like chores, before it turned into a spanking, but when a spanking was announced…look out.
In general, I was not part of the initial conversation in which it was decided that I was to be spanked. I got the sense that these conversations took place at night, after I had gone to bed. My father worked a very early shift, so on most days of the week; he was already at work when I got up. I typically had breakfast with my mother, and generally liked this part of the day. There were times, like if I had committed some major offense (skipping school and such), that I might have a feeling that a spanking was on the horizon. There were other times, such as being reminded too many times in a month to take out the trash, that the announcement of a spanking caught me completely off guard. I am not sure how much thought my mom put into it, but she was really good at being very sweet while delivering the most devastating news. We could just be sitting there having a nice breakfast together, before school, and out of the blue she would say something like, “your father and I spent quite some time last night discussing your recent trend regarding household contributions, and I am sorry to say that you will be getting a spanking tonight”.
I cannot recall a time in which I was not informed well in advance that I was to be spanked. I am almost sure that this was very much the point, and I think this was my mom’s doing. I never really knew her mother, but I have heard enough to know that my mom grew up in a very strict household and her and my aunts and uncles had their bottoms blistered on a very regular basis. While my dad always administered the discipline, I think just about every aspect of the punishment came directly from my mom, and most likely her experiences growing up.
Once the spanking announcement had been made, there was really no discussion about it. I knew there would be a detailed lecture that evening before I was punished. I also knew that there was no getting out of it…a promise of a spanking was always kept, if it was announced it was reality. There was also never any anger when she told me. If it was not for what was going on inside my head, it would be like there was nothing at all wrong. The problem was, I knew what this meant. A spanking was not a little event, which I was just glad to have behind me so I could go on with day. I had friends who were thankful they were spanked instead of being grounded because they could just “get it over with”. Clearly, their spankings were much different than mine. My parents made spankings count. Each one was an event that lived with me for a very long time. It was effective enough that I would do everything in my power to make sure I was never spanked again. I did a fairly good job, but I was a teen and my attention span lasted only so long. But they were effective enough that I cannot recall a year in which I was spanked more than twice. I honestly think that after my very 1stformal spanking, that I went at least an entire year without getting in trouble again.
So, as sweet as possible I would be told that I was to be spanked, and then I just had to go about my normal routine. It was easier during the school year; there were enough distractions at school, that for at least a minute at a time, I could forget that I was going to get the spanking of my life that night. During the summer it was harder. I would keep that discomfort in the pit of my stomach for the entire day. It was hard to try to go out and be with friends, it was hard to get lost in a book, or just put on the headphones. For the most part, I would have about 10 hours to contemplate my fate. However hard it was, I would make it through my day, and eventually my dad would come home from work. Until just a few minutes before the spanking, nothing would change from our routine. My dad would relax, my mom would be fixing dinner, I would set the table…it was like any other night in our lives. On more than one occasion I actually thought that maybe that had forgotten that I was going to be spanked, it was just business as usual. Even during dinner, it was almost taboo to talk about what was to come, we treated it like any other day. But I knew sometime after dinner, generally after the dishes had been cleared from the table and put into the dishwasher, that I would here the call from my mom, “honey, will you please join us in the living room”.
I always tried, but it was generally hard to hold back the tears. I knew what the results of this were going to be and there is just no way to suck it up and be brave. I give my parents credit; the lectures were always very nice. There was always much talk about helping me to become a better and more effective person. I cannot recall a time that a voice was ever raised, regardless of the circumstances. There was never a situation in which I did not know what I was being punished for. There was also never a situation in which I did not, at least on some level, knew that I had done something wrong. However, regardless of how bad the offense was, the severity of the punishment always exceeded the crime. They felt that if they were going to take the time to actually spank me, they were going to make it count. This once again I feel goes back to how my mom was disciplined growing up. The lecture would go for at least 30 minutes, I would tell them how very sorry I was for my behavior, and we would all agree that this was being done for my general growth and development. They would tell me that they have always been proud of me, but clearly I required some additional guidance at times, but this was normal and that I was just learning the lessons of life.
At some point, my mom would begin to wrap up the conversation and ask my dad if he had anything else to add. I would also be asked if I had anything additional to say. Eventually, she would get up from the couch and go to their bedroom to get the hairbrush, well calling it a hairbrush is a bit of an overstatement. It was an oversized wooden hairbrush that was missing at least half of the bristles. It was clear that this brush had probably not touched hair in a few decades. I never had the courage to ask, but I am pretty sure my mom’s own butt had felt the hairbrush when she was a child. My dad would get up and grab a chair from the kitchen table and move it into the open space between the dining area and the family room. While I would have been in tears for most of the lecture, this is the point in which the sobbing would begin. I knew exactly what I was about to feel and there was nothing pleasant about it. I would generally bury my face in my hands and just wait.
