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Cooperating and assisting with HER punishment

When a young lady has found herself in the situation of being enough trouble that the use of corporal punishment is needed, it is important that she be a full participant in all aspects of the discipline that she will receive.  It is her actions and behaviors that led to this

situation, so she should be required to help.  Once a spanking has been decided upon, she should be required to assume full ownership of her punishment and assisst in every way possible.  After all, it is HER punishment, she earned it, and cannot expect her mom or dad to take care of the whole thing.  They are doing their part by being good parents and assuring that she learn a lesson when it is required.  They are going to devote the amount of time required to see that the spanking is effective.  The are also going to expend a considerable amount of energy in the physical application of the punishment. Let’s face it, when blistering the bottom of an older teen girl, a few light smacks is never going to do the trick.  The parent that will be doing the spanking is going to get a workout in the process, so the daughter might as well do everything else.

This begins with her getting the implement.  She should not be allowed to choose the implement, as this should be decided based upon the severity of her offense and what her parents know to be most effective in teaching her a lesson.  Once the implement has been decided, she should be

sent to get it.  Some families still use a switch and send the naughty girl out back to pick the exact switch that will be used on her bottom. She is then required to clean the switch by removing every little leaf and twig from it.  This is a perfect way to make her really accept ownership of her punishment.  For other families it might be as simple as sending her to get the implement that is always used on her.  It might be grabbing the family paddle from its spot on the wall, or going into her dad’s closet for the belt, or mom’s dresser drawer for the wooden hairbrush.  On occasion, dad might actually take her out into the garage and she assists him in constructing a new paddle especially to be used on her bottom.  Talk about owning your own punishment.  Imagine as she hands him tools and she sees the paddle come to life right in front of her.  She can only imagine how much it is going to hurt as he hands it to her and asks her to sand all the edges smooth.

Once the implement is retrieved she should politely hand it to the spanker.  As with the implement choice, position should not be up the the teen.  The position should be carefully selected by her parent based on what they know to work the best.  It may be that a particular position allows her the stability required for a harder paddling, or it

may just be one that is very uncomfortable.  Some positions are a little more embarrassing and add a sense of vulnerability.  Regardless of the position, she should be required to fully cooperate when assuming it.  If this is to be a bare bottom spanking, which is generally the most effective way to spank an older teen, she is going to need to bare her

bottom herself.  It is her punishment, so she needs to do most of the work.  The act if unbuttoning her pants, lowering her panties, and bending over to present her bottom is very submissive.  It allows her to own her punishment and submit properly to it.  She knows that she broke the rules and she is old enough to know that there are consequences for these types of actions. Even before the actual spanking begins, she is really giving in by presenting her bare bottom, exactly as she was told, and is demonstrating some responsibility for her actions.

The next part is the hardest for most teen girls to accept. Holding still for her spanking, even at this age is just difficult, but it is a very important part of the process.  Once she assumes the position and presents her bottom, she needs to not move and be cooperative for the duration of her spanking.  The primary reason this is so important is that she needs to be as helpful as possible to the person spanking her.  They are going out of their way to assure that she is being raised properly.  They are taking time out of their day to punish her and she needs to help in every way possible.  Making it more difficult to

spank her by moving around, does not help anyone.  In addition, if she is being spanked with a heavy implement such as a wooden paddle, or an antique hairbrush, it could be unsafe for her to move out of position.  The goal should be for each swat to hit exactly where it is intended, and where it will provide the most pain, but in a safe manner.  But even more importantly, is that this is HER spanking.  She needs to accept it.  She needs to submit to it.  She needs to realize that her actions led to this and that it is well deserved.  Holding still and owning every single moment of it will make her a better person.  Yes it hurts very much.  Yes, it is going to make her cry very real tears.  Yes, her bottom will be bruised and it will be difficult to sit for a couple of days.  This is also why it is an effective form of discipline.

When her spanking is complete, she should not be angry.  She should accept why the spanking took place.  She should understand that she created the situation. She should accept that her bottom hurts very much because she did not follow the rules. She should be proud that she assisted in her punishment and made it easier for her parents to administered.  She should feel good that she accepted ownership for HER spanking.

These scenes come from actual videos in the member’s areas of RealspankingsPass.  The strict punishment of real teens, administered just like it is in the homes of America every day.  Belts, paddles, and brushes until they are crying very real tears.

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