Corporalpunishmentblog

Cooperating and assisting with HER punishment

When a young lady has found herself in the situation of being enough trouble that the use of corporal punishment is needed, it is important that she be a full participant in all aspects of the discipline that she will receive.  It is her actions and behaviors that led to this

Getting the paddle to be used for her own corporal punishment

situation, so she should be required to help.  Once a spanking has been decided upon, she should be required to assume full ownership of her punishment and assisst in every way possible.  After all, it is HER punishment, she earned it, and cannot expect her mom or dad to take care of the whole thing.  They are doing their part by being good parents and assuring that she learn a lesson when it is required.  They are going to devote the amount of time required to see that the spanking is effective.  The are also going to expend a considerable amount of energy in the physical application of the punishment. Let’s face it, when blistering the bottom of an older teen girl, a few light smacks is never going to do the trick.  The parent that will be doing the spanking is going to get a workout in the process, so the daughter might as well do everything else.

This begins with her getting the implement.  She should not be allowed to choose the implement, as this should be decided based upon the severity of her offense and what her parents know to be most effective in teaching her a lesson.  Once the implement has been decided, she should be

Made to choose and clean a switch to be used on her bottom for discipline

sent to get it.  Some families still use a switch and send the naughty girl out back to pick the exact switch that will be used on her bottom. She is then required to clean the switch by removing every little leaf and twig from it.  This is a perfect way to make her really accept ownership of her punishment.  For other families it might be as simple as sending her to get the implement that is always used on her.  It might be grabbing the family paddle from its spot on the wall, or going into her dad’s closet for the belt, or mom’s dresser drawer for the wooden hairbrush.  On occasion, dad might actually take her out into the garage and she assists him in constructing a new paddle especially to be used on her bottom.  Talk about owning your own punishment.  Imagine as she hands him tools and she sees the paddle come to life right in front of her.  She can only imagine how much it is going to hurt as he hands it to her and asks her to sand all the edges smooth.

Baring her bottom for her spanking

Once the implement is retrieved she should politely hand it to the spanker.  As with the implement choice, position should not be up the the teen.  The position should be carefully selected by her parent based on what they know to work the best.  It may be that a particular position allows her the stability required for a harder paddling, or it

Helping dad by baring her bottom to be spanked

may just be one that is very uncomfortable.  Some positions are a little more embarrassing and add a sense of vulnerability.  Regardless of the position, she should be required to fully cooperate when assuming it.  If this is to be a bare bottom spanking, which is generally the most effective way to spank an older teen, she is going to need to bare her

She knows it will hurt more, but she bares her bottom

bottom herself.  It is her punishment, so she needs to do most of the work.  The act if unbuttoning her pants, lowering her panties, and bending over to present her bottom is very submissive.  It allows her to own her punishment and submit properly to it.  She knows that she broke the rules and she is old enough to know that there are consequences for these types of actions. Even before the actual spanking begins, she is really giving in by presenting her bare bottom, exactly as she was told, and is demonstrating some responsibility for her actions.

Bending over, presenting her bare bottom, and holding her position

The next part is the hardest for most teen girls to accept. Holding still for her spanking, even at this age is just difficult, but it is a very important part of the process.  Once she assumes the position and presents her bottom, she needs to not move and be cooperative for the duration of her spanking.  The primary reason this is so important is that she needs to be as helpful as possible to the person spanking her.  They are going out of their way to assure that she is being raised properly.  They are taking time out of their day to punish her and she needs to help in every way possible.  Making it more difficult to

Mom's belt wears her bottom out, but she stays in position for her entire spanking.

spank her by moving around, does not help anyone.  In addition, if she is being spanked with a heavy implement such as a wooden paddle, or an antique hairbrush, it could be unsafe for her to move out of position.  The goal should be for each swat to hit exactly where it is intended, and where it will provide the most pain, but in a safe manner.  But even more importantly, is that this is HER spanking.  She needs to accept it.  She needs to submit to it.  She needs to realize that her actions led to this and that it is well deserved.  Holding still and owning every single moment of it will make her a better person.  Yes it hurts very much.  Yes, it is going to make her cry very real tears.  Yes, her bottom will be bruised and it will be difficult to sit for a couple of days.  This is also why it is an effective form of discipline.

