Corporalpunishmentblog

Witnessing and hearing corporal punishment while growing up

Her mom applies hard corporal punishment to her teen bottom with the belt.

I grew up in Texas, in a neighborhood where just about every kid, at one time or another, ended up getting their bottom blistered. Having recently visited my old stomping ground, I realized that things have not changed all that much. Believe me when I tell you, corporal punishment is alive and well throughout the US. It was a common enough occurrence that at some point you would end up seeing, or at least hearing a friend, or a friend’s sibling getting their bottom spanked.

Being that it was a normal part of discipline, there was not really anything taboo about it, so the parents did not go out of their way to hide it from visitors to their homes. My best friend’s older sister used to get her bottom strapped on a regular basis, and being that I spent so much time at their house, I was present for her whuppins on a regular basis. I never actually saw one take place, but her bedroom was next to the family room, so when her strappings took place, I could

Heavy Western style belt used for corporal punishment in the home.

hear each and every stroke being laid on. The 1st time will always live in my head. She came home late, on a school night, and came in the door and went right to her room. The dad looked at the mom, asked if he should take the belt in, and the mom simply said, yep. He stood up, and grabbed a belt that was clearly left out for that purpose, that hung on the side of a set of TV trays next to their hall closet. I had seen that belt there before, but it never had occurred to me that it was a belt used exclusively for corporal punishment. It was a traditional good old boy, western style belt, very thick with custom tool work on it.

He grabbed the belt and headed to her room. I expected there to be some sort of conversation, lecturing, or something of the sort, but it was less than 10 seconds after the door closed that I

Dad applies corporal punishment with a belt…a proper whuppin.

heard the strapping start. I am guessing their conversation went something like, “bend your ass over, you’ve got a whipping coming”. It did not last very long, I would say the entire strapping was over in less than 30 seconds. From the sounds of the belt hitting her butt and the sounds she was making, I could tell that it had to hurt like hell. It sounded like gunshots echoing in her little room and they were laid on fast. I am guessing that she got between 20-30 in those 30 seconds. I could hear loud squeals from her after the 1st few, which was quickly replaced with crying, and then an almost whaling sound. When the sounds of the belt hitting her butt stopped, all that could be heard was crying. He came back out, hung the belt back on its spot, and sat down in front of the TV again, a little out of breath.

She had to have been about 14 on that 1st day that I heard her get strapped, and over the next 2 years, I must have heard her receiving corporal punishment at least 5-6 times. One of the few times I actually witnessed corporal punishment taking place was a girl that was a year younger than me, who lived a few doors down. Her brother was a few years younger than me and my friends, but occasionally he would try to pal around with our group. One summer night, we were all hanging in front of my

On display after her spanking, in front of friends and family.

friend’s house that lived next door to him. This kid comes darting out of his house, quite happy and giddy, and said to us that his sister was really going to get it. We asked what he meant and he said his dad was so pissed at his sister, had sent her to her room, and that he was going to paddle her butt. This certainly got my interest, so a couple of us went up to her window. The blinds were down, but they were those almost bamboo slatted type of cheap blinds that roll down. With it being dark outside and light in her room, we could see her clearly, but somewhat obscured. She was 11-12 at the time, and was sitting on the bed bawling her eyes out, which made me wonder if we had already missed it. I asked her brother if she had already been spanked, he was grinning from ear to ear, and said no, she just knows what is coming.

We probably waited close to ten minutes before her dad came in. I do not know if he was waiting to cool off a little, or just wanted her to sweat it for a little while. When he came in he was all business and had a paddle in his hand. I have thought a lot about the paddle since that day and still do not know where it came from. It was shaped like a paddle ball paddle, but was a little bigger. It was not quite the size of one of the big jakari paddles, but it was wooden, had a handle, but what made it different was that the

Dad lays the paddle on hard.