Waiting for mom to return with the hairbrush
I would hear my mom coming back down the stairs, my dad would take a seat in the kitchen chair, my heart would be close to exploding at this point. One of them would say, “Let’s get this over with”, or my mom’s favorite, “it is time to put this behind us”. The brush would be handed to my dad and I would be called over. While I was always spanked on the bare bottom, I was allowed a little privacy. I was expected to lower my pants, or raise my dress or skirt, and then I went over my dad’s knees. Once I was over his knees he would lower my panties to just below my butt. At no time during any spanking I ever received did I ever expose the front of my crotch.
My mom would lean against the back if the couch and watch every second of the punishment. She felt it was a family affair and that it was important for all of us to be a part of it. The reason the sobbing was so out of control at this point was a result of what was about to follow. Experience has taught my dad that I was not able to hold still for any part of my spanking, it just hurt too much. Before he started, he would swing his right leg
Holding me in place for a severe spanking with the hairbrush
over the back of my legs and fold my right arm behind my back. Sometimes I would hear him say “here we go”, or sometimes it would just begin. The first swat would take my breath away and actually stop the crying for just a second. I do not want people to get the sense that my parents were abusive, I was indeed in trouble, but I know that he was hitting me as hard as he could. They felt that this was to be a learning experience and there was no holding back. There was no stopping to lecture, there were no swats that punctuated each word he was saying… there were not even any words. My butt was spanked long and hard covering just about every inch from the top of my butt to the top of my thighs. I was hit hard enough that every single swat created a purple bull’s eye. The goal of the spanking seemed to be to make sure that my entire bottom was covered with the little purple circles. While my dad always administered the spankings, my mom generally told him when it was enough. Although on a couple of occasions, he stopped, and she told him that she felt I needed just a little more. I never really fully stopped crying during the spanking, but at some point I would always begin to relax a little. At some point my body would just give up a little. The beginning was always worse than the end, those first couple of dozen…well there really are not words to describe how much they hurt. I would generally get to the point of crying so hard that there was really not even a sound. I could not say for certain how long my spankings lasted, nor how many swats I got with the brush. It all tended to get a little blurry and time did not make much sense, it is kind of hard to put into words. If I had to guess, I would say that I was typically spanked for 2 or so minutes. It seemed that I was swatted pretty fast, so I would guess the typical spanking involved more than 100 swats, but it is really hard to quantify.
Bruised bottom from the hairbrush
Without warning it would stop. I would feel my panties being pulled back up, and that was my cue to stand and raise my pants and cover myself back up. My mom was always quick with the first hug and an apology that this had to take place. I would then get the “I hope that we never have to do this again” speech from my mom. My dad had very little to say when we were through, but would generally offer a nice hug. Afterwards, I was basically free to do whatever it is I wanted. This typically involved me going to my room and continuing to cry for quite some time. As far as the pain went, right after the spanking was not as bad as during the spanking. But I knew from experience that the worst was yet to come. I am pretty confident that this was the entire point of the spanking in my parent’s eyes. If they just wanted to bring my butt pain, get me crying, and teach me a quick lesson, that was all accomplished in the 1st dozen swats. But I think the goal was for me to feel the pain of my lesson for a long time to come. Over the next couple of hours the pain that I felt began to build. My butt was always very hard to the touch after a spanking. It was always very sore, but maybe just a little numb. From the ending of the spanking, until I went to bed, it just hurt more and more. During the spanking it would best be described as stinging a lot, but after it was a much deeper pain. I would most often find myself sleeping on my belly the night after a spanking.
The next morning is when the next phase of my punishment would begin. Getting out of bed and walking was almost a chore, my butt muscles would be so incredibly sore. It was like I had become a little old lady over night. I would almost limp my way into my bathroom. Sitting to pee was a rude reminder of my infractions and the consequences. I am not exaggerating about how much it hurt, in the fact that on more than one occasion, I burst back into tears as a result of sitting on the toilet. Sometimes I would look at my butt in the mirror, other times I would not. It was always black and blue, and I mean every inch of my butt. I knew during those times when I looked at it, I could put a stop to my spankings. All it would take was to show any adult other than my parents, the condition of my bottom, and they would probably be brought up on charges by the State. This was the early to mid 80’s and while spanking was not illegal, it was not as widely used as in my parent’s day. But I loved my parents and I knew they meant well and wanted the very best for me, they just happened to have, while rare, a very severe style of discipline. So I just dealt with my reality, an incredibly sore butt that would stay that way for 2-3 days. School was as bad as it got and 8 hours in hard wooden desks was often more than I could stand. While I hated the waiting around to get spanked during the summer, I much preferred the days after to be during the summer. I could at least spend the next couple of days on my belly and not sitting. I think my mom got at least a little enjoyment over the fact that my butt was so sore. She could not but help throw out the occasional comment when I was squirming at my seat at during meals. I think most of this came from the fact that I am pretty sure she had the same experiences growing up, so she knew what it felt like.
I can honestly say that the spankings I received growing up, especially those with the hairbrush greatly influenced my behavior. They made me behave better and to try my very best to not get into trouble. The spankings were severe but always justified.