When her spanking is complete, she should not be angry.  She should accept why the spanking took place.  She should understand that she created the situation. She should accept that her bottom hurts very much because she did not follow the rules. She should be proud that she assisted in her punishment and made it easier for her parents to administered.  She should feel good that she accepted ownership for HER spanking.

These scenes come from actual videos in the member’s areas of RealspankingsPass.  The strict punishment of real teens, administered just like it is in the homes of America every day.  Belts, paddles, and brushes until they are crying very real tears.

Spanked on her already bruised bottom

It was her mom’s policy that a spanking took place on the spot.  This had led to more than the occasional embarrassing moments for her oldest daughter. But her mother was a firm believer in strict corporal punishment, and as soon as mom found out that her daughter had gotten into any amount of trouble, the pants and panties came down and a hand spanking began.

On this occasion it was well into the night and her daughter had already been asleep for a couple of hours.  Her mom had not yet gotten to the day’s mail, and just before she went to bed she started opening it.  She was surprised to see a letter from the school, so she started with that.  It was a one page notice, informing the parents that their 18 year old daughter, a senior in school, had received corporal punishment.  She was given the maximum

Waking her up for a hard spanking

number of swats with a paddle, as specified by the school board, for her third offense of excessive tardies to the period after lunch.  The mom was immeditaely quite angry as she had not known there were even any previous referrals to the office for tardies.  Her children were expected to keep her informed regarding behavioral issues at school, and clearly she was left out of the loop on this one.  Her school paddling had taken place two days before, and Brandi had not mentioned a single word about it.  Her mom stormed up to Brandi’s room and quickly woke her up.

Brandi’s mom was furious and wanted to know why Brandi had not told her about the

Lowering her panties and seeing her bruised bottom from the school paddling

school paddling.  Brandi told her the truth, that she knew that she would be spanked again by her mom and that her butt hurt way to much for another spanking so soon.  Brandi explained that it was the male principal that had paddled her and that he really paddled her hard.  She said that she had been given 10 swats, with the large wooden paddle, while grabbing her ankles and that there was no way she could handle a spanking for several more days.  Her mom informed her that it was not  her decision to make and that she would indeed be spanked, right here and right now.

Brandi knew better than to argue, so as her mom sat on the edge of the bed, Brandi raised her nighty and went over her mom’s lap.  Her mom lowered her daughter’s panties and was quite impressed.  It seemed that the school was not going lightly with the application of

Starting to spank her bruised bottom

corporal punishment.  This offense had been the third time she had been sent to the office for tardies to one class, so the severity was probably justified.  If two previous warnings had not solved this problem, maybe a paddling would.  Her daughter’s bottom was a mess of black and blue bruises and there was no doubt that she had learned a lesson. Regardless of the state of her bottom, a spanking was called for, so a spanking would be administered.

From the first smack with her mother’s hand, Brandi could not hold still.  Her mom spanked her cute bottom long and hard and Brandi winced in pain from every smack.  Her mom wished it was always this easy to punish her daughter.  It generally took more than a minute to get a real reaction from Brandi and her mom had to always work very hard throughout the spanking.  Her mom was spanking as hard as

A very sore bottom

she always did, but it took very little time for the tears to start flowing.  It was very easy to emphasize her point by just placing two or three smacks in a row in the same bruised spot, on the lowest part of her bottom.  The paddle had really done the job, as every little smack to the bruised parts or her butt just raised the level of Brandi’s crying.

While her mom felt a little sorry for the pain that Brandi must be feeling, getting spanked

Paddled at school, spanked at home, cried herself to sleep

on such a bruised bottom, it did not change the spanking in any way.  Brandi had earned a spanking by not telling the truth about getting in trouble in school, as well as not disclosing that she had been paddled.  Her mom did not change anything.  She had Brandi over her knee within five minutes of finding out, she bared her bottom for the duration of the spanking, and she spanked just as long and just as hard as she always had. She knew this spanking must have hurt Brandi much more than a typical spanking, but that was not the mom’s fault.  Her mom finished it up with a good minute of her hardest spanking, focused only on the bruised areas of Brandi’s bottom.  With Brandi crying as hard as required for this punishment, her mom stopped and had Brandi get off her lap.  Her mom warned her not to let it happen again and then left the room.  Brandi, fully exhausted from her spanking, laid back down on the bed and rubber her poor bottom until she fell back asleep on top of the covers.