spanking part of it was oval shaped. I had seen a few paddles made by dads and they were always rectangular, so this one was unique. If her dad had made it, he must have spent some time with it. Well this girl did indeed know what she was in for and she wanted no part of it. He told her to turn over and lay over the edge of the bed, which she would not do. He had to grab her arm and spin her around and force her into place. He set the paddle down for a second, while still keeping in her in place with his left hand, and lifted her skirt. He grabbed the paddle again and went right to work on her panties covered little butt. He started hard and fast and spanked back and forth from cheek to cheek. She screamed and yelled like she was being tortured, but he would not stop. I saw her hand get hit more than once and she tried to block the paddle from hitting her bottom. She fought hard through the 1st half of her spanking and it became clear this was not going to stop until she gave in. This was the Bible belt and I was seeing 1st hand the actual “breaking the will of the child”. The spanking with that paddle was relentless and until she started to calm down and accept her spanking, it just continued. As she stopped flopping around, putting her hands back, and generally fighting the whole process, the paddle swats landed a little slower. Once she seemed to give in completely, she got maybe ten more. After that, without a word, he left her room. It was hard to tell through the blinds and with her wearing panties, but I am pretty sure I could see that her butt was bruised. I can’t imagine it was not after all of that. This was the longest spanking I ever saw or heard in my life, with the whole process lasting at least 3 minutes. Her little brother was ecstatic when we walked back next door. He just kept going on and on “man, that was a good one”, “did you see her hands get hit with the paddle”, “I am going to tell her we watched…she will be horrified”. It was like Christmas morning for him, I think he was just happy that for once it was not his butt getting that paddle.

Over the knee spanking from mom.

The other spankings I witnessed growing up were all boys. The closest I ever got was at another friend’s house, the parents had come home, and it was clear that both he and his step sister were in a lot of trouble. For the life of me, I cannot remember what they had done. We were hanging out in his room when his dad came in and told me that it was time to go home. It was also clear that his dad was not leaving the room and that he was in a shit load of trouble. As I walked toward the front door, I walked by his step-sister’s room, the door was partially open and she was fussing as she was being pulled over her mom’s knee. This was a 14 year old girl, being taken over the knee! As someone who had pretty much figured out my spanking fetish by this time, this was almost too much for me. I left their house, I really wanted to see this take place, but it was daytime, and I could not risk looking into her window. I stood as close as I could get without being noticed, but there was a lot of street noise and I could barely hear her spanking take place. She was so cute, I was always so hot for her, I would have loved to see her teen bottom getting spanked by her mom. I always wondered if her pants were taken down or not…I never had the courage to ask.

Corporal Punishment Spanking for the Asian Daughter

Young Asian teen getting spanked by her mother

There is a very good reason why Asian daughters are so well behaved and respectful to their

Spanked in front of her sister by mom

elders.  The primary reason for this is the result of discipline.  Discipline can come in many different forms in Asian countries, but a tried and true method that is still in use today is corporal punishment.  Asian moms do not hesitate to spank their daughter’s bottoms if the moment calls for it.  Unlike many countries, Asian moms have no problem spanking daughters that are as old as 20 years of age.  All children of Asian descent are taught that they must do as their parents say, and not doing so may indeed result in a very sore bottom.

There is no hesitation and no argument when an Asian girl is to be spanked.  Moms are the primary disciplinarians in the Asian household, and they are known for being very thorough in their approach to corporal punishment.  Just

Japanese teen spanked my mom with a cane.

as they learned from their moms, a spanking is to be an event to be remembered.  They feel that if they are going to take the time to spank an older teen girl’s bottom, that they should do it to the best of their ability.

The only site that can truly present Asian corporal punishment as it is actually administered in the real world is CutieSpankee.com.  They film in Japan with very realistic scenes that show how Japanese girls are actually spanked in the home.  You can view their site and preview pictures and videos HERE

Baring her bottom so her Japanese mother can give her a hard paddling

Teen girls still paddled at home by their dad

bending over in the living room about to receive a long and hard paddling from dad.

Many parents go through a range of implements that they use to spank their daughters.  Most spankings at an early age begin with a handspanking.  As the girl grows to be a young lady, a belt is often the next step as a hand tends to be less effective.  For the naughty teen girl, with very strict parents, a logical step is to move onto a wooden paddle.

There have been many garages throughout America in which a dad has spent a couple of hours creating the perfect spanking implement.  It is usually triggered by an episode of very bad behavior, in which dad finds the motivation to get out the tools and start his new project.  There are also many cases in which the naughty daughter is made to go out in the garage with dad and either help build it, or at least watch its construction take place.  Imagine the anticipation as dad hands her the roughed out paddle and a piece of sandpaper and tells her to get to work finishing it up.  This allows her to feel the overall weight and really appreciate the size and thickness of the paddle.  She spends the next couple of hours not just finishing the paddle but imagining what it is going to feel like when it is applied full force to her teen bottom.  This is already a pretty effective punishment and it has not even been used to paddle her butt.

For some families it is almost somewhat of a tradition for the girl to have “her paddle”.  It is one thing to send her off to get “the paddle”, but there is a big sense of ownership of her transgressions when she is sent to get “her paddle”. For many families each girl has her own paddle.  I have known more than one family in which the girl keeps “her paddle” in her own room as a reminder to be on her best behavior.  It might hang in her closet, or even more embarrassing, she may be required to hang it on her bedroom wall.  There is no hiding the fact that she gets her teen butt paddled on a regular basis, when her friends visit, the evidence is right there on the wall.

There is no doubt in anyone’s mind that the paddle is a very effective form of corporal punishment. With a handspanking it takes a

the look on her face shows how effective a paddling can be for a teen girl

while to achieve the desired reaction and results.  With a belt the point is made a little quicker, but it still takes a couple of dozen good strokes for a real point to be made.  A well-crafted paddle, that is large enough to cover most of the bottom with a single swat, and thick enough to really make that swat felt, gets the young lady’s attention very quickly.  When tears are the goal, which they generally are, the eyes are watering after a single swat.

A proper paddling is administered in many different ways, and in many different locations.  Many teen girls are told to get the paddle, or “her paddle”, and told to go wait in either her room or the parent’s room.  This gives time to think about what she did and how her behavior led her to this moment.  It also gives her time alone with the paddle.  She has to hold it, consider exactly how it is

Alone with her thoughts and the paddle.

going to feel, and to think about how long her poor bottom is going to be sore.  Some paddlings take place right the on the spot of the infraction without any consideration of who is present.  Maybe she did not do her kitchen chores and dad simply walks into the kitchen with the paddle in hand and bends her over the kitchen counter and gets to work.  It is not completely uncommon for a dad to march right out into the yard, have his daughter bend over and paddle her in full view of the neighbors.  Some families administer corporal punishment in a sort of “family meeting” setting.  The kids are sat down in the living room, behaviors are discussed, and for those that require a spanking, it is done right there, in front of the entire family. The

Bent over and paddled in front of her brothers and sisters

naughty teen is sent to get the paddle, bent right over the arm of the couch and paddled in front of her brothers and sisters.  This serves as a very effective reminder for the rest of the kids, to stay on top of their chores and to stay out of trouble.

There are many positions that can be used for a paddling.  Probably the most common is for the young lady to simply bend over and put her hands on the bed for her punishment.  Creative parents have found many positions over the years that have proven to be effective.  Bending over and grabbing her ankles is an embarrassing one and a painful way to be paddled.  It really pulls all of the muscles in her bottom tight to the surface, so the effects of the paddling last a long time.  There are many variations used throughout the country,

Assuming the lunge position for a very hard paddling, in the dining room, from her father

including the “lunge positions” and another very effective one is with arms full outstretched touching the wall.  This position requires her arms to stay in place or she loses her balance and it helps keeps hands from getting in the way.

The main reason a paddle is utilized for the punishment of an older teen girl is simple…a paddling hurts like hell.  We have to be honest here, the reason teen girls are spanked is to provide a negative stimulus that will help them remember to not get in trouble and to be well behaved.  A large wooden paddle raised high in the air and brought down full force on a teen butt is a very effective negative stimulus.  Parents who use a paddle for disciplining their teen daughter do not have to do it very often, because it achieves results.  If we look at the entire process, it makes sense.  A girl is sent to her room as I described before and is made to wait.  The anticipation is part of the learning process and allows her to reflect on her transgressions.  The next step is cooperation and obedience.  She is required

Presenting her teen bottom to her dad for a paddling

to bend over, thus assisting in her own punishment, and she is required to present her bottom. Bending over and presenting your ass to someone on command is not something that typically takes place in our society.  This demonstrated control by the parent and submissiveness by the teen girl and shows her that as grown up as she feel, she is still not fully in control.