If you would like to see the real reactions of a real teen getting spanked on her very bruised bottom, this video is from the member’s area of SpankingTeenBrandi.com.

Corporal Punishment for the Teen Girl

Her last real spanking was at around age 8.  Her mom had a special leather paddle that she

Waiting for mom

used on her daughter, but it had been put away for many years.  Her mom believed that older girls should not be spanked anymore.  She was still trying to convince herself this as her daughter sat in her PJs in the living room, wondering what was about to happen.

The mother searched throughout her own closet, trying to figure out what had happened to the leather paddle.  It had been at least seven years since she had needed to use it.  But at this point she felt enough was enough.  Her daughter had been grounded for the last two weeks.  This meant staying home, mostly in her room unless she was eating with the family or doing chores.  This also meant no use of the phone and no use of the Internet.  Three times in the past week, she was caught doing more than homework on her computer.  She had been chatting, using Facebook, and everything else a 17 year old girl does socially online.  Her mom had had enough and it was time to revert back to methods that always worked when she was a little girl.  If she was still going to act that way, she was going to be treated that way.

She finally found the small paddle and decided it had to be done.  Her daughter had been

Knowing she is going to be spanked by mom

sitting in the living room for close to 30 minutes, having no idea what was about to happen.  She thought her mom just went to cool off a little.  She knew she was about to have another week added to her grounding.  As she dreaded this very notion, her mom walked in with the paddle.  She almost did not believe what she was looking at.  Was that really the paddle from so many years ago?  Why did her mom even still own it? What the hell was she doing holding it at this moment? There was no way her mom was going to use that on her, she was 17 after all.

The mom was actually at a loss for words.  She had decided this was the best thing and she was going to go through with it.  She pulled out the ottoman from the couch and placed it in the middle of the room.  She grabbed a pillow off of the couch and set it on the ottoman.  Her teen daughter just sat there, dumbfounded, staring at the paddle.  Her mom grabbed her by the arm and told her to bend over the ottoman and pillow.  The girl’s head was spinning, she had flashed back

Her mom bares her bottom for her paddling

many years, and found herself doing what she was told. What she did not expect was that she felt her mother lifting up her nighty and lowering her panties. She had been spanked a bit as a kid, and occasionally on her panties, but not once on her bare bottom.

Her mother had already decided that if she was going to go through with this, that it

Her bare bottom spanking begins

needed to be the last spanking she ever gave her daughter.  She felt that paddling the little bottom of a high school girl was not the way to go, but she had tried everything else.  If she was going to commit to corporal punishment, then she was going to go all out and give it to her daughter, just as her mom had given it to her when she was a teen.  She was going to beat her daughter’s bare bottom, long and hard, and make sure that she took all groundings seriously from now on.  She was going to make this an experience that her daughter would never forget.  She did not want to do it, but she was a good mom and wanted what was best for her daughter.

Getting her teen bottom blistered by her mom

Without another word being spoken she began.  She lifted the paddle high in the air and smacker her daughter’s petite bottom with every ounce of energy she could muster. The paddle left her left cheek reddened and she moved onto the other cheek.  Without a pause, she moved back and forth, from cheek to cheek.  She had never spanked this hard, nor had she ever spanked bare bottom, and she was quite surprised at the results.  Her daughter held onto the legs of the ottoman a and tried her best to suffer through it.  She could not believe how much it stung.  She held on, hoping it would end soon.