The next part and the primary function of a paddling is the pain.  There is no point in the dad going through all this trouble if he is not going to apply a painful and long lasting punishment.  A proper paddling is administered full force with tears being the goal on from the first swat to the last.  Each paddle swat is applied to the lowest and fleshiest part of her bottom.  Bruising will indeed occur, but it is part of the process.  Another aspect to the cooperation is the fact that she has to hold still for the duration of her

Doing her best to stay in position as her dad paddled her tiny teen butt

punishment.  She is assisting her dad in HER punishment by keeping her bottom properly in place so he can effectively and safely continue to paddle her butt.  One of the downsides to a proper paddling, is that it hurts enough that the body begins to combat the pain, and often her butt will go numb after five or six hard swats.  A good parent will not stop the paddling just because she is not reacting as much to each swat.  An informed father will realize that while the current pain of the paddling is getting easier for her to deal with, that additional swats will serve a long term purpose.  The goal is not 30 seconds of pain for her transgressions; it is for a sore bottom that lasts for several days.  So while it may be easier for her after her butt goes numb, he knows that the next 15 swats are what are really going to bring the point home for many days to come.

The final part of a paddling as an effective punishment for the teen girl is the after effects.  Once her dad leaves the room she is just full of emotions.  Her bottom is throbbing and she is still trying to stop the tears from flowing.  Most teens take a look in the mirror

Looking at the results of a well earned paddling. She knows her now bruised bottom is going to be sore for days to come.

to see how their bottoms look.  She lowers her pants and takes a look in the mirror and there is visual reminder of her behavior.  But the real lesson begins as her body starts to calm down.  The pain that the body was numbing begins to come back.  Her bottom goes from a gentle throbbing to a very painful throbbing.  With every beat of her heart a pulsating pain overtakes her teen butt.  Just like a hard workout at the gym, the real soreness begins the next morning and peaks 48 hours later.  Talk about an effective punishment, when the young lady wakes up two days later, goes to the bathroom, and can barely sit on the toilet.  There is not a minute that goes by in the next 3 days in which she is not reminded of her behavior.  Every time she sits down she vows to be a good girl from that day forward and to do everything she possibly can to never be paddled by dad again.

Dad paddles her bottom long and hard until she learns a real lesson

It is hard to find realistic paddling videos such as what has been described here.  Every picture used in the post comes from a very realistic father/daughter paddling scene at realspankings.com.  These are not playful or pretend little spankings.  These are scenes that depict full force paddling just as teen girls receive them today.  The paddle is used in a severe and effective manner which often leads to tears and always leads to a very sore and bruised bottom.  They may be models, but many are 18-19 years of age and they go home with sore butts and feel it for days.  Check out their member’s area to see the videos that go with these pictures.  Currently in their member’s area they have 295 separate punishment scenes in which a large wooden paddle is used to spank a teen girl’s bottom.  You can visit their site at www.realspankings.com

Severe corporal punishment with a paddle

A very bruised bottom from a very hard paddling

Some situations just call for it, and it cannot really be specified ahead of time.  It may be that this is the third or fourth time that this issue has been brought up in just as many weeks.  It could be that this is the one time that nothing else is going to do the trick.  Maybe the law was broken, a life was put in danger, or it could even be as simple as lying, yet again.  No parent really wants to be put in this situation, but they care enough that when the moment presents itself, they are going to take care of things to the best of their ability.

If you are having trouble picturing a situation that might really call for it, picture this.  An 18 year old girl goes out for the night, borrowing her parent’s car, to “go see a movie with friends”.  A few hours later she comes home, visibly drunk, having not only driven herself in that condition, but having taken her friends home as well.  For a girl who is used to being spanked on a regular basis for breaking the rules, you can only

Her paddling is just getting started

imagine what this situation must call for.  It may seem strict, it may seem severe, others might even call it abusive, but there are times when loving parents must take a punishment spanking to the next level, and clearly the above situation would call for it.

This girl in this situation needs to get the spanking of her life, a spanking that she will never forget, and a spanking that will make permanent changes in her behavior. This is not going to be the typical spanking that she is used to receiving for typical offenses.  This will be a bare bottom spanking with a paddle, brush, or belt that will leave her 18 year old bottom so marked and sore that sitting is literally impossible for days to come.  Being that she came home drunk and might not feel the full effects of such a punishment, It might be a good idea to apply the punishment twice.  The 1^st spanking is applied immediately, on the spot, and as soon as her parents realize what has been going on.  While she might not feel the full effects, it sets up the perfect situation for the next morning.  Woken early, hung-over, with her bottom as sore as it has ever been, is the perfect time for her to get the spanking of her life again.

Her bottom shows the marks, but he is just getting started.

Imagine as she is still a little foggy, head pounding, bottom throbbing, and she wakes to both her parents in her room with dad holding the large wooden paddle.  Mom tells her to wake up, lower her pj’s and to bend over the edge of her bed.  She does as she is told, with her bottom hurting so much that she cannot imagine even a single swat being applied.  She quickly realizes that she is not going to get a single swat, she is going to get the paddling of her life…again.  Dad wastes no time and gets to work on her already bruised bottom.  Her parents are going to make sure that she never chooses to drink and drive again.  The pain of the paddling is more than she has ever experienced before in her life.  He paddles her poor bottom hard, applying a swat every second, and it continues for close to a full minute.  The tears started from the very first swat and she is close to hysterics before it is all said and done.

The days after turn out to be worse than the paddling itself.  She ended up wearing pj’s or sweat pants for the rest of the

Her teen bottom shows that a real lesson was learned.

weekend as her bottom was too swollen and sore for pants.  She really could not sit down on any hard surface and found herself squatting above the toilet to pee.  With the exception of dinner time which always took place at the kitchen table, she did not sit at all.  For dinner however, her parents made her join the family to eat, and her extreme discomfort was more than clear to all members of the family.  She broke the biggest rule that she could ever break, and her bottom was paddled beyond black and blue.  It was a very severe punishment, but one that she had earned.

The pictures of this very bruised bottom come from real punishment administered to real teens in the member’s area of Realspankings.com and SpankingTeenJessica.com.  Corporal punishment videos featuring the hardest spankings to tears on the Internet.

What is Spanking?

What is Spanking?  The formal definition is:

Spanking refers to the act of striking the buttocks of another person to cause temporary pain without producing physical injury. It generally involves one person striking the buttocks of another person with an open hand. When an open hand is used, spanking is referred to in some countries as slapping or smacking. More severe forms of spanking, such as switching, paddling, belting, caning, whipping, and birching, involve the use of an implement instead of a hand.

But spanking means many different things for many different people.  Let’s take a look at how very different spanking can be for one certain group of people…the older teenage girl.  Chances are that a girl that is gets spanked after the age of 14 has probably been spanked most of her life.  With the older teen girl who receives a spanking there tends to be a common thread.  There is a very good chance that her parents are religious.  Many people believe that the Bible clearly calls for the spanking of a child and they follow through with that

Dad gives her a spanking over her jeans.

direction.  There is a higher probability of a girl raised in the South to receive a spanking as opposed to other areas of the country.  Obviously a girl that is getting spanked at home well into her teen years is probably a bit of a trouble maker.

But a spanking for one girl might not be the same as a spanking to another girl. Even looking at the definition above we can see that there is a lot of variance in how a

She is given a spanking in the kitchen with her bottom bared.

spanking is applied.  For some teen girls they might still receive their spanking the way they always have, bent over the knee of their dad for a long and hard spanking with his hand.  He may apply the spanking hard enough and long enough that he does not need to bare her bottom.  As long as the spanking leads to tears and a sore bottom, he is satisfied with spanking he administered. Some girls may not be so lucky and might find themselves having to lower their pants and panties for a long and hard handspanking on their bare bottoms.  Some moms and dads do not even allow any privacy when administering a spanking and might just bend the naughty girl over right there in the kitchen, make her put her hands on the sink, and spank her teen bottom until she has learned her lesson.  Sometimes this is done in full view of the rest of the family as a warning to her brothers and sisters to be on their best behavior.