Hard corporal punishment leaves her bottom bruised

When she spanked her daughter when she was little, she gave her a dozen or so swats to her little behind.  This time it was different.  Her daughter was fully grown and she had been exhibiting direct disobedience regarding being grounded.  She wanted her good girl back and was dedicated to finding her again with the paddle. There was no way a dozen swats were going to do it.  She just continued to paddle her teen bottom until she felt the job had been completed. Her daughter fought the tears back for a good minute, but they were bound to come.  The mom ignored the fact that her butt had gone from red to purple. She had

Her daughter learned her lesson

to ignore the bruising and focus on her daughter’s attitude and emotions. She waited until the tears were flowing good and hard before she considered stopping.  She paused for a moment to ask her daughter if she would behave, which she quickly agreed to through her sobbing.  Her mother raised the leather paddle once again and gave her twelve more for good measure.

She told her child to stand up and the young lady jumped up and rubbed her bottom furiously.  Her entire butt was on fire, and while she would not know it until she looked in the mirror later, it was a mess.  Both cheeks were marked from top to bottom from the paddle.  She would not be sitting at her computer on the Internet, she would not be sitting at all.  Her 17 year old butt was properly punished like it had never been before.  Her mom realized that

A teen taught a real lesson through corporal punishment

corporal punishment still worked, even on a teenage bottom.  She might have had to spank longer, harder, and on a bare butt, but she got results.

This is not just a photo story, this spanking was actually administered to an 18 year old girl. It was one of the first times she had ever been spanked, it was to tears, and it was caught on video in the member’s area of Realspankings.com.  Spanking real teens to tears since 1997, they are the very best.

Not all spankings are private

The typical 18 year old girl, who is still spanked, generally is spanked by one of her parents in private.  In general, most spanking are taken care of in this manner.  It allows for a quiet place to discuss what happened and make it very clear to her why she is being spanked.  It allows for some modesty should she be required to bare her bottom, and it also gives her the privacy to cry hard and to get it all out. When spanked in her own room, it allows her a place to hang out and gather her thoughts, rub her bottom, and dry her tears after the spanking.

Not all parents believe that a spanking needs to be administered in private.  For some, a spanking will take place when and where they feel it necessary.  No consideration is given to who is present, or even the location of the punishment, they simply feel the need to discipline their teen daughter and they follow through with it.

One instance of this is when a young lady is spanked in front of her parent’s adult friends or even neighbors.  It is not uncommon in neighborhoods in the South for friends and family to have permission to spank each other’s kids.  This allows for a situation in which there is no hesitation to bare a teen girl’s bottom and spank her in front of whoever happens to present in the living room at the moment.  The parents are home, entertaining half a dozen friends and neighbors when the young lady comes home quite late.  Every parent in the room utilizes spanking as a means of discipline, so it will not shock anyone.

Bottom bared and spanked in front of the neighbors.

Her parents might have even brought it up in casual conversation to the group.  “I cannot believe she is so late again, I hope you do not mind, but I am going to blister her little bottom as soon as she walks in the door”.  This might even lead to casual spanking conversations.  Their own memories of being spanked growing up, or the discussion of how they currently spank their own daughters.  Either way, when she walks in the door late, it is pants and panties down and over daddy’s knee for a long and hard spanking to tears. The guests do not even pretend not to watch, they simply continue their drinks and conversation as they see her little teen bottom turning redder and redder.

Probably a more common occurrence is when a young lady is spanked in front of a friend.

Spanked with a belt by her step-dad, in front of her friend

It could be that they got in trouble together and one parent does not have the authority to spank someone else’s daughter.  That does not mean that he is going to make his daughter wait for her spanking.  Her friend, who is equally responsible for their actions, can just sit there and watch the other one get it long and hard with the belt.  You can be sure that he will call her parents when it is over, to make sure her bottom is set on fire when she gets home.

He has no problem sending them both up to his daughter’s room to wait for him.  This allows them to talk about it.  This allows his daughter to be horribly embarrassed by the fact that she is about to be spanked in front of her best friend. She finds herself almost praying that he will not make her drop her pants for the spanking, but she knows better.  He is going to blister her bottom with the

Watching her friend receive bare bottom corporal punishment

belt, and he will do it on the bare, he always does.  Her friend has seen her bare butt dozens of times, but never while someone is whipping it raw with a leather belt.