But if we are being realistic in our exploration of the spanking of a teenage girl, we must realize that for the older teens, a handspanking is rarely going to take care of the problem. Many parents decide, as their daughters get older, that a more severe form of spanking is required.  This often

Dad bares her bottom and gives her a spanking with a belt.

leads to what implement is available in any given household that can be used to give a hard spanking.  For most teen girls this typically means the belt. Every house has a leather belt, so it is not uncommon for it to be folded in half and used to apply a very effective spanking to a naughty daughter’s bottom.  It is not surprising how effective dad’s large Western belt can be when discipline is required.  It can be used for spanking over jeans, a skirt, pajamas, or even the pretty Sunday dress that she wears to Church.  But obviously when she receives a spanking with a belt on her bare bottom, the most amount of learning takes place.  It is a much different type of spanking when a young

Presenting her teen bottom for a spanking with the belt.

lady is marched to her room, required to lower her pants and panties, for a long session with the belt on her bare bottom.  Many parents require their teen daughter to bend over the bed, others simply have them bend over in the center of the room and put their hands on their knees.  With their teen butt in the air their spanking with the belt begins.  Each stroke leaves a welt on her tight bottom, and with each one there is learning taking place.  A long and hard spanking with a belt gets immediate and long lasting results.  Unlike a simple handspanking, a belt brings tears right away.

Just as the belt is a level of severity beyond a handspanking, there are always other options for dealing with the naughtiest of girls.  For many teen girls this involves their bottom being

Getting a spanking with a wooden spoon

spanked with a wooden implement.  The most readily available in any house is a wooden spoon.  While somewhat small, when a wooden spoon is used for spanking it can really bruise a bottom quickly.  It is light enough that it can be used to cover a teen girl’s entire bottom, even the backs of her thighs, but the sting is intense and really gets a naughty girl promising to be good.  Due to its lightness it is best used for spanking a bare bottom.  For a

A spanking on ber butt with dad's paddle

household that really takes their spanking seriously, there are a couple of levels of spanking that go far and above the rest.  Some families actually go out of their way to create a spanking implement that is used to punish naughty girls.  The most common form this comes in is a wooden paddle.  Constructed in the garages, sheds, and workshops of dads across the country, wooden paddles are built for the spanking of the naughtiest bottoms out there.  A wooden paddle is quite a convincing deterrent when looking to adjust a naughty girl’s bad behavior.  One of the nicest features of a wooden paddle is that it is effective over clothes and on the bare bottom.  Often there is not the time or the privacy to go through the ritual of sending her to her room, baring her bottom, and then

Mom makes her bare her butt for a spanking with the paddle

applying a proper spanking.  Consider the teen girl who decides to be a smart mouth right as the family is walking out the door to leave the house.  Dad can simply grab the paddle from the closet and give her a spanking with the paddle, right there on the spot, and still achieve the desired results.  Even over pants and panties a heavy wooden paddle, maybe even one with holes in it, is sure to blister her bottom and have her in tears in no time.  Take that same paddle and apply it to her bare bottom and you will have a young lady on the straight and narrow for weeks to come.

A final factor in the spanking equation regarding severity and implements has to do with tradition.  There are some families in which for generations spanking has been the primary method of discipline.  It is not uncommon for moms to spank their daughters in the exact same way that they were spanked by their mothers. Also within this tradition may be a spanking implement that has been handed down, the most common of these implements in a heavy wooden antique hairbrush.  A mom knows from first-hand experience how effective the brush is as her mother used to bruise her bottom with it when she was a teen.  She hates to have to use it for a spanking but knows that

A severe spanking with the wooden hairbrush

some situations in life call for a spanking that will never be forgotten.  By taking her almost adult daughter and having her lower her pants and panties, lay her over her knees, and then spanking her with her mom’s hairbrush, she is assured a lesson will be learned. The mom can still recall exactly how that brush felt on her bare bottom, so she knows the lessons never go away.  She also knows that after the spanking with the hairbrush that the pain of the spanking lingers for many days.  She can recall crying herself to sleep, while lying on her belly, as her bottom was much too sore to sleep on her back.  She can still remember the next morning, getting out of bed, and how it was sore to even walk.  She can recall looking at her bottom in the mirror and seeing a mess of black and blue covering her entire bottom.  It feels like it was just yesterday that she tried to sit at the hard chairs at the dinner table and found it almost impossible to do so.  She remembers all of this clearly as she administers a spanking to her teen daughter with the same brush, seeing the same marks on her daughter’s bottom, knowing her daughter is learning the same lessons.

A spanking comes in many shapes and forms, but when applied correctly for the given situation it is an effective form of discipline for teenage girls throughout the world.  The above pictures come from the member’s area of Realspankings.com, a site that currently has 1600 different spanking videos that explore the spanking and corporal punishment of legal age teen girls.