Maybe it is one of those situations in which two girl’s parents have a deal and have no problem spanking the other’s child when needed.  In this situation is not quite as embarrassing to see other spanked, as it happens quite often.  Even after several times, it is still never all that comfortable having to get spanked by someone else’s mom.  It is even worse when a 18 year old girl finds herself bending over and presenting her bottom to be spanked by her

Watching her friend get the belt, she will be next

friend’s dad.  She knows that her friend’s dad favors the belt and his belt is a very serious looking one.  Maybe he is respectful that she is a fully developed woman and allows her to keep her pants up, but that does not take much of the sting away.  He swings that belt is a manner much more effective than her own parents, and it always leaves her butt bruised.  Unfortunately for his own daughter, he does not consider her modesty, so when it is her turn, she still has to bare her butt just as if they were alone in the room.

It may seem like fantasy, but it is reality.  There are many situations in the US and throughout the world, where getting a hard spanking, in full view of everyone present is a common occurrence.  There are many bottoms that are made quite sore in parking lots, campgrounds, and even pulled over on the side of the road.  She might find herself embarrassed as her pants come down in front of friends, neighbors, or relatives, but that embarrassment is quickly replaced with the distraction of hard spanking.  She forgets that there are five adults in the room watching her get spanked because the burning of her teen bottom is so intense that all that she can do is cry.  She thought that nothing could be worse than having her best friend see her punished, but once that belt starts swinging through the air, she realizes that there is nothing worse than what her butt is feeling.

These pictures come from public punishments administered on the various sites that are part of the RealspankingsPass

Mom still spanks OTK

Panties down, Pj's up, for an OTK spanking from mom.

Over the knee spanking was first used to spank the youngest of children.  Younger children have not reached the age in which they can submit to their punishment, so a bit of restraint was required.  As children grow to be teens, most moms use a different position to spank their naughty daughters.  Some moms however, never stop with the use OTK for a spanking.

Spanking an older teen over the knee serves many purposes.  The main one is that it still

A hand spanking from mom OTK

makes her feel like a little kid.  Taking an 18 year old girl and requiring her to bare her bottom and go over mom’s knee really makes her feel like a little girl.  Even more powerful is for mom to be the one that bares the young lady’s bottom.  Pulling out a chair, having a seat, making her approach, and then to unbutton and lower her pants, and then her panties as she is pulled over mom’s lap, leaves her embarrassed, humiliated, and most importantly, demonstrates that mom is still in charge.

Getting her teen bottom spanked by mom

It also a very intimate act.  Yes, having a young lady bend over her bed for a long session with the paddle might be an effective form of discipline, but there is a bit of distance created.  An over the knee spanking is much like an embrace.  The mother becomes very much a part of the whole process and is quite connected to her daughter throughout.  She can feel every muscle when it tenses up.  She can feel the change in her daughter’s breathing as the spanking intensifies.  Crying is no longer something that is just heard, it is felt by the mother.  While it is a punishment, there is also a connection with an OTK spanking.

One disadvantage to an OTK spanking is that implement selection becomes a little more

Reddening her bottom while OTK

limited.  The large school type paddles and heavy leather belts that are so effective on the 17-19 year old girls are just not practical to use over the knee.  Many moms go with the most traditional of implements, as there daughter gets to become high school age, and use a wooden hairbrush.  There is no doubt as to the effectiveness of this implement and it gets to the point very quickly.  Smaller paddles, bread boards, and wooden spoons are also very effective implements when used in the OTK position.  Some moms like the intimacy of using their own hand and never give up  handspanking their daughters.  When using a hand on high school aged girls, they simply have to adjust their methods a bit.

Corporal punishment for her daughter

Certainly a much longer and much harder handspanking is now required to adjust her daughter’s attitude.  What used to be accomplished with a 1 minute handspanking, might now take 4-5 minutes.  Many moms  find it useful with the older teens to also spank their thighs.  This is a much more sensitive area and a hard hand spanking to the thighs leaves a lasting impression.  Regardless of the implement, when a mom decides to spank OTK, she needs to do it long enough and hard enough to teach her naughty daughter a real lesson.